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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Stop telling me stuff other people have said about one of our huge group of swinging friends and acquaintances.

I know stuff I don't want to know and it makes me sad. I love all of them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

People on a site for adults tittle tattling and behaving like kids? Whatever next

Agree with you though Topsy, no need for it, and it is sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the key...

Apparently apart from on fab

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"People on a site for adults tittle tattling and behaving like kids? Whatever next

Agree with you though Topsy, no need for it, and it is sad "

It's not vile, nasty stuff just he said she said but it's becoming more and more frequent. I don't mind sharing my opinion about someone I know but I keep it to truthful and practical stuff and would never share confidences. I hold all this stuff and I can't get rid of it.

I'm a very sad Topsy this evening.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"People on a site for adults tittle tattling and behaving like kids? Whatever next

Agree with you though Topsy, no need for it, and it is sad

It's not vile, nasty stuff just he said she said but it's becoming more and more frequent. I don't mind sharing my opinion about someone I know but I keep it to truthful and practical stuff and would never share confidences. I hold all this stuff and I can't get rid of it.

I'm a very sad Topsy this evening."

Exactly that!! Vile nasty stuff is usually easier to ignore as it often comes from a vile nasty place and has no real substance or meaning other than anger - the he said/she said is harder to deal with though as it's on a more real level and can at times put you in a difficult position.

Sorry to hear it Topsy - hope the smile is back soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall I stick the kettle on ?

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Shall I stick the kettle on ? "

My brother would say "on what" but yes please, coffee with cream please.

How do I go about getting a group hug too?

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"People on a site for adults tittle tattling and behaving like kids? Whatever next

Agree with you though Topsy, no need for it, and it is sad

It's not vile, nasty stuff just he said she said but it's becoming more and more frequent. I don't mind sharing my opinion about someone I know but I keep it to truthful and practical stuff and would never share confidences. I hold all this stuff and I can't get rid of it.

I'm a very sad Topsy this evening.

Exactly that!! Vile nasty stuff is usually easier to ignore as it often comes from a vile nasty place and has no real substance or meaning other than anger - the he said/she said is harder to deal with though as it's on a more real level and can at times put you in a difficult position.

Sorry to hear it Topsy - hope the smile is back soon"

Exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shall I stick the kettle on ?

My brother would say "on what" but yes please, coffee with cream please.

How do I go about getting a group hug too?"

With material like that your brother should be on the road touring. I’ll hug you while I grind the beans.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Shall I stick the kettle on ?

My brother would say "on what" but yes please, coffee with cream please.

How do I go about getting a group hug too?"

(((((((hugs)))))))

Don't let it get you down. Stay positive!

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Shall I stick the kettle on ?

My brother would say "on what" but yes please, coffee with cream please.

How do I go about getting a group hug too?

With material like that your brother should be on the road touring. I’ll hug you while I grind the beans."

Ooo, now there's a way to my heart, proper beans.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Shall I stick the kettle on ?

My brother would say "on what" but yes please, coffee with cream please.

How do I go about getting a group hug too?

(((((((hugs)))))))

Don't let it get you down. Stay positive! "

Ta. Sometimes it does though and today I'm feeling lonely and sad.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Shall I stick the kettle on ?

My brother would say "on what" but yes please, coffee with cream please.

How do I go about getting a group hug too?

(((((((hugs)))))))

Don't let it get you down. Stay positive!

Ta. Sometimes it does though and today I'm feeling lonely and sad."

Being piggy in the middle can be very isolating. Take a breath and a step back if the contact is toxic, don't let them add any further to your distress. Be a little bit selfish and get you smile back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now you mentioned it Topsy, Gary would like you to give him back his pants

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Well now you mentioned it Topsy, Gary would like you to give him back his pants"

I've told him only when I get my deposit back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well now you mentioned it Topsy, Gary would like you to give him back his pants

I've told him only when I get my deposit back. "

What about his deposite in your box though ? That heavy cummer won't get it back !

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