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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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Yes, sometimes.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’ve never thought that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you get back to them, op?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Do Women look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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ftfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

I've met some fitties in my time

I ain't no oil painting (unless we're counting Picassos) but some people seem to like me

If I like them too, then why not ?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

people receive messages on here? I thought when they were sent they just evaporate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely punch im a god

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No...people are just people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often. But I try not to let my own low opinion of myself get in the way.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely! Many attractive guys have messaged me and I've turned them down because they are way out of my league. I would just be too worried that I wasn't as toned or attractive as them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'd have to get a message first now wouldn't I

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Sometimes yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes.. but they're not necessarily the most attractive to me or suited to my kink. Prefer quirky and unconventionally attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely punch im a god"

You are a tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No I don't think that, but I do look at their past verifications and if they appear to have a type that I don't match, that can sometimes make me pause.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x"
For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely! Many attractive guys have messaged me and I've turned them down because they are way out of my league. I would just be too worried that I wasn't as toned or attractive as them. "

But they messaged you so they obviously like what they see xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I never think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don't message back.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


"No...people are just people"
Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of the time yes, then shocked when I get a message

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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No not at all

Mrs

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


"No I never think that"
Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely! Many attractive guys have messaged me and I've turned them down because they are way out of my league. I would just be too worried that I wasn't as toned or attractive as them.

But they messaged you so they obviously like what they see xx"

They dont see much from my profile. Like others have said on here, guys like that don't approach me on the street or in a bar. Only on here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely, but different people have different types, and I gather I'm not as shabby* as I appear to myself.

* I'm not fishing for compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm not insecure.

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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No, we’re all pretty, broken things in some way or other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not really

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

Nope. Don't receive messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no league....

Just people, some of whom we connect with, some of whom we don't...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I rarely punch im a god"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I look at the hot bodies and wonder if the conversation will be interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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Don't get any messages from hardly anyone apart from guys but I do look at ladies and couples profile and think they would never go for someone like me and because I'm not a confident person to message any of these profiles I just fab the pics and move on

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


"No. I'm not insecure. "
l like that

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, it's hard to find a male profile that actually has some interesting information on, never mind have decent pics as well

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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Nope, often the other way around and I always point out that no one is out of anyone's league. We are all individual

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


"There is no league....

Just people, some of whom we connect with, some of whom we don't..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot of the time, but they must like what they see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do all of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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do you only meet people who are in your perceived league?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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Yes, all the time.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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You will soon have on your profile Must be 6ft+, Dark hair, Handsome, 6 pack and have a 9 inch cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not physically no. I sometimes wonder how I haven't bored someone to death though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete lie lol . Sometimes yeh

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No I think 'omg, I've still got it'

Seriously though if they're messaging you they must like what they see/read.

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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Yes, without a shadow of a doubt.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Some of those who seem to be " out of your league" in many cases are a crap fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I don't message back. "

I will add though, I don't feel like that with most of the guys on here. But if someone is around 25, stunning in the features and completely buff, I don't think I'm in equal proportion to that.

If I want to have fun, I don't want to feel intimidated by their God like looks haha. That doesn't mean I don't like handsome men though and feel that they are out of my league. More those that have youth, body and looks on their side that are, for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some of those who seem to be " out of your league" in many cases are a crap fuck."

why do you say that?

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london


"No. I'm not insecure. "

I concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I'm not insecure. "

And I wouldn't meet anyone that thought in terms of leagues as I wouldn't want to be thought of as "in someone's league"

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I'll let you know when I get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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I think that's a female prospective on hear.

I've got stiff competition from 6 pack, city trader, Ferrari man.

It's the female equivalent of living in thailand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get many messages but had a beautiful young lass message in her 20s and I’m mid 30s and we chatted back and forth ect and couldn’t believe she’d even look twice and someone like me haha

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

I think that's a female prospective on hear.

I've got stiff competition from 6 pack, city trader, Ferrari man.

It's the female equivalent of living in thailand.

"
No you have to pay in Thailand

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

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I'm still lolling at the thought of actually getting a message.

This isn't a problem I can relate too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Often. But I try not to let my own low opinion of myself get in the way. "

ditto

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wonder how previous meets of people who feel some are out of their league feel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happened back in time -when I started to swing as a single female .

But now I know where I stand and don't think I should feel ever out of someone's league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of those who seem to be " out of your league" in many cases are a crap fuck."

There's the catch. You don't know who will be a great fuck or who will be a wet haddock in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how previous meets of people who feel some are out of their league feel..."

Lower leagues possibly.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how previous meets of people who feel some are out of their league feel..."

Exactly why I said i wouldn't meet anyone that isn't confident in their own skin. It would make me feel like crap if someone I met saw people in leagues... and didn't think I was out of their league!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I wonder how previous meets of people who feel some are out of their league feel..."
Humbled, seen it end in tears a few times though. Some women just get used and abused on here unfortunately.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I used to, I don't anymore because I know I'm a catch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a bit to be honest

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I do, then i remember I've got a vagina on a male heavy sex site and it doesn't matter! I'm still gonna fuck them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wonder how previous meets of people who feel some are out of their league feel... Humbled, seen it end in tears a few times though. Some women just get used and abused on here unfortunately."

I'd feel insulted if someone we'd met came on here and said that certain people are out of their league. Not humbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nat’s clearly punching with me! Such a lucky girl

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I do, then i remember I've got a vagina on a male heavy sex site and it doesn't matter! I'm still gonna fuck them! "

Ah shit sorry! Thought i was signed into my single female account! Oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely punch im a god

You are a tart "

I resemble that statement

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I wonder how previous meets of people who feel some are out of their league feel... Humbled, seen it end in tears a few times though. Some women just get used and abused on here unfortunately.

I'd feel insulted if someone we'd met came on here and said that certain people are out of their league. Not humbled "
Yeah humbled can mean to cause somebody to feel less important aswell.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I do, then i remember I've got a vagina on a male heavy sex site and it doesn't matter! I'm still gonna fuck them!

Ah shit sorry! Thought i was signed into my single female account! Oops! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% are out my league and would never give me a second glance if I wasn't on this site. I

The other 5% well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, then i remember I've got a vagina on a male heavy sex site and it doesn't matter! I'm still gonna fuck them!

Ah shit sorry! Thought i was signed into my single female account! Oops! "

And then I remember why I married you

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that."

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"95% are out my league and would never give me a second glance if I wasn't on this site. I

The other 5% well..."

Wish I was in your league! How do I get up there?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! "
If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me."

Really? Then why do so many blokes bitch n moan that they have "more luck" in pubs etc?

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"No...people are just people"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I did happen across a guy in a club once who I thought was way out of my league. We played, we've met a couple of times since then, we have great sex, and it's clear he thinks as highly of me as I do of him. Did change my perspective a bit. And, might as well try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me."

Easier for what reason specifically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I guess I’m shit at this sort of thing a lot just god no at me , I might look like shrek but I’m a nice person underneath so when I message all the fit women I get no reply’s

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? "

for the reason that *some* men say they like older women, the perception is that the older women have a smaller pond to fish in and will therefore be less choosy. Some men do genuinely prefer older women though

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? "
If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did happen across a guy in a club once who I thought was way out of my league. We played, we've met a couple of times since then, we have great sex, and it's clear he thinks as highly of me as I do of him. Did change my perspective a bit. And, might as well try. "

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Really? Then why do so many blokes bitch n moan that they have "more luck" in pubs etc? "
Because the ratios aren't as lopsided as on here.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required."

Haha, your comment on me being hard work on the other thread is correct then. More groundwork is needed for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Really? Then why do so many blokes bitch n moan that they have "more luck" in pubs etc? "

Coming to realising a harsh reality for some is just too much to swallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required."

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion.

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I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

"

Yes fequently

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. "
I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x"

This

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

"

All the time.....especially when I see who they have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat! "

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

"

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely punch im a god

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dont u roll your eyes at me or il pick them up and roll em back

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion. "

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed . "
they have just your forum post's that's all

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over a year ago


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?"

Because im honest! I say it as I see it x

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


"Some of those who seem to be " out of your league" in many cases are a crap fuck.

why do you say that? "
What you see is not always what you get the wrapping my seem amazing but the sweet my not jusfity the wrapping.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying "
look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

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over a year ago


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?

Because im honest! I say it as I see it x"

If you say so.That's not how you come across so all is good

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?

Because im honest! I say it as I see it x"

So you won't fuck anyone without seeing a face pic... exactly like the majority of people on here. I'm not sure where the bitchy part of that is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?

Because im honest! I say it as I see it x

If you say so.That's not how you come across so all is good "

Honesty doesn't always pay, I get myself in trouble being like that rather than knowing when to shut my trap, so I can relate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don't think anyone is better then the next person in this context and if someone does then it just means that they're actually lesser than that person.

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap."

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it?

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over a year ago

Nope

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed . they have just your forum post's that's all "

Haha true. But surely my magnetic personality shines through my postings?

The tables turn when you finally agree a meet and they prove to be nothing like their pics when you’re sat in front of them.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it?"
Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal."

Quit now before you fall into that hole.

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal."

Not this one I’m afraid

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal."

Nice to know what you think about the women on here. That they are all easy.

Shows how narrow minded you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed . they have just your forum post's that's all

Haha true. But surely my magnetic personality shines through my postings?

The tables turn when you finally agree a meet and they prove to be nothing like their pics when you’re sat in front of them. "

I’m definitely nothing like my pics. They are all fake and you will be shocked when you see me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Everyone on here as different qualities x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal."

And the men,like yourself?

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

"

Yes most of the time

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Nice to know what you think about the women on here. That they are all easy.

Shows how narrow minded you are. "
Obviously it is though compared to like conventional dating etc. I had to wait a month to sleep with a girlfriend once, numerous dates. I said easier aswell never said all women on here are easy.

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over a year ago


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?

Because im honest! I say it as I see it x

If you say so.That's not how you come across so all is good

Honesty doesn't always pay, I get myself in trouble being like that rather than knowing when to shut my trap, so I can relate"

I'm never one to appease the masses...I just don't see it as being bitchy. I just don't get it.

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"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal."

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars?

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed . they have just your forum post's that's all

Haha true. But surely my magnetic personality shines through my postings?

The tables turn when you finally agree a meet and they prove to be nothing like their pics when you’re sat in front of them.

I’m definitely nothing like my pics. They are all fake and you will be shocked when you see me! "

Shocked in a good way, I’m sure.

Let’s meet in the station hotel or the park fever. That way, if it goes well, it’s a short walk back to mine.

If it goes badly, it’s a short walk back to mine, for me.

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over a year ago

Tbag

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars?"
I can pull easier in clubs or bars. Or if I wanted to go on dates on tinder etc but if I get a meet on here or in a club I can get sex a lot quicker with less effort.

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over a year ago

I have never had a meet where I didnt think I was out of my league in one way or another.

To me though that is kind of what attraction is

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars? I can pull easier in clubs or bars. Or if I wanted to go on dates on tinder etc but if I get a meet on here or in a club I can get sex a lot quicker with less effort."

I’m actually less ‘easy’ on here than dating sites funnily enough.

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed . they have just your forum post's that's all

Haha true. But surely my magnetic personality shines through my postings?

The tables turn when you finally agree a meet and they prove to be nothing like their pics when you’re sat in front of them.

I’m definitely nothing like my pics. They are all fake and you will be shocked when you see me!

Shocked in a good way, I’m sure.

Let’s meet in the station hotel or the park fever. That way, if it goes well, it’s a short walk back to mine.

If it goes badly, it’s a short walk back to mine, for me. "

I will never put out on the first meet. Even if I do come back to yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup all the time. Not sure if it’s self doubt or simple punching!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars? I can pull easier in clubs or bars. Or if I wanted to go on dates on tinder etc but if I get a meet on here or in a club I can get sex a lot quicker with less effort.

I’m actually less ‘easy’ on here than dating sites funnily enough. "
Well like I said you're hard work 1 of the exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, but then I realised I'm bloody sexy so I stopped blaming them

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars? I can pull easier in clubs or bars. Or if I wanted to go on dates on tinder etc but if I get a meet on here or in a club I can get sex a lot quicker with less effort.

I’m actually less ‘easy’ on here than dating sites funnily enough. Well like I said you're hard work 1 of the exceptions"

Hard work sometimes pays off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too sexy for my shirt

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal."

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars? I can pull easier in clubs or bars. Or if I wanted to go on dates on tinder etc but if I get a meet on here or in a club I can get sex a lot quicker with less effort."

Could that be because it's a place people look for sex?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

Do you do better on here than in clubs or bars? I can pull easier in clubs or bars. Or if I wanted to go on dates on tinder etc but if I get a meet on here or in a club I can get sex a lot quicker with less effort.

Could that be because it's a place people look for sex? "
That's a Bingo

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab "
I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

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over a year ago


"I'm going to be the bitch here and say it as I see it...

Now, I get a lot of mail per day and I mean "a lot"... I will admit to thinking on occasions...

" yeah, he's punching...bless him" but it happens....

I'll also admit to having on my profile "no dick pics" id rather see a face.. Sorry but I can't fuck anyone in not attracted to!

There you go, I'm officially a twat!

Eh? How does that make you a bitch?

Because im honest! I say it as I see it x

If you say so.That's not how you come across so all is good

Honesty doesn't always pay, I get myself in trouble being like that rather than knowing when to shut my trap, so I can relate

I'm never one to appease the masses...I just don't see it as being bitchy. I just don't get it. "

Just for an easy life, some don't like to rock the boat and don't want to fight.

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"Definitely! Many attractive guys have messaged me and I've turned them down because they are way out of my league. I would just be too worried that I wasn't as toned or attractive as them. "

I used to think like that until I bedded a few of them.. And if I can turn them on then they must find me a turn on, have a bit more confidence in yourself.. We all have different tastes etc and sexy sometimes is a state of mind not a look xxx

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Nope.

I get virtually no messages, as a single male.

Then, when I look at the pictures of people I message on here, I generally think I’m out of their league, and yet those messages are invariably left unread or deleted.

When I compare the women I actually date/shag with the women who ignore my messages on here, that view is confirmed . they have just your forum post's that's all

Haha true. But surely my magnetic personality shines through my postings?

The tables turn when you finally agree a meet and they prove to be nothing like their pics when you’re sat in front of them.

I’m definitely nothing like my pics. They are all fake and you will be shocked when you see me!

Shocked in a good way, I’m sure.

Let’s meet in the station hotel or the park fever. That way, if it goes well, it’s a short walk back to mine.

If it goes badly, it’s a short walk back to mine, for me.

I will never put out on the first meet. Even if I do come back to yours. "

Haha I’m the same.

Nice drink/dinner first and see how we go from there. Safe trip back anyway.

Should this convo be over PM?! X

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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well that caused some debate lol

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes."

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex "
Had sex with women in clubs and I didn't even know their name. A lot on here are just looking for sex like couples. It is generally single women who want a social first.

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over a year ago

Fuck! That’s a thread and a half! That’s my summer reading sorted!

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex Had sex with women in clubs and I didn't even know their name. A lot on here are just looking for sex like couples. It is generally single women who want a social first."

For me personally, I like to actually like the person I'm planning more with. Because I like to meet someone regularly, I prefer a social to gage the chemistry on a personality level, as well as the physical. I'm not one for complete NSA. I do like strings attached and even when the play has diminished over time, it's great that I can still have them in my life as friends. I perhaps lean too much towards the social aspect of this lifestyle than the play side, but it suits me .

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex Had sex with women in clubs and I didn't even know their name. A lot on here are just looking for sex like couples. It is generally single women who want a social first.

For me personally, I like to actually like the person I'm planning more with. Because I like to meet someone regularly, I prefer a social to gage the chemistry on a personality level, as well as the physical. I'm not one for complete NSA. I do like strings attached and even when the play has diminished over time, it's great that I can still have them in my life as friends. I perhaps lean too much towards the social aspect of this lifestyle than the play side, but it suits me . "
yeah and I understand that. Good luck to you

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over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex Had sex with women in clubs and I didn't even know their name. A lot on here are just looking for sex like couples. It is generally single women who want a social first.

For me personally, I like to actually like the person I'm planning more with. Because I like to meet someone regularly, I prefer a social to gage the chemistry on a personality level, as well as the physical. I'm not one for complete NSA. I do like strings attached and even when the play has diminished over time, it's great that I can still have them in my life as friends. I perhaps lean too much towards the social aspect of this lifestyle than the play side, but it suits me . "

Snap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex Had sex with women in clubs and I didn't even know their name. A lot on here are just looking for sex like couples. It is generally single women who want a social first.

For me personally, I like to actually like the person I'm planning more with. Because I like to meet someone regularly, I prefer a social to gage the chemistry on a personality level, as well as the physical. I'm not one for complete NSA. I do like strings attached and even when the play has diminished over time, it's great that I can still have them in my life as friends. I perhaps lean too much towards the social aspect of this lifestyle than the play side, but it suits me . "

Its because you are a beautiful and lovely natured lady. You dont treat people like a piece of meat. Those you meet on here are special to you, meaningful. Thats what makes you stand out on here. Sadly some are fuck em and chuck em. Lucky you and I know how to dodge these people. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all the time, then it puts me off messaging back, don't want him to feel catfished lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

"

No but I often feel that way when I try and message people. Don't tend to get many replies. I reckon it's because I look a bit like a potato!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya i do all the time that why i stop sending loll

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

To be fair.... I’m well punching with my partner... he thinks it’s the other way round though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone look at the pictures if the people who message you and think OMG they are way out of my league

Yep all the time.....most of the men on here would not look at a girl like me walking down the street so why on here. I do not understand it at all

Vixen x For easier sex, it's as simple as that.

Ermm I disagree. Just because someone is more beautiful than me it does not mean I am easier than them!! If you're on a site like this then you will be considered easier believe me.

Easier for what reason specifically? If they don't approach in real life it's because they don't wanna do the groundwork wining & dining etc. They might get 1 night stands though. On here most women are down to fuck straight away in a club or after 1 social. Less groundwork required.

Are to talking about me as an individual or stereotyping women in general? Both ways are wrong in my opinion.

Yes we are all on this site for sex but it’s not just the sex that keeps us here. We’ve made amazing friends on here and actually all of our meets keep coming back to us so yes they do the ground work and keep it up.

Outside of the swinging world people have sex without being winded and dined. Flawed argument in my opinion. I'm talking about women on here that get attention from men that they wouldn't in real life. There is a reason and it is NSA sex in my opinion.

I love how you have to make it just about women. There are men that are “punching” on here but you neglect to mention them.....just saying look you wanted an answer, you didn't understand it so I gave you one. I highly doubt it, I have seen it in clubs but only when they have a hot female partner to swap.

And in that answer you accused vixen of being easy. She is anything but easy.

Twice you have insinuated that she is easy because we are in this site?

How do you get to that answer when you have no idea who she is. You’ve never spoken to her never met her but you accused her of being easy.

You are either accusing her of being easy or every woman on here of being easy. Which one is it? Women on here are probably easier than meeting a woman in a club or a bar most of the time yeah. It's nothing personal.

If anything, it just shows you are not much of a catch on the outside. It's far easier for men to get laid in a club/ pub than on here. There have been various posts bemoaning this fact. I've played with 3 men since January. Nearly everyone I know have topped that and they are not even on fab I think if they want me to keep going with them they think I'm a catch. A lot of women make a man wait to prove his worth. I've had 1 night stands but you have to buy drinks and dance usually and at least spend a few hours with them. I have met people on here and fucked them within 20 minutes.

I personally wouldn't, but kudos to those who do. They know what they want. It's nice you can meet someone as open as you, that you are happy to meet each other so quickly for sex Had sex with women in clubs and I didn't even know their name. A lot on here are just looking for sex like couples. It is generally single women who want a social first.

For me personally, I like to actually like the person I'm planning more with. Because I like to meet someone regularly, I prefer a social to gage the chemistry on a personality level, as well as the physical. I'm not one for complete NSA. I do like strings attached and even when the play has diminished over time, it's great that I can still have them in my life as friends. I perhaps lean too much towards the social aspect of this lifestyle than the play side, but it suits me .

Its because you are a beautiful and lovely natured lady. You dont treat people like a piece of meat. Those you meet on here are special to you, meaningful. Thats what makes you stand out on here. Sadly some are fuck em and chuck em. Lucky you and I know how to dodge these people. Xx"

Aww that's so sweet of you to say. We look out for each other beautiful. That's why we are close friends xx

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By *appy headCouple
over a year ago

leicester


"Definitely! Many attractive guys have messaged me and I've turned them down because they are way out of my league. I would just be too worried that I wasn't as toned or attractive as them.

But they messaged you so they obviously like what they see xx

They dont see much from my profile. Like others have said on here, guys like that don't approach me on the street or in a bar. Only on here. "

But I’ve never seen you in the bar shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think anyone is out of anyones leaque. We all have our own qualities and should have the confidence to know and show this. I'm a larger than life woman and I attract men better than my slim friends.. not once do I ask myself why. I love the skin I'm in...

Besides.. they may have a really tiny cock or no brain.. but still have some qualities. Lol

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"No, I don't think anyone is out of anyones leaque. We all have our own qualities and should have the confidence to know and show this. I'm a larger than life woman and I attract men better than my slim friends.. not once do I ask myself why. I love the skin I'm in...

Besides.. they may have a really tiny cock or no brain.. but still have some qualities. Lol"

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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I am comfortable and confident in my skin but fuck if Jon Bon jovi came a knocking I would shit myself lol

Bet that would make an impression on him

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over a year ago


"I am comfortable and confident in my skin but fuck if Jon Bon jovi came a knocking I would shit myself lol

Bet that would make an impression on him "

Plus, I'm not convinced Jon Bon Jovi is into s%#t

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I am comfortable and confident in my skin but fuck if Jon Bon jovi came a knocking I would shit myself lol

Bet that would make an impression on him "
hahaha why?

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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I am comfortable and confident in my skin but fuck if Jon Bon jovi came a knocking I would shit myself lol

Bet that would make an impression on him

Plus, I'm not convinced Jon Bon Jovi is into s%#t "

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By *ueen of sleeze OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I am comfortable and confident in my skin but fuck if Jon Bon jovi came a knocking I would shit myself lol

Bet that would make an impression on him hahaha why?"

Well don't think it would be the right impression

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead


"Some of those who seem to be " out of your league" in many cases are a crap fuck.

There's the catch. You don't know who will be a great fuck or who will be a wet haddock in bed."
Exactly thats why all this "out of my leaugue thing"is all vanity its either one is a good fuck or crap one ....whatever this leaugue thing is.....some girls or guys who would be considered below their leaugue would actually be a far better fuck than those you regard as "out of my leaugue" good sex does'nt come with a label...or tag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punching above your weight.

I really hate this idea to be honest.

The whole premise is that you see someone and your putting them on a pedestal and saying that person is better than me.

No one is better or worse than anyone else in this lifestyle. We are all individuals and as such have are unique qualities.

We do have an engraved false idea of what beauty is and that's due to media shoving their standards of beauty in our faces for years.

I don't care what size shape age someone is, for me if they are a decent human being make me laugh and tickle my mind I am happy to play with them.

But for me to say someone is better than me because they supposedly more beautiful is just wrong.

Does that mean I think everyone fancies me. No not at all and I would not want either.

We meet and play with those that see me as a person and spend the time to get to know who I am.

So no I never feel like Inammpunching above my weight

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I am comfortable and confident in my skin but fuck if Jon Bon jovi came a knocking I would shit myself lol

Bet that would make an impression on him hahaha why?

Well don't think it would be the right impression "
probs not if u smell of turd however he would be the lucky one xx

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