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how safe is safe sex ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

define safe sex !!!

using a condom during intercourse ?

using a condom during oral ?

contraception what does it mean really ?

condoms are great little inventions they protect you from all manner of std's and unwanted pregnancies and we all know you cant get pregnant fro kissing but what can you get ?

what can you get from giving a guy a bj and going down on that lovely wet pussy ? STD's thats what

i wear a condom during sex all the time !! does that mean a person wont ever get an STD ? NO it doesnt

what I can do is be honest with the people I sleep with and try my best to be selective and go get myself checked out regularly

when was the last time you visited the clinic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only safe SEX is no SEX .

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"The only safe SEX is no SEX ."

What about wanking, especially now i've learned to avoid electrical equipment?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"The only safe SEX is no SEX ."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only safe SEX is no SEX ."

+1

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By *uznmikMan
over a year ago

West of Exeter.

Safe sex is only as safe as you don't need it to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

+1"

oooh a sexless swinging site now that would be unique

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

What about wanking, especially now i've learned to avoid electrical equipment?"

Your hand could cramp up turn it purple prevent blood flow and it could fall off

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

What about wanking, especially now i've learned to avoid electrical equipment?"

Your hand could cramp up turn it purple prevent blood flow and it could fall off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only safe SEX is no SEX ."

...and here we have it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

...and here we have it! "

we wont be having it if we want safe sex though will we

Cali

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

+1

oooh a sexless swinging site now that would be unique"

Lets just say if people were so worried about contracting something that they used all their initiative to prevent...they shouldnt be on a swinging site...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

You see the little bit about 'the last time you visited a clinic?'.....it's pointless, not worth typing out...

People can go on and on about how often they visit the GUM clinic.....it means nothing, it's only their word that they visit a clinic at all....

Unless swingers are going to be forced to display their latest clinic report online for others to read for themselves....all the claims in the world from swingers about how often they visit the GUM clinic aren't worth the time it took to type them.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

What about wanking, especially now i've learned to avoid electrical equipment?

Your hand could cramp up turn it purple prevent blood flow and it could fall off "

But i'd still have my remaining hand wouldn't i?

Not sure i'd risk that though.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"The only safe SEX is no SEX .

What about wanking, especially now i've learned to avoid electrical equipment?

Your hand could cramp up turn it purple prevent blood flow and it could fall off

But i'd still have my remaining hand wouldn't i?

Not sure i'd risk that though. "

Wasnt talking about the hand

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"You see the little bit about 'the last time you visited a clinic?'.....it's pointless, not worth typing out...

People can go on and on about how often they visit the GUM clinic.....it means nothing, it's only their word that they visit a clinic at all....

Unless swingers are going to be forced to display their latest clinic report online for others to read for themselves....all the claims in the world from swingers about how often they visit the GUM clinic aren't worth the time it took to type them.

"

Plus, everytime i do distribute my all clear notices, i immediatly get lots of shags on the strength of 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was younger my main form of contraception was a false name and adress

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You see the little bit about 'the last time you visited a clinic?'.....it's pointless, not worth typing out...

People can go on and on about how often they visit the GUM clinic.....it means nothing, it's only their word that they visit a clinic at all....

Unless swingers are going to be forced to display their latest clinic report online for others to read for themselves....all the claims in the world from swingers about how often they visit the GUM clinic aren't worth the time it took to type them.

"

its so true its a world where people live and breath lies everyday whether it be little white ones or great big fat ones, although when i was with my last bf i refused to sleep with him without condoms till we both got our results in, in hindsight after over two years with him and finding out he was married and had a gf the whole time it was a pointless excercise, but for me at least god forbid touching the hairy wood if i did catch something id be pretty on the ball getting it cleared up and for me i couldnt not tell anyone id slept with i had anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we just have to protect outselves the best we see fit for us and hope lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You see the little bit about 'the last time you visited a clinic?'.....it's pointless, not worth typing out...

People can go on and on about how often they visit the GUM clinic.....it means nothing, it's only their word that they visit a clinic at all....

Unless swingers are going to be forced to display their latest clinic report online for others to read for themselves....all the claims in the world from swingers about how often they visit the GUM clinic aren't worth the time it took to type them.

"

I am tested daily Jane....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"You see the little bit about 'the last time you visited a clinic?'.....it's pointless, not worth typing out...

People can go on and on about how often they visit the GUM clinic.....it means nothing, it's only their word that they visit a clinic at all....

Unless swingers are going to be forced to display their latest clinic report online for others to read for themselves....all the claims in the world from swingers about how often they visit the GUM clinic aren't worth the time it took to type them.

I am tested daily Jane.... "

Which is my point exactly, I usually keep out of threads concerning GUM clinic visits as they make me smirk when I probably shouldn't be, but I do read them with a wry smile on my face.

Someone comes on and states they go once every Six months, then another will better that with their quarterly visit....then they will be trumped with the member who declares proudly that they visit monthly....

But unless members start to carry their reports around with them (like porn stars do on shoots) then it's all down to trust......trust from strangers, who people may have never met before and most often will not meet again.

Stop smirking Jane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the std clinic i go to does not give out a report saying you got the all clear but i do have to admit i go more than i should because the guy that check me is really hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the std clinic i go to does not give out a report saying you got the all clear but i do have to admit i go more than i should because the guy that check me is really hot. "

ours does a telephone service and i think the records stay on till you update with a new record so i can phone and it will tell me when my last visit was what i was tested for and what the results were

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your only as safe as the person you choose to have sex with

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The only safe SEX is no SEX ."

yup...its not rocket science,decide those risks you are willing to take,be knowledgeable and well informed.

me thinks the OP is trying to stir up controversy with a subject that has not only been done to death,but that everyone has to make a personal decision about.

Risk assessment does need reasonable understanding of stats,which is often sadly lacking in these type of threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GUM clinic reports are like CRB checks in the work place,, only valid on the day you get checked out.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"GUM clinic reports are like CRB checks in the work place,, only valid on the day you get checked out.

"

Exactly...whats the point in getting checked every 3,6,12 months if your at it with a different partner every or every other week??

And thats not taking incubation periods into account either..

But that said...we seem to be in a tiny tiny minority on this site...so its not our place to give our opinion any deeper than that...

Do what you do and enjoy..just be careful, use your head (scuse the pun!) and dont let lust take the place of common sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So keep your legs crossed and mouth closed and think your a virgin only way to be safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont have sex with scatty people.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"GUM clinic reports are like CRB checks in the work place,, only valid on the day you get checked out.

Exactly...whats the point in getting checked every 3,6,12 months if your at it with a different partner every or every other week??

And thats not taking incubation periods into account either..

But that said...we seem to be in a tiny tiny minority on this site...so its not our place to give our opinion any deeper than that...

Do what you do and enjoy..just be careful, use your head (scuse the pun!) and dont let lust take the place of common sense..

"

i see the point in being treatment...i play safe,but if i did catch something i would want it to be treated early.

Tests are for me,not the ppl i swing with.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

You are only as safe as your last sexual encounter, and more importantly, the time lapse between your last test and your next encounter.... does not guarantee you have not been exposed to a risk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or stood in the cupbord looking through the keyhole?

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