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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every one i like seems to be to far away. :/

Mrscxxx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Snap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s so true I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in touch with this ...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some are, but not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does limit your fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammed annoying isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invest in faster transportation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s this one, but she’s like 400 miles away.

I’m told it’s only an hour on a plane though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s this one, but she’s like 400 miles away.

I’m told it’s only an hour on a plane though "

Flying is fun! Embrace it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah everyone I want to meet are either London or up north.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I feel ya! "

Yep with you on that

We’re sll too far south west, west or north

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Invest in faster transportation. "

Faster than a push bike.... Neither of us drive it's ok if the other person drives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree on that

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I totally get this, I need to move South

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Same, worth the travel for someone special though

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Invest in faster transportation. "

I'm thinking tardis here.

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

All the sexy couples we like seem to be up in Glasgow

Quite a trek me thinks!

We’re typical southerners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invest in faster transportation.

I'm thinking tardis here. "

That be brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the sexy couples we like seem to be up in Glasgow

Quite a trek me thinks!

We’re typical southerners! "

We are from up north. And have a child so can't really travel

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I totally get this, I need to move South"
cookie there are clubs close to you maybe that would be your answer same for op

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I feel ya! "
can I feel ya dotty I'm willing to travel haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep im trying to tour tho but everyones so busy when i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same, worth the travel for someone special though "

Agreed

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Same, worth the travel for someone special though

Agreed "

Agreed-ed

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Distance is fluid and travel is part of everyday life to greater or lesser degrees. At different times we're all closer to or further away from each other. Why rule someone out and not bother making a connection with them right now, when by happy coincidence you could find yourselves not too far from each other in the coming months or years?

If you did, would you send a random FAF anyway and risk being seen as another creepy 'I'm in your/I see you're in my area tonight' opportunist or would you quietly kick yourself for never having made that friendship and missing out on the chance?

Geography is only a limit if you make it one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. We are very limited with swingers up here in the north east OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one i like seems to be to far away. :/

Mrscxxx"

I know the feeling, I seem to find a lot of my hot list are Scotland or Ireland.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"Distance is fluid and travel is part of everyday life to greater or lesser degrees. At different times we're all closer to or further away from each other. Why rule someone out and not bother making a connection with them right now, when by happy coincidence you could find yourselves not too far from each other in the coming months or years?

If you did, would you send a random FAF anyway and risk being seen as another creepy 'I'm in your/I see you're in my area tonight' opportunist or would you quietly kick yourself for never having made that friendship and missing out on the chance?

Geography is only a limit if you make it one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same, worth the travel for someone special though "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Distance is fluid and travel is part of everyday life to greater or lesser degrees. At different times we're all closer to or further away from each other. Why rule someone out and not bother making a connection with them right now, when by happy coincidence you could find yourselves not too far from each other in the coming months or years?

If you did, would you send a random FAF anyway and risk being seen as another creepy 'I'm in your/I see you're in my area tonight' opportunist or would you quietly kick yourself for never having made that friendship and missing out on the chance?

Geography is only a limit if you make it one "

If I like some one i message. Then if they are in the area they can pop in like some one did on Friday just a shame we didn't get more time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exactly. We are very limited with swingers up here in the north east OP."

Sucks don't it lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The Midlands rules

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I totally get this, I need to move South cookie there are clubs close to you maybe that would be your answer same for op "

I did travel to Chorley for my first club experience and loved it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep im trying to tour tho but everyones so busy when i do"

Time is a twat and man made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one i like seems to be to far away. :/

Mrscxxx"

Far far away Slade

https://youtu.be/iQ5itYUNu70

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep im trying to tour tho but everyones so busy when i do

Time is a twat and man made"

It was Invented by the Swiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap lol"
let the Muhammad come to the mountain

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I totally get this, I need to move South cookie there are clubs close to you maybe that would be your answer same for op

I did travel to Chorley for my first club experience and loved it. "
your in Sunderland try club f stanley or shh Newcastle there practically on your doorstep

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It happens unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens unfortunately. "
I love that pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally get this, I need to move South cookie there are clubs close to you maybe that would be your answer same for op

I did travel to Chorley for my first club experience and loved it. your in Sunderland try club f stanley or shh Newcastle there practically on your doorstep "

Thats the main reason why people travel! Who wants to go to a club and bump into someone they know

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"It happens unfortunately. I love that pic "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally get this, I need to move South"

You’re joking! House swap? Most of the nice ones are up north.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally get this, I need to move South

You’re joking! House swap? Most of the nice ones are up north. "
meet in the middle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this too.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My standard reply is 'thanks for your message but you are too far away for me' and I only have to use my middle button to type it!!!

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

So, how far is too far though. I'm willing to travel if it's for someone you have a connection with.

London is 2 hours for me, I don't think that's too far. Obviously it is for a half hour meet but with planning make a day of it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I travel pretty much everywhere thinking it would be perfect but lots don't meet or chat to visitors to the area.

Even if it's every few weeks through the whole year

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

No one is to far away as long as both parties are willing to travel.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I totally get this, I need to move South

You’re joking! House swap? Most of the nice ones are up north. "

I’ve met some really lovely guys at home but do chat to a few down south that I’d love to meet up with. Like the idea of a house swap haha

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I’m in touch with this ... "

30 miles isn’t *that* far

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Familiar Story

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I totally get this, I need to move South cookie there are clubs close to you maybe that would be your answer same for op

I did travel to Chorley for my first club experience and loved it. your in Sunderland try club f stanley or shh Newcastle there practically on your doorstep

Thats the main reason why people travel! Who wants to go to a club and bump into someone they know "

That’s exactly why I travelled

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I travel pretty much everywhere thinking it would be perfect but lots don't meet or chat to visitors to the area.

Even if it's every few weeks through the whole year"

Question.... Do you only contact people when you're in their area (or just before), or do you chat with them all the time?

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Most of the people I have met or want to meet are well over an hour away if not more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the people I have met or want to meet are well over an hour away if not more."
same here

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Most of the people I have met or want to meet are well over an hour away if not more."

I've rarely been interested in anyone who lives less than an hour from me even fwb is almost an hour away!

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


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Geography is only a limit if you make it one "

This

When I travel down to England and realise how relatively close some places are to each other, yet are referred to as “too far” I’m equal parts saddened and amused.

I appreciate that time can be a factor but my time is valuable too. I would much rather travel 10 hours each way for a fantastic meet with someone, than look only 30 minutes away for something mediocre

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

No one is too far. Just takes a little more organisation x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I think if you’re both that keen then you will sort something out. It’s only an added issue if you’re wanting to meet regularly.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I travel pretty much everywhere thinking it would be perfect but lots don't meet or chat to visitors to the area.

Even if it's every few weeks through the whole year

Question.... Do you only contact people when you're in their area (or just before), or do you chat with them all the time? "

I try to chat to people first as I'm in the same areas every few weeks so it's not like "hi,I'm in x tonight fancy a meet"

I was hoping to get on first and then say I'm next your way in a week or so do you fancy a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some great ladies locally, but don't mind travelling if there has been a connection while chatting which has resulted in some great memories

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Can relate to that. Bring in the SW Devon it's tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes. Remind me why I moved out of London....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manchester seems to be a great spot so not complaining though will travel for a particular spark.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I happen to find there’s always someone around wherever I am, so in theory they are always close enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no!

There are a few local gems but also a couple of people from afar that I’d really love to meet (and will, hopefully, in the new year! )

It’s the right balance for me!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Manchester seems to be a great spot so not complaining though will travel for a particular spark."

Quite fond of Manchester myself and find myself over there at least twice a year! I agree though... If a spark is there Geography isn't an issue... Its just a matter of timing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manchester seems to be a great spot so not complaining though will travel for a particular spark.

Quite fond of Manchester myself and find myself over there at least twice a year! I agree though... If a spark is there Geography isn't an issue... Its just a matter of timing "

100% .. just helps if they're more local for more regular meets.. but not essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, everyone is to far away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liverpools been best area for me horny horny ladys 90 mins away but worth every mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is only a problem if you see it as one

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yep same boat. Makes getting together more difficult. But I'm a patient guy and I know it'll be worth waiting for.

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