FabSwingers.com forum: Is oral cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even for a swinger you've got some whacked up morals.

Oral with someone outside of your relationship WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING. PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd have found out my now ex husband was having his cock sucked or was licking someone's pussy whilst we were married I'd have kicked his cheating arse out the door x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Cheating as in adultery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even for a swinger you've got some whacked up morals.

Oral with someone outside of your relationship WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING. PLAIN AND SIMPLE."

How about just reciving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Most definitely if the other party hasn't agreed with it. Same as sexting

Mrscxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Maybe they're playing a 'no sex till Christmas' game and wondering if oral would be cheating in that context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Eating isn't cheating

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Anything outside of swinging is cheating without your partners knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"
cheating on your partner? Of course it is ha

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Bill Clinton didn't think so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

What kind of fuzzy logic brought you to that conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bill Clinton didn't think so...."
he did not have sexual relations with monica lewensky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

Most definitely if the other party hasn't agreed with it. Same as sexting

Mrscxxx"

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

What does your other half think?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nar of course not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

If it's a glory hole with a random stranger. NO

If you know the person and it's face to face... yes it's cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

If it's a glory hole with a random stranger. NO

If you know the person and it's face to face... yes it's cheating.

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oh God I despair

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

What a thread to let everyone know your views on fidelity lol

Course its cheating man.

Any sexual contact outsude the relationship without partners consent is cheating.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

If it's a glory hole with a random stranger. NO

If you know the person and it's face to face... yes it's cheating.

And are both halves of the couple agreed on this one?

End of the day, it doesn't matter what other people think, as long as you and the person you are in the relationship with are both on the same page.

However if you are using the "it's not really cheating" excuse to kid yourself it's ok to do something without your partner's knowledge or consent then I think you know you're on dodgy ground.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Its the least a self respecting girlfriend could do for me. I would prefer her to have full on affairs with one or two people guys but sucking a few should be the minimum cheating requirement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

If it's a glory hole with a random stranger. NO

If you know the person and it's face to face... yes it's cheating.

And are both halves of the couple agreed on this one?

End of the day, it doesn't matter what other people think, as long as you and the person you are in the relationship with are both on the same page.

However if you are using the "it's not really cheating" excuse to kid yourself it's ok to do something without your partner's knowledge or consent then I think you know you're on dodgy ground.

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yes this and I'm not just agreeing with you because you're a sexy woman

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Jeremy Kyle says yes ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I think I am in bill Clinton gang lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Well I think I am in bill Clinton gang lol

Oh...sp it's not the game thing then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's cheating

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Not if it takes place in a different postcode

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Not if you're doing it to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the partner who doesn’t know to watch and see what they think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

It's sex, it's cheating so is kissing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

To me cheating is doing something that you know will hurt your partner either with or without their knowledge. I include emotional infidelity in that.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Even for a swinger you've got some whacked up morals.

Oral with someone outside of your relationship WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING. PLAIN AND SIMPLE."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought OP was a very young person.. I was wrong.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

Not if it takes place in a different postcode

Ummmmmmmmmm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so

Not if it takes place in a different postcode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are communicating with someone else and it is of a sexual nature, that is cheating. Anything that involves thoughts of anyone other than your partner is cheating.

Unless of course you are a swinger and your partler knows and consents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus Christ

Wouldn’t tell your partner about it? Cheating. Flirty texts, sucking cock, fucking their asshole behind your local Lidl...cheating.

If you’re hiding something, you shouldn’t be doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus Christ

Wouldn’t tell your partner about it? Cheating. Flirty texts, sucking cock, fucking their asshole behind your local Lidl...cheating.

If you’re hiding something, you shouldn’t be doing it. "
even if you're hiding money, I have to hide mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you know its cheating, that's why you asked. To try and validate your thought process.

Is is still Oral SEX. Just because you're not bashing uglies together doesn't mean it isn't sex

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Having sex in different guises isn't cheating.

It's the deception of a partner that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Only if they swallow

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?"

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you know its cheating, that's why you asked. To try and validate your thought process.

Is is still Oral SEX. Just because you're not bashing uglies together doesn't mean it isn't sex "
maybe he was having a laugh seeing how many sarcastic replies he could get in one thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flicked my bean this morning thinking about my gym instructor... is that cheating?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around...."

Exactly...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

It is, so in for a penny in for a pound!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around....

Exactly..."

I like you guys! Feel like we have a real connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating. "

Even arm wrestling?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating. "
Totally agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around....

Exactly...

I like you guys! Feel like we have a real connection

...fleeting?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Not as long as only the tip goes in, well at least accoring to Neil Sutherland. Well after all you need to have "ethics".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around....

Exactly...

I like you guys! Feel like we have a real connection

...fleeting?

No deep and meaningful. Your last two messages made our kindred spirits dance

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If the unwitting partner never finds out is it still cheating?

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around....

Exactly...

I like you guys! Feel like we have a real connection

...fleeting?

No deep and meaningful. Your last two messages made our kindred spirits dance"

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

If you have to hide it from your partner and you don't have their consent, it's cheating.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"Bill Clinton didn't think so...."

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

You are right along with the earth being flat and the loc ness monster really being santa.

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Even messaging behind the others back is cheating to me , swinging relationship or 'normal'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Anything done with a partners consent or knowledge would be seen as cheating even if it wasn't pyshical. It's the secret which makes it cheating not the act. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have to hide it from your partner and you don't have their consent, it's cheating. "

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

It doesn't matter what you think.

It's what your partner would think if they found out. He or she might agree with you, or not. You know your partner and the answer.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol is this for real?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

As long as no one finds out it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

Of course it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man tell his female friend about his girlfriend's previous and current sex life, is that cheating?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Is oral giving and receiving cheating? I don't think so"

It IS based on current societal norms so you're wrong

Regarding whether casual sex with others SHOULD be taboo is a separate question. IMHO it shouldn't but society will take another 50+ years to accept that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks later.....

He DID have sexual relations with that woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean talking about it OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating. "

I'm not it necessarily has to be physical to be cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating. "

I'm not sure it necessarily has to be physical to be cheating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Anything physical that you do with another person without your partners knowledge or consent is cheating.

I'm not sure it necessarily has to be physical to be cheating."

yeah emotional infidelity would be hard to bear

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