FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I'd want face pic because it could be Boris Johnson and Teresa May for all you know

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Our opinion is that if we haven't seen a face picture we won't meet but its everyone's prerogative not to send them if they don't want to. Just as its your prerogative to meet them or not.

I do wonder how you recognise people though.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Ask to cam with them then if they won't cam or won't send a face picture I would personally walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are great but realistically I

Don't have time to meet half the people I am attracted to

Who would waste their time meeting someone they may or may not find repulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not about to meet any one I haven’t seen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't send them. It's up to you if you're happy to meet a blind date or not.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't send face pictures immediately, but I'd send them before planning to meet someone.

I'd be annoyed, given my verifications (I'm quite clearly real at this stage) being asked to play silly tricks to show that I am who I say I am. Here's my face picture (once I'm comfortable). If you don't like it, happy Fabbing/ best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would steer clear. If genuine and your going to be meeting what is the problem. Also how are you supposed to know who they are. Have they asked to see one of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll send a face pic the morning of a meet but not before.

Some people do abuse people's trust.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Our opinion is that if we haven't seen a face picture we won't meet but its everyone's prerogative not to send them if they don't want to. Just as its your prerogative to meet them or not.

I do wonder how you recognise people though."

My very first meet, I flat out forgot to send a face picture and he forgot to ask (a genuine oversight). I described where I was and what I'd be wearing, and his Kik profile picture was a face picture. It can work.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We wouldn’t meet without sending or receiving a face pic. We even take one as we’re leaving so people know what to expect when we walk through the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s their prerogative not to send any if they don’t want to.

And it’s your prerogative to tell them to go do one if they’re not prepared to send!

Personally, I don’t meet anyone without a face pic, they may well me in a position they can meet as many people as they need without sharing and in that case, it’s up to you whether you want to play their game or not!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Our opinion is that if we haven't seen a face picture we won't meet but its everyone's prerogative not to send them if they don't want to. Just as its your prerogative to meet them or not.

I do wonder how you recognise people though.

There are ways round it, you're right. The modern version of the cliched "meet me under the clock, carry a copy of The Times and wear a rose in your buttonhole"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s their prerogative not to send any if they don’t want to.

And it’s your prerogative to tell them to go do one if they’re not prepared to send!

So good you said it twice Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was talking to someone and interested in a potential meet, I would expect to see a face picture. I don't have enough free time to waste it on someone I may not like the look of. If you don't mind the blind date mindset, then got for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s their prerogative not to send any if they don’t want to.

And it’s your prerogative to tell them to go do one if they’re not prepared to send!

So good you said it twice Dan

Ha I corrected a spelling mistake but STILL let another one through! Ah well ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your opinions

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I wouldn't meet without having seen a face pic, veris can prove they are as per their pics and that they turn up but it doesn't prove I'll be attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my opinion is its not blind date...and how the heck are you supposed to recognize them if you did decide to meet?

there are some right eejits on here who really dont help themselves

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

You never can tell if someone is genuine so I'd ask for one. We recently arranged a meet to the point where we have booked a hotel and everything but still turns out to be a time waster or a fake! No way of knowing. I suggest getting as many pics as you can before meeting so you can personally verify them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d want to see face pictures as their face is often the key determining factor in how physically attractive I find them.

BOBFOC comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send mine very often but I definitely wouldn’t meet anyone without sharing face pics first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding the boat race on a prospective jumper-of-my-bones appealing is quite important to me. It's up to them but they'd be told to move along methinks.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I don’t send mine very often but I definitely wouldn’t meet anyone without sharing face pics first. "

Sending them through after the bukake party was a bit of a shock

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I wouldn't meet without chatting face to face I am always surprised people even think of meeting without actually doing this unless its in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people really meet without seeing face pics?

Ima gettin laid yeehawwwww!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d want to see face pictures as their face is often the key determining factor in how physically attractive I find them.

BOBFOC comes to mind"

BOCFOC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people really meet without seeing face pics?

Ima gettin laid yeehawwwww!!!

I have tried extracting a face pic out of you in the past....

And my offer still stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people really meet without seeing face pics?

Ima gettin laid yeehawwwww!!!

I have tried extracting a face pic out of you in the past....

And my offer still stands

What offer?

The one with the quavers, the bucket, the feather duster and the pineapple?

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By *r n Mrs F xCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I guess people have met without seeing face pics.. but for us it would be er..

Nope..

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Face pic always, if only to catch the age liars out. We've had a few socials were the guy was a good 12/15 years older than stated. Why, they know they will be found out!. If you're going to lie about your age, say your older than you are, so when you meet, you compliment them on how young they look. Reverse physcology!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Not a chance.

No pic. No meet.

If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Not a chance.

No pic. No meet.

If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact. "

Same here. Although I’ve just remembered our first meet on here and we were stood next to the people we were meant to be meeting and didn’t recognise them from their photo! Lucky we look like our photos so they introduced themselves. They had also said they were 10 years younger than what they were! When we asked about that, they said well everyone lies about their age on Fab! I pointed out that we hadn’t! We were polite had a nice couple of hours but made it quite clear we wouldn’t be playing with them! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like blind dating. I personally wouldn’t feel confortable meeting (probably won’t) if there is no exchange of face pictures - Attraction has to be mutual, including my/their face.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Not a chance.

No pic. No meet.

If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact.

Had that happen a couple of times in my early days.

Face pics exchanged, all 'Fab dated' never occurred to me back then, that some folk would just upload the same pic repeatedly, deleting the old one, so it looked like a recent pic.

Asking for a direct/live pic on Kik soon fishes out the ones who do this.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Not a chance.

No pic. No meet.

If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact.

Had that happen a couple of times in my early days.

Face pics exchanged, all 'Fab dated' never occurred to me back then, that some folk would just upload the same pic repeatedly, deleting the old one, so it looked like a recent pic.

Asking for a direct/live pic on Kik soon fishes out the ones who do this. "

Lol so many times we’ve walked in to a social and both of us have given a heavy sigh! Lol. Some people just take Fab pics (or photoshop them!) but in real life......!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this"
You don't look at the mantle while poking the fire attitude. Face pics are essential really. Maybe if other hot couples have verified them and they sound universally attractive I might take a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pic always, if only to catch the age liars out. We've had a few socials were the guy was a good 12/15 years older than stated. Why, they know they will be found out!. If you're going to lie about your age, say your older than you are, so when you meet, you compliment them on how young they look. Reverse physcology!"

I tell people I'm 73.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t send mine very often but I definitely wouldn’t meet anyone without sharing face pics first.

Sending them through after the bukake party was a bit of a shock

lol

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Not a chance.

No pic. No meet.

If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet without exchanging a face photo.

You can’t make them share with you but it’s your decision whether or not you want to take things any further with them.

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