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Ladies...what signals should we look for?

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense.."

I've read the question and tried to think of an answer but in all honesty I can't. It just depends!

Flirting is a natural thing, if you try to control it then it ruins it, forcing yourself to act a certain way or give off certain "signs" just makes it seem like it's not genuine and will make the other person wary.

Part of the appeal is connecting with someone and them being able to read and react to you with their words and their body language and most of that is subconscious.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Like in tescos or something? Flirting in the freezer aisle?

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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago

here, there & in your knickers


"Like in tescos or something? Flirting in the freezer aisle? "

Freezer aisle is so cold.. I just go there and say to hot ass ladies.. cold isn’t it? And offer my jacket to put on their shoulders.. watched it in an Indian movie works every single time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When out and about in the real world I don’t think it’s a good idea for a man to show he’s sexually interested in a woman. He can show he’s attracted to a woman if that’s what you mean?

Then it all depends where exactly you are when out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense.."

Do you mean in the non-fab world?

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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago

here, there & in your knickers

Make them laugh buddy, works every single time.. sometimes it back fires but what you gona loose

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Like in tescos or something? Flirting in the freezer aisle?

Freezer aisle is so cold.. I just go there and say to hot ass ladies.. cold isn’t it? And offer my jacket to put on their shoulders.. watched it in an Indian movie works every single time "

*swoon*

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Like in tescos or something? Flirting in the freezer aisle?

Freezer aisle is so cold.. I just go there and say to hot ass ladies.. cold isn’t it? And offer my jacket to put on their shoulders.. watched it in an Indian movie works every single time "

Saw a bloke get a slap for say just that once, the inference that her nipples were erect, she looked down and he could see them made her flip.

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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago

here, there & in your knickers


"Like in tescos or something? Flirting in the freezer aisle?

Freezer aisle is so cold.. I just go there and say to hot ass ladies.. cold isn’t it? And offer my jacket to put on their shoulders.. watched it in an Indian movie works every single time

Saw a bloke get a slap for say just that once, the inference that her nipples were erect, she looked down and he could see them made her flip. "

It was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact is he number one wherever you are. Someone would know im interested if I was looking at them and give them a cheeky smile

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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago

here, there & in your knickers


"Eye contact is he number one wherever you are. Someone would know im interested if I was looking at them and give them a cheeky smile "

But most people just smile in a social setting so it could go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense.."

I would highly recommend walking over to said female and just getting your erect cock out! Don't bother saying a word just stand, unzip and stare straight into their eyes with hands on hips or beating your chest/flexing your muscles.

Works for other mammals so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact.

Playing with their hair.

Looking at your sausage.

Biting their lip suggestively

Eating a banana suggestively

Bending over in front of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eye contact is he number one wherever you are. Someone would know im interested if I was looking at them and give them a cheeky smile

But most people just smile in a social setting so it could go wrong "

No its more than a smile, it's a eye contact, cheeky smile, bit lip type thing

Although I did pull at the salad bar in morrisons and I didn't give him the eye. He complimented me on my dress. I thanked him. Then further round the store he walked over with a bit of paper and gave me his number - which I had to decline as I wasn't single and was being a good girl. But I thought his approach was lovely

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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago

here, there & in your knickers


"Eye contact.

Playing with their hair.

Looking at your sausage.

Biting their lip suggestively

Eating a banana suggestively

Bending over in front of you

"

Dude, you are good!

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense..

I've read the question and tried to think of an answer but in all honesty I can't. It just depends!

Flirting is a natural thing, if you try to control it then it ruins it, forcing yourself to act a certain way or give off certain "signs" just makes it seem like it's not genuine and will make the other person wary.

Part of the appeal is connecting with someone and them being able to read and react to you with their words and their body language and most of that is subconscious. "

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense..

Do you mean in the non-fab world? "
yes

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Like in tescos or something? Flirting in the freezer aisle? "

Good point... Erect nipples may be misconstrued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traffic lights are a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When out and about..

I) what would an acceptable and unoffending way for a guy to signal his interest sexually in a female?

Ii). Would you prefer him to do this sooner rather than later?

Iii). What signals should we as guys be looking out from you ladies ?? And how should we act on them to confirm without misreading situation?

Hhhmmmm,hope I make sense.."
a tomahawk flying across forum toward you maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be normal and don’t try too hard. Trying too hard with flirting and eye contacting and staring and compliments is just plain creepy. Just be friendly and ask them about themselves and smile. No more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Talk to women as if they're ordinary people in the first instance. If you seem to be getting along well ask if she would like to go for a drink at some point then or in the near future. Most women will make it clear then if they're interested in you as more than just a friend.

If you're hoping to get signals from a woman that she's up for sex in random situations you're probably best asuming that none of them are signalling immediate sexual availability. I'd put money on the majority of them just going about their daily business wondering what to have for tea or when their next meeting is.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Talk to women as if they're ordinary people in the first instance. If you seem to be getting along well ask if she would like to go for a drink at some point then or in the near future. Most women will make it clear then if they're interested in you as more than just a friend.

If you're hoping to get signals from a woman that she's up for sex in random situations you're probably best asuming that none of them are signalling immediate sexual availability. I'd put money on the majority of them just going about their daily business wondering what to have for tea or when their next meeting is."
thankyou..

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