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"Tomorrow is another day x you never k ow how ms y days you have left so enjoy what you have and what you are xx" Bloody right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive?" I have done both. Waiting for it to pass usually prolongs it, but despite knowing this from experience, I still do it sometimes. | |||
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week?" To be honest, looking at your pics, you don't know what fat is! ![]() | |||
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week? To be honest, looking at your pics, you don't know what fat is! ![]() Shhhh, I used to weigh nearly 21 stones... ![]() | |||
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week?" For me it generally coincides with low moments. | |||
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week? For me it generally coincides with low moments. " Like it has to be tangible? | |||
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective)" Have to agree. Sometimes being on here isn't good for how I view myself! There are so many gorgeous women with fantastic figures!! But then I have a good talk to myself and remind myself I'm no spring chicken any more and I shouldn't compare myself to anyone else!! OP.. we are all gorgeous in our own ways! Be kind to yourself! I always say we should talk to ourselves like we do our best friend!...we'd never tell our bestie that they are fat and ugly!! xx | |||
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective) Have to agree. Sometimes being on here isn't good for how I view myself! There are so many gorgeous women with fantastic figures!! But then I have a good talk to myself and remind myself I'm no spring chicken any more and I shouldn't compare myself to anyone else!! OP.. we are all gorgeous in our own ways! Be kind to yourself! I always say we should talk to ourselves like we do our best friend!...we'd never tell our bestie that they are fat and ugly!! xx" Are you real? You’ve got an amazing body!! And are gorgeous!! You should never put yourself down! I know there are far better looking guys out there but if ppl don’t go for me then im not their type. ![]() | |||
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective)" I’m an old hand here, I’ve only let the negativity in once in all my years here and a verbal slap, a massage and an epic naked party stopped that particular wallow! This slump has to do with life ‘out there’ and it will pass, it always does, I was interested in how others handled it, I’ll be he smug bitch I always am by the morning ![]() | |||
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"Stick on red lipstick and fake it til you make it ![]() This. Although instead of the red lipstick I do something with my hair or wear something sexy. | |||
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective) I’m an old hand here, I’ve only let the negativity in once in all my years here and a verbal slap, a massage and an epic naked party stopped that particular wallow! This slump has to do with life ‘out there’ and it will pass, it always does, I was interested in how others handled it, I’ll be he smug bitch I always am by the morning ![]() Good ![]() | |||
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"Stick on red lipstick and fake it til you make it ![]() Highly not recommend! Ignore this advise at all costs ![]() | |||
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"Eat cake" And go to gym ![]() | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive?" Come on this site and get showered with compliments ![]() | |||
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"I have a kitchen disco whenever I’m down. Crank up the tunes and dance in my barefeet. " Haha. This is exactly me ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes." I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive? Come on this site and get showered with compliments ![]() You see that doesn't work for a woman as we know most of the compliments on here are tosh,or maybe that's just me. | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive? Come on this site and get showered with compliments ![]() you're too aware for this site ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah " The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive? Come on this site and get showered with compliments ![]() It's not just you ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() I don't have any either, I just jump on my mates scales twice a year out of curiosity. Last time was a lovely surprise! I was tempted to chop my hair off so I was another half a stone lighter but I refrained ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() It’s acceptable this time of year as I live in hoodies so I’m ok with winter stodge. I just have to train a bit harder which warms me up ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() you're slim and small you probably weigh 126 pounds max. Average woman is 166 pounds. | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() I'm nearly 10 stone at 5ft 1 ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes. I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route. I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves. I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales. Mwah The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out. The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April ![]() ![]() it's not a lot the average woman height is 5 foot 4 inches. | |||
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"I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head. " You look peng ![]() | |||
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"I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head. You look peng ![]() Hello you ![]() | |||
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"I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head. You look peng ![]() ![]() Hey you! How have you been? Hope you are feeling better now ![]() | |||
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"Bitch, whinge and moan!! Then I have a shower have a word with myself and get positive!! Failing that, Goonies and a large tub of ice cream" Heyyyy you guyyssssss ![]() | |||
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"SBM has been resumed. " Hurrah! | |||
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"SBM has been resumed. Hurrah!" Thanks ![]() ![]() | |||
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"SBM has been resumed. Hurrah! Thanks ![]() ![]() Life is good ![]() | |||
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"SBM has been resumed. Hurrah! Thanks ![]() ![]() Oh how the other half live! | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive?" I come on here. There's always somebody more miserable than me on here so that makes me feel better. | |||
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry? ![]() Can I have a large unhealthy portion ![]() | |||
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry? ![]() Ooh. Do you have cinnamon for sprinkling on top too? | |||
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive?" I find that a wank works wonders | |||
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"I tend to wallow a bit then as my meh days are usually from looking and feeling work frumpy I will shower, straighten hair, put nice clothes on and go shopping or something. ![]() ...I may have bought shoes... | |||
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"I tend to wallow a bit then as my meh days are usually from looking and feeling work frumpy I will shower, straighten hair, put nice clothes on and go shopping or something. ![]() Yay ![]() | |||
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"I have a kitchen disco whenever I’m down. Crank up the tunes and dance in my barefeet. " Definitely the best idea.. Maybe with a glass of wine.. Exercise releases happy hormones.. That and stick on the 'comfy' outfit that looks good even on the 'fat and ugly days'.. Xx.. | |||
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures " I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits | |||
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits " Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane. | |||
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane. " Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast ![]() | |||
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane. Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast ![]() Just the one? Left or right? One is a whole cup bigger, see if you can guess which one. | |||
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane. Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast ![]() If I guess right, may I lick them both ? | |||
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane. Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast ![]() What about the heated blower? | |||
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry? ![]() Cinnamon, oats, and soft brown sugar, apples from my own tree, lovely ![]() | |||
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry? ![]() ![]() You’ll have to fight me for it ![]() | |||
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