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"Or do you just plod along to pay the bills? Or do you love it - have the job of your dreams and look forward to going every day? I hate mine - and have no idea what I'd like to do. I'd really like to retrain but feel a bit old ( and poor ) to do so " Jez 43 isn't too old to retrain or to change profession.A friend of mine is currently doing a Health Care Assistant course,9 months long & he's 46 now.He was working IT before so it was a big change for him but he's enjoying the HCA course.There's a good mix in his class of mature students & youngsters. | |||
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"I absolutely love my job, to the point that I am putting up with so much shit that is making me mentally ill so I can continue to do it. " That's not good. No matter how much you enjoy your job you shouldn't let it affect your physical or mental health. Sounds like they don't appreciate your efforts. | |||
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"I'm a dream maker. So yes I like my job, it's different every day...." Can I send you a list of my dreams? | |||
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"Mr: Hated my job in Graphic Design/printing.. it was boring and soul destroying, paticularly the awfully frustrating management who just seemed to not care or want to improve the awful way things were (or rather weren't!) done. So, I started a radical plan last year to change career... I trained up as a plumber and am now self-employed, part-time plumbing and still part time Graphic design. Plan is to move completely into plumbing as the business takes off Mrs: Very happy with the company she works for. They treat her well and she regularly excels in her role. We would say it's never too late to change career if it's so bad it's affecting your mental health. " You found doing graphic designing soul destroying? It seems to me that it's a creative role... | |||
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"Used to enjoy my job,but not so much since they gave me an insultingly small pay rise & lumbered me with more responsibility. Activly looking for another better paid job." Well done, I have seen loads of people just accepting poor treatment and not knowing their worth... | |||
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"Hating your job is the definition of having a job. If anyone actually enjoyed it, someone else would be calling it a hobby and paying to do it at the weekend." | |||
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"I absolutely love my job, to the point that I am putting up with so much shit that is making me mentally ill so I can continue to do it. That's not good. No matter how much you enjoy your job you shouldn't let it affect your physical or mental health. Sounds like they don't appreciate your efforts." They don’t, so I’ve tried putting in so much effort and it’s affecting the workplace badly, so now I’m being bitched about. I was doing someone else’s job because she’s lazy and won’t do it - now no one is doing it, and it’s my fault. | |||
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"Or do you just plod along to pay the bills? Or do you love it - have the job of your dreams and look forward to going every day? I hate mine - and have no idea what I'd like to do. I'd really like to retrain but feel a bit old ( and poor ) to do so " My job is okay.... but I’m leaving in 5 years.. I would stay longer if my junior partner came back... I pray every night for her to get tired of motherhood and come back to the corporate world.... She is the greatest financial mind in the world and will get me a Noble Prize | |||
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"Or do you just plod along to pay the bills? Or do you love it - have the job of your dreams and look forward to going every day? I hate mine - and have no idea what I'd like to do. I'd really like to retrain but feel a bit old ( and poor ) to do so " Would never plod along to pay the bills, Write down an action plan to get out of your job, if you don't start making plans it won't ever happen. | |||
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"I don't hate mine, it's bearable and I like most of the people I work with. But I'd much rather not have to go. " No one wants to go to work, Its just one of those things we have to do, like poop. | |||
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"I changed jobs earlier this year to one that, on paper and as described at the interview should have been my dream job. Turns out, it’s not as described and I don’t like it. Biggest mistake of my career... currently looking again unfortunately " Snap. I almost walked out this afternoon. No training given, thrown in at the deep end and had to contend with a months backlog of work from the previous bloke. Plus correcting all the historical mistakes. Then they have decided to make changes to all the "systems", that I still haven't got to grips with. I also found out just how many people have sat in my seat over the last few years. Definitely a poisoned chalice. | |||
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"Or do you just plod along to pay the bills? Or do you love it - have the job of your dreams and look forward to going every day? I hate mine - and have no idea what I'd like to do. I'd really like to retrain but feel a bit old ( and poor ) to do so " Life is too short to not enjoy work. I love my job, however it's maternity cover, and a role I'm too qualified for,I've just been offered a management role, in a chain, good money and benefits it's a permanent contract. However, I gave my current boss the heads up, she's gutted, said she had been fighting for a permanent contract behind the scenes, and had secured me a 21 hr + bank, And said the next senior role to come available was mine, I could be waiting years. Just stuck in such a rut,my partner and I rowed over it,he doesn't want me to leave where I am, neither do I particularly, but practicalities are the money, I'm just about breaking even, and at least there will be breathing space with the new job, cannot see I have a choice tbf | |||
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"I love my job and been doing it for 21 years. It’s more of a lifestyle really just like this swinging malarkey. I get to go away every week and being paid to sit on a beach for a few days is not the worst way to work. " Have you found your +1 yet? | |||
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"I love my job and been doing it for 21 years. It’s more of a lifestyle really just like this swinging malarkey. I get to go away every week and being paid to sit on a beach for a few days is not the worst way to work. Have you found your +1 yet? " Early days but I may have. | |||
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"I love my job and been doing it for 21 years. It’s more of a lifestyle really just like this swinging malarkey. I get to go away every week and being paid to sit on a beach for a few days is not the worst way to work. Have you found your +1 yet? Early days but I may have. " Great! Is he from fab? | |||
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"I love my job. It's what I wanted to do since I was a kid. It's not the best paid job and sometimes it can get you down, but 99% of the time I can't wait to get to work. As Confucius said over 2,000 years ago, 'Find a job you enjoy and you will never have to work another day in your life.' " Exactly and how I feel. | |||
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"The job is fine.... Its the boss that's the problem" This is my current problem. After 26 yes of loving my job, I'm seriously considering retirement. | |||
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"I'm looking for something else. I like my hours and flexibility but the management and majority of staff members are making me die inside " Same here cant stand certain staff members | |||
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"I love my job. If I won the lottery I’d still be in on Monday. That’s the truth. " Oh no I don’t love it that much! Although I wouldn’t close the business I’d just employ more staff and do less | |||
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"I like mine. But if I won the lottery I probably would give it up. " Same feeling as mine. I design new drainage systems for buildings, houses, hospitals, schools etc and part of my job is to ensure I protect the property from flooding so I suppose I'm helping make a difference in people's lives (even if they don't notice) but I'd happily give it up to do something less demanding if I didn't need the money. | |||
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