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"Ruler accross the knuckles most days, got the cane most weeks. I hated it then. Funny how that worked out " haha | |||
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"yard rule, cane, birch, board dusters, chalk, brazing rods, cricket bat, fists ... just made kids impervious to the commands of authority" I found the teachers I was scared of didn't have to use the cane. | |||
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"Punishment exercise. Writing the same thing over and over. My brother used to pay me to do his. " | |||
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"I am glad that the use of the cane or strap is not used in schools now. At my school the use of the cane was a regular occurrence cant really say if it deterred anybody. What punishment was given out at your school? Jnr school was a Catholic school, run by nuns. It was a regular occurrence for all the classes to be lined up in the playground and names called out (always boys). They (we) would then have to pull our trousers down, bend over and receive ‘6 of the best’ with the cane " Catholic myself we did not have our trousers down though. That is humiliating. | |||
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"None cos i refused to do it and went home got sent back so went to the park" Cant tell a Yorkshire man | |||
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"yard rule, cane, birch, board dusters, chalk, brazing rods, cricket bat, fists ... just made kids impervious to the commands of authority I found the teachers I was scared of didn't have to use the cane." i was never scared of any teacher ... there were a few who i respected because they respected and inspired me ... the rest were just child abusing cunts | |||
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"I am glad that the use of the cane or strap is not used in schools now. At my school the use of the cane was a regular occurrence cant really say if it deterred anybody. What punishment was given out at your school? Jnr school was a Catholic school, run by nuns. It was a regular occurrence for all the classes to be lined up in the playground and names called out (always boys). They (we) would then have to pull our trousers down, bend over and receive ‘6 of the best’ with the cane " I still have 'Nun issues' 32yrs after leaving school | |||
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"I am glad that the use of the cane or strap is not used in schools now. At my school the use of the cane was a regular occurrence cant really say if it deterred anybody. What punishment was given out at your school? " Chalk and then board rubber thrown at my head. Got caught 'necking' a girl on my first day in a new comp. Head teacher threatened me with repeating it with the girl on the main stage in assembly. I said okay as I wasn't sure what to say but thank fully he bottled it and I got away with 'necking' a girl | |||
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" Catholic myself we did not have our trousers down though. That is humiliating." Trousers down was just one of the nuns standard punishments. The school had separate playgrounds for boys & girls, if you went in the girls playground (say to retrieve the football) you’d be called out, caned and then made to wear a bow in your hair for the whole of the next school day. | |||
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"Ruler accross the knuckles most days, got the cane most weeks. I hated it then. Funny how that worked out " I am older than you but there wasn't any physical punishment in my schools | |||
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"But it must have worked becuase old people are so lovely compared to brats these days. Simple fact is, a spank will work for some people and not others. Calling someone a name will stop some and not others. Just talking to the kid will stop some and not others. I think they should use them all, but be mindful of what does and doesnt work. But what exactly is the punishment these days? I think its "make the test easier for them because they are misbehaving"?" Its usually some form of isolation. All schools have a behaviour policy, usually it's on their website. | |||
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"One of my teachers punched an 11 y.o. boy in the bollocks so hard that he had to go to hospital." I've seen the exact inverse of this happen too -we had one nutter in one of my classes who when picked on by a teacher, grabbed hold of his tie and yanked it so hard that he broke the teachers nose on the desk -then proceeded to jump on the teacher and start literally beating the crap out of him -it took 3 teachers to pull him off. The rest of the class was so stunned we literally didn't know what to do. thing is though that he was the nicest most meekest and mildest guy until you messed with him and his red mist set in (fucking scary really). he got expelled about a year later and the last time I saw him was in a pub beating the crap out of 6 guys twice the size of him -I do so hope he eventually managed to control his anger or he most certainly will be in prison by now. | |||
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" We used to get detention " We did too but I soon figured that it was far easier to bunk detention and rather get caned for that as the caning took 5 minutes and stung for a bit whereas the detention cost an afternoon of my life | |||
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"I think they should bring the cane back. There is no deterrent fot them these days in schools. Teachers can't do anything that makes enough impact to stop bad behaviour " I was caned almost every other day -it had zero effect on whether I did or didn't do something and I would often choose it over other punishments too -see my post about detention above. | |||
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"I am glad that the use of the cane or strap is not used in schools now. At my school the use of the cane was a regular occurrence cant really say if it deterred anybody. What punishment was given out at your school? " The belt, or tawse. A leather strap, split into two at one end, and lashed over your outstretched hands. Seven times in one year I received it at primary school. Pointless. | |||
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"yard rule, cane, birch, board dusters, chalk, brazing rods, cricket bat, fists ... just made kids impervious to the commands of authority" by the way, just for those forumites who were schooled after corporal punishment was outlawed, in our school caning was the sole preserve of the headmaster. i suspect this was the norm in most schools | |||
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"I am glad that the use of the cane or strap is not used in schools now. At my school the use of the cane was a regular occurrence cant really say if it deterred anybody. What punishment was given out at your school? The belt, or tawse. A leather strap, split into two at one end, and lashed over your outstretched hands. Seven times in one year I received it at primary school. Pointless. " Frayed logic that | |||
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"It's almost funny on a thread about corpoal punishment, filled with first hand anecdotes about how it doesn't work, when someone pops up and says they should bring it back...." Because there's hardly much evidence of the other extreme working any better. We've just traded one hell for a different type. | |||
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"The belt, or tawse. A leather strap, split into two at one end, and lashed over your outstretched hands. Seven times in one year I received it at primary school. Pointless." the head would give the cane across outsretched and open palms six times .... if you flinched then the stroke was considered null and void then repeated. | |||
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"The belt, or tawse. A leather strap, split into two at one end, and lashed over your outstretched hands. Seven times in one year I received it at primary school. Pointless. the head would give the cane across outsretched and open palms six times .... if you flinched then the stroke was considered null and void then repeated." If you're caned often enough, you get to a point that it doesn't actually hurt that much anymore anyway -so you end up getting yourself into even more trouble for pulling funny faces while said cane operator is bursting a blood vessel trying to teach you a lesson with a questionable method | |||
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"The belt, or tawse. A leather strap, split into two at one end, and lashed over your outstretched hands. Seven times in one year I received it at primary school. Pointless. the head would give the cane across outsretched and open palms six times .... if you flinched then the stroke was considered null and void then repeated. If you're caned often enough, you get to a point that it doesn't actually hurt that much anymore anyway -so you end up getting yourself into even more trouble for pulling funny faces while said cane operator is bursting a blood vessel trying to teach you a lesson with a questionable method" we found that boring into his very soul by blankly staring into his eyes without so much as a twitch as the cane welted the flesh of our hands freaked him out in a very damaging way ... he knew he had lost and what he was doing was utterly pointless .... the secret was to bite your lip and press your hands as hard as you could against the scorching metal between the fins of the old cast iron radiator as you waited outside his room to be called. | |||
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"The belt, or tawse. A leather strap, split into two at one end, and lashed over your outstretched hands. Seven times in one year I received it at primary school. Pointless. the head would give the cane across outsretched and open palms six times .... if you flinched then the stroke was considered null and void then repeated. If you're caned often enough, you get to a point that it doesn't actually hurt that much anymore anyway -so you end up getting yourself into even more trouble for pulling funny faces while said cane operator is bursting a blood vessel trying to teach you a lesson with a questionable method we found that boring into his very soul by blankly staring into his eyes without so much as a twitch as the cane welted the flesh of our hands freaked him out in a very damaging way ... he knew he had lost and what he was doing was utterly pointless .... the secret was to bite your lip and press your hands as hard as you could against the scorching metal between the fins of the old cast iron radiator as you waited outside his room to be called." my head master was always far more twisted than that -he had a rack of about 10 canes from which we had to choose -then we had to drop our trousers and touch our toes -i kid you not -today he would probably be beheaded by some of the forum posters on here for even suggesting we drop our trousers. | |||
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"ours had a glass wall cabinet with about 10 canes in ... he would get some kids to linseed oil them before being caned. he would always do the psychological stuff like take one out of the case... flex it ... shake his head .... put it back and try another .... maybe swish it through the air a few times .... and so on .... he would always say the same speech to everyone ... 'so-and-so' (insert pupils name), you're a decent boy, but i'm affraid i'm going to have to cane you etc etc." Yes the same speech certainly rings a bell -mine would end along the lines of ..."if I ever see you in my office again there will be hell to pay. Do You Understand?" | |||
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"The end of the waxed rope in the gym was always the games teachers favourite. Failing that he had a slipper. Bring them all back I say. Along with a smack around the Warhol from a policeman." In my opinion there is nothing wrong with that. Had a few slippers, straps and rulers. They all seemed to work for me. | |||
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"The end of the waxed rope in the gym was always the games teachers favourite. Failing that he had a slipper. Bring them all back I say. Along with a smack around the Warhol from a policeman. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with that. Had a few slippers, straps and rulers. They all seemed to work for me." Ditto | |||
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"The strap. Being punched in the stomach and kidneys simultaneously. Knuckles on the top of the head. Being lifted off the ground holding only the sideburns. To name just a few." | |||
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"The strap. Being punched in the stomach and kidneys simultaneously. Knuckles on the top of the head. Being lifted off the ground holding only the sideburns. To name just a few." Fucking hell did you go to school in a dungeon? | |||
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"The strap. Being punched in the stomach and kidneys simultaneously. Knuckles on the top of the head. Being lifted off the ground holding only the sideburns. To name just a few." Kids today they don't know they're bloody born do they | |||
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"The strap. Being punched in the stomach and kidneys simultaneously. Knuckles on the top of the head. Being lifted off the ground holding only the sideburns. To name just a few." Was that down the shaolin temple school?????? | |||
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"I once had to wear a pair of blue girls gym knickers as a punishment for forgetting my PE kit and play netball with the girls. For some reason I hated it at the time... " Omg xx | |||
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"The strap. Being punched in the stomach and kidneys simultaneously. Knuckles on the top of the head. Being lifted off the ground holding only the sideburns. To name just a few." Sounds grim up north.... | |||
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"I once had to wear a pair of blue girls gym knickers as a punishment for forgetting my PE kit and play netball with the girls. For some reason I hated it at the time... Omg xx" well I hated it back then but now.... Lol | |||
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"Small handmade cricket bat with "OXO" in chalk on it across your arse, also used Dunlop Green Flash, stomach punches, my brothers mate had his long hair tied to chair then aforementioned chair kicked from beneath him, having the lid of your desk banged on the back of your head if you had head in it whilst teacher was talking, same teacher used to enjoy grabbing a handful of your hair then repeatedly bashed your head off your desk...... most of these were daily occurrences......child abuse essentially" Oh yeah forgot another one whilst on Geography Field Trip in the Lake District was washing in the sink one morning when I had the most tremendous and painful full handed slap on my naked back, which turned out to be one of my Teachers who took great delight in parading me around showing his handiwork to his colleagues and my classmates......Cunt.....I'm not a big fan of that word but he really was! | |||
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"I had dyslexia (not diagnosed until adulthood) Loved English, but struggled with the connecting words, and spelling. Was always being made to stand in front of the Headteacher while he shouted at me, usually resulting in ripping up my work. One time he was screaming at me, then started punching my arm hard repeatedly, ended up covered in bruises, evident knuckle marks. My Dad, who was a single Dad worried about others judging his parental fitness saw and went ballistic! Never saw my Dad so angry. He grabbed the headmaster around the throat up against the wall and dared him to ever lay a finger on me again, citing that he never laid a finger on me, no one else ever had the right too. The School was up for closure, Dad had 3 kids in a School of 30. Next day the governers were at our door, begging my Dad to not pull us out of School, as that would certainly be the nail in it's coffin, Dad reluctantly agreed on the promise I was never harmed again. The guy never laid a finger on me after that, developed a stutter whenever he addressed me lol. " You've no idea how familiar that is. I also had dislexia but mine was saviour. When I left school I could barely spell my own name. Every single day I was told in detail just how stupid I was and I'd never be anything of any worth. Well I proved that 1 wrong. I even had the pleasure of explaining to 1 of the worst culprit just how much more I earned compared to a poxy teacher but that's anther story. Years later my own son's started school and come home with a prominent hand print of bruises on his shoulder he was trying to hide. When it was noticed he explained he'd wanted to sit with his mate at dinner time but wasn't allowed becouse he was on pat lunches his mate wasn't so he sneaked in but got court by the headmaster. The hand print was the headmaster ejecting him. The next day I paid this head master a unexpected visit. He left the school with stress the same day never to return. You can imagine how guilty I feel..... not. How dos that saying go those that can do those that can't teach. How true.... | |||
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" You've no idea how familiar that is. I also had dislexia but mine was saviour. When I left school I could barely spell my own name. Every single day I was told in detail just how stupid I was and I'd never be anything of any worth. Well I proved that 1 wrong. I even had the pleasure of explaining to 1 of the worst culprit just how much more I earned compared to a poxy teacher but that's anther story. Years later my own son's started school and come home with a prominent hand print of bruises on his shoulder he was trying to hide. When it was noticed he explained he'd wanted to sit with his mate at dinner time but wasn't allowed becouse he was on pat lunches his mate wasn't so he sneaked in but got court by the headmaster. The hand print was the headmaster ejecting him. The next day I paid this head master a unexpected visit. He left the school with stress the same day never to return. You can imagine how guilty I feel..... not. How dos that saying go those that can do those that can't teach. How true...." Jeez! Your poor son! No one has the right ever to do that! I struggled all through school, managed to get GCSE's Not diagnosed until I became an NVQ assessor and my boss who taught dyslexic students in a former life picked up and had me assessed. I'd already gained two degrees at this point, so knew I wasn't stupid. And typing on a computer is fine, the backlight helps the words stand out, it's when I handwrite things. Hope your son is ok now, and much happier, so glad we have safeguarding in Schools now, punishment yes, abuse no. | |||
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" You've no idea how familiar that is. I also had dislexia but mine was saviour. When I left school I could barely spell my own name. Every single day I was told in detail just how stupid I was and I'd never be anything of any worth. Well I proved that 1 wrong. I even had the pleasure of explaining to 1 of the worst culprit just how much more I earned compared to a poxy teacher but that's anther story. Years later my own son's started school and come home with a prominent hand print of bruises on his shoulder he was trying to hide. When it was noticed he explained he'd wanted to sit with his mate at dinner time but wasn't allowed becouse he was on pat lunches his mate wasn't so he sneaked in but got court by the headmaster. The hand print was the headmaster ejecting him. The next day I paid this head master a unexpected visit. He left the school with stress the same day never to return. You can imagine how guilty I feel..... not. How dos that saying go those that can do those that can't teach. How true.... Jeez! Your poor son! No one has the right ever to do that! I struggled all through school, managed to get GCSE's Not diagnosed until I became an NVQ assessor and my boss who taught dyslexic students in a former life picked up and had me assessed. I'd already gained two degrees at this point, so knew I wasn't stupid. And typing on a computer is fine, the backlight helps the words stand out, it's when I handwrite things. Hope your son is ok now, and much happier, so glad we have safeguarding in Schools now, punishment yes, abuse no." Yes he's fine in fact it was quite some time ago he's now 30 with a son of his own. My own dislexia wasn't diagnosed at all in fact back then (I'm an old git) it wasn't even heard of. I left school with nothing except horrific memorys. I actually believed I was stupid when I left school. Hearing it in every single class kinda stuck and well I must be stupid everyone else could do it so I must be. It was only when I left school and my pashon for cars took over I realised actually if I can strip and rebuild engines without so much as a manual how can I be so thick they can't do it but to me it made perfect sence. It was then I went to night school for 8 long years and managed to get my spelling where it is now. Far from perfect but easily understandable and with much less effort as it takes me to write it so I'm happy enough with it. Years later I've a full time job I've held for over 20 years with the biggest worldwide brewing company there is as well as run 2 very successful businesses of my own. Now looking back it was my dislexia made it all possible it gave me the determination I needed not to mention made me the man I am today. So yes as bad as it all was and fuck me it was bad I'd change nothing. Everything has a reason least that's my thinking. | |||
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