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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

On an earlier thread (and other threads) I posted that I get annoyed by folk who say ladies can be picky they have all the choices.

Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab

Yes please

or

no thanks

or do folk really think because they're a minority others in the majority won't say no thanks?

I consider fab a two way street no one is obliged to do anything.,

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

You are wrong

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've been turned down on more than one occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree OP i’ve had men and couples ignore my messages or turn me down. Its defo a 2 way street

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"You are wrong"

How so. Please enlighten me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down but not as much as I turn people down

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me "

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

Been blown out more times than a windsock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get turned down but not as much as I turn people down "
what??????

Turned down?????

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We all have choices on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have choices on here. "

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve been told “no thanks, you’re not what I’m looking for, I wish you all the best” a couple of times... perfectly acceptable! And indeed, everyone’s got choices!

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices. "

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only choose between the men who are interested in me.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

From some of the women I've spoken to I was under the impression there are guys on here that are convinced there were 3 choices- yes, no, and message over and over in the hope that they will grow on you and you give them a chance.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

If you stop approaching things with your cock out all the time, you'd be amazed at the conversations that open up as a result.

Granted they don't always lead to meets but then again mailbombing every hole for a goal won't get you very far either.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

"

Well if your vision is incredibly narrow you won't see any difference but then you don't like your errors being pointed out either. the choice between 5 and 200 is vast. Now I have clearly enlightened you but if you are there without vision worrying about your swelling testicle there is little else I can point out to you are you don't want to see.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I can only choose between the men who are interested in me. "

Interesting, very interesting...

Derby County V Man City 1976

Francis Lee, who we signed from City, scored a pearler against them

www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMmQk2lK_Ks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is we do have more choice but it's not really that great if the choice is 1000 guys you don't fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have choices on here.

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab."

Balence of power only exists if people think of it as a power game.

The one power we all have is to make our own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have choices on here.

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab.

Balence of power only exists if people think of it as a power game.

The one power we all have is to make our own choices."

True. But for every 100 women you are interested in, maybe 1 may reciprocate.

I can choose not to meet anyone, but is it really a choice when there are few offers?

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

Well if your vision is incredibly narrow you won't see any difference but then you don't like your errors being pointed out either. the choice between 5 and 200 is vast. Now I have clearly enlightened you but if you are there without vision worrying about your swelling testicle there is little else I can point out to you are you don't want to see. "

In my post I said the difference was the amount of times ..you suggested the same 5-200.

I never worry about my testical(s) swelling..I have them checked regularly.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’ve been told “no thanks, you’re not what I’m looking for, I wish you all the best” a couple of times... perfectly acceptable! And indeed, everyone’s got choices! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do have the same choises less only diffence is we dont get bombarded as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we all have the same choice

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

Well if your vision is incredibly narrow you won't see any difference but then you don't like your errors being pointed out either. the choice between 5 and 200 is vast. Now I have clearly enlightened you but if you are there without vision worrying about your swelling testicle there is little else I can point out to you are you don't want to see.

In my post I said the difference was the amount of times ..you suggested the same 5-200.

I never worry about my testical(s) swelling..I have them checked regularly. "

Its testicle make sure you are checking the correct thing! I only gave you one example there are thousands of others that one person can choose and not the other MM or FF, DVP, tit wank and the list goes on. So we don't all have the same choice. Check your testicle I don't think it should be going as back/blue as it is.

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

Well if your vision is incredibly narrow you won't see any difference but then you don't like your errors being pointed out either. the choice between 5 and 200 is vast. Now I have clearly enlightened you but if you are there without vision worrying about your swelling testicle there is little else I can point out to you are you don't want to see.

In my post I said the difference was the amount of times ..you suggested the same 5-200.

I never worry about my testical(s) swelling..I have them checked regularly.

Its testicle make sure you are checking the correct thing! I only gave you one example there are thousands of others that one person can choose and not the other MM or FF, DVP, tit wank and the list goes on. So we don't all have the same choice. Check your testicle I don't think it should be going as back/blue as it is. "

Given my op the choices were yes please or no thanks not various different sexual acts ..oh and I don't have a testicle on my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do all have the same choices, it's not nice when someone you're interested in doesn't reciprocate but that's just the way it is

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

Well if your vision is incredibly narrow you won't see any difference but then you don't like your errors being pointed out either. the choice between 5 and 200 is vast. Now I have clearly enlightened you but if you are there without vision worrying about your swelling testicle there is little else I can point out to you are you don't want to see.

In my post I said the difference was the amount of times ..you suggested the same 5-200.

I never worry about my testical(s) swelling..I have them checked regularly.

Its testicle make sure you are checking the correct thing! I only gave you one example there are thousands of others that one person can choose and not the other MM or FF, DVP, tit wank and the list goes on. So we don't all have the same choice. Check your testicle I don't think it should be going as back/blue as it is.

Given my op the choices were yes please or no thanks not various different sexual acts ..oh and I don't have a testicle on my back. "

That may be but you really need to learn to express yourself better that or doesn't ask why people have an opinion. As for testicles I get the opinion you like them slapping against your perineum but then not your own now thats a choice you can have thats the same as everyone else congratulations common ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only guys who think women have all the power online are the guys who can’t pull in real life.....

I’ve come to this conclusion because why would do men constantly send messages to women who don’t respond.... then complain about it....

If you’re fishing in a pond and catching no fish , try fishing in the ocean....

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

We have been turned down before, I would hope anyone who didn’t like our face pics would turn us down, I don’t want us to be someone’s ‘taking one for the team’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely we have the same choices and thank god.. I'd hate to think a man would meet me just because I was one of few replies. Meets are only fun for me if I believe there is a mutual attraction.

I'm fully aware I'm not lots of men's type and have no issue with being told as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know... I've never been turned down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone can reject whoever they like, can accept a fuck from whoever they like...I agree with ya OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have choices on here.

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab."
no it dont hm filter thru 100s messages for 1 diamond isnt power just time consuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been turned down, I've turned others down. We're all entitled to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have choices on here.

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab.no it dont hm filter thru 100s messages for 1 diamond isnt power just time consuming"

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"You are wrong

How so. Please enlighten me

You said "Am I wrong in thinking we all have the same choices on fab " that b/s We don't simple as that!

What you should have said we all have the same ability to make a yes or no decision which we do but its clear to a blind donkey with a ball infection we don't all have the same choices.

only difference as I see it is the amount of times we may use those choices.

If I don't find others attractive it's no thanks..if I do it's yes please.

Well if your vision is incredibly narrow you won't see any difference but then you don't like your errors being pointed out either. the choice between 5 and 200 is vast. Now I have clearly enlightened you but if you are there without vision worrying about your swelling testicle there is little else I can point out to you are you don't want to see.

In my post I said the difference was the amount of times ..you suggested the same 5-200.

I never worry about my testical(s) swelling..I have them checked regularly.

Its testicle make sure you are checking the correct thing! I only gave you one example there are thousands of others that one person can choose and not the other MM or FF, DVP, tit wank and the list goes on. So we don't all have the same choice. Check your testicle I don't think it should be going as back/blue as it is.

Given my op the choices were yes please or no thanks not various different sexual acts ..oh and I don't have a testicle on my back.

That may be but you really need to learn to express yourself better that or doesn't ask why people have an opinion. As for testicles I get the opinion you like them slapping against your perineum but then not your own now thats a choice you can have thats the same as everyone else congratulations common ground. "

Strange most others seemed to understand my op and responded to it.

As for your opinion on ball slapping against my perineum ..you're wrong but hey that's life you can't be right all of the time.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It logical that women women on the whole have more choice or at least more opportunities on the table. Anyone on here who has a female partner or freind who has let them into their in box on here will know that. The fab people ecomony is very uneven when it comes to women seeking men. But the pick of quality men can be woefully low dispite the numbers.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"We all have choices on here.

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab."

Very seriously it does not x

I have not yet been rejected by a woman I want to meet , and very sorry to admit I have rejected a number who have wanted to meet me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have choices on here.

Indeed, but the balance of power sits with the ladies of Fab.

Very seriously it does not x

I have not yet been rejected by a woman I want to meet , and very sorry to admit I have rejected a number who have wanted to meet me x"

As a chiseled Adonis I have no doubt you can pick and choose.

For a little perspective...

If you claim to be female, and have a two word profile, you will be swamped by men, irrespective of how you look.

If you are male, you need to bring your A game and really need something to stand out from the crowd.

Luckily I am blessed with a decent personality as the rest of me just isn't working for the majority of fab.

Until such time as fab limits male menbership (which won't happen) the numbers game will always favour women then couples.

I have been on other sites in other parts of the world and had infinately more success than I do on fab, however the dynamics are different and it is a more level playing field for "niche" activities. (The site in qustion is very big but not very vanilla). My niche? Well....

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Of course we all have the same choice "

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