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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have an open relationship and I'm willing to chat to people on the phone to give permission. But sorting some play for Ben on his own is like pulling teeth. Any ideas. Rebecca x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That surprises me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm no expert as I don't meet men alone but I'd hazard a guess that not many single ladies like being viewed as entertainment for someone's partner.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Your profile is geared towards meeting couples. Nothing at all to attract single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With an erection like that half the fab straight population must be chomping at the bit

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

When I receive messages from a couple and it's supposedly been written by the wife I always get a feeling it's the guy writing for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I receive messages from a couple and it's supposedly been written by the wife I always get a feeling it's the guy writing for some reason."

This.... puts me off completely, but then it also would if the male half contacted me and stated he had permission to play alone.....catch 22 situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence the reason Rebecca will speak on phone but some suspicious people, you all know who you are, may think it's his sister or a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get the mistrust thing that's why I'm willing to phone chat.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hence the reason Rebecca will speak on phone but some suspicious people, you all know who you are, may think it's his sister or a friend "

They could go on cam together to confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hence the reason Rebecca will speak on phone but some suspicious people, you all know who you are, may think it's his sister or a friend

They could go on cam together to confirm. "
yes superwood what a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality is that any male half of a couple meeting alone joins the massed ranks of other single men vying for attention, so has to stand out the same as the rest of the single males. I don’t think there’s necessarily a case of ‘jumping the queue’ although he will have the advantage of the female half being able to verify her consent which will open up a bigger target market (ie won’t excluse those that won’t meet cheaters)

I wish him good luck in his search and I hope he finds what he’s looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I receive messages from a couple and it's supposedly been written by the wife I always get a feeling it's the guy writing for some reason."

Yeah and me. Id rather Ben just wail out that he needs a fuck written from Ben

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52 "
I do try

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

The fact that I would have to chat to the Mrs for “permission” would put me off, personally...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but your profile smacks of just being ben.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The fact that I would have to chat to the Mrs for “permission” would put me off, personally... "
don't have to chat just an option

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but your profile smacks of just being ben."
thats exactly why I offer to phone chat. Others have said the same. I'm sorry it coes across that way x

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

My wife spent the best part of 4 years trying to get a woman for me. It happened once. She loves me being with other woman.

Now she has given up on here as so many fakes. It’s much easier to find friends to hehe. Lucky me.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ben's a lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but your profile smacks of just being ben. thats exactly why I offer to phone chat. Others have said the same. I'm sorry it comes across that way x"
comes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ben's a lucky guy"
not that lucky today

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sorry but your profile smacks of just being ben. thats exactly why I offer to phone chat. Others have said the same. I'm sorry it coes across that way x"

It might be an idea to update it a bit then.

It's notoriously difficult for women to find a meet for a man, people are understandably suspicious as you're discovering.

I suggest that Ben sets up his own single profile and proactively looks for meets himself. It would help too if Ben spoke for himself I think, he's available this morning he could be on the forum with you.

Good luck to Ben in finding what he's after.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Come on Ben where are you show yourself...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all its Ben. I do occasionally get onto this site but also work a lot. We have some swinging friends who are also open so there's no sob story. Just looking for something new. I actually find it exciting if Rebecca sets things up. I do the same for her but its less of a task. Anyway I'll appear a little more often from now one.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Big Ben your early or late I thought you struck on the hour every hour

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Some recent verifications though ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some recent verifications though ? "
we have a couple of verifications on here but generally meet people we know

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hello all its Ben. I do occasionally get onto this site but also work a lot. We have some swinging friends who are also open so there's no sob story. Just looking for something new. I actually find it exciting if Rebecca sets things up. I do the same for her but its less of a task. Anyway I'll appear a little more often from now one."

I think that's a good idea. Not many single women want to meet a man without talking to him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll try my best. Plan B is dinner with Rebecca and an early night.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'll try my best. Plan B is dinner with Rebecca and an early night."

Ouch, I'm sure you don't mean that your wife is plan B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have an open relationship and I'm willing to chat to people on the phone to give permission. But sorting some play for Ben on his own is like pulling teeth. Any ideas. Rebecca x "

Why dont you look for couples that like to play seperate.

Myself and Boo have made some great friends that way and we play as a couple and also seperately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not meet a couple, much easier meet in a pub somewhere and have a drink, if all's good then Ben heads off to a bedroom with the lady, Rebecca has a drink with the guy simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll try my best. Plan B is dinner with Rebecca and an early night.

Ouch, I'm sure you don't mean that your wife is plan B "
not such a bad backup plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm no expert as I don't meet men alone but I'd hazard a guess that not many single ladies like being viewed as entertainment for someone's partner. "

Exactly

Also your profile says you don't send face pics- This is not blind date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not meet a couple, much easier meet in a pub somewhere and have a drink, if all's good then Ben heads off to a bedroom with the lady, Rebecca has a drink with the guy simples "
We like the excitement of doing it simple as that really. I work a lot like 90 hours a week so not always easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't trust that you are seeking a lady for Ben. Plus, the fact that you will not share face pics, yet people messaging you will be ignored if they don't send one to you, is also suspicious.

A lot of women on here, myself included are lied to, so we are naturally very cautious.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no expert as I don't meet men alone but I'd hazard a guess that not many single ladies like being viewed as entertainment for someone's partner.

Exactly

Also your profile says you don't send face pics- This is not blind date "
we put that because we had a very bad experience on here. So yes we are very cautious with our pictures. I think they look quite enticing myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm no expert as I don't meet men alone but I'd hazard a guess that not many single ladies like being viewed as entertainment for someone's partner.

Exactly

Also your profile says you don't send face pics- This is not blind date we put that because we had a very bad experience on here. So yes we are very cautious with our pictures. I think they look quite enticing myself."

Very enticing indeed you must be pleased with them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why not meet a couple, much easier meet in a pub somewhere and have a drink, if all's good then Ben heads off to a bedroom with the lady, Rebecca has a drink with the guy simples We like the excitement of doing it simple as that really. I work a lot like 90 hours a week so not always easy."

90 hours a week,do you have the time or energy for sex then?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't trust that you are seeking a lady for Ben. Plus, the fact that you will not share face pics, yet people messaging you will be ignored if they don't send one to you, is also suspicious.

A lot of women on here, myself included are lied to, so we are naturally very cautious.

Good luck. "
all couples and ladies get a reply. It was a guy who caused us a major problem that caused the profile change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's Bill?

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Maybe put up some even more enticing ones that don't look like they've been copied and pasted from another website, even down to the watermark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not meet a couple, much easier meet in a pub somewhere and have a drink, if all's good then Ben heads off to a bedroom with the lady, Rebecca has a drink with the guy simples We like the excitement of doing it simple as that really. I work a lot like 90 hours a week so not always easy.

90 hours a week,do you have the time or energy for sex then?!"
Always kept in shape and lots of energy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unless there are exceptional circumstances, a couple looking for just fun for one of them, particularly the guy, feels like false pretences a bit. In my book it can put you in a worse starting position than being a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52 "

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unless there are exceptional circumstances, a couple looking for just fun for one of them, particularly the guy, feels like false pretences a bit. In my book it can put you in a worse starting position than being a single guy. "
your probably right but we live once so grasp all you can and enjoy the ride which can be bumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just been looking at your verifications, and tbh, even they seem a little suspicious?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds! "

He looks great for his age considering he's working 90 hours a week fair play Ben

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why not meet a couple, much easier meet in a pub somewhere and have a drink, if all's good then Ben heads off to a bedroom with the lady, Rebecca has a drink with the guy simples We like the excitement of doing it simple as that really. I work a lot like 90 hours a week so not always easy.

90 hours a week,do you have the time or energy for sex then?!Always kept in shape and lots of energy "

Well you do look in shape I'd agree with that.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

This is how we like to play sometimes, and it is a nightmare to set up. It's all about honesty and trust, unfortunately some single men try to use this as an excuse, but for genuine couples where it is 'their thing' it's hard work. I (mrs) have to meet them first. We have both been on the scene long enough to know how it works, and I know fems we meet have a bloody good time, but I also have to be satisfied they are singing from the same hymn sheet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds! "
sorry if we look in shape. Good food and hard work is the only way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, your profile seems like it’s jusy Ben. Maybe give it a we-write, upload some photos that aren’t exceedingly blurry and maybe go along to a social so people know you two are legit?

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds! sorry if we look in shape. Good food and hard work is the only way."

Well I for one take my hat off to you both no idea where you find the time to squeeze in posting on here with us losers who only do 40 - 45 hours a week

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being brutally honest your profile does read like it's been put together by a single guy posing as a couple - from the way it's worded to the fact that, as someone else pointed out, the pics appear to be distorted and have watermarks etc which could suggest they've been borrowed from elsewhere and things like differences in skin tone between two of the pics of Ben - now I'm not saying that any of that is the case, but the fact I'm thinking it would suggest that others are too, and that alone would be enough to put them off meeting you as a couple, let alone Ben on his own.

My advice for you, if you're genuine in wanting to find meets for Ben on his own, would be to set up a single guy profile for him, make it well written and enticing, with pics that are uploads of the original pic - make it clear he's playing on his own in the full knowledge of Rebecca and that she can be contacted to verify this if needed and that he runs the profile and interacts with prospective meets.

Yes it puts him in the pool of single guys on here, but that doesn't mean he can't get meets if he adopts the right approach and attitude.

Being attached doesn't have to be a problem so long as you are open and honest about it and make it clear - I'm in exactly the same position (my partner is also on here) and it's not caused me any problems yet.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Either I've been blocked or profile been suspended?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Unless there are exceptional circumstances, a couple looking for just fun for one of them, particularly the guy, feels like false pretences a bit. In my book it can put you in a worse starting position than being a single guy. your probably right but we live once so grasp all you can and enjoy the ride which can be bumpy"

I prefer doing my due diligence and avoiding the more obvious bumps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Gemini Man. I'd be skeptical if you approached me with your current profile.

Also the fact you are looking for him would put me off. My free time is limited, if I'm going to meet someone I want to know in advance there's a high chance we are gonna click and the only way of knowing that is to spend time talking with them not their wife.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Either I've been blocked or profile been suspended?"

Gone for me too.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Either I've been blocked or profile been suspended?

Gone for me too. "

I'm guessing suspended.

Definitely a fishy profile

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Either I've been blocked or profile been suspended?

Gone for me too. "

I think we have our answer then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they have gone! Well say they probably just a him!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

And now gone completely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake fake fakery fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I was gonna meet Ben

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Aw I was gonna meet Ben"

Lol.

Fake profiles posting here never ends well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw I was gonna meet Ben"

I can be Ben!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The three pics of the guy were of different guys I would say, one guy had a really defined pale boxer short butt another had no tan lines at all and another was really muscley as opposed to a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, I really fancied a chat with Rebecca. I wanted to hear her deep voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear - this is so sad that people have time to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn, I really fancied a chat with Rebecca. I wanted to hear her deep voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww guys, please come back

Something we said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So proof that wives asking for hubbies is all tosh then.

A real wife would tell them to get off their arse and look for their own shag, and empty the bloody bins on the way. Lazy fecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave them alone Ben works 90 hours a week don't you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn, I really fancied a chat with Rebecca. I wanted to hear her deep voice

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Answers that question then. Ass hole

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So proof that wives asking for hubbies is all tosh then.

A real wife would tell them to get off their arse and look for their own shag, and empty the bloody bins on the way. Lazy fecker. "

I had one recently, and it didn't work out, but I believed them. Difference being, long established profile with plenty of credible verifications of them as a couple.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Another 1 bites the dust

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Looks like I'll never meet Ben then,Ben bbe come back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answers that question then. Ass hole "
I thought they were a genuine couple in a very open relationship

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

And I was going to offer myself up to meet Ben, give him the shock of his life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do they do it?

Surely there must be less labour intensive ways of having a wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rebecca looked fantastic, so glad there was no pics of them together

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"This is how we like to play sometimes, and it is a nightmare to set up. It's all about honesty and trust, unfortunately some single men try to use this as an excuse, but for genuine couples where it is 'their thing' it's hard work. I (mrs) have to meet them first. We have both been on the scene long enough to know how it works, and I know fems we meet have a bloody good time, but I also have to be satisfied they are singing from the same hymn sheet. "

FFS as I said makes it harder for the genuine ones. Can I do a head count of the genuine people left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds!

He looks great for his age considering he's working 90 hours a week fair play Ben "

Sarcasm is just a word beginning with S for you, isn't it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why do they do it?

Surely there must be less labour intensive ways of having a wank?"

I read an article ages ago about people who pretend to have cancer online for kicks. So, it could be worse.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Rebecca looked fantastic, so glad there was no pics of them together "

Plenty of pics of 'Rebecca' on other websites I suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So proof that wives asking for hubbies is all tosh then.

A real wife would tell them to get off their arse and look for their own shag, and empty the bloody bins on the way. Lazy fecker.

I had one recently, and it didn't work out, but I believed them. Difference being, long established profile with plenty of credible verifications of them as a couple. "

Unless they had just recently split

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds!

He looks great for his age considering he's working 90 hours a week fair play Ben

Sarcasm is just a word beginning with S for you, isn't it? "

I have no idea of the meaning of the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they must not if liked what we suggested as they blocked us pmsl

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So proof that wives asking for hubbies is all tosh then.

A real wife would tell them to get off their arse and look for their own shag, and empty the bloody bins on the way. Lazy fecker.

I had one recently, and it didn't work out, but I believed them. Difference being, long established profile with plenty of credible verifications of them as a couple.

Unless they had just recently split "

True. I believed them, as it happens.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"So proof that wives asking for hubbies is all tosh then.

A real wife would tell them to get off their arse and look for their own shag, and empty the bloody bins on the way. Lazy fecker.

I had one recently, and it didn't work out, but I believed them. Difference being, long established profile with plenty of credible verifications of them as a couple.

Unless they had just recently split "
Bingo, it's the same with couples on here saying you have to meet me before the wife. They just use it as bait

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

I don’t think everyone who does this is fake mind, I would love to be able to set this up, but combining how many fake ‘couples’ are doing it putting people off, with how many actually single hot guys on here there is and finding a woman he would click with it just seems impossible, ahh well thoughts for the wank bank anyway

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"This is how we like to play sometimes, and it is a nightmare to set up. It's all about honesty and trust, unfortunately some single men try to use this as an excuse, but for genuine couples where it is 'their thing' it's hard work. I (mrs) have to meet them first. We have both been on the scene long enough to know how it works, and I know fems we meet have a bloody good time, but I also have to be satisfied they are singing from the same hymn sheet.

FFS as I said makes it harder for the genuine ones. Can I do a head count of the genuine people left?"

I already did. 23 and a 1/2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"This is how we like to play sometimes, and it is a nightmare to set up. It's all about honesty and trust, unfortunately some single men try to use this as an excuse, but for genuine couples where it is 'their thing' it's hard work. I (mrs) have to meet them first. We have both been on the scene long enough to know how it works, and I know fems we meet have a bloody good time, but I also have to be satisfied they are singing from the same hymn sheet.

FFS as I said makes it harder for the genuine ones. Can I do a head count of the genuine people left?

I already did. 23 and a 1/2."

Can I be the half please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is how we like to play sometimes, and it is a nightmare to set up. It's all about honesty and trust, unfortunately some single men try to use this as an excuse, but for genuine couples where it is 'their thing' it's hard work. I (mrs) have to meet them first. We have both been on the scene long enough to know how it works, and I know fems we meet have a bloody good time, but I also have to be satisfied they are singing from the same hymn sheet.

FFS as I said makes it harder for the genuine ones. Can I do a head

count of the genuine people left?

I already did. 23 and a 1/2."

I made it 21 No idea where you got the other 2 1/2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rebecca looks fantastic for 52

They both look good enough in their pic to pass off at 30+ year olds!

He looks great for his age considering he's working 90 hours a week fair play Ben

Sarcasm is just a word beginning with S for you, isn't it?

I have no idea of the meaning of the word "

Good sport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ben? That’s me

Thanks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"This is how we like to play sometimes, and it is a nightmare to set up. It's all about honesty and trust, unfortunately some single men try to use this as an excuse, but for genuine couples where it is 'their thing' it's hard work. I (mrs) have to meet them first. We have both been on the scene long enough to know how it works, and I know fems we meet have a bloody good time, but I also have to be satisfied they are singing from the same hymn sheet.

FFS as I said makes it harder for the genuine ones. Can I do a head

count of the genuine people left?

I already did. 23 and a 1/2.

I made it 21 No idea where you got the other 2 1/2 "

Very careful perving.. erm.. research.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ben? That’s me

Thanks "

He may well have used your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Je Suis Ben

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself."

Although to be honest, I think there's real people on the Forum who are not too dis-similar in attention seeking!

The "nobody wants to shag me" or "I never get a message from these threads" types so maybe we're either over critical at best or hypocrites at worst, no?

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Find Ben some fun ?.......Take him the fancy dress shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself.

Although to be honest, I think there's real people on the Forum who are not too dis-similar in attention seeking!

The "nobody wants to shag me" or "I never get a message from these threads" types so maybe we're either over critical at best or hypocrites at worst, no? "

I concur Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself.

Although to be honest, I think there's real people on the Forum who are not too dis-similar in attention seeking!

The "nobody wants to shag me" or "I never get a message from these threads" types so maybe we're either over critical at best or hypocrites at worst, no?

I concur Sir "

Fantastic word, Concur, much under utilised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself.

Although to be honest, I think there's real people on the Forum who are not too dis-similar in attention seeking!

The "nobody wants to shag me" or "I never get a message from these threads" types so maybe we're either over critical at best or hypocrites at worst, no? "
no.at least these posts are not intentionally telling you there something their not?

Yes look at me threads are boring ..but you know what they are right away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself."

Ben doesn’t have time for that, he works 90 hours a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally I think it's just for their wank bank.

In the hope that folk pm them with chat n pics so he can sit naked in his chair on a Tuesday morning tugging away at himself.

Ben doesn’t have time for that, he works 90 hours a week "
true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the fuck is Ben?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ben? That’s me

Thanks

He may well have used your pics "

Can you blame him

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Who the fuck is Ben?"

He's not Alice,for sure

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

What about Bill. I’m sure he will oblige

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"What about Bill. I’m sure he will oblige "

Or little weeeeeeeeed?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"What about Bill. I’m sure he will oblige

Or little weeeeeeeeed? "

Little weeeeeeed. Lol Willie ???? Sj

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"What about Bill. I’m sure he will oblige

Or little weeeeeeeeed?

Little weeeeeeed. Lol Willie ???? Sj"

Did you not watch Bill and Ben The Flowerpot Men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who the fuck is Ben?"

He is no-one now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who the fuck is Ben?"

Rebecca's other half

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Who the fuck is Ben?

He is no-one now "

No man, every man, the product of imagination.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"What about Bill. I’m sure he will oblige

Or little weeeeeeeeed?

Little weeeeeeed. Lol Willie ???? Sj

Did you not watch Bill and Ben The Flowerpot Men? "

Yup lol.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Flobba lobba lobba

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Damn, I really fancied a chat with Rebecca. I wanted to hear her deep voice

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same problem here, I get loads of offers, cheese gets none.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I didn't see the profile and I appreciate it may well have been fake, but for the people who are implying the OP is fake and outing their pics etc, you all broke rules

If you think someone is fake for whatever reason, report the profile rather than " out" them on the forum please

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