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"There aren't any, no." Looks like you're looking for a folk not a spoon!?  | |||
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"There aren't any, no. Looks like you're looking for a folk not a spoon!? "Just looking for socials with my partner and sister at the minute really. | |||
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"Spooning Leeds to folking" Surely it's folking then spooning?  | |||
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"Sex site lacking the sex lol" No it not, plenty of us are getting plenty. | |||
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"Sex site lacking the sex lol No it not, plenty of us are getting plenty." | |||
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"Sex site lacking the sex lol" But surely you're inundated with that status? | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. " Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers  | |||
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"Well when you look like shrek finding a lady to play with is hard" Hey even Shrek found Fiona But seriously statuses like what you have put up don't work. You have only been on here a few weeks and some guys are here over a year without any luck. | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers "Lol probably the wrong choice of cake lol | |||
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"Well when you look like shrek finding a lady to play with is hard Hey even Shrek found Fiona But seriously statuses like what you have put up don't work. You have only been on here a few weeks and some guys are here over a year without any luck. " I'm one of them. I'm a fab in and offer... fab is a learning experience. At first you think of fabswingers as a place to get an quick and easy lay... aint like that. I don't expect anything to happen through this site. Need to get out to socials but need to get verified. Difficult getting meets though. It's hard work. I'm just a bit wary about social events | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
Lol probably the wrong choice of cake lol"Would a carrot and walnut cake be a good choice? | |||
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"What should I put on status ? " Something to entice the women in. As people have said before your bio is your shop window. You have to make it look good to get people interested. Me personally if I see the words hot.horny cock.Fuck now or anything along those lines it's a turn off. There are thousands of men on here and women/couples are hard to come by. So you need to show yourself off to make people interested. | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
Lol probably the wrong choice of cake lol
Would a carrot and walnut cake be a good choice?" carrot cake | |||
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"Sex site lacking the sex lol" They are just not having sex with you. Doesn't mean they are not having sex. | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
Lol probably the wrong choice of cake lol
Would a carrot and walnut cake be a good choice?"Absolutely not . Nut allergies and all that. Lemon drizzle is often a good choice I find  | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers "I missed the cake bit?! What flavour? And what size? | |||
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"Be patient and not pushy and don't put up things like that on here and you might get some were talking from experience mate I was like this when first coming on here and got no were sorted my profile out and learned to respect the women more and I got meets "This
100% respect is key aswell as patience.
If some messaged and said do you want my cock.or I'm going to to fuck you then block button is activated quickly
Even though most of us are on here for a same reasons it.still doesn't mean a woman will say yeah ok straight away. | |||
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"Sex site lacking the sex lol" To be honest it's more a swingers site than a sex site. But you are new and it takes time to build up a reputation of being genuine etc. See if there are any fab socials in your area or get yourself to a club and just make a few friends. Once you have been around and verified you may have better luck. But it's always going to be difficult for single men on here. | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
I missed the cake bit?! What flavour? And what size? "How about a strawberry cheesecake cut into shape of a heart? What size cake? Medium? | |||
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"Be patient and not pushy and don't put up things like that on here and you might get some were talking from experience mate I was like this when first coming on here and got no were sorted my profile out and learned to respect the women more and I got meets
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100% respect is key aswell as patience.
If some messaged and said do you want my cock.or I'm going to to fuck you then block button is activated quickly
Even though most of us are on here for a same reasons it.still doesn't mean a woman will say yeah ok straight away."True though respect goes a long way on this site be respectful and you might get rewarded lol | |||
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"If you wouldn't say it to a woman's face don't put it in a message.. approach people with similar interests and strike up a non sexual conversation from there.. but accept we all have different tastes so it may still be a no.. " Going to be honest now.. I was disheartened when I first used this site. Still do. Why? Don't know if I'm a fool to say it.. but my ex, in my eyes, is the most beautiful woman alive and she loved me to bits. I thought I must be attractive to attract such an amazing woman... big reality check this site let me tell you. | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
I missed the cake bit?! What flavour? And what size?
How about a strawberry cheesecake cut into shape of a heart? What size cake? Medium? "Strawberry lmao. Get that fudge cake on my plate!! And don't forget the custard;)
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"If you wouldn't say it to a woman's face don't put it in a message.. approach people with similar interests and strike up a non sexual conversation from there.. but accept we all have different tastes so it may still be a no.. Going to be honest now.. I was disheartened when I first used this site. Still do. Why? Don't know if I'm a fool to say it.. but my ex, in my eyes, is the most beautiful woman alive and she loved me to bits. I thought I must be attractive to attract such an amazing woman... big reality check this site let me tell you. "It's a nightmare for men being so outnumbered but it's also impossible for women getting bombarded. I only chat to a couple of guys at any time, which means I don't see a huge number of people if it's bad timing. I don't think this kind of interaction is great for anyone's confidence. | |||
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"Not into socials or events kinda shy on that sort of thing confident person but work long hours mission impossible to find woman to take out at 10pm onwards " We haven't been to socials. Im Actually to shy to do that! But again for a guy it's sad to say but you are up against alot of other guys so if your limiting yourself then you may struggle to get the rewards. But in the mean time. Be patient don't expect too much and make sure you read people's profiles BEFORE you message them and make an effort with your message. Trust me it helps | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
I missed the cake bit?! What flavour? And what size?
How about a strawberry cheesecake cut into shape of a heart? What size cake? Medium?
Strawberry lmao. Get that fudge cake on my plate!! And don't forget the custard;)
Took 41 years to get this figure "Now your talking. Fudge cake! I just chose something I thought everyone liked.. so I take it your just in it for the cake then?  | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
I missed the cake bit?! What flavour? And what size?
How about a strawberry cheesecake cut into shape of a heart? What size cake? Medium?
Strawberry lmao. Get that fudge cake on my plate!! And don't forget the custard;)
Took 41 years to get this figure
Now your talking. Fudge cake! I just chose something I thought everyone liked.. so I take it your just in it for the cake then? "Hell yes!! | |||
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"Unfortunately men need to work a little harder than Popping a status on offering cock. Yeah I even offered cock and cake still no offers
I missed the cake bit?! What flavour? And what size?
How about a strawberry cheesecake cut into shape of a heart? What size cake? Medium?
Strawberry lmao. Get that fudge cake on my plate!! And don't forget the custard;)
Took 41 years to get this figure
Now your talking. Fudge cake! I just chose something I thought everyone liked.. so I take it your just in it for the cake then?
Hell yes!! "That's fine... As long as you enjoy it that's all that matters! | |||
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"If you wouldn't say it to a woman's face don't put it in a message.. approach people with similar interests and strike up a non sexual conversation from there.. but accept we all have different tastes so it may still be a no.. Going to be honest now.. I was disheartened when I first used this site. Still do. Why? Don't know if I'm a fool to say it.. but my ex, in my eyes, is the most beautiful woman alive and she loved me to bits. I thought I must be attractive to attract such an amazing woman... big reality check this site let me tell you.
It's a nightmare for men being so outnumbered but it's also impossible for women getting bombarded. I only chat to a couple of guys at any time, which means I don't see a huge number of people if it's bad timing. I don't think this kind of interaction is great for anyone's confidence. "Yes and that's what the learning experience was. To take it on the chin and don't let it bother me. I know men outnumber the women 100 to 1 I bet. So you have to stand out from the crowd... I'm trying the best I can. Well actually I'm not. I could try harder!! Need to get myself out there. | |||
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"If you wouldn't say it to a woman's face don't put it in a message.. approach people with similar interests and strike up a non sexual conversation from there.. but accept we all have different tastes so it may still be a no.. Going to be honest now.. I was disheartened when I first used this site. Still do. Why? Don't know if I'm a fool to say it.. but my ex, in my eyes, is the most beautiful woman alive and she loved me to bits. I thought I must be attractive to attract such an amazing woman... big reality check this site let me tell you.
It's a nightmare for men being so outnumbered but it's also impossible for women getting bombarded. I only chat to a couple of guys at any time, which means I don't see a huge number of people if it's bad timing. I don't think this kind of interaction is great for anyone's confidence.
Yes and that's what the learning experience was. To take it on the chin and don't let it bother me. I know men outnumber the women 100 to 1 I bet. So you have to stand out from the crowd... I'm trying the best I can. Well actually I'm not. I could try harder!! Need to get myself out there."My most enjoyable messages are generally something really random and brief.. it's not easy from either side. The guy I speak to the most is a result of face pic Friday.. just had a face you instantly warm to. It's impossible to define what stands out on any given day. | |||
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