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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well help a bit advise really. I had a dom for a fair few years. now he says he leaving all this behind him and family his side has change and is needed which I always say family comes first excelly kids .but he has made a new profile and watching all I'm doing now and is messaging asking me what I'm up to and doing but I feel like he still got a hole on me and hasn't left this all behind him like he says.i have moved on with having fun and going to places which he didn't won't me to . Has anyone else's had a dom that hasn't really let go of them .What do I do help coz I feel like I can't be me now xxx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Well help a bit advise really. I had a dom for a fair few years. now he says he leaving all this behind him and family his side has change and is needed which I always say family comes first excelly kids .but he has made a new profile and watching all I'm doing now and is messaging asking me what I'm up to and doing but I feel like he still got a hole on me and hasn't left this all behind him like he says.i have moved on with having fun and going to places which he didn't won't me to . Has anyone else's had a dom that hasn't really let go of them .What do I do help coz I feel like I can't be me now xxx"

He's playing mind games. Ignore, block him and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what you've said it sounds like a case of "I don't want you, but no one else can have you". I'm not saying what you had wasn't special, but he's the one who chose to end it. I would block his new profile and start making progress on moving on. Good luck.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work out where you’re happier if its with him then go back but if you’re happier now and theres potential for you to grow and experience new things then move on. Delete him, block him out and do whats right for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well help a bit advise really. I had a dom for a fair few years. now he says he leaving all this behind him and family his side has change and is needed which I always say family comes first excelly kids .but he has made a new profile and watching all I'm doing now and is messaging asking me what I'm up to and doing but I feel like he still got a hole on me and hasn't left this all behind him like he says.i have moved on with having fun and going to places which he didn't won't me to . Has anyone else's had a dom that hasn't really let go of them .What do I do help coz I feel like I can't be me now xxx

He's playing mind games. Ignore, block him and move on."
he has done that so many times in the past but I've always let him back in my head x thank you hun I'll do that Deffo xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From what you've said it sounds like a case of "I don't want you, but no one else can have you". I'm not saying what you had wasn't special, but he's the one who chose to end it. I would block his new profile and start making progress on moving on. Good luck.

L x "
I always feel like he in my head I so get what your saying and need to be me now hun eh xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Work out where you’re happier if its with him then go back but if you’re happier now and theres potential for you to grow and experience new things then move on. Delete him, block him out and do whats right for you. "
the thing is I was happy for a long time but he said he was leaving all this now then comes back and forth so much .i feel likeI need to be me now really hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you girls i so no what I need to do .sometimes it's just hearing some one else say it makes it's right more so thank you all xx

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I think you've answered your own question.

You're a beautiful woman you could easilyhave the life you want- do what makes you happy.

This scene is about enjoyment, fun and pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you've answered your own question.

You're a beautiful woman you could easilyhave the life you want- do what makes you happy.

This scene is about enjoyment, fun and pleasure."
thank you and yeah I think your right I did but to hear some one else say it makes it right more x thank you for your message as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you start by blocking his profile..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't you start by blocking his profile.."
oh yes have done hun but his spics keep.an eye to lol xx

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