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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

Woukd agree also asking to dress up as a baby one guy asked me if he could call me mummy to which I replied absolutely not that is creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

It'd bother me a hell of a lot more if they put grand in front of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

I think it happens in the kink world to specific role play. If you’re not into it then you’re not into it.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy.

It'd bother me a hell of a lot more if they put grand in front of it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

So OP does that mean you would turn down a meet if the woman wanted to call you daddy? I bet not

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

Very creepy all I think is the pedalo with out the al bit

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Nothing surprises me since joining this site . What shocks or is cringeworthy to one won’t be to others .... However

I was gobsmacked yesterday on a particular Remembrance Day forum post when someone claimed to be marching as leader of a cub /scout pack ,,, yet had everything on view here including face ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So OP does that mean you would turn down a meet if the woman wanted to call you daddy? I bet not "

Sorry but you’d have lost your money...... I’m pretty open minded but that kind of thing is just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy.

Very creepy all I think is the pedalo with out the al bit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone called me daddy I'd be shittin myself....... I've been careful

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Her: I only like smart guys

Me: E=MC2

Her: ch0ke me daddy

Me:…but I only like smart girls

Her: restrict my airflow patriarchal figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy messaging me with a view to meet, I explained we have to plan ahead as we have to arrange childcare, at that point he asked if I was breast feeding and if so could he drink my breast milk..... erm ...no mate, off you fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Her: I only like smart guys

Me: E=MC2

Her: ch0ke me daddy

Me:…but I only like smart girls

Her: restrict my airflow patriarchal figure"

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

Yep with you there. Those profiles usually get blocked so I don’t feel creeped out again! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet someone who said that either. Wouldn’t matter who it was. I’d be out that door straight away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t meet someone who said that either. Wouldn’t matter who it was. I’d be out that door straight away! "
u the daddy now

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "
omg so glad to read this , personally I think it’s disgusting calling someone “daddy”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

Hate that I would never call another man daddy.

My dad was my superheo no one could replace him ever

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

It's a bit like listening to music. We all have different tastes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy.

It's a bit like listening to music. We all have different tastes x"

Exactly. It’s not a word I would use but I wouldn’t judge others for wanting to.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It’s a common role play in the bdsm scene , and actually has no unsavory connotations at all .

But as another poster quite rightly says , if you’re not into it , that’s fair enough .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. omg so glad to read this , personally I think it’s disgusting calling someone “daddy”"

It’s not for me but everyone likes different things and I accept that. I wouldn’t call someone disgusting just because I didn’t like it to be fair.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. omg so glad to read this , personally I think it’s disgusting calling someone “daddy”

It’s not for me but everyone likes different things and I accept that. I wouldn’t call someone disgusting just because I didn’t like it to be fair. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a common role play in the bdsm scene , and actually has no unsavory connotations at all .

But as another poster quite rightly says , if you’re not into it , that’s fair enough .

"

We've been asked that a few times. I took it it was because of our username x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not for me, and I don't particularly understand the dynamic, but I do appreciate that it is a very specific kink for some - it's no different from any number of other kinks that people have, that I don't understand though, and so long as it's (a) legal, (b) consensual and (c) not directly impacting me in any way then I shan't judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. omg so glad to read this , personally I think it’s disgusting calling someone “daddy”"

And im sure their are plenty in the vanilla World would think the same of swingers, how about 'live and let live'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats your thouts on papa

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I can understand the appeal for some I guess but for me personally it makes my stomach turn.

I very very recently lost my Dad so any mention either makes me angry or sick to my stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thouts on papa"

Only if you call me Nicole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just another kink, 99% of people who are into it don't actually want father/child roleplay or anything, its like Sir etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t meet someone who said that either. Wouldn’t matter who it was. I’d be out that door straight away! u the daddy now "

Are you Ray Winston?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I wouldn’t meet someone who said that either. Wouldn’t matter who it was. I’d be out that door straight away! u the daddy now

Are you Ray Winston?"
Carlin 4737

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thouts on papa

Only if you call me Nicole "

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I can understand the appeal for some I guess but for me personally it makes my stomach turn.

I very very recently lost my Dad so any mention either makes me angry or sick to my stomach.

"
so sorry to hear that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thouts on papa

Only if you call me Nicole "

PAPA!

NICOLE!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

always reminds me of that scene in scum...right banks you bastard...I'm the daddy now.. next time i'll fuckin kill you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a common role play in the bdsm scene , and actually has no unsavory connotations at all .

But as another poster quite rightly says , if you’re not into it , that’s fair enough .

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the only time I will seriously tolerate being called Daddy in a sexual sense is in future when I'm playing out a breeding scenario with my wife or girlfriend and we're both actively trying for a baby together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy.

Very creepy all I think is the pedalo with out the al bit "

That's not very openminded tbh

And not very helpful for those that enjoy that type of roleplay..

Fair enough if its not for you but i think you should find out what it entails before saying that

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

The problem with judging people is that it somewhat blocks you from being able to understand them...Plenty of people would call watching your wife being fucked by another man weird, having a husband cleanup after his wife has been fucked by one or many men repugnant, swapping wives and partners horrible, fucking a TV or crossdresser, while claiming to be straight hypocritical, getting someone piss on you as disgusting. It is the dynamics, especially in this day and age of gender fluidity, binary sexuality, heteexibility, pansexual tendencies...we all have kinks, we cannot explain. if that is what rocks peoples' boats, as long as done between consenting adults, and is legal, don't call it creepy, especially if you are on a swinging site. If someone contacts you and you are not in what you want, just say no, or block them, but calling them creepy???

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I know that people have put on here about not liking the phrase ‘babe’ or ‘hun’

But ‘daddy’ ??????

Horses for courses and all that but to me that’s creepy. "

It's what you associate with it that creeps you out. The bdsm dynamic isn't even what you think it is. Perhaps if you understood the dynamic you'd know that it's not a father-daughter relationship but a D/s relationship with different dynamics.

Personally I would love a Daddy Dom as I consider myself a middle at times when I'm in my subspace.

My age range of 26 to 38 would still be the same for the person I wanted to be my Daddy Dom and I'm 31.

The BDSM community has a vast network of different kinks and fetishes, it's funny how judgemental/ narrow-minded some "swingers" can be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would senpai be ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not Daddy at this time of year anyway, it’s Papa Elf

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"always reminds me of that scene in scum...right banks you bastard...I'm the daddy now.. next time i'll fuckin kill you.."

That film scared shit outta me when I was young.....

Two pool balls and a sock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not for me, and I don't particularly understand the dynamic, but I do appreciate that it is a very specific kink for some - it's no different from any number of other kinks that people have, that I don't understand though, and so long as it's (a) legal, (b) consensual and (c) not directly impacting me in any way then I shan't judge "

I raised a thread on here recently to ask what DD/lg was, once I knew it was a daddy role play that was just fine, it's not for me, understanding the lingo allowed me to exercise choice and I didn't need to have any judgement on the person who had it in their profile, who was a really great looking chap with good veris, I'm just not interested in that particular game that he loves.

Made a choice, moved on. 'Nuff said.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are so easily creeped out by kinks.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The problem with judging people is that it somewhat blocks you from being able to understand them...Plenty of people would call watching your wife being fucked by another man weird, having a husband cleanup after his wife has been fucked by one or many men repugnant, swapping wives and partners horrible, fucking a TV or crossdresser, while claiming to be straight hypocritical, getting someone piss on you as disgusting. It is the dynamics, especially in this day and age of gender fluidity, binary sexuality, heteexibility, pansexual tendencies...we all have kinks, we cannot explain. if that is what rocks peoples' boats, as long as done between consenting adults, and is legal, don't call it creepy, especially if you are on a swinging site. If someone contacts you and you are not in what you want, just say no, or block them, but calling them creepy??? "

100% agree. I didn't expect to see so much judgement from a community into such alternative sexualities that itself faces a lot of judgement.

Daddy Doms are pretty much like Dominants but instead of the strict authoritarian Master type role, they play a more nurturing, caring and gentle Dominant role much like Fathers do to their children. That's what it's more about than actual "father daughter" role play. A lot of people combine it with a form of childlike regression in that they like to dress up cute and play with toys. It's pretty much just a form of escapism from being an adult with adult responsibilities. It's fine if it's not your thing but there's no need to be rude about others who enjoy it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The play is a dynamic, the name, for reasons, only some know, has a bad projected connotation.

I’m not in the least bit gay, however I would never project on to someone who is, thought that behaviour was long gone.

I don’t understand piss play, so I don’t comment and leave the play to those that do.

While I totally respect the op’s comment, it highlights why this site needs a fet forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are so easily creeped out by kinks. "

Aren't they just..

Quite a feat on a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are so easily creeped out by kinks.

Aren't they just..

Quite a feat on a site like this "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

With reference to the OP, what takes people out of their comfort zone, is it experience, or projection of what keeps them safe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn hasn’t helped! Lots of the daddy play on porn is what some have referred to as a dad/daughter relationship. It’s a BDSM role which porn doesn’t reflect well.

But, as mentioned DD/LG is far from that... it may be better to see it as Sir / princess. It’s firm, incurring punishment with loving tenderness. Lessons must be learnt. Some who play in this role use Daddy, others sir, mr etc... the relationship between the Dom and his sub is one of ownership, love, trust and absolute respect.

Personally, ‘daddy’ isnt On the cards but I wouldn’t judge or comment on another’s kink. It’s a swinging site and people should feel able to discuss, and seek advice on their kinks without negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I love it myself. Calling as opp. to being called that is. Obs.

To me it's very enjoyable, it makes me feel nice and very sexy.

Maybe it is a little weird to some but as long as you know where your reality/fantasy line lies I can't see any reason to worry about it. It's not like it's meant to be taken seriously or anything, it's just a kink.

If you can't separate fantasy from reality then you're pretty messed up whatever your personal quirk is. Myself I'm more intrigued by why this particular kink subjectively deserved a thread to comment on how creepy you think it is.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i prefer sir or Master, but for people into kink 'daddy' is a type of domming, affectionate and caring, rather than strict, or others, into say corporal punishment.. it reflects the tone of the dynamic and is no way associated with age play..in general..

age play is something different entirely.

either case, the sub could call the dominant 'Daddy'

i think the missionary position without rope, is creepy

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