FabSwingers.com forum: Instant block

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been called worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me "

Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me

Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman.

Lol ... I let all my blocks out at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ok babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!"

Same

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Babe & Hun are how us women around here talk to each other but from a man not same

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Doesn't really bother me... I've a four year old in my class who calls me babe all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do the lady's like to be

Called

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort"

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy I’ve been spending time with calls me that but he’s from Essex so I will let him off. Not usually a fan of babe, lol, hun etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what do the lady's like to be

Called "

By their names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from."

Or bird. My janner friends call me maid, bird or chick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit."

Hey, I don’t make the rules, that’s just how I would roll if I had a pair of tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from."

Same here, ugh.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit.

Hey, I don’t make the rules, that’s just how I would roll if I had a pair of tits."

Prima donna!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit.

Hey, I don’t make the rules, that’s just how I would roll if I had a pair of tits.

Prima donna!!

You know it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.

Same here, ugh."

Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.

Same here, ugh.

Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs.

It’s all that cow riding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if its someone i know and have met

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

My mate once called a girl babe in a bar . She turned round and said " do I look like a fuckin suckling pig ?" He was lost for words .

I was on the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a flying fuck (how do you give a flying fuck anyway, sounds like a logistical nightmare?!) I call blokes sweetie pie, hunnie and sugar tits all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what do the lady's like to be

Called

By their names."

If they dont know names then fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.

Same here, ugh.

Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs.

It’s all that cow riding. "

I'd always assumed it was a milking fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer babe to 'sexy' or 'sweet'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby tends to call ladies sweetheart. I call them hun ...not sure what people call

Me....bitch probably lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.

Same here, ugh.

Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs.

It’s all that cow riding.

I'd always assumed it was a milking fetish

That too but that’s our secret.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from."

Even worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only one mans “babe”, and I’m married to him! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort

It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.

Even worse

It’s a term of endearment in Devon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind any terms of endear menu, it's when they call me slut on the first message they get blocked.... Come on save it for the second message when you know if I am or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babygirl is worse than babe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mate once called a girl babe in a bar . She turned round and said " do I look like a fuckin suckling pig ?" He was lost for words .

I was on the floor

Babe = pig in the city. It’s a concealed insult innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!"

Same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who says it and how they say it, but usually makes my skin crawl. Got a really patronising 'darlin' last week and was surprised how much it got my back up! Much prefer a guy who slags me off a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a marginal improvement on "bae" or "bbe" ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the worst for saying "boo" and "beauts"

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't like any supposedly 'sweet' names in an opening message from a complete stranger, but I wouldn't block someone just for writing it.

The rest of the contents may get them blocked though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who says it and how they say it, but usually makes my skin crawl. Got a really patronising 'darlin' last week and was surprised how much it got my back up! Much prefer a guy who slags me off a bit "

You prefer I guy to slag you off in a message that’s interesting

How many are brave enough to send an opening message like that?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"I’ve been called worse"

Me too...

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't block them but I do tell them not to do it.

Another one I dislike is being called 'older' or 'mature'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You prefer I guy to slag you off in a message that’s interesting

How many are brave enough to send an opening message like that?"

I don't mean abuse. Just show some confidence and personality instead of fawning. The guy I'm likely meeting next calls me a wee dick all the time, and I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs u do this all the time,help!? Example of a message that’s likely to get a response and one the is a guaranteed non starter please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't block them but I do tell them not to do it.

Another one I dislike is being called 'older' or 'mature'

Exactly this, another one is dear that really grinds me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs u do this all the time,help!? Example of a message that’s likely to get a response and one the is a guaranteed non starter please x"

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

Where I come from we call every one babe regardless of whether we know them or not it's not a sexual thing here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs u do this all the time,help!? Example of a message that’s likely to get a response and one the is a guaranteed non starter please x

Huh? "
ha ha....can I have an example of a message that is more likely to get a posative reaction please?

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

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For me nothing equals the cringiness of a guy saying "you go girl"

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I call all women “Lad” “mate” and “pal” followed by a huge burp and an arse scratch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean abuse. Just show some confidence and personality instead of fawning. The guy I'm likely meeting next calls me a wee dick all the time, and I love it!"

That makes more sense

I am polite, tell them a little about myself and what I liked about their profile if I have messaged them I have seen something I liked

I get a few replies and considering how women and couples get masses of messages it seems like the best approach for me

I never use anything but their username or real name when it’s given no babe or sweetie from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs u do this all the time,help!? Example of a message that’s likely to get a response and one the is a guaranteed non starter please x

Huh? ha ha....can I have an example of a message that is more likely to get a posative reaction please? "

“Just don’t call me babe!”

(If you’ve ever had the misfortune of watching barbed wire, you would know the outcome.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hat being calledsir i know its a respect term but it still grindz my cogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me

Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman.

You'd be a total fucking pain in the hoop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it! "
i noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I call all women “Lad” “mate” and “pal” followed by a huge burp and an arse scratch"

Someone used to call me son.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what do the lady's like to be

Called "

By their name usually.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No I don't especially when its from someone half my age,it just sounds daft.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it! "

Guess 'hunny bunny' is out too then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me

Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman.

You'd be a total fucking pain in the hoop!

Haha, you know it.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I don't block them but I do tell them not to do it.

Another one I dislike is being called 'older' or 'mature'

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What about a fine wine like a Château Petrus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it! i noticed

Sorry babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it!

Guess 'hunny bunny' is out too then?

Aw that’s quite sweet actually

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

Im absolutly hate it babe or baby make me boke!

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Hun and text speak also instant block...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Me and my partner call each other babe. Might be a regional thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it! i noticed

Sorry babe "
dont be sorry i like it

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

I have had messages saying hi baby or hi love from men" I reply with thanks but don't call me by that. Would never block anyone for saying it even though I hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it! "

Me too

oops!! Although in fairness never to someone I don't know or haven't met... And would never use it in a first message!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd avoid it in messages

I am awful for calling women 'sweets' in conversation though

It just comes out

I blame my ex Mrs

She called everyone 'sweets'

Mad how some things stick in your sub-concious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it!

Me too

oops!! Although in fairness never to someone I don't know or haven't met... And would never use it in a first message!!! X"

Oh no. Definitely not. Only to people who I know quite well.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I don't block them but I do tell them not to do it.

Another one I dislike is being called 'older' or 'mature'

What about a fine wine like a Château Petrus?

That's better than mature

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I don't block them but I do tell them not to do it.

Another one I dislike is being called 'older' or 'mature'

What about a fine wine like a Château Petrus?

That's better than mature

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Winner

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

I call my mother Hun.......after Atilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!

Same

Mee too or how hot I am and they haven't even spoken to me yet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

Chill out babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message to me earlier started 'oi, monkey boy '

not at all bothered how I'm addressed in messages if I'm honest

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

BLOCKED

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?

Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.

And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’

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I don't reply to messages that say babe

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Hi hate the term's babe love hun darling in a message or conversation with a bloke whom I've never had any kind of relationship with I've gone as far as blank them until used my name if known or least username.

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