FabSwingers.com forum: Those pre-meet butterflies..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to get nervous on 1-1 social meets anymore. I get more butterflies for a proper meets but it's as much the anticipation. Especially if there has been chat and build up about the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous before a meet even someone I know well no idea why just can't help it

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I usually get a little nervous. It's more excited anticipation though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im like a bag of nerves before a playmeet or social

It makes no difference if its the first meet or if its a repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its more about the anticipation of what may come for me...

If it was a nerves thing i probably wouldn't even leave the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had nerves about 3 times 1 of those was my first go at a club normally just really excited

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

Yep, because I normally plan a meet in advance, I get nervous the the day before normally. Then on the day I'm a nervous wreck

but once I see the other person I'm fine

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Nah fake it till you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so nervous that I just don’t plan meets anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure that I really get them anymore, but then I may be confusing them for excitedness, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time when I was nervous was when I went to my first club over a year ago. After that, the nerves just went away and I haven't been nervous ever since.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The day I stop being nervous and getting butterflies before a meet, is the day that I need to stop having them - it's the same every time, being an overthinker I fret about all sorts and stuff I probably shouldn't - but I still go ahead, steel myself and like you Dan, 10 minutes or so in and I wonder what I was fretting about.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Nope, I assume the worst and hope for the best, no nerves.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I always play it in my head like nothing is going to come of this -anything else is a welcome surprise

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Have always got anxious before a meet and have done so for all the years I have been swinging. More so the older I get, once the meet has started I am fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love those pre meet butterflies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shit it till we are talking then you cant shut me up

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Love the butterflies! I get them before meets and after thinking about it all again, mind you I can get them off a text from the hubby so maybe I’ve just got a weird stomach lol

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes!

Last social meet I had, I was a bag of nerves.

Even after seeing someone for 8mths, my tummy goes into full spin cycle beforehand..

If it didn't then, I'd be more worried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous before a meet be it the first time or a repeat. I think nerves are good and, that butterfly feeling is nice. But after a few minutes of taking I’m ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

I’m a bag of nerves and I ramble on about a load of crap! As you know!

And something always goes wrong. Spilt coffee over one person, my sunglasses fell off my head into his pint with another one and I went arse over tit flat on my face in a park one time. It’s no wonder I get nervous

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

As has been said above, the nervous anticipation is all part of the fun. Especially for a first meeting. With people I have met before it’s usually just excitement rather than nerves.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't really get nervous - over-excited and silly maybe, my friends might notice I'm bouncing off the walls slightly more than normal lol, but not nervous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

I’m a bag of nerves and I ramble on about a load of crap! As you know!

I was more worried about those mad locals and their even madder dogs!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

If I'm not trembling with excitement at the thoughts of seeing someone, whether it's for the 1st time or the 101st time, I know the chemistry isn't right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually got sick before meeting one fella once.was full sure he wouldn't like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

I’m a bag of nerves and I ramble on about a load of crap! As you know!

I was more worried about those mad locals and their even madder dogs!

I take people to the best places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Still get them.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't get nervous at all about anything really and sometimes, that's not good!

I may be slightly anxious that I've got the wrong bloody day though!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I still get them and I actually really enjoy it. They are always tinged with a giddiness and a "fuck, this is actually happening". I don't think I'll ever lose them but if I did I know I'm not really into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do still get nervous yes even if Ive met them a few times, and sometimes even more so as you know what fun it will be. I wont say anything that coherent for the first few minutes or so either. So mute and shaking, but with a smile hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them. "

Yep this is me most times I meet someone, only ever fancied 2 in over a year

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I get nervous. Very nervous

I don’t think I hide it very well either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ... super nervous sometimes

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I hear consume a litre or two of strong spirits is the fix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Yep this is me most times I meet someone, only ever fancied 2 in over a year

Well this is awkward ..

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

".. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

I'm nervous and get a huge amount of butterflies. I'm nervous for the first hour of so of a social meet.

Play meet, I'm always nervous in case I'm not what they remembered and don't live up to memories/expectations.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them. "

Please put us out our misery and tell us it's the Gym masseur dude -otherwise I don't think the forums can cope with any more episodes of the soap opera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Yep this is me most times I meet someone, only ever fancied 2 in over a year

Well this is awkward ..

Hahahaha!!

of course you’re one of them you plum

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Only on two occasions have I been nervous going into a meet and that was with two good friends that had long been hotlist material before we began chatting. Almost felt like meeting a celebrity!

5-10 mins in and I was relaxed and on top of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely get a bit nervous!..not so bad one on one but when I've met with couples, on a previous couples profile, I was always a nervous wreck, to the point of almost cancelling... But like everyone else says once I got there..had a drink or two...it was fine!! I've yet to meet any couples on this single profile so god knows what I'll be like!!! Lol!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I like the fluttery feeling but sometimes it makes me feel sick and then the enjoyment of them wanes fast!

They usually disappear pretty fast once I’m there.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I still get them, I love that feeling of excitement when the adrenaline is building up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Definitely get them! Nervous excitement

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't really get nervous - over-excited and silly maybe, my friends might notice I'm bouncing off the walls slightly more than normal lol, but not nervous.

I’m similar to this! I’m a naturally confident person so nerves don’t tend to affect me but I’m certainly bouncing off the walls with the thrill .... anticipation... butterflies... etc

I have a non fab regular playmate who I’m always excited to see, he’s such a delight to be with social or play. Of all my meets I have only experienced a few ‘outstanding’ sizzling connections where I just knew it would be off the scale.... the one above absolutely! and definitely certainly the one I’m about to meet!! Sooooo excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the feeling, they are good nerves, excitement of what's to come. Hoping that it's going to be a successful meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Yep this is me most times I meet someone, only ever fancied 2 in over a year

Well this is awkward ..

Hahahaha!!

of course you’re one of them you plum "

Ah haha! Pants on fire!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them. "

Hope it goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Please put us out our misery and tell us it's the Gym masseur dude -otherwise I don't think the forums can cope with any more episodes of the soap opera"

Nope not my work colleague, was someone off here, wanted to finger some different pies in a bid to get rid of my crush!

He was an absolute gent, very polite. Conversation was a bit too deep, add that to it being close to my time of the month and I start crying. I’m a dick head. So embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moral of the story. Don’t meet people when you’re due on and your mind is full.

I’m really in a reflective mood now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup always get nervous! Is that not part of the fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Moral of the story. Don’t meet people when you’re due on and your mind is full.

I’m really in a reflective mood now. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Moral of the story. Don’t meet people when you’re due on and your mind is full.

I’m really in a reflective mood now. "

Ah don’t worry about it! These things happen! Smile, move on

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No.

I have no idea how the notion of meeting another person makes people nervous.

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

I wish someone would actually meet me for me to see if I got nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get the butterflies for social and for the naughty meets.

It’s the anticipation, expectations and wondering wether the chemistry will bond.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

I have no idea how the notion of meeting another person makes people nervous. "

Butterflies doesn’t have to signify negative nerves - it can signify excitement or even positive nervous excitement for me.

I’m pretty sure I’d quit Fab the minute I was emotionless about meeting anybody to be honest.

It’s the adrenaline rush and the butterflies that keeps me here and makes me want to meet relative strangers off the Internet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Please put us out our misery and tell us it's the Gym masseur dude -otherwise I don't think the forums can cope with any more episodes of the soap opera

Nope not my work colleague, was someone off here, wanted to finger some different pies in a bid to get rid of my crush!

He was an absolute gent, very polite. Conversation was a bit too deep, add that to it being close to my time of the month and I start crying. I’m a dick head. So embarrassed

How did he react?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

If it's a first meet I just assume they won't turn up so I don't feel anything really.

For the people I've been meeting a long time I still get butterflies. It's excited anticipation.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

".. do you still get them?

Is it any different if it’s a social or a play meet? Someone you’re meeting for the first time or a regular?

Or are you an old hand at this now and can take it all in your stride?

Can they be a good thing or a negative thing?

For me the excitement / tingle is half the fun of being here. When it stops, I stop I think.

Sometimes the adrenaline pumps so much I physically shake. I can’t help it, it’s just the involuntary result of the adrenaline!

But it’s a good nervous for me, and 10 minutes in I’ll be fine again.

What about you?

If it's a first meet I just assume they won't turn up so I don't feel anything really.

For the people I've been meeting a long time I still get butterflies. It's excited anticipation.

If it's a first meet I also don't expect them to turn up, but that's why I feel nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials don’t make me nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Please put us out our misery and tell us it's the Gym masseur dude -otherwise I don't think the forums can cope with any more episodes of the soap opera

Nope not my work colleague, was someone off here, wanted to finger some different pies in a bid to get rid of my crush!

He was an absolute gent, very polite. Conversation was a bit too deep, add that to it being close to my time of the month and I start crying. I’m a dick head. So embarrassed

How did he react?"

He was fine, said not to worry or be embarrassed as I said I was embarrassed, has messaged to check I’m alright!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Please put us out our misery and tell us it's the Gym masseur dude -otherwise I don't think the forums can cope with any more episodes of the soap opera

Nope not my work colleague, was someone off here, wanted to finger some different pies in a bid to get rid of my crush!

He was an absolute gent, very polite. Conversation was a bit too deep, add that to it being close to my time of the month and I start crying. I’m a dick head. So embarrassed

How did he react?

He was fine, said not to worry or be embarrassed as I said I was embarrassed, has messaged to check I’m alright! "

Lol awww bless!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone later, only for a social and I’m nervous because I want and hope that I fancy him. Too many times have I gone to meet someone socially and I’m not attracted to them.

Please put us out our misery and tell us it's the Gym masseur dude -otherwise I don't think the forums can cope with any more episodes of the soap opera

Nope not my work colleague, was someone off here, wanted to finger some different pies in a bid to get rid of my crush!

He was an absolute gent, very polite. Conversation was a bit too deep, add that to it being close to my time of the month and I start crying. I’m a dick head. So embarrassed

How did he react?

He was fine, said not to worry or be embarrassed as I said I was embarrassed, has messaged to check I’m alright! "

He sounds like a keeper.

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I don't really get nervous - over-excited and silly maybe, my friends might notice I'm bouncing off the walls slightly more than normal lol, but not nervous.

I’m similar to this! I’m a naturally confident person so nerves don’t tend to affect me but I’m certainly bouncing off the walls with the thrill .... anticipation... butterflies... etc

Consider me thrilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get too nervous which is why I try not to plan meets too far ahead. I only like to plan a day or two before... Any meets planned with a weeks notice just makes me too nervous and doesn't help my anxiety levels.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't really get nervous - over-excited and silly maybe, my friends might notice I'm bouncing off the walls slightly more than normal lol, but not nervous.

I’m similar to this! I’m a naturally confident person so nerves don’t tend to affect me but I’m certainly bouncing off the walls with the thrill .... anticipation... butterflies... etc

Consider me thrilled

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't really get nervous - over-excited and silly maybe, my friends might notice I'm bouncing off the walls slightly more than normal lol, but not nervous.

I’m similar to this! I’m a naturally confident person so nerves don’t tend to affect me but I’m certainly bouncing off the walls with the thrill .... anticipation... butterflies... etc

Consider me thrilled

Me too

I would say “get a room you two!” but I’m guessing you already have!!

have fun!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't really get nervous - over-excited and silly maybe, my friends might notice I'm bouncing off the walls slightly more than normal lol, but not nervous.

I’m similar to this! I’m a naturally confident person so nerves don’t tend to affect me but I’m certainly bouncing off the walls with the thrill .... anticipation... butterflies... etc

Consider me thrilled

Me too

I would say “get a room you two!” but I’m guessing you already have!!

have fun!

Erm... I’m saying nothing!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I get them very badly, I have been known to cancel a meet butterflies turning into anxiety attacks.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love them!!!!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

If I'm not nervous then something is wrong, the butterflies are saved for beyond the social..

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By *eanne n AliCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We get the butterflies still as well. It tends to be a mixture of excitement, anticipation and nerves whether it's a first meet or a repeat. Think we would be a bit concerned if there was none of that to be honest.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Butterflies happening big time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Butterflies happening big time..."
good luck

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Butterflies happening big time..."

Oooo enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Butterflies happening big time..."

Embrace them.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"If I'm not nervous then something is wrong, the butterflies are saved for beyond the social.. "

Looking forward to the nervousness and the butterflies most definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Butterflies happening big time..."

Just remember the other person is probably feeling exactly the same! Hope it went well! x

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Butterflies happening big time...

Just remember the other person is probably feeling exactly the same! Hope it went well! x

Nah, it was the worst meet I've ever had!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Butterflies happening big time...

Just remember the other person is probably feeling exactly the same! Hope it went well! x

Nah, it was the worst meet I've ever had!"

Ah shit happens sometimes. Block him!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Butterflies happening big time...

Just remember the other person is probably feeling exactly the same! Hope it went well! x

Nah, it was the worst meet I've ever had!

Ah shit happens sometimes. Block him! "

Will do!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Don't know that I've felt butterflies probably due to not ever feeling that overwhelming physical attraction with someone before meeting. Yes I've had great connections and liked people but that doesn't make me nervous etc.

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