FabSwingers.com forum: Vanilla

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

I’m not sure I like the term vanilla when applied to sex. It can sometimes be used in a slightly pejorative way. Also when does vanilla stop being vanilla? How kinky do you have to get?

I like vanilla!! But that doesn’t just mean missionary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I knew. I see myself as vanilla, but others don’t. It’s a weird label

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I love Vanilla!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I don’t know where the line is, but I do know I am way over it.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

Has vanilla become synonymous with boring?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I’m not sure I like the term vanilla when applied to sex. It can sometimes be used in a slightly pejorative way. Also when does vanilla stop being vanilla? How kinky do you have to get?

I like vanilla!! But that doesn’t just mean missionary! "
Only seems to be swingers who use it in a derogatory way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has vanilla become synonymous with boring?

Probably. And I’m as vanilla as Fuck!

It shouldn’t be though should it? Vanilla I guess suggests standard / plain. But then vanilla is world’s most popular flavour of ice cream so mainstream is not necessarily bad!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Good vanilla ice cream is delicious.

Good vanilla sex can be just what I fancy some times.

Just like I couldn't eat salted caramel triple fudge every day, I don't always want a ladyboy three way with extra sprinkles.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

We use the Term to describe our life outside of Swinging. Going for a meal. Meeting friends. Cinema etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all kinds of sex so dont label any of it for me its just fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love Vanilla! "
how much do you like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fab in general is a vanilla site, but its a crap term in terms of sex with little relevance when its used most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has vanilla become synonymous with boring?

Like my marital sex. Same every time and no kissing.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

If it involves 2 or more players, is something you don't feel comfortable discussing with either your nana or children and isn't covered in the karma Sutra then you're more than likely headed to the land of non vanilla.

Not that vanilla is a problem imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary position is my absolute favourite, it’s comfy, you can really squeeze and hold on to the guy, can kiss, can reach down and rub your bean, I love missionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla tea is refreshing but only after a debauched session!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve always considered vanilla to be everything outside of our swinging life . So non swinging activity I guess .

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