FabSwingers.com forum: So how's your year been?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been a rollercoaster, started realll bad, then got better, went from living in my truck and losing everything to starting a new life and rediscovering things like instant hot water, heating, oven etc

lol

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s been an interesting year. Met by many surprises heart ache and really fucked up feelings. 2019 is very much needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over. "
Onwards and upwards my friend , lets smash 2019

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over. Onwards and upwards my friend , lets smash 2019

I intend to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful "

Aww sorry to hear that OP

Mine has been up and down. Looking forward to 2019 because I'm going to be a nan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most years I've created memories I'll smile about for the rest of my life and there's been the occasional low that will hurt me for a long time. Wouldn't want it any other way really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2018 has been a great year.

Found Fab and found great new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year has been amazing, ridiculously busy building our new business, I think I've forgotten what a lazy day feels like but the future is finally looking bright after many years of just scraping by. I'm fully expecting 2019 to be even more epic

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's had a few lows, but way way more highs both personally & professionally.

Work wise.. I've been given some amazing opportunities, may take time to establish but I'm confident they'll work out.

Personally, I couldn't have forseen certain events occurring, took me by surprise, as certainly wasn't on my agenda, but I couldn't be happier.

Life in 2018 has been pretty good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful

Aww sorry to hear that OP

Mine has been up and down. Looking forward to 2019 because I'm going to be a nan

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Aww its amazing,you get to give them back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i let you know at the end of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful

Aww sorry to hear that OP

Mine has been up and down. Looking forward to 2019 because I'm going to be a nan

Aww its amazing,you get to give them back

I have a toddler too.... can I give her back too?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Great til August...then picked up well afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can i let you know at the end of it?"
Sure not long left Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life has been a disaster just glad iv had lots of sexy ladys on fab to occupy my brain and stave off depression

So to those iv met or chatted to i just say thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!"

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards! "

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

2019 is shaping up nicely already , I mean c'mon the Spice Girls are back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a fucking disaster.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

On paper I have been winning.

In my head I am still a fuck up who doesn’t know how good I have got it.

Need to make the two meet in the middle next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

Good luck

You too , hope you have settled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On paper I have been winning.

In my head I am still a fuck up who doesn’t know how good I have got it.

Need to make the two meet in the middle next year. "

The battle with the head is the hardest one to beat, keep going, you will get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

Good luck

You too , hope you have settled

Thanks

I get settled quickly but hate the packing and moving part

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

Good luck

You too , hope you have settled

Thanks

I get settled quickly but hate the packing and moving part

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Its a twat when you cant remember which box you packed the dildo's in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

Good luck

You too , hope you have settled

Thanks

I get settled quickly but hate the packing and moving part

Its a twat when you cant remember which box you packed the dildo's in

Oh I carry those in my handbag with batteries out when I lock the empty flat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

Good luck

You too , hope you have settled

Thanks

I get settled quickly but hate the packing and moving part

Its a twat when you cant remember which box you packed the dildo's in

Oh I carry those in my handbag with batteries out when I lock the empty flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait for new 2018 was a shity year ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've survived

new home and new job in 2019, bring it on!

Same ^^

hopefully onwards and upwards!

Good luck

You too , hope you have settled

Thanks

I get settled quickly but hate the packing and moving part

Its a twat when you cant remember which box you packed the dildo's in

Oh I carry those in my handbag with batteries out when I lock the empty flat

(

) clever

gotta think of priorities and emergency situation, right?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

My year has been mixed, in many ways, but have had amazing people around me.

I am, at least, still the right side of the grass...

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

This year and the previous has been a hell on earth for me... a new religious, arrogant, ignorant neighbour moved in and ... well, When I say I'm moving home this week to get away from it you get the picture... hoping for a much nicer 2019 ...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

From a fab point of view it’s been the best ever. Certainly since the summer onwards.

In other parts of life it’s been ok.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Didn't quite work out as planned. Retired to see more of my family and move house. I've seen less of my family and friends than when I worked full time in a job that took me around the country.

My days are spent in either Lewisham, Guy's or St Thomas's hospitals.

Although it's been a shit year I'm not complaining. I'm one good friend down. She retired 19 December last year. Christmas day her daughter noticed her eyes were yellow. By new year's day she was diagnosed with stage four pancreatic cancer. She died in June.

Roll on 2019.

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Mixed year. Work has been difficult! But this place has brought me much joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not over yet

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"Didn't quite work out as planned. Retired to see more of my family and move house. I've seen less of my family and friends than when I worked full time in a job that took me around the country.

My days are spent in either Lewisham, Guy's or St Thomas's hospitals.

Roll on 2019."

Oh I'm sorry to hear this. Sending wishes that next year brings you every happiness.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Met some lovely people, made some of the best friends ever. Against the background of real life which has been a bloody awful year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful. I swear I keep thinking ‘well this year can’t be any worst than last year!’ And it’s always worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s gone quickly. Been busy with work for most of the year.

I can’t complain, I might complain if my if my annual review doesn’t reflect my sacrifice and devotion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some highs, lots of lows. Things can only get better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've had a mint year, not quite as good as last (maybe realising I'm now in to my thirties brought that about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some highs, lots of lows. Things can only get better x

Nice tinsel tits

x Angie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some highs, lots of lows. Things can only get better x

Nice tinsel tits

x Angie"

Thanks Ali x

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By *avethefish400Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Had a sales job with lots of travel around the uk but found it hard to meet fab friends. Switch jobs to something very local to home.

Had a couple of lovely but short holidays.

Then I was knocked off my Harley and been in hospital for a month. Now home but in a wheelchair until I’m given the ok to use my legs.

Very happy to be alive and looking forward to seeing what next year brings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over. "

Second worst year of my life. Just pipped by last year which was so traumatic it left me suffering from PTSD. I left my ex to stop the rot and to try and make sure things stopped getting worse and worse and it worked... it was less fucking awful. I'm looking to start turning my life around in 2019. If that can just be an awful year I'll be happy

Talking on the forums and focusing on the positive has helped get me through 2018. But I'm still a bit black and blue and feeling a bit low that I've now got to bring Fab to an end to move forward. You guys were excellent drinking buddies haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

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good luck mate

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best year ever. Went to gran canaria with my pals. Santa ponsa with the family. Mr took me to Croatia. My pals taking me to Dublin for me birthday in a few weeks. Saw arctic monkeys in July. Had loads of brilliant nights out and got loads to look forward to. Canny complain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over. Onwards and upwards my friend , lets smash 2019

I intend to

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it can only get better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Average "
Pffft average my arse , You fucked a pineapple and got to sit on that amazing beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been an interesting one for me! Didn't expect to find myself single again so summer was a bit shitty..... but as they say everything happens for a reason!

Having some fun now though and 2019 looks like there could be lots of naughty fun and shenanigans!! The last 6 weeks of 2018 to get through yet but 2 weeks in Oz will help with that!! So all in all not too bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair to middling

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Slightly better than 2017 on the births and marriages v deaths front, but overall no more than tolerable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been ok kids both at school. New job. Had a couple of meets.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

This year has been hateful and I will be glad to see the back of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

good luck mate "

Thanks dude. Sorry to hear your year has been a bit of a disaster too. Use this place as a crutch. But sooner or later remember... the disaster ain't gonna fix itself so take time out from here to look after yourself and heal your world dude

I like this thread because it shows that some people's worst years have been other's best. I like that. It shows life's still out there being beautiful and amazing. It's just a matter of getting back to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

good luck mate

Or i could just shag my way out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

Good luck. Will miss your posts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been an interesting one for me! Didn't expect to find myself single again so summer was a bit shitty..... but as they say everything happens for a reason!

Sorry to hear about your year Tina

I became unexpectedly single late last year. Unexpected in the sense that I finally realised my relationship with my ex was unsalvageable. So against every grain in my romantic spiritual moral being I walked away. But it was absolutely the right decision. So I'm comforted by that. I thought having fun on here would lift my spirits. And I guess it did for a while, though not in the way I expected. But now I'm missing love much more than sex. So it's time to reconnect with my source and find that deeper love inside myself that will see me through. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

Good luck. Will miss your posts x"

Thanks Nora

That's very kind. Sorry to hear you've had a super crappy year too. You hid it well. If you were closer I'd suggest meeting for a gallon of g&t and to moan about the world whilst holding a big silver helium balloon with "woe is me" written on it

But I suspect we'd only end up fucking

tsk typical!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been an interesting one for me! Didn't expect to find myself single again so summer was a bit shitty..... but as they say everything happens for a reason!

Sorry to hear about your year Tina

*Tiana

darn autocorrect

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over. "
Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst year of my life by far

Toxic divorce

Ex stopping me see my children

Mum died

Roll on 2019

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been the worst year of my life so far and I can’t wait for it to be over.

Good luck. Will miss your posts x

Thanks Nora

But I suspect we'd only end up fucking

tsk typical!!

Haha. You do make me laugh. Awww I’ll miss you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was absolutely dreadful. But not as bad as 2017 so hey things can only get better. I'm hoping 2019 brings me financial stability as expected and no more losses as I can't bare loosing anymore family members

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite a few sad posts, I hope everyone has a superb 2019

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

Pretty shit year but is ending with me and Mrs P tying the knot somewhere sunny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty good so far and it's not even finished yet. I'm expecting 2019 to be even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had better years no doubt i will have worse

Keep smiling and it'll all be ok in the end

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Fabulous 'Year of Festivals in the Sun' - 9 at the last count, including the one day ones....plus letting go of the second career and working on the third - fingers crossed, could be interesting!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabulous 'Year of Festivals in the Sun' - 9 at the last count, including the one day ones....plus letting go of the second career and working on the third - fingers crossed, could be interesting!!

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Awesome best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My social life has collapsed, my job is worse than ever and I turned 40.

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Was absolutely dreadful. But not as bad as 2017 so hey things can only get better. I'm hoping 2019 brings me financial stability as expected and no more losses as I can't bare loosing anymore family members "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely awful

Lost my beloved brother in Australia very suddenly and tragically

Last a cousin in July, four days beforbmy birthday

Then lost my uncle in August

And in between that many other friends

So I’m hoping 2019 is a much better year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful "

Not as good as the rest of my years are going to be!!!!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Just sweeping the gutter looking for gems really. Think I found one that hat a few careless previous owners -seems like the real deal but still need to take it in for a closer study

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best summer ever loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been a bit tricky but not as tricky as the year previous.It has been spiked with plenty of moments of pleasure and many things to think about. We have a bit longer to go though, so I will touch all the wood that it stays on its meandering upwards curve.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful "

Same here, but dramatically improved two months ago...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting

Confusing

Entertaining

Frustrating

But there's still time for it to change to amazing

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By *onny69sMan
over a year ago

Donny

Started well but fell drastically off a cliff in April. Had some very very dark days since.

Things are slowly improving but I can't wait to see the back of this year..

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Pretty good to be fair. Very busy, professionally and personally along with a fair amount of work on my home. Been fucked about by 2 twats on here but taking it in my stride and still smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been a good later part of the year and really looking forward to 2019, personally and professionally

A fwb would make my Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most people, it's been a year of highs and lows. I try to be philosophical about it, such as "you can't appreciate the good times without the bad", there's always sunshine after rain', it's the ying and yang of live. But I still get a little bummed out about stuff. Sometimes life is just plain shit at times and there is not much we can do about it, but try and stay positive. I think our transient way of modern living and lack of community and belonging does not help are mental outlook when we are down.

Upon saying that, as a society we are more prepared to accept that our mental state of mind is nothing to be ashamed of, as we all feel low at some point and we are more prepared to reach out and admit we need someone's arm to lean on in our darkest days.

I envisage next year will be much the same, there will be laughter, tears, celebration and reflection. Some people will love me, some will dislike me and some will be indifferent.

For those of you that have had a bad time this year, I wish you a better tomorrow and to remember that you are unique and that there are good times just around the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabulous 'Year of Festivals in the Sun' - 9 at the last count, including the one day ones....plus letting go of the second career and working on the third - fingers crossed, could be interesting!!

That's so cool Frisky. This is what I'm hoping for from 2019. I'm hoping to backpack around India for a month. Maybe take a trip back to the States and explore what my connections in silicon Valley can open up for me. Maybe do the crazy sex festival in Sweden and Swingfields (if they'll have a single guy who isn't on Fab... maybe one of you kind women will team up with me to form a couple so we can get in for that?). Just start living large again after 5 awful years. Turn the page and blow off the cobwebs. The only way is up. I had a really good chat with a life coach earlier today. So I'm already working on trying to turn things around. Sewing good seeds for 2019

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Fabulous 'Year of Festivals in the Sun' - 9 at the last count, including the one day ones....plus letting go of the second career and working on the third - fingers crossed, could be interesting!!

Yeah me and my legendary soft skills are on the hunt for inspiration! A friend of a friend, someone training to do life coaching (an experienced counsellor) has also asked to give me free coaching as a guinea pig for her course. I'm up for that, I love a bit of analysis lol!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It has been a great year so far. I have my health, my family and friends, no major disasters. A little hiccup along the way but nothing to worry about. I’m fortunate and very grateful. I have no complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been an interesting one for me! Didn't expect to find myself single again so summer was a bit shitty..... but as they say everything happens for a reason!

Sorry to hear about your year Tina

*Tiana

darn autocorrect

Thank you... I wish you loads of luck too. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to meet someone...sometimes we need time by ourself to work out who we are as a singleton....can be quite confronting when you're so used to being part of a couple. I hope you find what you are looking for! As for me... I'm just going with the flow and telling myself the Universe has got my back and anything meant for me won't pass me by!! xx

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Liberating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought I'd have another year quite as bad as 2016.

Then 2018 came around and said "hold my beer and watch this!"

No seriously. My year's been hell through and through. Too much personal trouble in my personal and love life. Failure on the professional working front. Going through the whole thing about building a life in a foreign country away from home all over again. Getting cheated on twice by the same ex.

Yeah. 2018 can do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a mixed year this year. Ive lost some friends and made friends. I've been sick bit it could have been so much worse. There's always people worse off.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Well after reading some of those posts . I really can’t grumble but I really do hope those that have had strife are starting to make positive head way

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over a year ago

I'm a "glass half full" person, and am constantly grateful for my family and home. However, the last 12 months have been truly awful and I cannot wait for this dark cloud to be lifted.

In the meantime, here's my glass: keep pouring!

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

In a word, devastating.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I'm a "glass half full" person, and am constantly grateful for my family and home. However, the last 12 months have been truly awful and I cannot wait for this dark cloud to be lifted.

In the meantime, here's my glass: keep pouring! "

Red or White x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has 2018 been a blast or can't you wait to put it behind you and welcome 2019?

Its the latter for us , been dreadful "

Terrible. If it hadn’t been for sex together and with others it would have been 100% shite.

Here’s to a better year next year!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The first six half was great, met lots of new people and had loads of fun.

Then after a CT scan in July something suspicious was found and in August I was diagnosed with lung cancer and told I would need the upper lobe of my left lung removed.

September I had the operation and thanks to a remarkably skillful surgeon and his team at St.James's hospital the affected area was removed along with its Lymph nodes, saving two thirds of the lobe. I am now free of cancer and recovering speedily.

So all in all an eventful year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know where to start.

Cause of you guys on here and the laughs and fun I've had in Townhouse, it's been one of the best years of my life. As a self awareness exercise, Fab and TH have been mind blowing for me. I can't really articulate what you all have done.

All's I can say is, thank you all and I hope next year is even better than this one.

Only downside for this year is, I know I work too much.

To everyone who has had a crap year, it doesn't last, things will get better and to anyone who has lost any loved ones, you will see them again, trust me.

What's next for me, oh yeah the big 4-0 on Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a "glass half full" person, and am constantly grateful for my family and home. However, the last 12 months have been truly awful and I cannot wait for this dark cloud to be lifted.

In the meantime, here's my glass: keep pouring!

Red or White x"

Champagne

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I'm a "glass half full" person, and am constantly grateful for my family and home. However, the last 12 months have been truly awful and I cannot wait for this dark cloud to be lifted.

In the meantime, here's my glass: keep pouring!

Red or White x

Champagne"

I have that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know where to start.

All's I can say is, thank you all and I hope next year is even better than this one.

Only downside for this year is, I know I work too much.

To everyone who has had a crap year, it doesn't last, things will get better and to anyone who has lost any loved ones, you will see them again, trust me.

What's next for me, oh yeah the big 4-0 on Sunday."
4-0 Are city playing united again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first six half was great, met lots of new people and had loads of fun.

Then after a CT scan in July something suspicious was found and in August I was diagnosed with lung cancer and told I would need the upper lobe of my left lung removed.

So all in all an eventful year!

Very eventful and I bet you’re relieved! Best wishes for your recovery.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"The first six half was great, met lots of new people and had loads of fun.

Then after a CT scan in July something suspicious was found and in August I was diagnosed with lung cancer and told I would need the upper lobe of my left lung removed.

So all in all an eventful year!

Very eventful and I bet you’re relieved! Best wishes for your recovery."

Thank you! With the help of my regulars I've tested and everything is working well still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4-0 Are city playing united again

Nah, still might be 4-0 though, they've got West Ham at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4-0 Are city playing united again

Nah, still might be 4-0 though, they've got West Ham at the weekend."

Have a great Birthday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabulous 'Year of Festivals in the Sun' - 9 at the last count, including the one day ones....plus letting go of the second career and working on the third - fingers crossed, could be interesting!!

I'm the same. As you lot can probably imagine I'm more than happy to open up about my feelings. There's no point asking someone for advice if you're not going to be totally transparent about what's going on with you. I did this weird dance therapy session earlier in the year with a specialist practitioner and she told me to really let go. I went totally bonkers and she was pretty blown away haha

I think she was used to the reserved British thing. Fuck that! I'm totally comfortable being emotionally courageous

Good luck with being a Guinea pig Frisky. My one's gonna cost a bit. But after chatting to her I get the sense she's going to be very much worth it. She's also a specialist in dating advice so that should be FASCINATING

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

For Carol, things had changed enormously this year. Met new friends, met new lovers, had a fun time, some would say escape. I say being the person I should be. Only a ts/tv will fully understand this.

The me me inside carol, the nadir has been reached, not out of the hole, still a huge pile of shit in the way!

Now, gone from having one all consuming job to doing three! Money is not as important as it was. Will be on medication for the rest of my life. Might need to go into hospital again.

Is all that we see or seem but a dream within a dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rollercoaster that's probably the best way to describe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great Birthday xx"

Thanks, I'll do my best! Can't go too mental, cause I've got to be up at silly am on Monday, for work.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Better than average.

Good days and a few bad.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Busy but lost a close friend of the family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know... I have had the shittest year for a very long time BUT... I'm here to tell the tale and have some good friends so really it's not that bad I suppose is it? xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been a great year so far. I have my health, my family and friends, no major disasters. A little hiccup along the way but nothing to worry about. I’m fortunate and very grateful. I have no complaints

That is really nice Babs

Best way to describe my 2018:

Emotional rollercoaster

Moved from London to Midlands. Lived in London all my life and all the people I grew up with are there! Left fab and all the lovely friends I had. Went on three amazing holidays. Now things have settled down and I am used to my new area I am back on fab! Whoop whoop!

Looking forward to 2019 and making new friendships!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Absolutely shocking. Can't wait for it to be over

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Its been a hell of a year, but with little silver linings here and there ....I can't complain as I'm fully aware that there are many people much worse off than me and to those I wish you strength and fortitude and a brighter future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should’ve been one of my best but turned out to be one of my worst. Ahh well, lessons learned

wishing everyone positive vibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot wait for 2019. Hurry up!

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

2018 started off well, tailed off towards the middle and the less said about the end the better!!

Can't wait to see the back of it.... Looking forward to a fresh new start in 2019

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I made a few changes in my life this year and realised that I can't always be there and backed off cruel but has to be done.

Next year hopefully more positive less negative again and a few plan's.

Sometimes hitting rock bottom in my case more times than a Sunday roast.

Teaches you how to use your own mind and expectations and not that of other's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the best of years. The last year has had its ups and down, like most years i suppose.

Hopefully I can re-boot again for 2019, and find a cheat code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an unexpected one, had a fight with cancer but totally kicked it’s ass, a few highs and very lows as expected but totally ended it on a massive high. GO ME!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

This year has probably been the most eventful. I split with Mr M in January and promptly got on the worst rollercoaster ride with the best views ever.

Let’s hope 2019 is my year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very mixed year, I lost my mum in March, my wife broke her wrist very badly soon after that. On the plus side I've met some wonderful people and had a couple of great holidays. It's not been the worst year but hopefully next year will be better

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

It’s not been too bad, I’m thankful this is the first year in three that I’ve not suffered a close family bereavement. Financially it’s been another roller coaster, my ex decided to stop paying maintenance which made things incredibly difficult and took almost 5 months to sort out.

I distanced myself from what I thought had been a very close group of friends, but came to the realisation that I was only as good as their use for me, although hard at the time, I feel much better for it. On the flip side to this, a relatively new friendship has flourished and we’ve had some great fun this last year.

I’ve been drifting for a while now, so 2019 is the year to make plans and set goals and to try and work out what it is I really want out of life heading towards my mid forties.

Ultimately my kids and I are happy and healthy, I can’t ask for more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too bloody quick

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

2018 has been ok, but never thought I would be battling spinal stenosis and cancer, still I got a promotion at work despite being off I’ll for 3 months. I’m still alive, I have my family and friends.

2019 will be a good year x

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

All round it's been a pretty good year so far, and for swinger sex it has been our best ever.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It’s been fab in more ways than one ... met lots of new people ... socially and work wise ... travelled quite a bit .... 2nd year of being a widow where the realisation hits home .... but hey a new grandchild in January ... Life is bloody Fab xx

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