FabSwingers.com forum: Is your online persona more attractive then your real life one?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I would like to think i'm the same on line as I am in real life

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yes... well I fancy her anyway.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I like to think swinging is a bit of fantasy land - you can be whoever you want to be, as such "_habs" and (my real self) I find are two different people,.. and only those that know me best can tell when I switch between both personas

Now I'm not saying I hold anyone in judgement for whichever facet of their personality they throw forward,.. I just like to think when I'm "Ahabs", then "Naked is the status quo".. whereas in real life clothing is a necessity

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

bloody well hope not.... god that would be disappointing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm a dick in real life xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Those who have met me say i'm exactly the same...dont know if that's attractive or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a social chameleon!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different probably, better? Wouldn't like 2 say....i draw the line at having 2 compete with me self

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I'm a misserable git all the time, don't change on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to leave the real me behind when I first got single 5 years ago. When I first decided to be Fia, I'd say 'yes' there wasa big difference. As time has gone on though, I have become a much more confident and self sufficient individual than I ever was... both in Fet/Swinging and Vanilla, so I reckon nowadays there is not much difference.

The result being, I like me a whole lot better than I used to, and feel I'm a nicer, easier person to be around because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I edit a lot of what I post, in real life I don't. What you have here is the sanitised, fluffy wuffy attractive version.

...scarey, isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to believe I am the same online as well as off-line.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

im def better in real life,i dont come across very well on forums,im better for talking to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here I edit a lot of what I post, in real life I don't. What you have here is the sanitised, fluffy wuffy attractive version.

...scarey, isn't it!

she often censors the part where she says "could go that Raises cock a few times a day, looks so yummyyummy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am actually a much nicer person in real life than I am online. I don't shy away from opinions either online or off, but I am a caring and compassionate person and that doesn't come across that well in text. I'm also more diplomatic in real life. If I had something to say I'd say it, but in a manner that does not make the other person uncomfortable - unless I didn't like them.

There is also a diva side to me which is probably more evident here than in real life, unless I'm at home and I am spoilt and expect my own way.

But I am well liked and people always turn to me if they have problems, friends, colleagues, etc. One of the cleaners at work, who has a learning disability, comes in to see me in my office every morning because I talk to her and give her a little attention. She comes to me if she has problems and I like to make sure she's ok at work. I have to warn her when I'm on holiday as she gets a little stressed without her routine of saying hello every morning.

So whilst I can be confrontational, I do actually have a pleasant side to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think am a confident gobby brass scouse persona on here.....and in real life a confident gobby brass scouser

one on one may be a little tad quiet

suppose its others who decide on what were truely like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... Im a caring clown in real life, as on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am just a sad git....so yup...it could well be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a boring bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha, no way.....not nearly enough. Otherwise I'd be getting more meets.

I'm so much better in real life.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think I portray the person I am in real life on here.. Well I hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I'm more fun than I come across online. I suspect many on here would be surprised by the real me. That said I can be just as blunt though and have the same intolerence towards those I consider fools.

The other advantage in real loife is that you also get Boho who is far prettier and funnier than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i`d say am pretty much the same/of the same opinion. i doubt im as open and expressive as you can be tho

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm extremely shy and quiet in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here I edit a lot of what I post, in real life I don't. What you have here is the sanitised, fluffy wuffy attractive version.

...scarey, isn't it!

she often censors the part where she says "could go that Raises cock a few times a day, looks so yummyyummy""

Raisa any excuse for being on the sniff, contain yourself man stop dribbling pre cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm extremely shy and quiet in real life"

omg _muma so you are, yer just like me. did you notice last time we met the conversation dried up because we were both so shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm extremely shy and quiet in real life"

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

" Raisa any excuse for being on the sniff, contain yourself man stop dribbling pre cum

love that phrase of being on the sniff!!!

I am very shy in reality, but can have a good chat n giggle amongst other things in the chat rooms on here and come across quite confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"I'm extremely shy and quiet in real life

omg _muma so you are, yer just like me. did you notice last time we met the conversation dried up because we were both so shy

ahem, I WAS quiet... mainly cos I couldn't get a word in when you started Mrs Rentagob xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bloody well hope not.... god that would be disappointing....

I'm better in person!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

in real life,everybody wants to shag me.

On here,its only about 75%.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I really doubt it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im same online as in real life... what i type is how i am cant be no different x

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

the opposite so im told - nust do something about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always tell me im a lot quieter in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't think so

still a sarcky bugger with a serious as well as a playful side

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Mmmmmmm .......... Shouldn't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am more confident on here than real life and def a lot quieter

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Exactly the same, I just have to wear glasses to look at the screen.

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By *oodnvampCouple
over a year ago

beverley

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By *oodnvampCouple
over a year ago

beverley

I'm better in person.

I'm quiet and quite reserved online nowadays especially in the forums or chatrooms. Not at all reserved in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who have met me on socials and meets have said my photos dont do me justice

id like to think i am who my photos are and my profile is

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"On here I edit a lot of what I post, in real life I don't. What you have here is the sanitised, fluffy wuffy attractive version.

...scarey, isn't it!

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very lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"people who have met me on socials and meets have said my photos dont do me justice

id like to think i am who my photos are and my profile is"

They dont

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I'm better in person.

I'm quiet and quite reserved online nowadays especially in the forums or chatrooms. Not at all reserved in person. "

I am the opposite as I am more flirty and forward online.

In person I can be very shy and reserved at times.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I'm extremely shy and quiet in real life"

Help im choking here

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm better looking when the lights are off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much louder in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality wise i think im exactly the same but i guess thats for people who have met me to answer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot more exciting than my profile and better-looking than my photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'm pretty much a what you see is what you get kinda gal. Albeit I get my tits out less in real life

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im better in real life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

But your profile says you're not meeting... Damn, tricked into looking at your great photos! Haha... Not complaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I tone down the sexy for the Internet, I have to, with great power and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'm fucking incredible in real life.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"im better in real life x"

Me too - being dyslexic, I find it hard to display my real persona through words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

But your profile says you're not meeting... Damn, tricked into looking at your great photos! Haha... Not complaining."

Haha made you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm anything like my real self online. I'm much louder and more interesting in the flesh but slower to strike up an initial conversation.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

Fair enough then...

Anyone ELSE want to meet this weekend?!?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"im better in real life x

Me too - being dyslexic, I find it hard to display my real persona through words"
you do awesome, flirty xx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

Fair enough then...

Anyone ELSE want to meet this weekend?!? "
yes come to JD's swingles night on friday and ill keep you company on saturday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

Fair enough then...

Anyone ELSE want to meet this weekend?!? yes come to JD's swingles night on friday and ill keep you company on saturday xx"

If I didn't have an exam on Tuesday I think I would

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

Fair enough then...

Anyone ELSE want to meet this weekend?!? yes come to JD's swingles night on friday and ill keep you company on saturday xx

If I didn't have an exam on Tuesday I think I would

xx"
offer stands any time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personality depends who I'm with and the situation we are in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

Fair enough then...

Anyone ELSE want to meet this weekend?!? yes come to JD's swingles night on friday and ill keep you company on saturday xx

If I didn't have an exam on Tuesday I think I would

xxoffer stands any time x"

Mwahhh! Now THAT is an offer I won't refuse x

My online persona is a fictions character created to annoy and delight; so far I have been 50% successful

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Muppet in the forums and a deluded idiot in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wittier in real life but have a shy vulnerable side except when it comes to sex then I'm the tazmanian devil of 50 shades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm the same but when I meet people for a social they always seem surprised. "What is somebody like you doing on a site like that? You seem far too prim and proper". When I tell them what we've got up to since joining the site, they genuinely did it hard to believe. Even proper ladies deserve a varied and fulfilling sex life though right?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrsMac is a right old heartless bitch. Whether that's a true reflection of 'real life' me I'm not sure but I do have my moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very shy and introverted in real life. Much more outgoing online.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm a genuine Internet warrior. In the real world I am too shy to even order a drink at the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a genuine Internet warrior. In the real world I am too shy to even order a drink at the bar.

I've heard some excuses for better ng tight fisted but that takes the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm the same in here as outside in the real world ... The good the bad & the ugly bits !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us are any different .

Those who know us have no choice but to accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm the same. However, I don't know how to illustrate my persona on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to think I'm the same. However, I don't know how to illustrate my persona on my profile.

I'm the same but rubbish at messages.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Consider myself to be the same on here, as in real life. But it is a little difficult to put your true self across by way of just a few words and pics on a profile....or by a few comments on various threads.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I am just as arrogant and pompous in real life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm better looking when the lights are off

Brilliant thread bump!! So many people I miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Aura does not manifest in cyberspace,not matter how articulated the prose is presented. Body language is absent, which contributes greatly to persona. I would wager, the majority have a less vibrant persona online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to think I'm the same. However, I don't know how to illustrate my persona on my profile.

I'm the same but rubbish at messages."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm better looking when the lights are off

Brilliant thread bump!! So many people I miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot more cheeky in real life, quite sarcastic and slightly arrogant...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Not a fucking clue. Who wants to meet me and find out?

If I must..

You don't have to. It's entirely voluntary. I'm not begging you or anything.

Fair enough then...

Anyone ELSE want to meet this weekend?!? yes come to JD's swingles night on friday and ill keep you company on saturday xx

If I didn't have an exam on Tuesday I think I would

xxoffer stands any time x

Mwahhh! Now THAT is an offer I won't refuse x

My online persona is a fictions character created to annoy and delight; so far I have been 50% successful "
i recognize your essence and the path by which you were trained to have that fictitious character, which is a double bluff, cos is only hosted...because im a smart arse and i was trained the same way..you are not dangerous mr pauly and i look forward to the day when the planets align in my favour x

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