FabSwingers.com forum: Social or not?

By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

I guess it’s a choice of “meet” or “meat”?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm much more social than sexual ...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As long as I get something hot and wet I don’t mind which

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm always a social first person, one on one. Meat can be second course.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"As long as I get something hot and wet I don’t mind which "

cup of tea ?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em"

Every social becomes a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meat

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"As long as I get something hot and wet I don’t mind which

cup of tea ?"

Coffee. I only like the tea that I make.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat

Is life too short for a social first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

Every social becomes a fuck?

Yeah. But I’ve only three men on fab - one of which I already knew. So I’ve only fucked up two socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meat

Is life too short for a social first?

Nope

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

Every social becomes a fuck?

Yeah. But I’ve only three men on fab - one of which I already knew. So I’ve only fucked up two socials

How far do you socials get before the inevitable happens? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

Every social becomes a fuck?

Yeah. But I’ve only three men on fab - one of which I already knew. So I’ve only fucked up two socials

How far do you socials get before the inevitable happens? Lol"

Quickest was 20 minutes

Other was an hour

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em"

That’s what mine usually turn into as well

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

That’s what mine usually turn into as well "

Hope you leave the cafe/pub/restaurant/John Lewis first

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

That’s what mine usually turn into as well

Hope you leave the cafe/pub/restaurant/John Lewis first

John Lewis?!!!

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

That’s what mine usually turn into as well

Hope you leave the cafe/pub/restaurant/John Lewis first

John Lewis?!!!

Yep I once met a lady off fab in John Lewis hahaha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

That’s what mine usually turn into as well

Hope you leave the cafe/pub/restaurant/John Lewis first

John Lewis?!!!

Yep I once met a lady off fab in John Lewis hahaha"

Oh, these hedonistic Londoners!

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em

That’s what mine usually turn into as well

Hope you leave the cafe/pub/restaurant/John Lewis first

John Lewis?!!!

Yep I once met a lady off fab in John Lewis hahaha

Oh, these hedonistic Londoners! "

I think I’m the only one

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on. "

And what percentage does go further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as I get something hot and wet I don’t mind which "

Not how I like my beer served, but each to their own.....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I guess it’s a choice of “meet” or “meat”?

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Only if it required, quite happy to get down to business asal if all parties are happy.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Always a social first

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on.

And what percentage does go further?"

100% so far.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on.

And what percentage does go further?

100% so far."

Wow, fancy a McDonald’s?

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By *onny69sMan
over a year ago

Donny

I don't mind a social 1st..

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Prefer a social first

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I don't mind a social 1st.. "

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Prefer a social first

My social is usually when I open the door and offer the lady a drink

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Always a social first. If they aren't willing to do that, nothing else will ever happen.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Always a social first. If they aren't willing to do that, nothing else will ever happen. "

Percentage that turn into fucks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My socials always fuck up cause I fuck ‘em"
all depends if you want to get to know someone first or just get it on. I'm happy either way but I love a good chat.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meat

Is life too short for a social first?

No it’s not too short, can’t think of anything worse than being pressured to take things further when there’s no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to meet socially first,had a few socials,think only one we didn't end up meeting again for fun.

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By *palWoman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

Initial meet will be a social first possibly more afterwards.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Initial meet will be a social first possibly more afterwards."

I keep asking this question but what percentage on average leads from a social to a fuck?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat

Is life too short for a social first?

No it’s not too short, can’t think of anything worse than being pressured to take things further when there’s no attraction. "

How can any man sit opposite you for a social and not stare at the best boobs on fab

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on.

And what percentage does go further?

100% so far.

Wow, fancy a McDonald’s?

No thanks. I had a very filling one last night

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By *palWoman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

"Initial meet will be a social first possibly more afterwards.

I keep asking this question but what percentage on average leads from a social to a fuck?"

Are you doing research for Sydney?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on.

And what percentage does go further?

100% so far.

Wow, fancy a McDonald’s?

No thanks. I had a very filling one last night

Finger Buffett?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Initial meet will be a social first possibly more afterwards.

I keep asking this question but what percentage on average leads from a social to a fuck?

Are you doing research for Sydney?"

I’m fascinated and ever so slightly bored hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only meet someone for sex the first time if i absolutely knew the chemistry was there ... otherwise it gets a bit awkward

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I would only meet someone for sex the first time if i absolutely knew the chemistry was there ... otherwise it gets a bit awkward

You can sense the chemistry through messages? Are you always right?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Always a social first. I have played straight after a few times. Even in the coffee shop toilet once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first. If there is chemistry and we get on, then we will see each other at a later date for more. I have made an exception for one who I'd chatted to for months and we get on so well... That was distance related.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Always a social first. I have played straight after a few times. Even in the coffee shop toilet once or twice

That’s so hot

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Social first. If there is chemistry and we get on, then we will see each other at a later date for more. I have made an exception for one who I'd chatted to for months and we get on so well... That was distance related. "

Oh it’s you, how are you lovely?

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Always a social first. Unless they're miles away and spoken to them quite a bit then I make the odd exception

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I only really meet for socials on the understanding it will go further on the day if we get on.

And what percentage does go further?

100% so far."

Exactly the same for us .

We wouldn’t ever entertain a social meet unless we were going to play if we all get along .

And every meet has been a play meet so far .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would only meet someone for sex the first time if i absolutely knew the chemistry was there ... otherwise it gets a bit awkward

You can sense the chemistry through messages? Are you always right?"

and from chatting over the phone yes

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Social for me, individual and the organised ones

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Both right one my lead to the other!!!! Hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

Do you always fancy the person?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

Mine's dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

Mine's dead"

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet. "

I find the mind the sexiest bit of a lady

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet.

I find the mind the sexiest bit of a lady"

And the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet.

I find the mind the sexiest bit of a lady"

It is the largest sexual organ after all.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet.

I find the mind the sexiest bit of a lady

It is the largest sexual organ after all. "

Yep! That’s why sometimes my “social” is phone sex because you can tell a lot that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

Do you always fancy the person?"
of course I’ve got to find them attractive physically I’m just not here to know about people’s lives, make friends etc I have my own life for that.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

Do you always fancy the person? of course I’ve got to find them attractive physically I’m just not here to know about people’s lives, make friends etc I have my own life for that. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet. "

Same here, but we're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to have a jolly social first to see if there is a spark that may lead to far more memorable times

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

I need someone to stimulate my mind first. Can’t take just any meat that I meet.

Same here, but we're all different

You prefer banana ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it’s you, how are you lovely?"

I'm good thanks sweets

. How about your lovely self?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Meat, always meat, you wanna talk to someone go talk to ya mamma

Do you always fancy the person? of course I’ve got to find them attractive physically I’m just not here to know about people’s lives, make friends etc I have my own life for that. "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"As long as I get something hot and wet I don’t mind which "

Hot Beef sandwich and beer it is then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Normally a meet for a drink first with the option to play straight after if there is some chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a social first as I need to make sure there is a spark with the person.

The couple of times I have just invited the guy over to fuck I regretted it as the sex was crap.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Always a social first. If they aren't willing to do that, nothing else will ever happen.

Percentage that turn into fucks?"

Very low.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Always a social first. If they aren't willing to do that, nothing else will ever happen.

Percentage that turn into fucks?

Very low. "

Oh so lots of sad men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like a social first as like to feel a connection as it makes any sex that much better. Don’t mind if that social leads to more on the same day tho.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

Socials seem the wisest intro. But these generally migrate to the “meat” category if all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaah i thought it was a person above thread oops lol yes love socials some have been utterly brilliant fun with awesome company

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Aaaah i thought it was a person above thread oops lol yes love socials some have been utterly brilliant fun with awesome company"

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