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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can easily spot the men who respond genuinely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."
I always say it exactly how it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting ....some do

Oh some do

Some don’t but ...

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that most responses are usually to people that are miles away from me and aren’t realistically an option for meeting... I tend to speak my mind but temper my responses (when necessary) in the knowledge that there are ladies present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Yorkshireman, 'nuff said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say whatever comes into my head - that’s why it’s bollocks most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always posted with total honesty, anything else would defeat the object.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr) "

Not necessarily, a mod could have seen your comments.

Incidentally it is against the forum rules to badmouth another user without naming them and to make personal attacks on mods.

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, than doesn't mean it always has to be against the grain.

There seems to be a school of thought that if a single man doesnt think all women or couples on Fab are self intitled asses that he is pandering to them or just trying to please the crowd.

It seems hard to believe for some people that some of us actually e joy the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AlwaY's post what I think. I'd rather be disliked for my integrity than liked for a lack of it

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I always reply honestly, or sometimes a little sillily. I learnt quite a while ago on here to be as honest as possible with preferences, that way you’ll get a better connection with the people you do get to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a Yorkshireman, 'nuff said. "

Explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"AlwaY's post what I think. I'd rather be disliked for my integrity than liked for a lack of it"

Totally agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"AlwaY's post what I think. I'd rather be disliked for my integrity than liked for a lack of it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting ....some do

Oh some do

Some don’t but ...

Some do "
It's a bit of each then

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I do, than doesn't mean it always has to be against the grain.

There seems to be a school of thought that if a single man doesnt think all women or couples on Fab are self intitled asses that he is pandering to them or just trying to please the crowd.

It seems hard to believe for some people that some of us actually e joy the site"

You’ve got a valid point there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr) "

How do they inform you you’re on the naughty step?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes I do when it’s something I feel strongly about but I’m polite in the way I do it. You can exchange views and disagree without being rude or disrespectful to others.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr)

How do they inform you you’re on the naughty step?"

You get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say what I think women want to hear, because I’m very weak willed. Please like me, I’m so needy.

But seriously Op, I’ve got more blocks than Lego, so yeah no I don’t.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Anything I post is always an honest reply but there are a great many times when I don't reply at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always speak my mind, at least one of them anyway! Not looking for meets here anymore so no reason not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll always answer a a question honestly... even if it puts me outta the running xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr)

How do they inform you you’re on the naughty step?"

You get a message telling you why and how long your forum ban is for.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr)

How do they inform you you’re on the naughty step?"
You get a wee msg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a Yorkshireman, 'nuff said.

Explain "

Whether it's a stereotype or actually true, you may be aware that we have a reputation for telling it like it is. I do what i can to uphold said reputation.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I say what I believe in although the style and way I say it may change depending on the context.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Speak your mind . If people don't like ...tough shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what all the women have said so far and I also concur what they will say later on in the thread.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I agree with what all the women have said so far and I also concur what they will say later on in the thread. "

Good now we will suck your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with what all the women have said so far and I also concur what they will say later on in the thread. "

Good man, you'll go far.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Speaking your mind is all well and good. Being a prick about it is not. General life rule there!

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"I agree with what all the women have said so far and I also concur what they will say later on in the thread. "

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

OP what type of thing do you have in mind?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm on here for fun...I've made a few remarks over the years in support of some people... maybe invoking the wrath of others...if I wish to support a fabber who is getting a rough time on here I will sometimes pm them ..but ignore the taunts or comments designed to create controversy... I've seen so many threads get highjacked by the axe grinders...let's just chat in an atmosphere of fun and respect for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking your mind is all well and good. Being a prick about it is not. General life rule there! "

Thanks, i'm working on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to speak my mind, but there isn't much to it. I don't pursue arguments. Arguing on the internet is like fighting a shopping trolley with a wobbly wheel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I normally say the first thing that comes to mind, which is probably my downfall in a lot of cases.

If I seem to tailor my posts to make me look good then I'd actually be more fucked up than people give me credit for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking your mind is all well and good. Being a prick about it is not. General life rule there! "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Speaking your mind is all well and good. Being a prick about it is not. General life rule there!

Thanks, i'm working on it. "

Good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no doubt that there are some guys who reply only in a certain way because the person they are replying to has a pair of tits and a pussy.

There was a character in a Fast Show sketch who's name I can't remember but his routine was to agree with one of his mates opinions and then agree with another mates completely opposite opinion. That happens once in a while on here and is very entertaining!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with what all the women have said so far and I also concur what they will say later on in the thread.

Good now we will suck your cock "

Finally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally say the first thing that comes to mind, which is probably my downfall in a lot of cases.

If I seem to tailor my posts to make me look good then I'd actually be more fucked up than people give me credit for"

This for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no doubt that there are some guys who reply only in a certain way because the person they are replying to has a pair of tits and a pussy.

There was a character in a Fast Show sketch who's name I can't remember but his routine was to agree with one of his mates opinions and then agree with another mates completely opposite opinion. That happens once in a while on here and is very entertaining!"

Doubtful dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak honestly and considering i m a lil outside of even fabswingers box that can expose me to ridicule but then we re all pretty well exposed on here anyways so what the hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really bit most of the time we are walking on eggshells soooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, it's the only way that you'll get what you're looking for.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Yeah I do, some don't like to hear it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no doubt that there are some guys who reply only in a certain way because the person they are replying to has a pair of tits and a pussy.

There was a character in a Fast Show sketch who's name I can't remember but his routine was to agree with one of his mates opinions and then agree with another mates completely opposite opinion. That happens once in a while on here and is very entertaining!

Doubtful dave "

Bless ya, thought it had a Dave in it.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I like to think I do but obviously I try not to be offensive while doing so. Not because it will reduce my chances on here as dont really use the site for meetings as such. But because you can probably make a point without being offensive most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and will continue to, fcuk the over entitled prima Donnas.

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

I’ve been on the forum naughty step .... so it’s a yes from me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to speak honestly on a thread, so yes I speak my mind.

You can see the sycophants a mile away!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have on certain topics and have been blocked by couples and females.

It is what it is

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

There is a time to shut up and a time to shout out.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"AlwaY's post what I think. I'd rather be disliked for my integrity than liked for a lack of it"

Oooh I like that line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say what I think, but no doubt there's the odd occasion I'll refrain from posting my thoughts to a thread.

It can be easy to be misconstrued writing in here, and sometimes I'd ratger keep quiet, than to elaborate on the context of my words in great detail.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A bit like contestants on Roy Walkers Catchphrase, I'll always say what I see, regardless of the audience - I'll usually try and provide a reasoned approach too, if people don't like it then so be it - I'll certainly never compromise my views just to curry favour.

Interestingly though, there's been many a time that I have been accused of white knighting for holding a view, even though I genuinely never have deliberately expressed a view I don't firmly believe in.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"AlwaY's post what I think. I'd rather be disliked for my integrity than liked for a lack of it

Oooh I like that line! "

Me too.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"A bit like contestants on Roy Walkers Catchphrase, I'll always say what I see, regardless of the audience - I'll usually try and provide a reasoned approach too, if people don't like it then so be it - I'll certainly never compromise my views just to curry favour.

Interestingly though, there's been many a time that I have been accused of white knighting for holding a view, even though I genuinely never have deliberately expressed a view I don't firmly believe in."

I concur oh wise one.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I always reply honestly , always have .

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

No advantage in pandering to the crowd. But also no point being needlessly provocative.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

If I've posted it I meant it..

I don't post anything. I'd not say to someone's face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag over honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that being honest will get you far. So,yeah I'm always honest,although some people don't like it...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

We'll never know for sure but I think it's possible to spot those who seem to say what seems right and then back pedal if necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood. Sometimes, yes. Sometimes I can’t be arsed, this is a bit of escapism for me, I’m mainly here for fun not drama (although every now and then I might stick my oar in! ) so if I want conflict then there are plenty of better places to find it on t’internet than a casual sex site forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say what I won’t to say, but sometimes my point of view is quite long (especially in the Politics Forum) and as I’m generally on my phone, I can’t always be bothered to type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be surprised if most people don't censor themselves in some way, if only to follow the maxim "if you've nothing positive to say...". Why ask men? Do women talk freely without any thought for this? I doubt it. I think some on here are more comfortable talking out of turn on certain issues. Most don't as, quite rightly, they recognise that it ends up muddying the waters a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given that most responses are usually to people that are miles away from me and aren’t realistically an option for meeting... I tend to speak my mind but temper my responses (when necessary) in the knowledge that there are ladies present. "

The sub in me just loved this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to think I do

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

Sure my bad soh doesn't do me any favours but it is what it is

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

If I believe in what I have to say and there’s a reason to say it then I’ll make my point very clear and with conviction

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I say what I want. If someone disagrees, and we can discuss it, fine, if someone takes offence, we probably wouldn't have gotten on anyway so no loss.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

I think the majority only say what they think women want to hear.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Most won't admit it but the ass licking is crazy on fab.......i don't partake in it which is pretty evident lol

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet.

I think the majority only say what they think women want to hear."

I know I do

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet.

I think the majority only say what they think women want to hear."

I think this is true. I've spoken to many men who have actually said they do for many differant reasons. Most men will not name women in threads due to upsetting others the thread subjects differ. Where as women tend to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say what I want. If someone disagrees, and we can discuss it, fine, if someone takes offence, we probably wouldn't have gotten on anyway so no loss. "

I like it when people disagree and can discuss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few speak their minds on here

It's not conducive to being able to post long term

If I posted one tenth of the thoughts that went through my head, I'd be keeping the naughty step warm on a constant basis

It's easier to shake your head and move on to the next thread

There are a couple of threads where my fingers just can't help themselves though

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Ooh -I am way too worried about others perceptions to ever say what I really feel - that's why I only post comments that will get others to like me more

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I always try to

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

I would say I speak my mind on here generally, I only edit myself if I think I might cause unnecessary offence.

The fact I'm seeing a hotty means I don't really have to worry about getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past, present and future:

I have and always will speak my mind. Honesty is the best policy and always stay true to myself.

My forum posts and status updates are an extension of my profile. Live updates if you like. My chances of getting a meet are exactly how I want them to be...

Extra snippet:

I am enjoying the taggers! Makes me smile everytime I see the tagging trend continued long after I left...

#theyknowwhotheyare

#theyknowwhoiam

#1%

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Last time my other half spoke his mind he got a permanent ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

Yeah I dont think a lot do

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Well I've been here many years so too late for me to care - a confident man is a sexy man they say so go ahead test me and ill speak my mind - but there is never an excuse to be rude or nasty. Speaking your mind doesnt mean you have to offend.

Many many lack the logical verbal prowess to speak their mind in a kind manner.

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

you here to... go go listen to Sir Cliff i told you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I speak too much of my mind. Need to tone it down a bit. I get some people are sensitive and get offended easily so I've backed off. You've forced me to start thinking before I comment!

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

If bollocks is their mind then yes a lot do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."
they say what gets them the woman, it's sad but true

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"why isnt she replying" - doh I just spoke my mind.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"they say what gets them the woman, it's sad but true "

You would say that...

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

Nah. I find the more provocative I am, the more I wind people on the forums up, the more my inbox lights up.

It’s quite fun and it certainly beats sending messages which go unread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all lie to make themselves seem more interesting than they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If bollocks is their mind then yes a lot do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they say what gets them the woman, it's sad but true

You would say that... "
I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say what I want when I want.

I’ve already got my woman

(Smugface)

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Bucking the trend; I don't always speak my mind no, sometimes I'll self edit if I think my comment isn't constructive or if Im typing angry.

I try and be reasoned and balanced in my approach to things, not because I'm trying to score points with anyone though, simply because I think there is a right way and a wrong way to conduct yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say what I think, unless it'll get me into trouble, then I bite my lip and press the back button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

I speak my mind but other "men" use more social disgression. It helps them get laid so that's the main thing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I take many of their posts with a pinch of salt, due to the huge amount of visible attempts to impress and gain sex somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

Hmmmm, I’d really like you to ride my face..........I always speak my mind, regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always say what I feel, what's the point of not doing? Your only lying to yourself.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I will however admit to biting my lip in response to some posters who I repeatedly disagree with. That's not 'not saying what I think' but just polite forum etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my mind is mush yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I will type a post look at it and just press delete.

Yes I say what I mean but I never want to be mean in saying it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I will type a post look at it and just press delete.

Yes I say what I mean but I never want to be mean in saying it...."

I do that constantly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak my mine but my tone would depend on the nature of the thread and how it was started.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

wigan

Ah most don’t on the forums anyway, most just say what’s suits to agree with the ladies and look like a hero, well if that’s their angle fair enough but it’s stands out smile, tone it back lads

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

What a hidden agenda on here...No never

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By *edtothecore74Woman
over a year ago

Spalding


"Given that most responses are usually to people that are miles away from me and aren’t realistically an option for meeting... I tend to speak my mind but temper my responses (when necessary) in the knowledge that there are ladies present. "

Because us ladies tend to faint in the presence of an honest comnent.... right?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Yes , but have been on the naughty step for 48hrs for being honest & some plonker got upset about it ( Mr) "

Lol only the cool kid's get the naughty step

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Very few do and often if some do they can have very negitive reactions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the most spectacular blocks / time outs I have earnt are a result of speaking my mind.

I have nothing to lose and do not wish to curry favour with anyone. If you can't deal with my thoughts, attitude or profile for that matter, the block button is a few clicks away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the most spectacular blocks / time outs I have earnt are a result of speaking my mind.

I have nothing to lose and do not wish to curry favour with anyone. If you can't deal with my thoughts, attitude or profile for that matter, the block button is a few clicks away.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Men do you honestly speak your mind on here. do You manage your replies to suit the thread or restrain from saying what you really want. Just in case it reduces your chance of a meet."

I've got the bruises from sitting on the naughty step to prove it

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Do they speak their mind ever? A man who really speaks his mind is as rare as a Dodo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my mind is mush yes"

I was going to say, some people have a mind full of crap anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All u men dont say what we think. Have u never seen a man after an argument with his woman. Speaking to himself saying why did i say that. Eventualy we learn

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I wish more would, unfortunately it doesn't always end well.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I do think that an awful lot of people don't speak their minds, certainly not when a lady is posting. Simply look at the way that a guy is dealt with or gets reacted to in comparison with a lady.

There is an awful lot of virtue signalling that goes on and fawning, of course its to be expected on a site where people are looking to impress prospective sexual partners.

The only way to find out really is consistency over time and over a range of topics, that's partially why the forums can be so good.

It's easy to say 'not me, I always reply honestly' but it eventually shows who does or doesn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish more would, unfortunately it doesn't always end well. "
+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my mind is mush yes

I was going to say, some people have a mind full of crap anyway "

My mind is full of crap for sure and I try to post plenty of it on here

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