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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so I've winked about 5 women today and not even had 1 single sniff of a profile view in return. What am I doing wrong?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women don't check their winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One more view but I’m not a gym fit milf

I’m a cheese loving woman with child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at whose winked..

Then i ignore it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks."

Why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One more view but I’m not a gym fit milf

I’m a cheese loving woman with child "

What's your cheese of choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks.

Why"

They get so many messages they don't have time, or choose from men who have composed a message.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never check winks. Just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look at whose winked..

Then i ignore it "

Haha rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks.

Why

They get so many messages they don't have time, or choose from men who have composed a message."

Sounds like I need to put in more effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never check winks. Just delete them. "

I see

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"One more view but I’m not a gym fit milf

I’m a cheese loving woman with child "
snap!

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"One more view but I’m not a gym fit milf

I’m a cheese loving woman with child "

Pass the gouda, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks.

Why

They get so many messages they don't have time, or choose from men who have composed a message.

Sounds like I need to put in more effort "

Looking at your verifications in 4 months, you are doing something right

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I met a lovely lady on Fab several months after I had winked her & fabbed her pics. After we had seen each other a few times, I asked her teasingly why I was suddenly good enough after she had ignored my winks. She said she had no idea I had winked until after I had contacted her with a thoughtful message, as she got so many winks. She then showed me her new wink list and there were dozens & dozens of them, as well as a ton of dodgy one word or one line messages. Interesting to see Fab from another side’s point of view.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up. "

I was just about to say that. I think most women do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up. "

What is stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so I've winked about 5 women today and not even had 1 single sniff of a profile view in return. What am I doing wrong?! "
they looked in ninja mode and wernt interested, they're unconscious from Saturday nights revelries, they get so many winks they don't even bother looking anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to have stealth mode then I won't seem like such a perve haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only quickly look at winks

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I never check winks. Just delete them.

I see "

Like it was said before there is too many messages received so never check out invites or winks and guys who do not check out my profile to know what I’m really looking for Man with face picture attached, starting with Hi, how are you doing instead of wanna fuck usually receive reply if I feel attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay so I've winked about 5 women today and not even had 1 single sniff of a profile view in return. What am I doing wrong?! they looked in ninja mode and wernt interested, they're unconscious from Saturday nights revelries, they get so many winks they don't even bother looking anymore "

Simple and clear

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I want to have stealth mode then I won't seem like such a perve haha "

You have got it, it’s in your privacy settings in your account page.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to have stealth mode then I won't seem like such a perve haha

You have got it, it’s in your privacy settings in your account page. "

Boom thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

What is stealth mode "

Under privacy settings, "hide on who has looked at me"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

What is stealth mode

Under privacy settings, "hide on who has looked at me" "

Game changer

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I want to have stealth mode then I won't seem like such a perve haha

You have got it, it’s in your privacy settings in your account page.

Boom thanks"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

What is stealth mode

Under privacy settings, "hide on who has looked at me"

Game changer "

Definitely! For a woman, it means I don't get hassled by people I look at (which isn't always an indication that I want them in my knickers!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

What is stealth mode

Under privacy settings, "hide on who has looked at me"

Game changer

Definitely! For a woman, it means I don't get hassled by people I look at (which isn't always an indication that I want them in my knickers!). "
you wear them then?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm afraid I rarely check winks or fabs and never friend requests (how very dare they!) - if someone is interested in me they need to message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm afraid I rarely check winks or fabs and never friend requests (how very dare they!) - if someone is interested in me they need to message me. "
Can I examine your poppy more closely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I read it as frustrated wanker. I must have winked at that time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks."

This!

I think if a guy is really interested he’ll message. If he’s unable to message because of my filters, it’s unlikely I want to chat to him anyways.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Winking.. for a start

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

What is stealth mode

Under privacy settings, "hide on who has looked at me"

Game changer

Definitely! For a woman, it means I don't get hassled by people I look at (which isn't always an indication that I want them in my knickers!). you wear them then? "

Lol. I dress modestly. I enjoy the contradiction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I read it as frustrated wanker. I must have winked at that time.. "

I was trying to be funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks.

This!

I think if a guy is really interested he’ll message. If he’s unable to message because of my filters, it’s unlikely I want to chat to him anyways. "

I just tried to wink you and it won't let me because of your filters.

Sorry I just wanted to check the filter thing. I know you didn't get the wink but I feel like I should own up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I read it as frustrated wanker. I must have winked at that time..

I was trying to be funny "

Good effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up. "

Yep this.

OP I've looked at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also many women view in stealth mode, that is, our views don't show up.

What is stealth mode

Under privacy settings, "hide on who has looked at me"

Game changer

Definitely! For a woman, it means I don't get hassled by people I look at (which isn't always an indication that I want them in my knickers!). you wear them then?

Lol. I dress modestly. I enjoy the contradiction. "
so do I, less is more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women don't check their winks.

This!

I think if a guy is really interested he’ll message. If he’s unable to message because of my filters, it’s unlikely I want to chat to him anyways.

I just tried to wink you and it won't let me because of your filters.

Sorry I just wanted to check the filter thing. I know you didn't get the wink but I feel like I should own up."

It’s cool I don’t think I did get it. But I just bulk deleted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One more view but I’m not a gym fit milf

I’m a cheese loving woman with child

What's your cheese of choice "

I think any women who looked at your profile would be switched off as you want a fitness freak... most women don't have those so you have filtered down the women you want yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so I've winked about 5 women today and not even had 1 single sniff of a profile view in return. What am I doing wrong?! "
I don't take notice of winks I tend to just delete them. So don't take as you doing anything wrong as a lot of ladies say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't check my winks

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I check my winks every Sunday at 19:29

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I check is messages, so wouldn't notice a wink, fab or friend request. But it is handy if I look at a profile I like and it says at the top that they've winked at some point before, I do like that feature.

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall


"Okay so I've winked about 5 women today and not even had 1 single sniff of a profile view in return. What am I doing wrong?! "
I just delete all winks send a message instead xx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Okay so I've winked about 5 women today and not even had 1 single sniff of a profile view in return. What am I doing wrong?! "

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