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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is 25 but when it comes to swinging, I probably won’t sleep with anyone under the age of 30.

My upper age limit was 50, but I fancy a 56 year old...so fuck it. I might go there, if he’s keen

Oldest person I’ve slept with was 49.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

36 to 36 so if your 36 you know were I am

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

Nobody older than my mum, might of though with the years the women knock off on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

Mine is 18 to 60 on my profile but I dont think I woukd actually go below 25ish...

It all depends on the person though really doesnt it?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

lower for sex? 21

for relationship 28

I'm 35

but lets be honest - it depends on the person and the context. I wouldn't look for anyone below those ages

Upper limit for me is probably 36 - i just rarely click with women in late 30s or older in a flirty way that would enable any further development

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older only with men! My hubby is a businessman 49 mmmm

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

25 -45

At a push I would go a bit older...but definitely not younger ..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

25 to 50. Its not set in stone though.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

25-45.....maybe older if I fancy them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not under 25. No real upper limit, am happy to see what happens.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Never thought about it- age is just a number and let's face it- who acts their age on Fab? As long as there is an attraction and they're not a dick I'm happy to meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 34 to 46 I think. I do have drama age 30 to 34 mostly so keep it above that now. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lower 25(under that they would be closer to my child's age which would feel wrong)

Upper not really sure depends on looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lower 40 upper 60. Though can be flexible x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Meh.... Come on... grab a granny type lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought about it- age is just a number and let's face it- who acts their age on Fab? As long as there is an attraction and they're not a dick I'm happy to meet,"

Age isn’t just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lower 45

Upper 58

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

I love the thought of having some one younger than me I'm 31 so it could happen. Older people maybe could teach me a thing or two, but my limit is 45

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Scientifically its been worked out as half your age plus seven years for the lower limit. Cant remember the upper limit. This was for relationships not sex mind you. For sex I dont think it matters so much, anything goes so long as its legal and you fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for someone to own up to 18 - 99

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

Sexual attraction is sexual attraction. Does it involve numbers? Just asking?

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

I'd like to think that I turn down a 18 year old of offered...

But I doubt it.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

As corny as it sounds we would base it on the person as we have known some hot older people and some younger people who aren't...

Although ad a guide we would go 20-55 I guess...

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65

I love the thought of having some one younger than me I'm 31 so it could happen. Older people maybe could teach me a thing or two, but my limit is 45"

Why 45?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab, 29-41.

In real life, I’d go younger.

Had a 21yr old a few weeks ago on holiday... I do think that’s possibly too young though.. might not repeat that one.

Well... maybe

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

No you younger then 25 and really not even that young. Generally I prefer under 40 but again that depends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet men it would be 20-45,for women I'd go from 20 to 55

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"36 to 36 so if your 36 you know were I am "

My waist size is 36, do I qualify? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30-45

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Around 18- around the 50s. But depends on looks as you know especially Asian someone is 60 but look 30.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Fab has it right 18 to 99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"36 to 36 so if your 36 you know were I am "
dam missed it!

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall

Both 40 so we have 10 years younger and 10 years older normally but just updated to 35-50

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Youngest late 20s and oldest late 50s on Fab.

Younger people tend to be more immature and not on our wavelength and we are unlikely to be physically attached to people over 60.

Though in a club, if we are all attracted to each other, age won't be a factor.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32 to around 46 as my ideal. I would meet a younger guy if he was mature and didn't look young. I would meet a older guy who looked younger, my usually preference is older than me but my head has been turned recently by a couple of guys younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is 24. I am 48.

I've been with him since he was 18

It wasn't something either of us set out for, but it works for us two, so bollocks to the naysayers and the disapprovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner is 24. I am 48.

I've been with him since he was 18

It wasn't something either of us set out for, but it works for us two, so bollocks to the naysayers and the disapprovers "

When we met I had my lower age set to 25

He fabbed a pic, I thanked him and two weeks later we were sat drinking hot choccy in Costa

It's a funny old life at times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner is 24. I am 48.

I've been with him since he was 18

It wasn't something either of us set out for, but it works for us two, so bollocks to the naysayers and the disapprovers "

Do people really still disapprove? You're so good together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For meets I look for single males around my own age won’t go above 30 just find them easier to get on with, woman I don’t have an age limit as can relate to most woman and we don’t suffer from macho bs and the need to prove we’re as good as the young un’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 45 which is a good 17 years older than me

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

As long as they have their head screwed on and I find them attractive I can't say it's really an issue for me at all.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't really have one, if someone is sexy they're sexy regardless of age.

Legal notice - as long as they're over 18.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Just a number it more on the person.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

If I find them attractive, they can hold a decent conversation, and don't act like a tosser (which can be any age group) I don't see the age I see the person

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My age limits are set in stone. Chalk - it easily erodes - it depends who it is really, my age limits are more a guide I guess I suppose it’s peoplw I’d have more in common with.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

Thought more about this

It’s more like

30-65

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30_50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual partner = 18-40

But when it comes to an actual relationship - I'd say:

Lower limit: half your age + 7

Upper limit: what ever you're comfortable with - I guess it's down to how mentally mature you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody younger than my kids. Incase they went to school with them. So 29

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont find myself attracted to under 30s, possibly because their world is sooo alien to me.. Gadgets n gizmos, i know you said sexual partners, well for me there has to be a connection.. Upper range, dont know really

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Age is just a number. I won’t go below 25.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Looks like it is just you upper age wise Stella

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"36 to 36 so if your 36 you know were I am dam missed it! "

36 is 36

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 to 50 but it’s not set in stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't go lower than 35 but less strict on the upper. 39-41 tends to be my go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put between 40 & 70. It wouldn't feel right to play with someone young enough to be my daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my 20's, I liked men aged 30-40+... Now in my 30's I like them young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex. 18 to around 60. Relationship. Probably 30 to around 45.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35-60 for me, not strictly though.

I’d probably go as low as 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number. I won’t go below 25. "

Age isn’t just a number if you won’t go below 25.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number. I won’t go below 25.

Age isn’t just a number if you won’t go below 25. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 - 55...although that’s written in pencil...don’t want to discount any hot women outside those

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

26-46, but not set in rocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 to 99

all I want is everything am I asking too much

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"35-60 for me, not strictly though.

I’d probably go as low as 30. "

ooo helloo chanelle .. nearly ..waves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48 to 62 but would go a yr or two either way

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"48 to 62 but would go a yr or two either way "
.. finally...a 62 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"48 to 62 but would go a yr or two either way .. finally...a 62 lol"
mine goes up as I get older

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By *pmsldCouple
over a year ago

kettering

Mrs S set the age as 18-35 on here, she didnt feel comfortable with the idea of more than a 10 year difference. In a club i think that would change and be more down to people and personalities as she is very much a personalty over looks women so i dont think it would come into her mind then.

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By *amthompson999Man
over a year ago

barking

Massive thing for older women so anywhere to around 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The oldest I've met is someone who's now 57 (met them a couple of years ago) and the youngest is someone who's 26.

A whole 31 years between them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest I've slept with is 49 when I was 35. My youngest was 24... again when I was 35. My age range is now between 34 and 42. Though my filters don't reflect this

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By *DKinkyJenTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Within the last couple of years:

21 youngest and 58 oldest (but when I was 21 I was sleeping with 18 year olds)

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By *henightstagMan
over a year ago

London

Oldest was 55 when i was 25. Insanely hot night, especially as it was at a party so we had an audience! I always judge attraction by the person, so the number doesnt mean much

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By *eter03111966Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

35-62

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By *eter03111966Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Doest realy matter if you are both having a good time and listen to what you both want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doest realy matter if you are both having a good time and listen to what you both want"
it does matter because you have to get to the point of enjoying yourself

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

30-50. No lower than 30,a bit of flexibility on 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

I've set mine as 18_61 bit realistically think average is 40/ 58

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30-50. No lower than 30,a bit of flexibility on 50."
59 ha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What is your upper limit and lower limits when it comes to age of a sexual partner?

I’d think mines

25-65"

Old enough to not be my son and young enough to not be my dad.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"30-50. No lower than 30,a bit of flexibility on 50."
how about 62...I'm quite flexible

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

Well it was 30- 55 but now I'm pushing 50 the upper is upped and I have been with some hot 60s! A couple of times I have played with younger at a club or party then felt awkward when they told me they were under 25!

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Sexual partner = 18-40

But when it comes to an actual relationship - I'd say:

Lower limit: half your age + 7

Upper limit: what ever you're comfortable with - I guess it's down to how mentally mature you are"

Surely if the lower is right then the upper has to be double your age-14?

Mrs

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I've never really considered age as a factor. If they like me and i like them, and we have enough in common to be able to hold a conversation...

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By *r n Mrs F xCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Its the person i see not the age. Having said that youngsters are a no no.

I do know some very immature 50yr olds.

And some very mature 25yr olds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 to 99

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