FabSwingers.com forum: A hot steamy affair

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seems to be a culture on Fab of seeing things in black and white. You're either seeking sex on here in a responsible unemotive way or seeking love on the dating sites. But what about in between? Dripping hot desirous but short term emotive sex... the hot steamy affair.

Heavy flirtatious meetings with raised heart beats leading to intensely desirous sex, ripping each other's clothes off, and hiding away for a whole weekend of sexual and emotional entanglement.

Have you found this on Fab? Did you find it via another site or avenue? Is it something you'd avoid? Maybe you think it's too dangerous? Too irresponsible to be on this site? Or is it actually what you're on here seeking? Maybe you feel anything less isn't worth it?

What do you think?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nah, just sex for me with pre and post chats and meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a culture on Fab of seeing things in black and white. You're either seeking sex on here in a responsible unemotive way or seeking love on the dating sites. But what about in between? Dripping hot desirous but short term emotive sex... the hot steamy affair.

Heavy flirtatious meetings with raised heart beats leading to intensely desirous sex, ripping each other's clothes off, and hiding away for a whole weekend of sexual and emotional entanglement.

What do you think?

That’ll do me lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people want that - I’ve seen more people want that than the other two options you’ve gave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll take one of those affair type things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There seems to be a culture of you creating a black and white culture of fab and portraying it as the either clinical sex or love scenario.

I know quite a few people who are looking for/enjoy that sort of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too "

If it’s a decent guy , shall we share ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too

If it’s a decent guy , shall we share ? "

Could do every now and then. You mean altogether

. Or separately?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

To answer your questions directly though...

Yep, I've found it on fab. Why would I avoid it? It's not dangerous for me or my partner. Too irresponsible to be on this site?

That's quite funny.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like a bit of passionate intensity and I have found it here a few times, I suppose it really depends what floats your boat, I dare say some people don’t like that sort of meet, personally I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To answer your questions directly though...

Yep, I've found it on fab. Why would I avoid it? It's not dangerous for me or my partner. Too irresponsible to be on this site?

That's quite funny.

I quite like dangerous and irresponsible though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"To answer your questions directly though...

Yep, I've found it on fab. Why would I avoid it? It's not dangerous for me or my partner. Too irresponsible to be on this site?

That's quite funny.

I quite like dangerous and irresponsible though

You'd probably like a steamy affair with the Op then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too

If it’s a decent guy , shall we share ?

Could do every now and then. You mean altogether

. Or separately?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too

If it’s a decent guy , shall we share ?

Could do every now and then. You mean altogether

. Or separately?

I’m off out now. I’ll see if I can find one whilst I’m out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you described is all I go for tbh. If I have a meet I want it to be passionate and emotive I don't want more than those few meets we spend together but if there is no passion and emotion involved then I'm not interested.

Maybe thats why I enjoy FWB and FB regular meets more and I don't do the no connection thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no passion then there's no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too

If it’s a decent guy , shall we share ?

Could do every now and then. You mean altogether

. Or separately?

I’m off out now. I’ll see if I can find one whilst I’m out

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there's no passion then there's no point."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy flirtatious meetings with raised heart beats leading to intensely desirous sex, ripping each other's clothes off, and hiding away for a whole weekend of sexual and emotional entanglement.

What do you think?

Your either or scenario doesn’t make sense to me. People are either seeking unemotive sex on here or love on dating sites? Eh? Do you mean people are seeking unemotive sex on here or love on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy flirtatious meetings with raised heart beats leading to intensely desirous sex, ripping each other's clothes off, and hiding away for a whole weekend of sexual and emotional entanglement.

What do you think?

I think you're overthinking things again..i have certainly found hot steamy sex via fab.. its probably for that reason that i keep returning..

Its never 'just sex' for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t accept the opening context, so nah.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Give me steamy passion and getting to know someone and their desires any day, if I just wanted straight up fucking and to awkwardly leave straight away I could (and have in the past) get that quite easily on any given night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think someone has spent too long listening to the voices on the forum. Pretty much everything I read on here is nothing like my fab experience so I think it's perfectly possible to meet anyway you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I think someone has spent too long listening to the voices on the forum. Pretty much everything I read on here is nothing like my fab experience so I think it's perfectly possible to meet anyway you choose. "

It is possible to meet anyway you choose, there are loads of people that won’t even meet in a 1-2-1 situation, don’t want the kissing or to feel a closeness even if it’s just for a few hours. It doesn’t have to be either or like the OP stated, for instance I’ve never been on a dating site, I haven’t ever actively perused a relationship yet I’ve had 2 via swing sites.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The steamy affair type scenario sounds like most of my encounters, just squished into a morning rather than a whole weekend. I don't have the time, the opportunity or the inclination for that!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Are you hoping for a career in erotic fiction OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Settle for kissing and cuddling, the other stuff I might need retraining!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The steamy affair type scenario sounds like most of my encounters, just squished into a morning rather than a whole weekend. I don't have the time, the opportunity or the inclination for that!!

same here

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Although I do occasionally have one offs I prefer meeting with regular friends. I like them and I have fun with them not just sex. Although the sex gets better with time and the friendship deepens. I don’t care what you call it.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not sure how to put this, yes we want the steamy, hot passionate sex with emotion but perhaps not the affair side of things as you put it. Cold clinic sex is not for either of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy flirtatious meetings with raised heart beats leading to intensely desirous sex, ripping each other's clothes off, and hiding away for a whole weekend of sexual and emotional entanglement.

What do you think?

That’ll do me lovely

Me too

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I moved from dating sites to swinging sites when I realised I wasn't looking for love. I just wanted the passion, excitement, and that glorious feeling of giddiness you have when a relationship is still new and fresh. I wanted a friend to laugh and lust with, someone who gave me butterflies and tingles, who could make me go ooooofffft and want to rip his clothes off with just a look, and 5 seconds later have me laughing so hard I can barely catch my breath. Someone I could explore with and be totally uninhibited with. Someone who would be as excited about spending time with me as I was with them, but equally be happy to spend that time without expectation, or without intruding on my everyday life. Someone to be my escape, my fantasy and my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I moved from dating sites to swinging sites when I realised I wasn't looking for love. I just wanted the passion, excitement, and that glorious feeling of giddiness you have when a relationship is still new and fresh. I wanted a friend to laugh and lust with, someone who gave me butterflies and tingles, who could make me go ooooofffft and want to rip his clothes off with just a look, and 5 seconds later have me laughing so hard I can barely catch my breath. Someone I could explore with and be totally uninhibited with. Someone who would be as excited about spending time with me as I was with them, but equally be happy to spend that time without expectation, or without intruding on my everyday life. Someone to be my escape, my fantasy and my friend

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....exactly how it was with someone I met,took me to a different existence!.. the world stopped for those few hours,the passion the intensity.... and yes the laughter in between!... priceless!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We just do what we do. It suits us.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

" ....exactly how it was with someone I met,took me to a different existence!.. the world stopped for those few hours,the passion the intensity.... and yes the laughter in between!... priceless!

When you can maintain that over time.... Priceless indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here. "

Like it made you realise leaf blowers can be used for more than blowing leaves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here.

Like it made you realise leaf blowers can be used for more than blowing leaves?"

The hamster made me realised that

that changed my perception of it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll take one of those affair type things

Put me in the queue for one of them too

If it’s a decent guy , shall we share ? "
can I apply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here.

Like it made you realise leaf blowers can be used for more than blowing leaves?

The hamster made me realised that

that changed my perception of it ! "

I was genuinely confused for a moment there, I was wondering what the hell youve done to a poor hamster - had visions of you running behind it, blowing it with a leaf blower...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Heavy flirtatious meetings with raised heart beats leading to intensely desirous sex, ripping each other's clothes off, and hiding away for a whole weekend of sexual and emotional entanglement.

What do you think?

Dangerous and irresponsible sounds right up my street. Hot , steamy , passionate, tear your clothes off sex is what I joined for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here.

Like it made you realise leaf blowers can be used for more than blowing leaves?

The hamster made me realised that

that changed my perception of it !

I was genuinely confused for a moment there, I was wondering what the hell youve done to a poor hamster - had visions of you running behind it, blowing it with a leaf blower..."

I don't hurt animal. Only pound pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here.

Like it made you realise leaf blowers can be used for more than blowing leaves?

The hamster made me realised that

that changed my perception of it !

I was genuinely confused for a moment there, I was wondering what the hell youve done to a poor hamster - had visions of you running behind it, blowing it with a leaf blower...

I don't hurt animal. Only pound pussy "

You’re a good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I first joined fab to get laid then I quickly realised that in order to fully enjoy sex my lust and my principles needed to be in line. Fab made me realised a lot of things about myself.

I think that you can get both on here.

Like it made you realise leaf blowers can be used for more than blowing leaves?

The hamster made me realised that

that changed my perception of it !

I was genuinely confused for a moment there, I was wondering what the hell youve done to a poor hamster - had visions of you running behind it, blowing it with a leaf blower...

I don't hurt animal. Only pound pussy

You’re a good man and I love you"

Thank you x

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