FabSwingers.com forum: Fwb versus nsa

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seems to be confusion in these two discriptions.... when I say I’m looking for fwb I tend to think it means a bit more than nsa as in cinema, meals out etc nsa I describe as bedroom only can I please have some clarification TIA

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thats what I would say too. Nsa is just sex, fwb is more messaging, drinks and maybe other things as well as sex x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear. "

Ha ha I do but men still misread i not interested in commitment but they tend to see it as I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be confusion in these two discriptions.... when I say I’m looking for fwb I tend to think it means a bit more than nsa as in cinema, meals out etc nsa I describe as bedroom only can I please have some clarification TIA"

I still dont get people that think having a fuckbuddy should mean regular meets every week...If I want more than nsa that's fine..no commitments etc...and reasonably thinking a friend with benefits can be the same..a night out/night in...but still with no commitments.

I think some end up confusing things of a sorta poly nature..then get disappointed/jealous/judgemental.

I tend not to go checking my past or future meets escapades..just out of a itsnoneofmyfuckingbusiness outlook.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear.

Ha ha I do but men still misread i not interested in commitment but they tend to see it as I am

That's their problem, not yours. Well, except it's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me FWB is doing more than just sex so going out for meals/ dates etc visiting clubs together

A FB is someone you see for just sex but can still have the messaging, flirting, and meet semi regularly/ play more than once.

Nsa would be a one off no correspondence - something I'm not personally interested in.

I like the first two options or a mix between the 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear.

Ha ha I do but men still misread i not interested in commitment but they tend to see it as I am

That's their problem, not yours. Well, except it's annoying. "

Lol very, they say men and women can’t be just friends. I see myself as very independent but be nice just to go to cinema or sumat and then back for sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To me FWB is doing more than just sex so going out for meals/ dates etc visiting clubs together

A FB is someone you see for just sex but can still have the messaging, flirting, and meet semi regularly/ play more than once.

Nsa would be a one off no correspondence - something I'm not personally interested in.

I like the first two options or a mix between the 2. "

I have a FB he is great been for years we both know it’s just sex.

Would like to explore with a fwb

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'd say you have it about right.

NSA to us has always been "just sex", a random hook-up, with no expectations of anything other than a horny play.

FWB on the other hand has that special word "friend(s)", so it's something more...special I suppose, but still with the freedom of a "non-relationship" tag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd say you have it about right.

NSA to us has always been "just sex", a random hook-up, with no expectations of anything other than a horny play.

FWB on the other hand has that special word "friend(s)", so it's something more...special I suppose, but still with the freedom of a "non-relationship" tag."

That’s cool as I thought I’m not far off the mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good friends are hide to find....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good friends are hide to find...."

Compatible ones sure are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good friends are hide to find....

Compatible ones sure are

so...about that visit to the national stamp collection exhibition...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's flexible to some extent, based on your I on-going needs, availability, relationship status with others etc. I've had them several years long, with them morphing over time.

We just use terms that we like and then set the relationship on fire, seeing where the passion goes but without much commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you have it about right.

NSA to us has always been "just sex", a random hook-up, with no expectations of anything other than a horny play.

FWB on the other hand has that special word "friend(s)", so it's something more...special I suppose, but still with the freedom of a "non-relationship" tag."

Yes this.

I've found that some men say they want fwb (to get a fuck) but just want nsa. Lies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good friends are hide to find....

Compatible ones sure are

so...about that visit to the national stamp collection exhibition..."

Haha there’s better places in Glasgow me thinks but the train service is shite now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good friends are hide to find....

Compatible ones sure are

so...about that visit to the national stamp collection exhibition...

Haha there’s better places in Glasgow me thinks but the train service is shite now

haha..yeah..I took the bus last time I was through a few weeks ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear. "
this - my expectations are high but my hopes are fading....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s exactly what I say it is. But most are after nsa but try and dress it up as something else, makes it hard going!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear. "

This

I joined Fab to find a fwb, but in all of my initial conversations, it became very clear that everyone's definition is different. Took time to find the right connection.

Communicating your expectations is important, but be aware that some might tell you what you want to hear just to meet you, so you might find yourself having a few one-offs or just becoming someone's fuck buddy along the way. Ask guys you are chatting with to tell you what they are looking for in a fwb first. Harder to bluff if you don't know what the other person's expectations are.

Whatever it is you are looking for, I hope you find it OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure there's any definitive definition. It's what you make of it. I think all you can do is make your desires clear.

This

I joined Fab to find a fwb, but in all of my initial conversations, it became very clear that everyone's definition is different. Took time to find the right connection.

Whatever it is you are looking for, I hope you find it OP

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Is this No Sex Allowed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmmm wonder if it’s worth looking into there’s mibby a FWB site or will it just turn NSA again

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If you have ever had a great FWB relationship you would certainly know the difference.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just to add something else. I was recently talking to a lady on here. Her profile said she was looking for a FWB. Her profile then went on to say she wanted to meet up two to three times a week. To me that’s a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have ever had a great FWB relationship you would certainly know the difference. "

All ears as to where you get one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just to add something else. I was recently talking to a lady on here. Her profile said she was looking for a FWB. Her profile then went on to say she wanted to meet up two to three times a week. To me that’s a relationship. "

A commitment indeed

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