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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34)" I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. | |||
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"Save a Virgin! Do me instead "Love it ?? Molly XX | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag" I can only promise it's true. I can't pretend to explain it. Noone has ever really been interested. I mainly joined just to see if it could help and yes, thought someone might be up for it if it was advertised as such. | |||
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"If i was a virgin i wouldn't be on a sex site looking for a meaningless shag with any tom, dick or harry..or all three! I just think you're on the wrong site op" Quite possibly tbf. | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag" on the money there if there were like 18 etc it would be more believable. Any normal guy would of caved in an got a brass before 35. | |||
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"I’m 26 still got mine V "Glad I'm not alone! | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag I can only promise it's true. I can't pretend to explain it. Noone has ever really been interested. I mainly joined just to see if it could help and yes, thought someone might be up for it if it was advertised as such. " I for one believe this guy, he has a kind face. | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag on the money there if there were like 18 etc it would be more believable. Any normal guy would of caved in an got a brass before 35."I'm a stubborn git! might have accidentally turned it into a complex/phobia though!!! | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag I can only promise it's true. I can't pretend to explain it. Noone has ever really been interested. I mainly joined just to see if it could help and yes, thought someone might be up for it if it was advertised as such. I for one believe this guy, he has a kind face. " Didn't know my face was on here! | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. " Rock and a hard place I'm in! | |||
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"Sorry op but I really can't see putting a thread up about it helping you 1 little bit." Also a fair point! | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag" My thoughts exactly | |||
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"OK so having been in redditch and seeing the high rates of teenage pregnancy I'm quite surprised by this. Personally I don't think I would meet a Virgin on a site like this as prefer a more dominant and experienced guy " It's a bit better these days lol. TBF a d*unken shag from the local nightclub is as much anathema as a hooker to me for my first time! Not looking for a relationship necessarily either - just someone who is mutually attracted and wants to have some fun times! | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in!" Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh  | |||
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"I’m 26 still got mine V "Your verifications say otherwise | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag My thoughts exactly " Not looking for pity lol. I'm not that naïve that I think pity sex is either possible, probable, or something to want! | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh "Well....in a perfect world but I think I've rather taken things a little bit too far in trying to make that happen!!!! | |||
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"Sorry op but I really can't see putting a thread up about it helping you 1 little bit." It's not the first time he's made a point of it. | |||
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"Sorry op but I really can't see putting a thread up about it helping you 1 little bit. It's not the first time he's made a point of it." It's not the first time you have decided to make an unhelpful and irrelevant comment either. | |||
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"Sorry op but I really can't see putting a thread up about it helping you 1 little bit. It's not the first time he's made a point of it. It's not the first time you have decided to make an unhelpful and irrelevant comment either. " Your unhelpful and irrelevant is somebody elses helpful and relevant. | |||
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"I dont get the point of this post...its a bit of a carcrash as far as i can see. No offence... " Well - it was an attempt to see if people would advise lying on my profile or if being honest is better! Being honest seems to be the vote but it also seems to mean no one will be interested. Meaning probably not the best place for me to look for sex! Though many others are looking for FWB so I'm not wanting to give up entirely... | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag" Give him another 5 years and they could make a film about him | |||
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"Sorry op but I really can't see putting a thread up about it helping you 1 little bit. It's not the first time he's made a point of it. It's not the first time you have decided to make an unhelpful and irrelevant comment either. Your unhelpful and irrelevant is somebody elses helpful and relevant." If you would like to demonstrate how your sarcastic comment was useful to anyone in the thread then great. Otherwise I don't see why you would want to read/comment when you made your opinion perfectly clear already | |||
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"I’m 26 still got mine V
Your verifications say otherwise "Doesn't say anywhere on veris about fucking? Looks like social and soft play the way I read them. | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in!" Ya your looking for somewhere much softer... then your in | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh "Tbh not everyone loses their virginity to someome special.. I'd prefer to have lost mine to someone on Fab that I had connected with than the random girl I did | |||
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"! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh
Tbh not everyone loses their virginity to someome special.. I'd prefer to have lost mine to someone on Fab that I had connected with than the random girl I did" | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh
Tbh not everyone loses their virginity to someome special.. I'd prefer to have lost mine to someone on Fab that I had connected with than the random girl I did"
Connection is exactly what I'm after and value and someone said the people on here were open and interesting and seemed worth a look | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh
Tbh not everyone loses their virginity to someome special.. I'd prefer to have lost mine to someone on Fab that I had connected with than the random girl I did
Connection is exactly what I'm after and value and someone said the people on here were open and interesting and seemed worth a look"if someone advised to you to come on here as a Virgin then I'm sorry but they are taking the piss. Like walking into the lions den! | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh
Tbh not everyone loses their virginity to someome special.. I'd prefer to have lost mine to someone on Fab that I had connected with than the random girl I did
Connection is exactly what I'm after and value and someone said the people on here were open and interesting and seemed worth a look if someone advised to you to come on here as a Virgin then I'm sorry but they are taking the piss. Like walking into the lions den!"Well smear me in bbq sauce  | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34) I wouldn’t sleep with a virgin. I also wouldn’t like it if I slept with someone and afterwords they told me they had been a virgin. Rock and a hard place I'm in! Hmmm I for one reckon your first time should be special and mean something. Meh
Tbh not everyone loses their virginity to someome special.. I'd prefer to have lost mine to someone on Fab that I had connected with than the random girl I did
Connection is exactly what I'm after and value and someone said the people on here were open and interesting and seemed worth a look if someone advised to you to come on here as a Virgin then I'm sorry but they are taking the piss. Like walking into the lions den!"literally EVERYONE says that sort of thing - in real life too. People don't set you up or introduce friends as "theyd eat you alive" . It's pretty damn patronising in some ways! I'm not made of paper mache! | |||
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"Sorry op but I really can't see putting a thread up about it helping you 1 little bit. It's not the first time he's made a point of it. It's not the first time you have decided to make an unhelpful and irrelevant comment either. Your unhelpful and irrelevant is somebody elses helpful and relevant. If you would like to demonstrate how your sarcastic comment was useful to anyone in the thread then great. Otherwise I don't see why you would want to read/comment when you made your opinion perfectly clear already" It was a factual comment rather than a sarcastic one and anyone can verify that via your green arrow. What you see has no relation to what I read or comment on, that would be verging on the ridiculous. | |||
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"Can I ask why you waited and why you decided to start looking now? " Long story really but short version is quite ridiculous in that found it hard to move on from someone i developed feelings for who ended up being a good friend for about 12 years and after she completely revealed herself to be utterly awful last year it cured me! I haven't been turning people away but no one has ever been interested really - im outgoing, confident, etc... but didn't want a d*unken one night stand and most women i meet seem to already be with people... | |||
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"Can I ask why you waited and why you decided to start looking now? Long story really but short version is quite ridiculous in that found it hard to move on from someone i developed feelings for who ended up being a good friend for about 12 years and after she completely revealed herself to be utterly awful last year it cured me! I haven't been turning people away but no one has ever been interested really - im outgoing, confident, etc... but didn't want a d*unken one night stand and most women i meet seem to already be with people..." So why choose fab? Are you only looking for NSA or do you want a relationship? | |||
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""It's not the first time he's made a point of it." I'm not sure what you are getting at - I posted one thread in the "new profile" section and asked for advice. This thread is more about people's views on being honest about this part of who I am. If you have nothing to contribute then please feel free to stop commenting." I have plenty to contribute on a swinging site and I'll comment when and where I like thanks. | |||
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"So - as you might see from my profile name this is my issue! I know it's a put off for most so I'm considering changing my name and profile info to exclude any mention of it! What are people's thoughts?! Also - as a more general poll - how many people would choose not to sleep with someone they knew was a virgin, even if they were similar in age? (for example im 34)" 34 is a little old to be a virgin can you tell us why? | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag" I'm exactly the same! Why the hell would a virgin join a swingers site? It is beyond my comprehension therefore I do not believe it nor understand if true | |||
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""It's not the first time he's made a point of it." I'm not sure what you are getting at - I posted one thread in the "new profile" section and asked for advice. This thread is more about people's views on being honest about this part of who I am. If you have nothing to contribute then please feel free to stop commenting. I have plenty to contribute on a swinging site and I'll comment when and where I like thanks." you have contributed nothing at all to this thread. | |||
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"one of my fantasys, to take a guys virginity. would have to be a young guy though. xx "how much younger?!! | |||
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"one of my fantasys, to take a guys virginity. would have to be a young guy though. xx "he's 10 years at least younger than you | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag I'm exactly the same! Why the hell would a virgin join a swingers site? It is beyond my comprehension therefore I do not believe it nor understand if true "Ive had a few PM's from people who were virgins when they joined so obv im not alone. thankfully! The reason for joining is entirely self explanatory surely?! | |||
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Jokes aside, I don’t think there are many people who would find a virgin appealing sadly, you’re probably better off on a dating site and telling people when you get to know them, rather than on here.
I am shocked that someone of your age would be a virgin, rare I’d say but not impossible!
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"one of my fantasys, to take a guys virginity. would have to be a young guy though. xx he's 10 years at least younger than you "I think 9or10 from looking at her profile....im guessing she means 19/20!? | |||
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"I’d ride you Mr Virgin... But only if you weren’t a virgin!
Jokes aside, I don’t think there are many people who would find a virgin appealing sadly, you’re probably better off on a dating site and telling people when you get to know them, rather than on here.
I am shocked that someone of your age would be a virgin, rare I’d say but not impossible!
Hope it works out! "Thanks
Dating sites im also on - but the pressure that goes along with that is something im not really looking for at present so though what the hey id give this a go!
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"one of my fantasys, to take a guys virginity. would have to be a young guy though. xx he's 10 years at least younger than you
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"one of my fantasys, to take a guys virginity. would have to be a young guy though. xx he's 10 years at least younger than you
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""It's not the first time he's made a point of it." I'm not sure what you are getting at - I posted one thread in the "new profile" section and asked for advice. This thread is more about people's views on being honest about this part of who I am. If you have nothing to contribute then please feel free to stop commenting. I have plenty to contribute on a swinging site and I'll comment when and where I like thanks. you have contributed nothing at all to this thread. " I think you need to get laid hero. | |||
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"No. It's far too creepy. But I'm old lol Imagining your first time to be "special " is in fantasy world - get it over with OP so you can start discovering what you really like. Best of luck x" but that would mean finding someone WILLING to sleep with me lol. Which is the problem im having!!!  | |||
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""It's not the first time he's made a point of it." I'm not sure what you are getting at - I posted one thread in the "new profile" section and asked for advice. This thread is more about people's views on being honest about this part of who I am. If you have nothing to contribute then please feel free to stop commenting. I have plenty to contribute on a swinging site and I'll comment when and where I like thanks. you have contributed nothing at all to this thread. I think you need to get laid hero." *slowly claps hands* | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag I'm exactly the same! Why the hell would a virgin join a swingers site? It is beyond my comprehension therefore I do not believe it nor understand if true
Ive had a few PM's from people who were virgins when they joined so obv im not alone. thankfully!
The reason for joining is entirely self explanatory surely?!"Not really to be honest, though I will admit my first time wasn't all that special either, maybe why I think differently now? But can you understand why a female my age would be sceptical at your claim? And follow through with the shallow part, you do have a decent body, Did you hold out on having sex for a specific reason? | |||
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"I’d ride you Mr Virgin... But only if you weren’t a virgin!
Jokes aside, I don’t think there are many people who would find a virgin appealing sadly, you’re probably better off on a dating site and telling people when you get to know them, rather than on here.
I am shocked that someone of your age would be a virgin, rare I’d say but not impossible!
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Apparently im in the 1% of 35+ who are virgins still. if you wanted the stats!"Ah I understand! 1% wow! Very rare then! I believe you are as I can’t see the positives of lying about it. Either way I’m sure you’ll find someone eventually and I hope you have fun! | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag I'm exactly the same! Why the hell would a virgin join a swingers site? It is beyond my comprehension therefore I do not believe it nor understand if true
Ive had a few PM's from people who were virgins when they joined so obv im not alone. thankfully!
The reason for joining is entirely self explanatory surely?!
Not really to be honest, though I will admit my first time wasn't all that special either, maybe why I think differently now?
But can you understand why a female my age would be sceptical at your claim?
And follow through with the shallow part, you do have a decent body, Did you hold out on having sex for a specific reason? "I absolutely understand scepticism about it. I haven't held out so much as just not had any offers - seriously. Other than a few d*unken fumbles in night clubs no one has been keen! which is probably what worries people and puts them off - vicious circle! | |||
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"I'd not deselect someone just because they were a virgin. But I do wonder if fab is the right place for guys like you, in part because it's so tough for all single men. If you see it as right, then just remain honest, as you are. Potentially promote meets with saying this, so you filter out the wrong people. I encourage all men not to rely on fab for 100% of their sexual outlet - perhaps you could be the same op. " Thanks Sophie. Rest assured im pimping myself out everywhere and not just relying on Fab!!! | |||
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"Also lose it with someone you like and who likes you, as sex can become extremely addictive once you have it (or haven't in my case) for quite a while
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag I'm exactly the same! Why the hell would a virgin join a swingers site? It is beyond my comprehension therefore I do not believe it nor understand if true
Ive had a few PM's from people who were virgins when they joined so obv im not alone. thankfully!
The reason for joining is entirely self explanatory surely?!
Not really to be honest, though I will admit my first time wasn't all that special either, maybe why I think differently now?
But can you understand why a female my age would be sceptical at your claim?
And follow through with the shallow part, you do have a decent body, Did you hold out on having sex for a specific reason?
I absolutely understand scepticism about it. I haven't held out so much as just not had any offers - seriously. Other than a few d*unken fumbles in night clubs no one has been keen! which is probably what worries people and puts them off - vicious circle!"But why do you think that is, if you haven't held out for any specific reason? I'm not saying women are easy, but you must have had girlfriends over the years? Have you? Is that not the natural progression? Or am I overly simplifying things? Sorry for soo many questions but I honestly don't understand it  | |||
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"No. It's far too creepy. But I'm old lol Imagining your first time to be "special " is in fantasy world - get it over with OP so you can start discovering what you really like. Best of luck x" Kinda thinking the same. It doesn't need to be special unless you have a vision of staying with that one person forever. Just go have some fun! X | |||
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"Also lose it with someone you like and who likes you, as sex can become extremely addictive once you have it (or haven't in my case) for quite a while
Currently looking for someone myself, so I do know the feeling
Foxy - that's my plan! Why have you been waiting so long?!"I've been 18 months without, partly because of stress levels and partly because I can't find a man who I am attracted to and want to get naked with, and who is also respectful of women, my area is drenched in men 'who want their balls drained now!' or think the women on here are just to be used, not an attractive trait in the slightest but I do wish you the best of luck | |||
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"Mate stick yourself on one of those swipey dating apps. That's what people use them for. " Ive had about 5 matches in 3 years on Tinder! | |||
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"No. It's far too creepy. But I'm old lol Imagining your first time to be "special " is in fantasy world - get it over with OP so you can start discovering what you really like. Best of luck x Kinda thinking the same. It doesn't need to be special unless you have a vision of staying with that one person forever. Just go have some fun! X" Id love to but first i need to find someone who wants to have some fun!!! | |||
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"Also lose it with someone you like and who likes you, as sex can become extremely addictive once you have it (or haven't in my case) for quite a while
Currently looking for someone myself, so I do know the feeling
Foxy - that's my plan! Why have you been waiting so long?!
I've been 18 months without, partly because of stress levels and partly because I can't find a man who I am attracted to and want to get naked with, and who is also respectful of women, my area is drenched in men 'who want their balls drained now!' or think the women on here are just to be used, not an attractive trait in the slightest but I do wish you the best of luck "thanks. And to you. x | |||
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"Mate stick yourself on one of those swipey dating apps. That's what people use them for. Ive had about 5 matches in 3 years on Tinder!" You’re a good looking lad, I’m sure that’s not the case | |||
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"I struggle to believe a 35 year old is a virgin, I don't believe someone that she would decide to join fab. Call me a pessimist but I think this is one of those things that someone thought that by calling themselves a virgin, they thought someone may take pity and would guarantee a shag" Have you not seen 40 years old virgin. | |||
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"If i was a virgin i wouldn't be on a sex site looking for a meaningless shag with any tom, dick or harry..or all three! I just think you're on the wrong site op" Hey!!!! Leave me out of this | |||
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"Mate stick yourself on one of those swipey dating apps. That's what people use them for. Ive had about 5 matches in 3 years on Tinder! You’re a good looking lad, I’m sure that’s not the case" Must be my face!! I swipe right on everyone just to play the numbers game! then found out recently this tactic effects how they show you to others as it looks like you're a spambot!!! | |||
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"Got to be the most fake profile on here unless he has spent the last 15 years in jail." I'm in the 1%. Not sure how I can convince you or if i should try but there it is | |||
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"Got to be the most fake profile on here unless he has spent the last 15 years in jail." Doesn’t seem it to me. He has actually put some effort into his profile unlike the one liner profiles and 26 cock pics, so I’m getting the vibe he’s pretty genuine. Besides I can’t see what any man would gain out of claiming to be a virgin, I don’t think many women see virgins as appealing as some men do. | |||
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"Got to be the most fake profile on here unless he has spent the last 15 years in jail. Doesn’t seem it to me. He has actually put some effort into his profile unlike the one liner profiles and 26 cock pics, so I’m getting the vibe he’s pretty genuine. Besides I can’t see what any man would gain out of claiming to be a virgin, I don’t think many women see virgins as appealing as some men do. " I am with you on that one! | |||
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"Got to be the most fake profile on here unless he has spent the last 15 years in jail. Doesn’t seem it to me. He has actually put some effort into his profile unlike the one liner profiles and 26 cock pics, so I’m getting the vibe he’s pretty genuine. Besides I can’t see what any man would gain out of claiming to be a virgin, I don’t think many women see virgins as appealing as some men do. " | |||
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"Got to be the most fake profile on here unless he has spent the last 15 years in jail. Doesn’t seem it to me. He has actually put some effort into his profile unlike the one liner profiles and 26 cock pics, so I’m getting the vibe he’s pretty genuine. Besides I can’t see what any man would gain out of claiming to be a virgin, I don’t think many women see virgins as appealing as some men do. " I don't find virgins appealing in my early 20s I slept with around 9 virgins and it was some of the worst sex ever what a waste of time give me an experience lady any day of the week. | |||
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