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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies do you like to be in control or do you like the man to be in control

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladies do you like to be in control or do you like the man to be in control"

Mrs c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Both depending on the night

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I like an equal dynamic - I don't mind one person (m or f) being in control at one particular point but the switch is fun. And neither being is also.

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By *siancouple4femCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

He likes me to be in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either.

But to let woman tie me up or do somethings I gotta trust her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mutual "

Me too I like us both to have fun. I had a bloke message me earlier saying he wanted me to make him my bitch.

Uhm no ta ta blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately I prefer a guy to be in control depending on the scenario. I like to be dominated and prefer a manly man but I do like to tease and challenge as well to make him up his game.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swap and change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like him to be in control x

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Depends of What I fancy and who I'm playing with

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It definitely depends on who it is.

For me, I meet someone, I instinctively box them up as a sexual plaything and designate their role in my mind.

Saves time if we ever meet up again later in more conducive circumstances

Lex

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like a man to be in control to begin with. Then I like to change it up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but slightly more in favour of me being the dominant one

Jo.Xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends who I'm with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s 34 years since I was with a woman who took control and even then it was only the first time with her. She came round to my house when I was a student. I was just in my dressing gown. We had a cup of tea together and I went upstairs for a bath to get cleaned up. Next thing she was in the bathroom stripping off and she fucked me in the bath. Ever since I’ve not had a woman take charge much as I would love that to happen, it never has..... Even she letft it to me to take the lead from then on.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Do you mean in charge of the remote control?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 100% love the man to be in control when i have a meet , im submissive so more controlled the better lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s 34 years since I was with a woman who took control and even then it was only the first time with her. She came round to my house when I was a student. I was just in my dressing gown. We had a cup of tea together and I went upstairs for a bath to get cleaned up. Next thing she was in the bathroom stripping off and she fucked me in the bath. Ever since I’ve not had a woman take charge much as I would love that to happen, it never has..... Even she letft it to me to take the lead from then on. "

Well that's not exactly what i would class as being in control tbh.

I could certainly teach you thing or 2

Mrs

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Him mostly

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Both

We like to switch things up. But it's instinctive rather than a conscious decision. We've always been able to read each other pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both.

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

I like women to be in control

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By *nestWoman
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Ladies do you like to be in control or do you like the man to be in control"

Most definitely do not want to be in control. Two reasons. I do a job where I have to be in charge all the time, it’s exhausting and I have no confidence in the bedroom so not being in charge limits the potential for me to get it wrong

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By *nestWoman
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Do you mean in charge of the remote control?"

Tv remote control or the remote control vibrator?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dominant men

But Iv also got a thing for pegging

Yet to find one man that covers all areas

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"I love dominant men

But Iv also got a thing for pegging

Yet to find one man that covers all areas"

Peg my ass NOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love dominant men

But Iv also got a thing for pegging

Yet to find one man that covers all areas

Peg my ass NOW"

Awfy demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both depending on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s 34 years since I was with a woman who took control and even then it was only the first time with her. She came round to my house when I was a student. I was just in my dressing gown. We had a cup of tea together and I went upstairs for a bath to get cleaned up. Next thing she was in the bathroom stripping off and she fucked me in the bath. Ever since I’ve not had a woman take charge much as I would love that to happen, it never has..... Even she letft it to me to take the lead from then on.

Well that's not exactly what i would class as being in control tbh.

I could certainly teach you thing or 2

Mrs"

Exactly it wasn’t control it was just being proactive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both. If I had to choose it would be me though

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"I love dominant men

But Iv also got a thing for pegging

Yet to find one man that covers all areas

Peg my ass NOW

Awfy demanding "

You can do me next x

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

A little to and fro helps with a lot of bump and grind

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