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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ladies and men what are your tips for trying anal? I've had butt plugs inside me before and and had anal sex many moons ago. Tried anal the other night but the pain was unreal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube lube and more lube.

And take control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and use lots of lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take things slow and plenty of lube.

And let him know when it’s not comfortable for you.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Lot and lots of lube.

Maybe tingling lube.

Relax. Laying on your side can be easier than say doggy.

Use a plug first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off with a penis the size of a tic tac, then work your way up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start off with a penis the size of a tic tac, then work your way up. "

Almost spit my drink out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is the key, and plenty of it. Build yourself up to it. And if done properly, will feel amazing for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get love beads to help you out... A little at a time and slowly slowly

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

A dodgy curry a few hours before. The pain will be the least of your worries.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Honestly? Find someone you trust. Get d*unk. Works for me

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"A dodgy curry a few hours before. The pain will be the least of your worries."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly? Find someone you trust. Get d*unk. Works for me

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I suppose drink can help you relax

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Lube, relax, lube, get comfy, lube and start with finger, small plug, anal beads or small vibe first until you get used to it.. oh and plenty of lube

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As others have said, foreplay, lube, relaxation, someone you trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off with a penis the size of a tic tac, then work your way up. "

Brilliant!! And true!

Lube. Lube. Lube. And someone who knows what they are doing. And a physical sign that you want to stop - eg holding your hand up or similar. It's not always easy to speak when things are happening

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Definitely plenty of lube

Definitely with someone you trust

Always seems to work best if I've given the woman an orgasm or two beforehand, so she's fully relaxed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start off with a penis the size of a tic tac, then work your way up.

Brilliant!! And true!

Lube. Lube. Lube. And someone who knows what they are doing. And a physical sign that you want to stop - eg holding your hand up or similar. It's not always easy to speak when things are happening "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, lube, lube, lube. If you think you've used enough, you haven't.

As far as exercises to help, plugs, toys, fingers are all good, as is taking it veeeery slowly...

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I think it's best to be in control yourself, pushing back when it feels good, then you can stop if it gets a bit sore, control your breathing and continue to push back when it passes.As it's not just the butt hole you have to get through there's tight areas inside too that need easing through. Once you've got the full length in, he can take over and both enjoy. Being squeaky clean inside helps with relaxing too as your not worried about accidents.

So things you both need are patience ,lube relaxed atmosphere ,lube, trust and lube x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you trust 100%, relax. Maybe douche if it makes you relax more. I use this stuff called analyse that you put on and wipe back off it just helps you stretch easier. I'm quite new to anal but I managed well with my FWB who I had at the time who was rather girthy. I trusted him and he went slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and silicone lube- I like liquid silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you trust not to wack it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it’s been said but plenty of lube

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By *ordon89Man
over a year ago

London


"I think it's best to be in control yourself, pushing back when it feels good, then you can stop if it gets a bit sore, control your breathing and continue to push back when it passes.As it's not just the butt hole you have to get through there's tight areas inside too that need easing through. Once you've got the full length in, he can take over and both enjoy. Being squeaky clean inside helps with relaxing too as your not worried about accidents.

So things you both need are patience ,lube relaxed atmosphere ,lube, trust and lube x "

What’s the method to get squeaky clean inside?

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I think it's best to be in control yourself, pushing back when it feels good, then you can stop if it gets a bit sore, control your breathing and continue to push back when it passes.As it's not just the butt hole you have to get through there's tight areas inside too that need easing through. Once you've got the full length in, he can take over and both enjoy. Being squeaky clean inside helps with relaxing too as your not worried about accidents.

So things you both need are patience ,lube relaxed atmosphere ,lube, trust and lube x

What’s the method to get squeaky clean inside? "

Bulb douche or similar, really simple but effective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ladies and men what are your tips for trying anal? I've had butt plugs inside me before and and had anal sex many moons ago. Tried anal the other night but the pain was unreal. "

I use a butt plug first and get the man to pull the plug in and out...get him used to the pace that is comfortable for me.

When you actually have anal does the man start thrusting straight away? Because this could be where your pain is coming from.

I cannot let a man start moving straight away. I need the spasms to settle down first which takes about a minute or two. So I will have him fully insert and then wait a minute then get him to move slowly to see if I am ready, if not, stop again and wait a minute and then start moving again.

Usually only takes stopping twice to have the pain settle down and then the feeling is lovely.

Important to relax the muscles completely which is not really possible if your in pain so it is a non starter for me unless the pain goes before we get going.

Sorry if that was too much detail.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's best to be in control yourself, pushing back when it feels good, then you can stop if it gets a bit sore, control your breathing and continue to push back when it passes.As it's not just the butt hole you have to get through there's tight areas inside too that need easing through. Once you've got the full length in, he can take over and both enjoy. Being squeaky clean inside helps with relaxing too as your not worried about accidents.

So things you both need are patience ,lube relaxed atmosphere ,lube, trust and lube x "

Good points

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Get on top of him, then you take control of the insertion, obviously plenty of lube and if you want aromas to relax your muscles down below.

Agree with everything else, fingers and dildos etc..if done right it’s amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche

Loads of lube

Orgasm first

Spooning to start and control how fast/deep

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I was wondering what vegetable or object in the house best simulates a penis for trying anal.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I have a glass dildo that slides in nicely when I'm in the bath and I would love to get fingered one day or try a Ts cock would be my ultimate fantasy

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Most of the above suggestions plus a vibe or a wand on your clit as he enters you can help to take your mind off the stinging sensation. That doesn't last long btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mobile 1 engine oil 0w-40 5L bottle.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I was wondering what vegetable or object in the house best simulates a penis for trying anal."

Only a cock feels like a cock

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By *ent_man420Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I was wondering what vegetable or object in the house best simulates a penis for trying anal.

Only a cock feels like a cock "

My girlfriend was saying a cock would be easier in my arse than her strap on

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By *opsytovyMan
over a year ago

coventry

Plenty of spit and bite down on the pillow or grip the bed frame, Failing that lube. :-/

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