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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been on Fab a while now and recently I'm beginning to notice a trend of profiles that talk to you for 4 messages then go dark.

I have known other site admins to create profiles to keep people interested.

Can anyone else say they have experienced this?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Nope. Maybe you are saying something to them to put them off after 4 messages.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sometimes conversations just fizzle out if there's no chemistry. It doesn't mean they're fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. Maybe you are saying something to them to put them off after 4 messages. "

This is how my opening messages seem to go.

Hi how are you? You got much planned they reply

Oh that's sounds good so you been on here long

They reply

Oh fair enough I'm doing this and that

They reply

Oh ok fair enough so what would I like to know about me ?

Darkness!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Maybe you are saying something to them to put them off after 4 messages.

This is how my opening messages seem to go.

Hi how are you? You got much planned they reply

Oh that's sounds good so you been on here long

They reply

Oh fair enough I'm doing this and that

They reply

Oh ok fair enough so what would I like to know about me ?

Darkness!!!"

Don't ask them what thed like to know about you. You should be interesting enough to tell them what they will like about you. Or go in to what your looking for. And see if it collates with how they want there fab experience to be

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Just look for minimal pics been here a long while with no verifications I think these are always a give away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look for minimal pics been here a long while with no verifications I think these are always a give away "

Unless there cheating and don't want the attention per say. Like I found and was surprised to find. She kept no public pics. Wouldn't let anyone Veri her. And she was beautiful

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Nope. Maybe you are saying something to them to put them off after 4 messages.

This is how my opening messages seem to go.

Hi how are you? You got much planned they reply

Oh that's sounds good so you been on here long

They reply

Oh fair enough I'm doing this and that

They reply

Oh ok fair enough so what would I like to know about me ?

Darkness!!!"

I'd find that a bit like pulling teeth and would probably disengage too. Tell them what you like, in general or about them, sell yourself to them. Don't ask generic questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is absolutely no need for fab to make fake profiles.

Who exactly are they keeping interested?

It’s just bored lowlifes with nothing else to do who make them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are just not that into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they are just not that into you"

#impossible

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"There is absolutely no need for fab to make fake profiles.

Who exactly are they keeping interested?

It’s just bored lowlifes with nothing else to do who make them "

There maybe no need , there maybe need I don't know ?

Wondering how , a you know their needs, and b how you may or may not know fab absolutely do not make fake profiles

One thing is certain

Profiles that are most certainly not genuine exist and are made daily , some are for other websites , some are for escorts , some are men , some are teenagers , some are ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is absolutely no need for fab to make fake profiles.

Who exactly are they keeping interested?

It’s just bored lowlifes with nothing else to do who make them "

Or incredibly shy people who quickly find themselves out of depth so back away?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"There is absolutely no need for fab to make fake profiles.

Who exactly are they keeping interested?

It’s just bored lowlifes with nothing else to do who make them

Or incredibly shy people who quickly find themselves out of depth so back away?"

Some of The ones I've encountered are anything but shy, many are exceptionally articulate , almost so good one could mistake their competence for professionalism x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is absolutely no need for fab to make fake profiles.

Who exactly are they keeping interested?

It’s just bored lowlifes with nothing else to do who make them

Or incredibly shy people who quickly find themselves out of depth so back away?

Some of The ones I've encountered are anything but shy, many are exceptionally articulate , almost so good one could mistake their competence for professionalism x

"

Being shy and articulate or professional are not incompatible traits you know.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes it can be overwhelming with too many conversations on the go, too. I say as a somewhat shy person.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"There is absolutely no need for fab to make fake profiles.

Who exactly are they keeping interested?

It’s just bored lowlifes with nothing else to do who make them

Or incredibly shy people who quickly find themselves out of depth so back away?

Some of The ones I've encountered are anything but shy, many are exceptionally articulate , almost so good one could mistake their competence for professionalism x

Being shy and articulate or professional are not incompatible traits you know. "

You may have mis interpreted professional xxx , they have been articulate and very self assured x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Nope. Maybe you are saying something to them to put them off after 4 messages.

This is how my opening messages seem to go.

Hi how are you? You got much planned they reply

Oh that's sounds good so you been on here long

They reply

Oh fair enough I'm doing this and that

They reply

Oh ok fair enough so what would I like to know about me ?

Darkness!!!"

Conversation should flow. Sounds like you are reading from a script. I'd delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Maybe you are saying something to them to put them off after 4 messages.

This is how my opening messages seem to go.

Hi how are you? You got much planned they reply

Oh that's sounds good so you been on here long

They reply

Oh fair enough I'm doing this and that

They reply

Oh ok fair enough so what would I like to know about me ?

Darkness!!!"

Sorry to sound a bit harsh, but it sounds like you are getting polite replies with no real interest, that eventually stopped replying insyead of telling you they are not interested.

Just a tip if you can say exactly what each conversation looks like its not great conversation.

Pop a mail or two to someone on the forums whose comments you like or would like to respectfully disagree with, or in response to someones status update might get the chat flowing more organically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generic messages are poor. Guys write a message, then the message is copied and pasted it in a million different messages that they're sending to any girl that shows up on their match list or ant girl who's online

I understand that people get frustrated with writing unique messages for each person and never getting a reply, copy and paste messages are no better.

We are all strangers on here, that doesn't mean that people are fake

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By *rant4Man
over a year ago

South Wales & London

Have found loads of fakes recently. Most recent was a lady who added me on kik and I asked to cam. They said the camera on front of their phone is not working (Fair enough). So I said use the one on the back. She said it doesn't have one on the back? Come on get a better excuse than that. Then they closed the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes conversations just fizzle out if there's no chemistry. It doesn't mean they're fake. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm fake as I've no verifications from other site users....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worse question any can ask me is what would you like to know about me.

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