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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

I wouldnt do a FF phone call. Does that make us fake?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

nope... you get out what you put in... and if you have your own checks and balances in place you can make this site work for you.....

the site is just one part of a bigger jigsaw.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think the fakes are in the minority and the pic collectors are very easy to spot, so on the whole I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

It’s definitely not what it was from what I’ve heard and definitely different to what I expected. It’s not really just a ‘swinging’ site anymore sadly.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

No not at all.

I think you're just being unlucky.

Dick heads are like buses, you wait for hours then 12 turn up at once.

Log off have a cuppa maybe a wank or sex, and when you come back it will seem a whole lot more brighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its fantastic iv achieved about 16 firsts this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree also. I’ve had quite a few meets and socials in the last couple of months. I haven’t let anyone down. I had a meet yesterday afternoon. I love this site. Xx

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call

It’s definitely not what it was from what I’ve heard and definitely different to what I expected. It’s not really just a ‘swinging’ site anymore sadly. "
heard the same

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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

All it seems now is people whowant to txt then dissappear lets face it so many profiles on here who are saying one thing then dissappear ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve alao got a couple of socials next week so it’s going well for me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All it seems now is people whowant to txt then dissappear lets face it so many profiles on here who are saying one thing then dissappear ffs"

Think the hard part is finding genuine swingers.

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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

We try the forums etc but so many fakes and people who are stuck up ther own arse its untrue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ladies that are letting you down? X

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"All it seems now is people whowant to txt then dissappear lets face it so many profiles on here who are saying one thing then dissappear ffs"
loads of fake single women, I just search for verified now

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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Were verified but so many time wastrs out there now when we joined it was great now ridiculous

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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"Is it ladies that are letting you down? X"
no couples(well so called couples ) its barmy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a bit outdated to ask for a ff phone call but if it s out the idiots you have to do what works for you

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I wouldn't still be here if I felt like that tbh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it ladies that are letting you down? X no couples(well so called couples ) its barmy"

I can imagine it must be very frustrating. I must have been lucky so far. All the couples I’ve met have been reliable and lovely. X

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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Its crazy now you must have all seen profiles time and again where its obvious they fakes etc ie 18 year old girl here dif profile every week lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

This site works well for me and in 5 years have only been let down a couple of times. Maybe you could improve your selection process?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

What's a FF phone call (rather than just a phone call)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

So they don't want to talk to you they may be fakes they may not like what ever pictures you sent they may just decided you are not for them. They may even have decided they think you are fake who knows one thing is for sure though ranting on here isn't going to get them to meet you.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

We agree

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Op you're probably right -lots of really useful tips for booking hotels, buying caravans and quick fix recipes though

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

Wouldn't say it was a waste of time, but agree with you that 80per cent of the couples who contact me are generally the male half (or a random male) arsing about.

When it comes to arranging a meet they disappear/have to go to work/have a doctor's appointment etc etc.

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By *oozyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I agree totally

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call

Wouldn't say it was a waste of time, but agree with you that 80per cent of the couples who contact me are generally the male half (or a random male) arsing about.

When it comes to arranging a meet they disappear/have to go to work/have a doctor's appointment etc etc.

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I would say that 80% of people being contacted that turn out to be not what they say they are is a waste of time to be fair . And it’s the couples tne op is talking about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a FF phone call (rather than just a phone call)?

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A female to female call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm real and genuine ladies promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree totally "

Will couples not do ff phone calls with you either?

Bloody rude of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

What is a ff phone call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm real and genuine ladies promise "

Everyone says that and you haven’t got any varies dude. Can you see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call

What is a ff phone call"

Sounds like a nasty stutter...

Today's joke in poor taste was brought to you by....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed turned in to a site for fakers very few genuine on here anymore if it's not scorned exes its idiots that have joined hours ago with porn pics waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm real and genuine ladies promise "

Are there any fake male profiles on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm real and genuine ladies promise

Everyone says that and you haven’t got any varies dude. Can you see the problem. "
of course I can see the problem just new to the site which is why I have none not yet actually met anybody from here but I am very real

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Yes there are fakes but it is so easy to avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm real and genuine ladies promise

Everyone says that and you haven’t got any varies dude. Can you see the problem. of course I can see the problem just new to the site which is why I have none not yet actually met anybody from here but I am very real "

Our two comments could go around in circles for days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site has become a dating site with naked pics.....

I swear the amount of messages I get after 10 pm looking to chat drives me nuts....

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We seem to chat to a lot of couples that eventually just go missing, either unlos or they decide to block us and move on to fresh meat. Obviously sometimes you are chatting to only one half of the couple and when the other half have a look then they decide to pull the plug. I would imagine that singles would find less complications.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Undoubtedly there are fakes, often easy to spot, and dreamers who talk a good game but never actually meet- common, harder to spot and deeply frustrating but I get what I want from the site. When I was looking for couples I gave up using the site and relied on clubs instead.

Fwiw I used to hate being asked to do phone calls, if you're chatting to a well verified couple you're putting up a barrier. Unverified it's more understandable but it only tells you a woman knows about the profile and will chat, still not proof its the woman in the pics so it's still a leap of faith when you meet to some degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

if you are after a quick sag from anyone.if that is your thing.its great we could get about 20 to 100 a week .well we would get the shit one liners from them.before we block them. that is great.We swing have been swinging AT clubs for over 12 years.AND THINK ITS SHIT .AND WE HAVE WASTED A LOT OF TIME ON THIS SHIT WHERE PEOPLE JUST DO NOT READ OR JUST SEE WHAT THEY LIKE.NOT THE type of person we would meet.happy swinging to the swingers on the site.happy wanking to the other 99%

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

This site is what you make it, if your not getting the response you like maybe look at your approach.

One thing ive seen time and again is moanimg on the forum gets you nowhere.

Peronsally i love it here, an escape from life with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site has become a dating site with naked pics.....

I swear the amount of messages I get after 10 pm looking to chat drives me nuts...."

Maybe something to do with you being in the USA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fake because I won't chat on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all i think its a great mix of people once you get past the numptys theres some great folks out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

Out of interest, what do you think the solution is ?

If you were admin, what would you change to cut down on the 'fakes' ?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've noticed a lot of comments on this thread about all the new profiles with stolen pics, etc., that turn out to be fakes (and yes, they even appear on the forums)....

Well if you suspect the profiles are fake, wtf are you messaging them for??? Why do people still contact new suspect profiles and waste time chatting to them and asking to meet? Being duped by 1 is grumble-worthy... Being duped by 12 or 13 would seriously have me looking at myself and how I approach this site.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Is it us or does anybody agree this is not a swingers site anymore just full of pic collecters and fakes must be last 12 people we spoke to on here go when we ask for ff phone call "

We have to agree. Looking at some of the posts on here says a lot, reading them we are like wtf?

We build a filter system that tends to sift out idiots, time wasters and dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is great and definitely works. You get out of it what you put in.

OP, Your most verification was a year ago, that would actually make me think that you're not genuine active swingers. Why aren't you getting out there in the swinging scene and being pro active? Instead you're moaning on here which won't do you any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is great and definitely works. You get out of it what you put in.

OP, Your most verification was a year ago, that would actually make me think that you're not genuine active swingers. Why aren't you getting out there in the swinging scene and being pro active? Instead you're moaning on here which won't do you any favours. "

*most recent verification

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I disagree there are loads of genuine people on here. I don’t do phone calls but I am not fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Swingers and Roundabouts”

As has been mentioned you get out what you put in. There are a lot of “talkers” about, but there’s also lots of genuine folk. It’s like fishing, some weekends you’ll pull a blank, whilst others your catch is one for the album!

Mr S

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over a year ago

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