FabSwingers.com forum: Well week 22 and never thought still be at it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol as title says 22 weeks since operation 5 months bloody hell.

Had final meeting with me an hr as planned go back early January. If anything am sick of the meetings every 4-6 weeks with hr and then occy health ain’t fun when wana just rest and recover an every meeting get me stressed an anxious about what may happen or be said.

Have 8 weeks before go back excited but nervous and terrified but know it’s natural as if look back 8 weeks I was still on 2 crutches and had fractured leg still and since I can walk normal without limp now and getting stronger every day.

Haha I know some will be glad when over so I don’t write these posts but oh well lol thanks for the support and love it’s been tough an my mental state tested an broke but getting better especially as now have Christmas to look forward to and enjoy and when go back work be a new year new me haha

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

The meetings are the worse they try and sugarcoat them that they're helping but God knows where they get that idea from

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" The meetings are the worse they try and sugarcoat them that they're helping but God knows where they get that idea from"

It’s not fun I just feel some are supportive and others like occy health who suppose to support are not and make things worse by feeling rushing an forcing back. I have to be safe as I have lives in my hand so it’s my safety and other people’s.

I just hate the meetings I feel criticises and judged especially as I had fractures and plates in operation and they know that yet wonder why am not back yet when I had 4 months muscle waste and only 3 weeks ago started physio to walk again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Super excited just been to the gym first time in a year due to injury, operation and recovery. Walked to the gym and did my physio session and increase bike work from 5-7 minutes, then walked home.

In few more visits will do more upper body gym exercises but super happy and excited what I did taking my home physio and doing in gym plus was nice see other humans lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like more progress my friend, good news! I know it’ll probably be daunting going back to work but once you’re back I’m sure you’ll soon be back in the swing of things provided you’re fit enough to be there! I’m sure they’ll agree a gradual return phased in over a few weeks given how long you’ve been out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like more progress my friend, good news! I know it’ll probably be daunting going back to work but once you’re back I’m sure you’ll soon be back in the swing of things provided you’re fit enough to be there! I’m sure they’ll agree a gradual return phased in over a few weeks given how long you’ve been out!

Yeah will be phased hr said 4-6 weeks occy want 3-4 lol I will let them fight over that.

I know be daunting but good to be in world Ano now I get anxious when in a shop lol

Also am realising how depressed I am am been but this will help me escape

Yeah also thanks I felt monumental so much I took loads pictures and sent em my family in a story hahah plus mileage increased hit 4 miles walked yday most done is 3.5 in past few weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the msgs means soooooo much to me and it’s Ben a fun adventure so far and more to come

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You are making great progress... what sort of music do you play on the guitar... loving the pictures of you getting out and about.. you're walking further than a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are making great progress... what sort of music do you play on the guitar... loving the pictures of you getting out and about.. you're walking further than a lot of people"

Well I write, play and record my own songs indie rock but had ppl saying can be punky style also lol I’d say stereophonic meet feeder via Bryan Adams lol

Thanks Ano I am improving and shouldn’t beat self up but crazy

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Hi op, not chatted to you before, I am suffering with cancer of the throat, just finished my intensive course of radiotherapy. I feel pretty ill to be very honest, each day is a struggle, but we carry on because we need to be there for others..

I hope you recover fully and can get Back to some form of normality

If you ever want to chat please contact me..

Stella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi op, not chatted to you before, I am suffering with cancer of the throat, just finished my intensive course of radiotherapy. I feel pretty ill to be very honest, each day is a struggle, but we carry on because we need to be there for others..

I hope you recover fully and can get Back to some form of normality

If you ever want to chat please contact me..

Stella "

Thank you

I feel somedays excited am normal then something happens and makes me realise still recovering

Am sorry for your cancer and stuff I hope you feel better and continue to recover if need chat am happy an open to talk

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