FabSwingers.com forum: The Ex

By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

So you split from your Ex you have no contact then out the blue text saying had a dream about you and start convo from there. Then gets to she is meeting a guy on Monday night and going for dinner. I can't help think this is why she got in contact to let me know that even tho was her idea to cut all contact. Any thoughts peeps.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

She's testing the water to see if you'll cry and come running back.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"So you split from your Ex you have no contact then out the blue text saying had a dream about you and start convo from there. Then gets to she is meeting a guy on Monday night and going for dinner. I can't help think this is why she got in contact to let me know that even tho was her idea to cut all contact. Any thoughts peeps. "
She is stringing you along, don't respond to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic tactic.

Tell her that you hope that will work out with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classic tactic.

Tell her that you hope that will work out with him

This! Say I’m happy for you, I’m got a date next week! Can’t wait.

She probably hasn’t even got a date! She wants you back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she is trying to make you jealous by saying about her date.

The "dream" she had probably didn't happen, its her way of seeing if you are interested in her and so she knows if she wants to get laid then all she has to do is text you.

Don't even give her the satisfaction of a response.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

She may just want to resume the friendship side of your relationship after a respectable time, and dropped in the comment about dating someone else to subtly let you know she'd moved on and wasn't expecting to resume a romantic relationship.

She texted you after a dream.... Did she say if it was sexual or not? As I said... She may just miss the friendship.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If you were a prick towards her though, she may just be rubbing it in. My ex was a cunt and I wanted him to know I was moving on, I wanted him to hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breadcrumbs

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

The dream she said was we was chatting and ended up on the roof of the house she went to kiss me and I pulled away. She said it felt so real. Strange dream but I would never pull away from her if honest.

Not a prick to her just didn't work out the way I thot would. She told me one day when I joked about using a spell to make herself better as was ill and she likes witches etc that her spells don't work coz I'm still here.

I thot oh nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

wow wish I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you’ve met someone who (a) takes it up the arse and (b) makes a wicked prawn tagliatelle. No need for her services anymore. Asta la vista baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

wow wish I was "

Haha even though I think this is an amazing idea, don't do it.

Don't play games otherwise you are not better then her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her you’ve met someone who (a) takes it up the arse and (b) makes a wicked prawn tagliatelle. No need for her services anymore. Asta la vista baby"

Pasta la vista surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was hoping this thread was about the band. Damn.

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Tell her you’ve met someone who (a) takes it up the arse and (b) makes a wicked prawn tagliatelle. No need for her services anymore. Asta la vista baby

Pasta la vista surely

Hahahahahaha love that pasta is Vista

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

wow wish I was

Haha even though I think this is an amazing idea, don't do it.

Don't play games otherwise you are not better then her. "

No I won't I don't like games.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Shy might want you to act as security on the off chance things go wrong?

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Though she is the sort of person who likes to play emotional games and I think she probably would have a date etc if she said so then it's probably true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say 'good for you.. I've moved also moved on and joined a swinging site ' that should shut her up

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Shy might want you to act as security on the off chance things go wrong? "

Lol think it might go a bit Pete Tong if I was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You suffering from...

Manipulation

Underthumb

Gastritis

Which is bought on by stress, but ignoring the phone could potentially ease the symptoms.

Hope this helps

Dr Fuckwit

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Just say 'good for you.. I've moved also moved on and joined a swinging site ' that should shut her up

We met on here 8 years ago lol

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

What's her number I will pop over and sort her out !! Lol

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Though she is the sort of person who likes to play emotional games and I think she probably would have a date etc if she said so then it's probably true. "
No the strongest negotiation position is being able to walk away and mean it. If she wants you back make her work for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like an evil behatch to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

I wonder how many people looked at your profile to see your arse then haha I know I did...looks a smackable ass x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

I wonder how many people looked at your profile to see your arse then haha I know I did...looks a smackable ass x "

Dunno but my inbox has just shot up considerably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her my arse pic and just tell her you're smacking that this weekend!!

I wonder how many people looked at your profile to see your arse then haha I know I did...looks a smackable ass x

Dunno but my inbox has just shot up considerably

Is that a good thing or bad thing? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds as though its got to you a little which is not good. I wouldn't dwell on it though she will be your ex for good reasons so try and put it in the back of your mind and move on.

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

You suffering from...

Manipulation

Underthumb

Gastritis

Which is bought on by stress, but ignoring the phone could potentially ease the symptoms.

Hope this helps

Dr Fuckwit

Lol thanks doctor

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

Sounds as though its got to you a little which is not good. I wouldn't dwell on it though she will be your ex for good reasons so try and put it in the back of your mind and move on. "

Yeah it has if honest and I am trying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that a good thing or bad thing? X"

Seriously... Just don't ask

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Reply to her with 'Okie Dokie' and she'll stop when she realises she won't get a bite out of you.

I bet she didn't go for dinner at all but it's a guess

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"Reply to her with 'Okie Dokie' and she'll stop when she realises she won't get a bite out of you.

I bet she didn't go for dinner at all but it's a guess"

No it's this Monday coming she is going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She either wants you back, and wants you to fight for her. And she’s hoping that knowing another man is interested will spur you to action.

Or, she wants to be friends with you, have you in her life, but is setting the boundary that she’s moved on.

Or she’s a weird one, that might get some pleasure out of taunting you with it.

I think the first reason is the most likely. When she said no contact but gets in touch, she’s probably missing you.

Did you try to get her back?

Just think that asking about it on forum probably means you’re still interested on some level too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that a good thing or bad thing? X

Seriously... Just don't ask

Haha I might have to add mine to that list but mine would be a face pic not a cock lol

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By *ampant Lion34 OP Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

"OP

She either wants you back, and wants you to fight for her. And she’s hoping that knowing another man is interested will spur you to action.

Or, she wants to be friends with you, have you in her life, but is setting the boundary that she’s moved on.

Or she’s a weird one, that might get some pleasure out of taunting you with it.

I think the first reason is the most likely. When she said no contact but gets in touch, she’s probably missing you.

Did you try to get her back?

Just think that asking about it on forum probably means you’re still interested on some level too.

I am still interested but she said she didn't want to see or hear from me again then she contacted me after a week.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Reply to her with 'Okie Dokie' and she'll stop when she realises she won't get a bite out of you.

I bet she didn't go for dinner at all but it's a guess

No it's this Monday coming she is going. "

So she says. I can only guess and mine is this is a cry for attention.

Imagine her status's if she was on here.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Maybe the impeding date jitters reminded her of time with you. It doesn’t mean she loves you or wants to make you jealous. Just that sometimes it’s nice to reconnect with an old friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP

She either wants you back, and wants you to fight for her. And she’s hoping that knowing another man is interested will spur you to action.

Or, she wants to be friends with you, have you in her life, but is setting the boundary that she’s moved on.

Or she’s a weird one, that might get some pleasure out of taunting you with it.

I think the first reason is the most likely. When she said no contact but gets in touch, she’s probably missing you.

Did you try to get her back?

Just think that asking about it on forum probably means you’re still interested on some level too.

I am still interested but she said she didn't want to see or hear from me again then she contacted me after a week. "

I suspect she’s regretting her decision. But I don’t know her? You do.

Did she love you? Ask yourself honestly, (deep down you know) the answer. Not just what she’s said to you or the good times. But how she’s behaved with you, overall, looking at all of your relationship.

And second question. Is she good for you?

Which is a different question from ‘do you love her?’ Cause sometimes we love people that aren’t good for us.

If either of those are no, cut it clean.

If the answer to both of those is yes, then fight for her.

Sort out the issues that drove you apart. Because, it isn’t everyday someone wonderful comes around, unfortunately I know.

And if it doesn’t work, at least you know you tried. And you don’t have to wonder ‘what if?’

My 2p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She ain’t seeing anyone buddy... it’s a ruse

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Tell her if it goes well you would like to watch them have sex on webcam, or maybe film it for them if they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breadcrumbs "

What does this mean?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"Breadcrumbs

What does this mean?"

You drop them to make someone follow them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breadcrumbs

What does this mean?

You drop them to make someone follow them."

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"OP

She either wants you back, and wants you to fight for her. And she’s hoping that knowing another man is interested will spur you to action.

Or, she wants to be friends with you, have you in her life, but is setting the boundary that she’s moved on.

Or she’s a weird one, that might get some pleasure out of taunting you with it.

I think the first reason is the most likely. When she said no contact but gets in touch, she’s probably missing you.

Did you try to get her back?

Just think that asking about it on forum probably means you’re still interested on some level too.

I am still interested but she said she didn't want to see or hear from me again then she contacted me after a week. "

She playing mind games.

Ignore and block.

You split for a reason.

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