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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

So I have completely screwed up a friendship and was wondering if you guys had any tips on how to try to fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react. "

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done "

How do you know you have completely screwed it up then?

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done

How do you know you have completely screwed it up then?"

just a gut feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done

How do you know you have completely screwed it up then?

just a gut feeling"

Ask them

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So I have completely screwed up a friendship and was wondering if you guys had any tips on how to try to fix it. "
what you do.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done

How do you know you have completely screwed it up then?

just a gut feeling"

Have you actually fallen out ie had an argument, or do you just think that you have?

It's easy to get things overblown in your head, when the other person doesn't consider it important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done

How do you know you have completely screwed it up then?

just a gut feeling"

Then you need to at least attempt to speak to them and find out what if anything is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a kinda vague question, it depends on so many things, really you're the only person who knows what you've done and how your friend is likely to react.

fair good point but what if you don't know what you have done

How do you know you have completely screwed it up then?

just a gut feeling

Then you need to at least attempt to speak to them and find out what if anything is wrong. "

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Is this a day late with their birthday card screw up or you've microwaved their hamster and shit in their favourite shoes screw up?

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Is this a day late with their birthday card screw up or you've microwaved their hamster and shit in their favourite shoes screw up?"

The second type I believe

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden


"Is this a day late with their birthday card screw up or you've microwaved their hamster and shit in their favourite shoes screw up?

The second type I believe "

How have they behaved towards you since your believed screw up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have completely screwed up a friendship and was wondering if you guys had any tips on how to try to fix it. "

Try super glue. Usually fixes everything!

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

If its your mate"a bloke".. Just go for a pint as if nothings happened, it'll sort itself out.

If it's a bird.. Then your in a whole world of complicated shit that will never be left to rest in one way or another... Remedy, go out for a pint with your mate and leave her to it, she, ll calm down once your not there to have a go at, it, ll sort itself out.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I always find that if I've done something wrong, then a sincere and honest apology is required.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the worst things to do is not say anything.

The longer you leave it the harder it be becomes and then it maybe irreversible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vinigar and brown paper may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find that if I've done something wrong, then a sincere and honest apology is required.

Cal"

it’s all you can do, if they’re a true mate they will listen and then the ball is in their court.

It depends on the strength of the previous friendship and the scale of the indiscretion of course, they may be hurt but all you do is offer a heartfelt apology and then it’s up to them whether they accept it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its your mate"a bloke".. Just go for a pint as if nothings happened, it'll sort itself out.

If it's a bird.. Then your in a whole world of complicated shit that will never be left to rest in one way or another... Remedy, go out for a pint with your mate and leave her to it, she, ll calm down once your not there to have a go at, it, ll sort itself out. "

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have completely screwed up a friendship and was wondering if you guys had any tips on how to try to fix it. "

If it’s a dude, buy him a beer.

If it’s a woman,... it’s complicated, so many things you need to learn about how her feelings for you have changed. It’s a minefield, trying too hard makes her despise you for coming across as desperate. If you don’t try enough, she hates you because it’s proof you don’t care etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find that if I've done something wrong, then a sincere and honest apology is required.

Cal"

A sincere, prompt apology has always worked for me too.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

If it's trust you've screwed with -forget it. Everything else is fixable in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have completely screwed up a friendship and was wondering if you guys had any tips on how to try to fix it.

If it’s a dude, buy him a beer.

If it’s a woman,... it’s complicated, so many things you need to learn about how her feelings for you have changed. It’s a minefield, trying too hard makes her despise you for coming across as desperate. If you don’t try enough, she hates you because it’s proof you don’t care etc. "

experienced fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find that if I've done something wrong, then a sincere and honest apology is required.

Cal

A sincere, prompt apology has always worked for me too."

Might be simple for you but when you don't know what you're apologising for, then is confusing.and complicated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is this a day late with their birthday card screw up or you've microwaved their hamster and shit in their favourite shoes screw up?

The second type I believe "

You said you didn't know what you'd done

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