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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder?" Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here" It was meant in general. | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general." Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down. | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general. Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down." Yeah but still must be expensive the amount of food they consume, like looking after an elephant. | |||
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I can completely relate to how these people get like that - it's frightening!
The only difference is that I don't have any enablers.
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"Watching Michael's story. I love the Doctor, just so factual and will not be manipulated by the patients. He stated a 10,000 calorie a day is what someone eats to maintain a 600lb body... Wow " Yeah just 4x more than the average man who weighs 196 pounds. | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap..." Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap..." I don't think its putting up with crap its people they care for and its bad love giving them food when they are saying they are really hungry. The reality is they should be firm and not feed them but its very hard to deny someone you care for food. As for finding someone well there is someone for everyone so I wouldn't worry. | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds" Or suggested they got help? | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? " yeah it would be an ultimatum | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum" Im sure the support would be appreciated | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum Im sure the support would be appreciated" tough love  | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum Im sure the support would be appreciated tough love "Hmmm  | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum Im sure the support would be appreciated tough love
Hmmm "Has to be done same with any addiction alcohol, drugs etc | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum Im sure the support would be appreciated tough love
Hmmm Has to be done same with any addiction alcohol, drugs etc "Has that approach ever worked for you then? | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum Im sure the support would be appreciated tough love
Hmmm Has to be done same with any addiction alcohol, drugs etc
Has that approach ever worked for you then? "Not come across it yet thankfully. I would take that approach though. | |||
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"This show give me hope about getting married and having children some day.... Everyone of these obese people have a husband or wife that supports them... So I should definitely be able to find someone to put up with my crap... Yeah I don't know how they put up with it. I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds Or suggested they got help? yeah it would be an ultimatum Im sure the support would be appreciated tough love
Hmmm Has to be done same with any addiction alcohol, drugs etc
Has that approach ever worked for you then? Not come across it yet thankfully. I would take that approach though."Ok. Well let me know how it goes.  | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds" You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight?  | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? "Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable. "Charming | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming "I would expect the same | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming "I think you might be taking his comment out of context..... These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds... | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds..."Thanks Sidney | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds..."He said he would cut her out of his life?  | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? "Sometimes you have to be extreme for people to take you seriously..... I’m guessing he would have the same approach with a drug or alcohol abuser.... I had to deal with a person with a eating disorder, it wasn’t easy and I finally gave up | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? "if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful."Disrespectful to who? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? "To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline."Oh wow. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline.
Oh wow. "So you would let a future husband balloon and stay with him? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline.
Oh wow. So you would let a future husband balloon and stay with him?"I would support him to get the help he needed and be aware that people don't always have complete control of their actions. It would take an awful lot for me to walk away from someone I love and I certainly couldn't pin it down to a certain weight. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline.
Oh wow. So you would let a future husband balloon and stay with him?
I would support him to get the help he needed and be aware that people don't always have complete control of their actions. It would take an awful lot for me to walk away from someone I love and I certainly couldn't pin it down to a certain weight. "Yeah they have to want to change though. These people never really do, some consequences could motivate that. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. "Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline.
Oh wow. So you would let a future husband balloon and stay with him?
I would support him to get the help he needed and be aware that people don't always have complete control of their actions. It would take an awful lot for me to walk away from someone I love and I certainly couldn't pin it down to a certain weight. Yeah they have to want to change though. These people never really do, some consequences could motivate that. "Your understanding of mental health issues is clearly lacking. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help."And leaving them is constructive? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with discipline.
Oh wow. So you would let a future husband balloon and stay with him?
I would support him to get the help he needed and be aware that people don't always have complete control of their actions. It would take an awful lot for me to walk away from someone I love and I certainly couldn't pin it down to a certain weight. Yeah they have to want to change though. These people never really do, some consequences could motivate that. "Depends how much they cared about you for your loss to be any sort of motivating factor I guess | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? "They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love."I think you've missed the point about that approach. It's not about walking away completely. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love.
I think you've missed the point about that approach. It's not about walking away completely. "Well I'm not gonna enable them. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love.
I think you've missed the point about that approach. It's not about walking away completely. "Save your breath Dotty. Men like him will never understand. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love.
I think you've missed the point about that approach. It's not about walking away completely. Well I'm not gonna enable them."fair enough. I pity the woman who loves you unconditionally. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love.
I think you've missed the point about that approach. It's not about walking away completely.
Save your breath Dotty.
Men like him will never understand.
"I give up. It just makes me sad that people think that way. | |||
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"I don't know why I'm surprised by comments like this on a site like this - and to be honest I don't know why I'm responding. Well the enabling didn't help they are 600 pounds. Like closing the door after the horse has bolted. Might not be in that situation if they had more constructive help.
And leaving them is constructive? They have to see some consequences, it's called detachment with love.
I think you've missed the point about that approach. It's not about walking away completely. Well I'm not gonna enable them. fair enough. I pity the woman who loves you unconditionally. "Unconditional love is not a good thing. Love is a like a reward. | |||
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"getting humiliated on TV for being fat yeah xo xo xo that's someone's fantasy " I imagine they got paid and that helped with cost of treatment. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline."Discipline? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? "Self discipline | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline "No. It requires nutritional education, access and funds to appropriate foods, dietician, education of biological consequences, support network, therapist to assist with awareness of current relationship with food, and help finding strategies to replace food as a coping mechanism, and strategies to cope with emotions that will arise during journey, relationship to physical activity and physical capabilities, and of course motivation to want to change. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline "You’re wasting your breath on this thread..... These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here... So they are just posturing...... | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......"Yeah but sounds like they would go to KFC or McDonald's for them. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......"Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need. "Try to be honest if we are debating here.... It the weight that got your back up.... If we were talking about drinking or drug use ... I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming.... Now back to abandoning someone you love.... Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?"So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely? "Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t... One way is not right or wrong My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce..... You know what happened? He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling.... They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying... | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely?
Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t...
One way is not right or wrong
My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce.....
You know what happened?
He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling....
They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying...
"Where in anything I've written have I said I'm an enabler? | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely?
Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t...
One way is not right or wrong
My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce.....
You know what happened?
He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling....
They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying...
Where in anything I've written have I said I'm an enabler? "You have a future in politics..... | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely?
Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t...
One way is not right or wrong
My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce.....
You know what happened?
He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling....
They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying...
Where in anything I've written have I said I'm an enabler?
You have a future in politics....."You have a future in story telling, you're already good at imagining things that have been written. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely?
Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t...
One way is not right or wrong
My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce.....
You know what happened?
He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling....
They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying...
Where in anything I've written have I said I'm an enabler?
You have a future in politics.....
You have a future in story telling, you're already good at imagining things that have been written. "Ok I’ll bite...... There are only two options...... Stay and enable the person you love to eat themselves to death Or Leave them at a certain weight, so they can see their actions are hurting the people they love.... Now if you find the tough love , leaving the person approach disrespectful... like you posted above... then you’re in the enabling camp..... Now you really have a bright future in politics or criminal defense law.... | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely?
Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t...
One way is not right or wrong
My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce.....
You know what happened?
He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling....
They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying...
Where in anything I've written have I said I'm an enabler?
You have a future in politics.....
You have a future in story telling, you're already good at imagining things that have been written.
Ok I’ll bite......
There are only two options......
Stay and enable the person you love to eat themselves to death
Or
Leave them at a certain weight, so they can see their actions are hurting the people they love....
Now if you find the tough love , leaving the person approach disrespectful... like you posted above... then you’re in the enabling camp.....
Now you really have a bright future in politics or criminal defense law...."Ok so staying with them but NOT enabling them isn't an option? In that case I choose not to be involved in your fictious black and white either or scenario. | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general. Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down. Yeah but still must be expensive the amount of food they consume, like looking after an elephant." Dunno then. Just seems like food must be really cheap over there. | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general. Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down. Yeah but still must be expensive the amount of food they consume, like looking after an elephant. Dunno then. Just seems like food must be really cheap over there." Fast food is much cheaper than fresh vegetables there, two Burger King burgers with fries and a drink for $3.50 when I was there like two months ago and they were the size of our double whoppers. | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general. Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down. Yeah but still must be expensive the amount of food they consume, like looking after an elephant. Dunno then. Just seems like food must be really cheap over there. Fast food is much cheaper than fresh vegetables there, two Burger King burgers with fries and a drink for $3.50 when I was there like two months ago and they were the size of our double whoppers." Don't they have cheap all you can eat buffets as well? | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general. Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down. Yeah but still must be expensive the amount of food they consume, like looking after an elephant. Dunno then. Just seems like food must be really cheap over there. Fast food is much cheaper than fresh vegetables there, two Burger King burgers with fries and a drink for $3.50 when I was there like two months ago and they were the size of our double whoppers. Don't they have cheap all you can eat buffets as well?" Yes, lots of cheap places to eat it's just crazy bad for you. I went to a place called Culvers and they make your burger and literally dip the entire thing in melted butter | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......
Not meeting someone you are not attracted to isn't the same thing is abandoning someone you supposedly love in their time of need.
Try to be honest if we are debating here....
It the weight that got your back up....
If we were talking about drinking or drug use ...
I’m sure Mr. White’s tough love analogy would be very charming....
Now back to abandoning someone you love....
Would you keep giving someone you love money to use drugs, drink , or gamble if they had a problem?
So is that the only 2 options? Enable them or leave completely?
Ok so you’re a enabler, other people aren’t...
One way is not right or wrong
My uncle was a gambling addict.... my aunt used to have to go to the betting parlor on pay day to get his wages before he gambled it all away... She finally got fed up and kicked him out of the house and filed for divorce.....
You know what happened?
He realized he was ruining his family so he got help and stopped gambling....
They are together to this day... So sometimes tough love works... that’s all I’m saying...
Where in anything I've written have I said I'm an enabler?
You have a future in politics.....
You have a future in story telling, you're already good at imagining things that have been written.
Ok I’ll bite......
There are only two options......
Stay and enable the person you love to eat themselves to death
Or
Leave them at a certain weight, so they can see their actions are hurting the people they love....
Now if you find the tough love , leaving the person approach disrespectful... like you posted above... then you’re in the enabling camp.....
Now you really have a bright future in politics or criminal defense law....
Ok so staying with them but NOT enabling them isn't an option?
In that case I choose not to be involved in your fictious black and white either or scenario.
"I truly hope you never fall in love with someone with an addiction..... Most recovering addicts will tell you...... You have to lose everything and hit rock bottom before you decide to change.... | |||
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"How do these people afford it? Benefits can't be paying that much, has she got a feeder? Don’t panic and get your daily mail in a twist. It’s an American show, not British so they won’t be claiming benefits here It was meant in general. Supermarkets sell everything in bulk. Also they use corn syrup in almost everything to keep costs down. Yeah but still must be expensive the amount of food they consume, like looking after an elephant. Dunno then. Just seems like food must be really cheap over there. Fast food is much cheaper than fresh vegetables there, two Burger King burgers with fries and a drink for $3.50 when I was there like two months ago and they were the size of our double whoppers. Don't they have cheap all you can eat buffets as well? Yes, lots of cheap places to eat it's just crazy bad for you. I went to a place called Culvers and they make your burger and literally dip the entire thing in melted butter "You guys have the same foods we have but your portions are just smaller..... | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
You’re wasting your breath on this thread.....
These women shouting you down for being a brute won’t meet and shag 600 pd men off here...
So they are just posturing......"Actually I am part of a system trying to help these people. It's not about shaggability. | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
No. It requires nutritional education, access and funds to appropriate foods, dietician, education of biological consequences, support network, therapist to assist with awareness of current relationship with food, and help finding strategies to replace food as a coping mechanism, and strategies to cope with emotions that will arise during journey, relationship to physical activity and physical capabilities, and of course motivation to want to change. "I love the fact no one can argue my point  . But then it is evidence-based  | |||
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
No. It requires nutritional education, access and funds to appropriate foods, dietician, education of biological consequences, support network, therapist to assist with awareness of current relationship with food, and help finding strategies to replace food as a coping mechanism, and strategies to cope with emotions that will arise during journey, relationship to physical activity and physical capabilities, and of course motivation to want to change.
I love the fact no one can argue my point . But then it is evidence-based "It would still require self discipline to be able to maintain their progress. | |||
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Someone who has reached 600lbs is mentally ill - as are the people enabling them.
"Cutting people loose " because you think it will solve their problems is idiocy at it's best.
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" I would of cut loose when she got to 200 pounds You would cut someone you love out of your life if they gained weight? Yeah if it was too much,not gonna let her let herself go. When women get past a certain age it would be more acceptable.
Charming
I think you might be taking his comment out of context.....
These are morbid obese people...... he is saying he would get her help she is 200 pds rather than wait until she is 600 pds...
He said he would cut her out of his life? if she got to a certain point and wouldn't accept help yes I would. I would find that disrespectful.
Disrespectful to who? To me and to herself. If I was the same when got married etc it wouldn't be fair. The sexual attraction would be disappearing, she would be spending all our money on food and making herself ill. It isn't a sickness that comes out of the blue it can be controlled with
discipline.
Discipline? Self discipline
No. It requires nutritional education, access and funds to appropriate foods, dietician, education of biological consequences, support network, therapist to assist with awareness of current relationship with food, and help finding strategies to replace food as a coping mechanism, and strategies to cope with emotions that will arise during journey, relationship to physical activity and physical capabilities, and of course motivation to want to change.
I love the fact no one can argue my point . But then it is evidence-based It would still require self discipline to be able to maintain their progress." | |||
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