FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting/ can you read the signals?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

Nope, terrible at spotting signals if they are there. Probably think I’m a decent flirt mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im better at it and seeing the signs of it in person..and a lot less so on here

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'm terrible at seeing it! I'm also rubbish at spotting opportunities to do it myself

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Not always. The problem is that I flirt all the time so people tend to mirror that. It just ends up being read as a normal conversation for me.

Often the penny drops when they come on to me and I’m not expecting it

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

No. Someone could be wearing a badge with flashing lights around it that reads “Hi Sexy Adam” and I’d be like

“Hey, where did you get that cool badge”

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Often the penny drops when they come on to me and I’m not expecting it

The penny doesn’t drop until they cum onto you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’m hopeless at recognising the signs of it in person, and no good at it in person. I’m better on here where no one can see me blush x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"Often the penny drops when they come on to me and I’m not expecting it

The penny doesn’t drop until they cum onto you?

Get that mind out of the gutter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Can't flirt to save my life and have no idea when someone is flirting with me.

Absolute disaster!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish at reading it but I think I'm a big flirt

but im probably rubbish at that too

Jo.Xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I enjoyed a rather nice flirting session this afternoon, with a lady I meet during the course of my work. I wouldn't be surprised to discover she's a swinger lol

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I can't flirt and have no idea if someone's flirting with me (I just think they're being friendly).

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I am sooooooo rubbish. I have no idea when guys or girls are flirting with me...... And I'm really pants at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

Clueless on both fronts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also rubbish when it comes to flirting and have missed several opportunities in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am pathetic at it.

sometimes i think someone is taking the piss when they actually are just being funny.

i cannot read signs and im sure ive made a few think i wasnt interested.

but hey, thats me cant sort it out

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No unfortunately. I’m pretty pants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No unfortunately. I’m pretty pants!

Pretty good AT flirting though

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No unfortunately. I’m pretty pants!

Pretty good AT flirting though

You mean this? ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies feel free to practice on me...!!

God thats SO lame.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr J is of world class crapness in that area. He once had to ask Mrs J if a lady could be pressing her boobs against him and making eye contact without realising it!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I can't flirt and have no idea if someone's flirting with me (I just think they're being friendly)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

Yes i love the flirt game and seducing women its a great challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very perceptive so recognise it easily...I also find it quite easy to do... but that doesn't make me very attractive on the fab forum. Apparently I have to be useless at both to get anywhere. That's where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m rubbish at flirting, im rubbish at telling when some one is flirting with me.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I’m rubbish at flirting, im rubbish at telling when some one is flirting with me. "

I’m an expert .... here

consider yourself flirted with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very perceptive so recognise it easily...I also find it quite easy to do... but that doesn't make me very attractive on the fab forum. Apparently I have to be useless at both to get anywhere. That's where I'm going wrong

I meant to say according to... not on the fab forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one has ever flirted with me so no idea what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one has ever flirted with me so no idea what happens. "

Erm

You saying I’m shit at flirting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty good at spotting it in person but its been a while since I had to test the the theory. I also used to make a pretty good flirt. Its all about the lingering looks and smiling isnt it, and having to pick an awful lot of stuff up from floors

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Yeah I'm a pro

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I'm terrible at seeing it! I'm also rubbish at spotting opportunities to do it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one has ever flirted with me so no idea what happens.

Erm

You saying I’m shit at flirting?

Awwww Pops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me its like a text message. because i cannot see the face i cant work out if they flirting.

my bad

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Nope...never was very good at spotting the signals..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a habit of thinking someone is flirting even when they aren't... brings some awkward conversations/atmospheres I must say.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"I can't flirt and have no idea if someone's flirting with me (I just think they're being friendly).

Hello friendly Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Shame nobody flirts with me these days

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I'm terrible at seeing it! I'm also rubbish at spotting opportunities to do it myself

Maybe I may help you test out different scenarios of when it is happening and the correct action to take after such activity.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"No-one has ever flirted with me so no idea what happens. "

Are you sure about that?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I'm terrible at seeing it! I'm also rubbish at spotting opportunities to do it myself

Maybe I may help you test out different scenarios of when it is happening and the correct action to take after such activity.

I’m very literal and quite direct so I miss out on the artful stuff!

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I'm terrible at seeing it! I'm also rubbish at spotting opportunities to do it myself

Maybe I may help you test out different scenarios of when it is happening and the correct action to take after such activity.

I’m very literal and quite direct so I miss out on the artful stuff! "

OK then FAF.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

Have always been terrible at spotting the signals if a woman is interested and often would have no idea unless she held up a banner or billboard which is unlikely to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

Apparently YouTube teaches you everything you need to know, because all men operate the same and all women operate the same.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Im better at it and seeing the signs of it in person..and a lot less so on here

Hello sexy arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a total blockhead when it comes to flirting. Maybe it's because of my brash and straightforward personality. I'd find excessive flirting from a girl off putting in the sense that she dare not make the move on me if she could spare so much effort trying to drop signs of flirting on me.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

I’m rubbish at spotting if someone is flirting with me, but when I flirt I make sure they know. It’s longer eye contact and smile and just wave while mouthing silent Hi

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

I’m rubbish at spotting if someone is flirting with me, but when I flirt I make sure they know. It’s longer eye contact and smile and just wave while mouthing silent Hi

I had a brief flirt in traffic this morning. Lady driving the opposite direction stopped across from me we look over I smiled a nice big happy smile. She started to respond and the lights changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, I've had friends after the apparent event say to me "you jammy bugger when you meeting her?" and I'd been oblivious to it!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Unless someone comes and introduces themselves as Mr/Miss/Ms/Mr&Mrs Flirty from Flirtsville I usually have no clue, and even when they do I often miss it

I'm also one of those people that tends to think of the perfect line 5 minutes after it was needed, so again pretty useless at doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell if someone is trying to flirt with someone else but can’t tell when someone is flirting with me, hence my multiple threads about the guy I work with! I don’t think I’m a very good flirt either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not so great at spotting that someone is flirting with me, but since joining this site, my flirting abilities have definitely improved.

Look.... I can do this

... Lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not so great at spotting that someone is flirting with me, but since joining this site, my flirting abilities have definitely improved.

Look.... I can do this

... Lots

Yep carry on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I'm pretty good at good at picking the signals up. I think some of it comes down to confidence and having the balls to act on it. If you're not that confident then maybe its harder to pick up on as your not looking for the signs or would even act on them.

I have got it wrong on a few occasions though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not so great at spotting that someone is flirting with me, but since joining this site, my flirting abilities have definitely improved.

Look.... I can do this

... Lots

Yep carry on x"

Ha ha

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I'm not so great at spotting that someone is flirting with me, but since joining this site, my flirting abilities have definitely improved.

Look.... I can do this

... Lots

Are you not good at spotting some one flirting with you?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

Good God no.

I never see it and I'm absolutely shite at it...... .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I'm pretty good at good at picking the signals up. I think some of it comes down to confidence and having the balls to act on it. If you're not that confident then maybe its harder to pick up on as your not looking for the signs or would even act on them.

I have got it wrong on a few occasions though

You might be onto something. The majority on here lack confidence apparently so that equates with no one being able to recognise flirting or being able to flirt. It's a shame really because it's great fun

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"More often than not I can’t tell I’m being flirted with even if it comes up and slaps me around the face.

Can you easily spot when someone is flirting with you? Are you good at flirting?

I’m rubbish at spotting if someone is flirting with me, but when I flirt I make sure they know. It’s longer eye contact and smile and just wave while mouthing silent Hi

I had a brief flirt in traffic this morning. Lady driving the opposite direction stopped across from me we look over I smiled a nice big happy smile. She started to respond and the lights changed.

oh no, just keep big sign ready with your number and text “call me” for next time :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not so great at spotting that someone is flirting with me, but since joining this site, my flirting abilities have definitely improved.

Look.... I can do this

... Lots

Are you not good at spotting some one flirting with you?

I may have noticed you being very smiley at me. Is that the same thing?

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We're hopeless. One lovely patient couple chatted to us in a club, followed us downstairs, threw someone out of a room so we could go in it, and it was only when they closed the door behind themselves with them in the room with us did we start to get an inkling....! We do wonder how many times we've missed an opportunity because we've been too dense

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I'm not so great at spotting that someone is flirting with me, but since joining this site, my flirting abilities have definitely improved.

Look.... I can do this

... Lots

Are you not good at spotting some one flirting with you?

I may have noticed you being very smiley at me. Is that the same thing?

FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was actually voted the best girl at flirting, at the last Christmas party and won a box of chocolates

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am crap at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im pretty good at spotting it in person but its been a while since I had to test the the theory. I also used to make a pretty good flirt. Its all about the lingering looks and smiling isnt it, and having to pick an awful lot of stuff up from floors

Something like that!

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