FabSwingers.com forum: Is soft and gentle the new kinky?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like it slow, but I like easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it slow otherwise I cum quick

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

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Thought that was 'making love'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

I love doing this in role play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good mix ..

Sometimes slow and gentle .sometimes hard and fast depends on my mood,who I'm with etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it to start slow then build up to the rough stuff.

Maybe slow down a bit at the end to savour the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Everything in moderation.

You're very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to call it sensual fucking...you get the intensity and closeness but you don’t have to them that you love them afterwards

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird..."
Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.

I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.

And I want it now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ya likes it ya likes it. And I do like a bit of slow and sensual sexiness. But then my mood can just as easily be fast and feisty fuckery too. I'm awkward like that. And I like a bit of alliteration too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m good at being gentle. I also like a big cwtch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm naturally an affectionate and attentive love maker. But recently a sexy friend has been helping me get my head into more of a dom space and I'm finally getting why a woman would find that sexy with a guy she trusts and lusts after. So I'm exploring expanding my palette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it sensual and intimate with someone I have a good connection with. I’m a little bo_ed by rough but it has its place for a quickie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m good at being gentle. I also like a big cwtch "

Get in my bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.

I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.

And I want it now!!!

That sounds perfect. Feeling is good.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m good at being gentle. I also like a big cwtch

Get in my bed. "

Morning future wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...

Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for...."

Neither of us watched porn back then (husband doesn’t wank, and we don’t watch it together. And yes, I’m being serious and no, he doesn’t ‘secretly’ do it. I’ve only just started watching porn in the past year or so). It was just weird. Nothing like our normal way of fucking. We both came from it...but it was odd

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Part of the reason we stopped swinging was exactly this . Rough , hard , smash your back doors in doesn’t do anything for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird... Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for...."

I was more into porn type fucking when I was late teens/20s. With experience comes more varied sex I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it all ways depending on my mood..

Why should it have to be one way or another?

Im all for mixing it up

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Clue is in the name

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...

Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...

Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....

Interesting just more animalistic I guess."

It wasn’t bad, just odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on my mood.... romantic and tender....

Or open the true Banshee and let the kinky and tasty intermix.

(Open up the box of wonders and get my extension cable.... its toy time!!!)

Hee hee

Xxx

Nessa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.

I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.

And I want it now!!!

this is me, sorry don’t get anything from going straight like a jackhammer, love the build and the tease and the explosion when you can’t take anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...

Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....

Interesting just more animalistic I guess.

It wasn’t bad, just odd"

Keep at it, it will stop becoming odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.

I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.

And I want it now!!!

This

. Although occasionally a rip your clothes off quickie can be fun.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I personally love it slowly and tenderly.

Tenderly as in warm and intimate not as in skinned and enflamed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was going to be about a fetish for deodorants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.

I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.

And I want it now!!!

This

. Although occasionally a rip your clothes off quickie can be fun.

But quite expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha sadly i indulge from time to time, just for a change of pace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.

I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.

And I want it now!!!

This

. Although occasionally a rip your clothes off quickie can be fun.

But quite expensive. "

Meh. Worry about that later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will always be a time and place. Sensual is for close connection big spoon snuggling. Then there is lip biting deep kissing slamming up against the wall sex. Mood swings.....sex swings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just to be clear... is soft and slow good or bad? Because Its all sounding positive haha...

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

I do, love it

.... But beware, I do turn feral when provoked

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"So just to be clear... is soft and slow good or bad? Because Its all sounding positive haha..."
Depends on who you are meeting, 'making love' to a lady from a couple, I don't think would be a good idea.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I prefer long and sensual sessions with faster more passionate moments throughout.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

Depends on the mood. Nothing wrong with getting straight to it, but love to take my time when I can.

Lots of kissing and caressing, slow massage, teasing and building up her sexual tension. Exploring every contour of her body, kissing every curve until she begs to be fucked. And then doing the same, varying the pace and intensity, prolonging the agony and the ecstasy.

And when you're both in the zone it's likely to get pretty fast and furious too, so best of both worlds.

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Love it slow and relaxing

I love to savour the moments,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I want it all.

I want the ripping clothes off passionate hard rough fucking in doggy. Followed by cuddly spooning sex with slow kissing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer to call it sensual fucking...you get the intensity and closeness but you don’t have to them that you love them afterwards

I like this!

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"I prefer to call it sensual fucking...you get the intensity and closeness but you don’t have to them that you love them afterwards

I like this!

Yes, sounds delicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like someone who can fuck my mind while they are inside me and this cannot be achieved by fucking me like a machine.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"I like someone who can fuck my mind while they are inside me and this cannot be achieved by fucking me like a machine. "

Oh my goodness!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do hope so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda bo_ed with the smashing, hard fucking scene, does nothing for me but us prevalent at orgies where the men’s egos go off the scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a soft and gentle interlude between the Oh hello again knicker ripping initial passion and the lets just sneak a fast a furious goodbye in.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*

I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*

I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!

I'll bring my tool kit just in cases

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

As I built up the passion with lots of kissing, touching, caressing and whispe_ed naughty sweet nothings, she smiled and pulling closer whispe_ed in my ear...

"Are you sure you're a guy? Next thing you'll be telling me you don't roll off and fall asleep straight after.."

I can't do sex without intimacy... Just not me.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Love it!! It's never been taboo to me and I've always favou_ed sensual meets. Sometimes, if it's been a few weeks, the passion and urgency might be all-consuming at first, but then you get to enjoy the slow, sweetness second time round....

I'm very much looking forward to some sweet smooching and sensuality soon

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By *rTouretteMan
over a year ago

Muswell Hill

For me, it has to include filth with cuddles and teasy neck kisses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, prefer it actually.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*

I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!

Always good to have a thick screw and drill well to fill the hole properly

Lovely pics BTW

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We are partial to both... depending on our moods.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

meh... just rattle me tonsils... idgaf ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

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i like it all ways mix it up a bit dependin on mood situation

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*

I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!

Always good to have a thick screw and drill well to fill the hole properly

Lovely pics BTW

Can’t beat a thick screw and a well drilled hole

. Your user name impies you’re a plumber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bit of both, can be soft and sensual without wanting to declare my undying love to people. X

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.

Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.

Ooh I will have to try that one next time

*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*

I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!

Always good to have a thick screw and drill well to fill the hole properly

Lovely pics BTW

Can’t beat a thick screw and a well drilled hole

. Your user name impies you’re a plumber

You put trust in user names?

Would you like me to come round and look at your plumbing? I'll have my drill in case anything needs a good screwing.

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By *siancouple4femCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Start off nice, slow and gentle. Like him on top of me lying flat on my stomach while he gently kisses and nibbles my neck. Hands slowly wandering down my body as he gets lower and caresses my breasts while tweaking my.... I better stop. But after 5 mins it's hard, noisy, sloppy, grippy, pully, rough mmmmmm

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Best lover I ever had made amazing things happen to me really, really slowly.....

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality .

Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood rough sex, passionate yes, sensuous definitely but not wham bam, what a waste of time with a lady.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone

Thought that was 'making love'

Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird..."

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing.

It's when your chemistrys just work together. They could just touch your hand and it's electrifying. That smile across the room when you just know. When you look at them and think phwoar.

You actually like them as a person. Slow, fast upside down from the chandelier it doesn't matter.

Thsts what I miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing.

It's when your chemistrys just work together. They could just touch your hand and it's electrifying. That smile across the room when you just know. When you look at them and think phwoar.

You actually like them as a person. Slow, fast upside down from the chandelier it doesn't matter.

Thsts what I miss

Yep know exactly what you mean. Must be out there somewhere eh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing.

It's when your chemistrys just work together. They could just touch your hand and it's electrifying. That smile across the room when you just know. When you look at them and think phwoar.

You actually like them as a person. Slow, fast upside down from the chandelier it doesn't matter.

Thsts what I miss

I hear that

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