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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This isn't a 'look at me' thread or a 'can you advise me' either, I'm genuinely interested to find out why I'm getting 25 to 30 views a day and 10 or so winks but, all from bi or gay guys, what if anything in my profile is suggesting I'm into guys ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you blocked men?

If not do so now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men are chancers.

Some men will say they’re straight, because some couples won’t meet with bi men. They’re chancing their luck that you are also bi.

There’s loads of ‘em, everywhere, that say they’re straight when they aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you blocked men?

If not do so now"

I haven't blocked men simply because I have some male friends here I've met at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you blocked men?

If not do so now

I haven't blocked men simply because I have some male friends here I've met at socials."

Think once you've messaged someone you can still message each other if you put a block on males, works for any blocks also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are (maybe) less likely to operate in stealth mode

Your profile will probably be getting views, you just don't see them

So, the question you are asking should maybe be:

'Why is my profile not attracting women or couples ?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you blocked men?

If not do so now

I haven't blocked men simply because I have some male friends here I've met at socials."

Well at least you’ve got your answer. If you don’t want to block men then you’re going to have to put up with getting lots of messages from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very fact you are alive and your heart still beats in your chest.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

It's all in those sans serif fonts I'm afraid

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Men look at you because they don't know you are straight until they read your profile. They message you because many are chancers and are hoping you've not been entirely truthful in your profile.

Women and couples don't show up on who's looked because lots choose to view in stealth mode. The site gives everyone the option to not show up on the list and ladies and couples choose to use it. If we don't we get lots of messages along the lines of "you looked at me, wanna fuck?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s your sporran, it’s intriguing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our Male pic fabs are from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't a 'look at me' thread or a 'can you advise me' either, I'm genuinely interested to find out why I'm getting 25 to 30 views a day and 10 or so winks but, all from bi or gay guys, what if anything in my profile is suggesting I'm into guys ?? "
you're wearing a skirt, kilts are gay attire these days maybe that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that their is anything that suggests your into guys. I'd say they guys are just hoping your fab straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't a 'look at me' thread or a 'can you advise me' either, I'm genuinely interested to find out why I'm getting 25 to 30 views a day and 10 or so winks but, all from bi or gay guys, what if anything in my profile is suggesting I'm into guys ??

you're wearing a skirt, kilts are gay attire these days maybe that's it "

Oi! Kilts are sexy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't a 'look at me' thread or a 'can you advise me' either, I'm genuinely interested to find out why I'm getting 25 to 30 views a day and 10 or so winks but, all from bi or gay guys, what if anything in my profile is suggesting I'm into guys ??

you're wearing a skirt, kilts are gay attire these days maybe that's it

Oi! Kilts are sexy as fuck "
exactly that's why the gay guys like them, they like ironing the pleats and standing over draughty manhole covers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the upshot is that I may be getting looked at by as many women / couples it's just that they operate in stealth mode ??? Thankfully I'm not a man magnet

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

[Removed by poster at 07/11/18 13:58:44]

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By *iceman888Man
over a year ago

canterbury

Hi all...can anyone help me...i came across a profile which said..."dogging at blean woods canterbury at 12.30pm" so being cruious i went...wow what good fun to see although out of respect i didnt join in but would love to go to more thing is...i cant find out places and times for canterbury kent...can anyone help me please.thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all...can anyone help me...i came across a profile which said..."dogging at blean woods canterbury at 12.30pm" so being cruious i went...wow what good fun to see although out of respect i didnt join in but would love to go to more thing is...i cant find out places and times for canterbury kent...can anyone help me please.thank you x"

Random

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Hi all...can anyone help me...i came across a profile which said..."dogging at blean woods canterbury at 12.30pm" so being cruious i went...wow what good fun to see although out of respect i didnt join in but would love to go to more thing is...i cant find out places and times for canterbury kent...can anyone help me please.thank you x

Random "

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Hi all...can anyone help me...i came across a profile which said..."dogging at blean woods canterbury at 12.30pm" so being cruious i went...wow what good fun to see although out of respect i didnt join in but would love to go to more thing is...i cant find out places and times for canterbury kent...can anyone help me please.thank you x"

Maybe start a thread of your own about it rather than trying to hijack someone else’s completely different thread

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By *iceman888Man
over a year ago

canterbury

Sorry if iv offended you mate im new to this and not got a clue what im doing if im honest so please forgive me but no need for rudeness!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't see anyone being rude mate but your post was incredibly random

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don't see anyone being rude mate but your post was incredibly random "

This

Also with regard to your query _iceman888 you'll find most doggers don't openly advertise times and locations to avoid unwelcome visitors (including the local constabulary)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice from a poster here, the kilt pic is now private, he made a point about TV,s and tartan mini skirts, let's see how we go

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Your profile does say your into MF couples which would suggest your not adverse to a bit of ball tiddling or am I wrong.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Great advice from a poster here, the kilt pic is now private, he made a point about TV,s and tartan mini skirts, let's see how we go "

TVs and tartan mini skirts. I’m sorry I don’t see the connection or the relevance to that You say you’ve been contacted by men. How many were TVs. I’d love to know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It'll be that pallet load of Tunnocks Tea Cakes you've got OP - it's a magnet to us bi/gay guys!!

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By *iceman888Man
over a year ago

canterbury

Thank you _emini man and once again sorry for intruding im new and learning like learning about threads oh and...teamworkboy...i read your statous about men looking at your profile...CONFUSED!!! cos you looked at me way before i intruded but there you go...we're all learning...bye all sorry and thanks x

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Because men are chancers.

Some men will say they’re straight, because some couples won’t meet with bi men. They’re chancing their luck that you are also bi.

There’s loads of ‘em, everywhere, that say they’re straight when they aren’t. "

They’re a nasty lot these single men just ruin it for everyone on here wouldn’t it be a better place without them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great advice from a poster here, the kilt pic is now private, he made a point about TV,s and tartan mini skirts, let's see how we go

TVs and tartan mini skirts. I’m sorry I don’t see the connection or the relevance to that You say you’ve been contacted by men. How many were TVs. I’d love to know "

The guy who mentioned tartan mini skirts suggested that some guys may tie in a proper kilt with the red tartan mini skirts skirts favoured by a lot of people here, it was no slight on TV,s, more a slight on numpties who couldn't tell the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the upshot is that I may be getting looked at by as many women / couples it's just that they operate in stealth mode ??? Thankfully I'm not a man magnet "

You're possibly getting viewed in stealth mode by women and couples. And you're a man magnet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice taken and kilt pic removed to private, no views at all today

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Advice taken and kilt pic removed to private, no views at all today "

Removing the kilt pic was a mistake, it was your best one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Advice taken and kilt pic removed to private, no views at all today

Removing the kilt pic was a mistake, it was your best one. "

Really ?? Guess you can't please all the people all the time

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