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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What kind of verifications would make you want to meet that person?

Do you like to see different kinds of veris on men's vs women's profiles?

Do you ever read veris and want to meet the person that left the veri?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing a girl is very orgasmic but we usually get to that as we talk veris dont inspire me to meet but give an idea of whats to come and what kind of person they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely read other people's verifications so they have no bearing on whether i would meet them or not..

I'd rather trust my own judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

***Great fabster, they pad for drinks all night long. ***

Something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest no I don't, after all who's going to post a veri that isn't anything other than gushing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest no I don't, after all who's going to post a veri that isn't anything other than gushing."

How many are you hiding?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't think there are any veris that would make me want to meet a person - however there are veris that would make me NOT want to meet them - anything overly graphic (that is reciprocated) over several veris for example

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Fun, friendly, social, loves same clubs as us. Put off by graphic detailed veris tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

I'll make my own mind up, depending on how they interact with me

'Nice / Great' are both subjective

'Great shag' is also subjective

We all bring different things out in each other, in and out of the bedroom

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Bland veris make me not want to meet someone - if they are any good at all they will have some exceptional veris IME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris frequently put me off,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest no I don't, after all who's going to post a veri that isn't anything other than gushing.

How many are you hiding? "

None.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Friendly, laid back, easy to get on with, a polite well mannered gentleman who is clean, smells nice.Same sort of things for a woman.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Ones from cynics like me

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m not a huge fan of verifications. I look to try to confirm they are genuine and also get a bit of a sense of the personality.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"I’m not a huge fan of verifications. I look to try to confirm they are genuine and also get a bit of a sense of the personality. "

How the hell do you get an insight into their personality from a veri?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we were meeting , we would always feel there was so much more of a chance that the people we were meeting would turn up if they had a few recent veris . And 99% of the time that was the case .

It was a 50/50 chance of them turning up if they had only a couple of veris , and the latest being more than three months old .

And only about 20% turned up if they weren’t verified .

So to all those who say veris don’t matter , they do to those people who are looking for meets .

The content doesn’t really matter to us , unless they’re all social . In which case we wouldn’t bother , as we didn’t swing for socials .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications that go on about how they can lick for england just make me wonder whether their shagging skills are up to scratch...

Id rather meet a good shagger than a good licker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris frequently put me off,"

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Veris frequently put me off,"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to study them to gather whether a person seemed 'safe' and looked as if people had survived a meet with them

Now Im not too bothered and have met without reading any of their veri's. Although I do like to see how they write about others they have met if possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read trip advisor either.

Someone else's alleged experience with another will never be the same as what the other and I may share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay attention to them. I don't show mine because I find it weird so I wouldn't base any judgment on someone else's.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"What kind of verifications would make you want to meet that person?

Do you like to see different kinds of veris on men's vs women's profiles?

Do you ever read veris and want to meet the person that left the veri?

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"She sucks like a dyson" Don't like any where the lady is degraded in them. I cross reference some to see if they are accurate. For instance if a hot couple veri a single lady saying she is gorgeous etc that would carry more weight with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes some veris can put me off. Especially if they’re very graphic, I wouldn’t send one like that, but also can’t control what people write about us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Veris frequently put me off,"

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to study them to gather whether a person seemed 'safe' and looked as if people had survived a meet with them

Now Im not too bothered and have met without reading any of their veri's. Although I do like to see how they write about others they have met if possible. "

How would the veris they leave put you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Verifications that go on about how they can lick for england just make me wonder whether their shagging skills are up to scratch...

Id rather meet a good shagger than a good licker"

The ones where they brag about their own skills? "I licked her for hours and gave her 304 orgasms".

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By *unaBelleWoman
over a year ago

Near the big road

I've noticed a lot of veris are like a stamp of ownership on a person.

That is off putting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I look for things like respectful, polite, friendly, and reliable. Anything else, it's much more personal taste, but first and foremost I look to see whether this person is safe and behaves appropriately on meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look for things like respectful, polite, friendly, and reliable. Anything else, it's much more personal taste, but first and foremost I look to see whether this person is safe and behaves appropriately on meets. "

You're pretty unlikely to ever read a veri that says something to the contrary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look to see if the persons genuine , but I don’t like the ones that blow too much smoke

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I look for things like respectful, polite, friendly, and reliable. Anything else, it's much more personal taste, but first and foremost I look to see whether this person is safe and behaves appropriately on meets.

You're pretty unlikely to ever read a veri that says something to the contrary "

No, but you read between the lines. If someone has several veris talking in that vein, it's a good sign. If they don't, or have some other things which might be damning with faint praise, I pass.

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