FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

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yep corse i do its only natural i try to think of it as as long as i get my slice im happy but it happens on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pangs are normal , I agree it’s how you deal with it.

Some people thrive on the reactions though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important."
as per said it much cleverer than me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

Because they only realised after meeting you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important."

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most jealous I've ever gotten on fab, was when I was talking to a male half of a couple who I was planning on meeting by himself. He told me one night that his missus had performed a sex act on him. I got a tiny bit jealous cos I wanted to do that to him too.

(I later did.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel a pang when looking at veris. I get a sexy rush seeing if my fb's have been active x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it happens to the best of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

No! That’s not the only reason. It May be what you said in the veri. May be if they meet someone popular and could get grief over it. I’ve got one not displayed for that reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

You’re beautiful, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

No! That’s not the only reason. It May be what you said in the veri. May be if they meet someone popular and could get grief over it. I’ve got one not displayed for that reason. "

ah ha maybe but anyway i see liverpool losing so its not all bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

Ill send a bottle round..... red or white

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

No! That’s not the only reason. It May be what you said in the veri. May be if they meet someone popular and could get grief over it. I’ve got one not displayed for that reason. "

I don't display Veris either.

I can't be arsed to provoke a reaction.

It's my business who I meet and I hate cringy gory details!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

ive always said this and its true. people up north and more friendly and chat to you.

they like a good time were down south everyone has money on the brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous? No, it’s a NSA fuck site! (Yes, yes it really is!!

)

Envious? Maybe a little at times - only because I liked my time with them and would have liked it to me again! But that’s what follow up meets are for, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

ive always said this and its true. people up north and more friendly and chat to you.

they like a good time were down south everyone has money on the brain"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

No! That’s not the only reason. It May be what you said in the veri. May be if they meet someone popular and could get grief over it. I’ve got one not displayed for that reason.

I don't display Veris either.

I can't be arsed to provoke a reaction.

It's my business who I meet and I hate cringy gory details!

To be honest I don’t want any now. I’ve got enough to prove I’m genuine. If people want me to leave one I will but otherwise I’m not arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

I got my own homeland wrong. I’m stuck in Scotland. I was meant to say ‘I’m stuck up here and the majority of folk are in England’ and changed my mind because I fancy some Welsh folk, and meh. I messaged up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

ive always said this and its true. people up north and more friendly and chat to you.

they like a good time were down south everyone has money on the brain"

Oi! Not everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

ive always said this and its true. people up north and more friendly and chat to you.

they like a good time were down south everyone has money on the brain

Oi! Not everyone!"
yeah but your only a fake southerner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel jealous that I’m stuck in England and the majority of people I fancy are down south, and they selfishly go and meet folk

ive always said this and its true. people up north and more friendly and chat to you.

they like a good time were down south everyone has money on the brain

Oi! Not everyone!yeah but your only a fake southerner"

This is true. You can take the girl out of Lancashire....... as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ive learnt 3 or 4 different opinions.

thanks all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

You’re beautiful, in my opinion."

Oh thankyou gorgeous

Back at you

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Thankfully not an emotion i have encountered but i could understand how this would happen for a single as the best meets should be an intense mix of emotions and the best of us get those muddled up.. Hell i still struggle with which shoe is for which foot, thank the lord for the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

You’re beautiful, in my opinion.

Oh thankyou gorgeous

Back at you

Xx"
id say get a room but id be jealous i want joining you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont say your fat please mary.

i hate that word and trust me your a fine women.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

There have been a few threads like this.

Old meets... Nope.. Happy to leave the past in the past. Never look back.

Current meets... Only in as far as I'm jealous of the missed opportunity... Especially if I'm stuck doing something boring at the time. Otherwise I'm happy they're having fun!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

You’re beautiful, in my opinion.

Oh thankyou gorgeous

Back at you

Xxid say get a room but id be jealous i want joining you

Perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important.

Yes you're right - that makes me feel a little better

I'm not heart broken lol I'm just having a fat and old moment - I'll get over it.

Wine is the answer

You’re beautiful, in my opinion.

Oh thankyou gorgeous

Back at you

Xxid say get a room but id be jealous i want joining you

Perv

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guilty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dont say your fat please mary.

i hate that word and trust me your a fine women."

I'm usually OK about being fat - there's no need to sugarcoat it I know what I look like.

I just had a pang of envy when I saw pictures of the beautiful 27yr old he is fucking

I could be her mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get jealous on here, it’s not worth. My life partner isn’t on here and those I meet are for sex.

Might get envious someone was getting more cock than me but that’s all.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

I had two veri’s from you years ago when we first met, I displayed both until you popped off site then the disappeared with you

I would display one now apart from my profile is on lock down and you can’t give me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

I had two veri’s from you years ago when we first met, I displayed both until you popped off site then the disappeared with you

I would display one now apart from my profile is on lock down and you can’t give me one

sandy i know your personal circumstance and im still glad we talk almost daily.

you are the lighthouse that keeps me from crashing into the rocks xx

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

"Jealous? No, it’s a NSA fuck site! (Yes, yes it really is!!

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Envious? Maybe a little at times - only because I liked my time with them and would have liked it to me again! But that’s what follow up meets are for, right?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I can only be honest here , and say that we have never been jealous or envious of anyone’s Veris on here . Nor have we experienced an envious feeling about anything or anyone relating to swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just jealous if the guy my past meet met has better shoes than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

Please don't say that about yourself. It could be quite the opposite. They may of liked you a lot and not want to bring extra attention to you, so they can have more of you to themselves. Who knows. There could be many reasons they haven't displayed your verification. I don't display all of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am just jealous if the guy my past meet met has better shoes than me. "
sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. they ran their natural course and it's good to see such great guys continuing to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont say your fat please mary.

i hate that word and trust me your a fine women.

I'm usually OK about being fat - there's no need to sugarcoat it I know what I look like.

I just had a pang of envy when I saw pictures of the beautiful 27yr old he is fucking

I could be her mum

I had a similar situation and I felt jealous. But he kept coming back to me so I realised I had nothing to be jealous of really.

He might be fucking her but wishing he was with you.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I can only be honest here , and say that we have never been jealous or envious of anyone’s Veris on here . Nor have we experienced an envious feeling about anything or anyone relating to swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

No! That’s not the only reason. It May be what you said in the veri. May be if they meet someone popular and could get grief over it. I’ve got one not displayed for that reason. "

I got a veri that I can't show so I decided it best to hide others too as it would be odd to show some but not all.

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I was once with someone who was arranging a meet with someone via text (not for the same day thank god!) shortly after i'd finished fucking her.

After that, i figured it's best to leave your ego at the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped displaying verifications because some people liked to poke their nose into my sex/social life on here without being asked. Then I stopped meeting altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy only makes you sad. Be happy my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am just jealous if the guy my past meet met has better shoes than me. "

Not possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was once with someone who was arranging a meet with someone via text (not for the same day thank god!) shortly after i'd finished fucking her.

After that, i figured it's best to leave your ego at the door.

Bloody hell that's so rude!! Bet she would have gone mad if you'd done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

Chill, some people don't show all their veries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice in around 5 years on the site I’ve got jealous, and both times I’ve stopped meeting that person and eventually pulled away altogether. I’m not here to feel negative feelings, I’m here for fun and positive experiences.

You’re right though OP.... wine is the answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish envy / jealousy wasn't a part of my make up.

I envy those of you that don't feel it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't think it's jealousy as such, more a mixed emotion that's part happiness for them that they've had a good time, and part controlled wistfulness that it wasn't you this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on admit it ..

I have to confess to just having a little pang looking at an old meets new veri from a really gorgeous woman

I thought I didn't feel jealous on here but clearly I do!

Who else feels it?

I think jealousy and envy are natural emotions. It’s how you respond to those emotions that’s important."

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I was going to do the whole "naaah, not me" but actually I have felt the odd pang of it before. Not from seeing veris though. It's a fleeting feeling, don't give it room to grow.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

I had two veri’s from you years ago when we first met, I displayed both until you popped off site then the disappeared with you

I would display one now apart from my profile is on lock down and you can’t give me one

sandy i know your personal circumstance and im still glad we talk almost daily.

you are the lighthouse that keeps me from crashing into the rocks xx"

Don’t over think things that don’t really matter Patrick, you’re a great bloke and a good friend and you shouldn’t let anyone make you feel less than you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was going to do the whole "naaah, not me" but actually I have felt the odd pang of it before. Not from seeing veris though. It's a fleeting feeling, don't give it room to grow."

I'm not - and anyone who says they don't have the odd pang is probably lying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a pang of envy or jealousy about a current meet I tend to move on. This isn’t the place for those emotions but very occasionally I find it happens, particularly when the lady is younger and prettier. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get a pang of envy or jealousy about a current meet I tend to move on. This isn’t the place for those emotions but very occasionally I find it happens, particularly when the lady is younger and prettier. Xx"

I think I get the reverse, not exactly jealousy but incomprehension if the woman appears to be less attractive than me (in my opinion - I realise that everything is subjective and that, particularly in this game, there is no accounting for taste)!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah it's natural isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thing i have noticed is some people ive met not displaying the verification ive left them.

i can only take that they were embarrassed to and dont want anyone else knowing.

so why fucking meet me then?

Chill, some people don't show all their veries. "

I have hidden yours

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends who it is.

If it's someone I have no feelings for I get excited for them.

If it's someone I do have feelings for I get a little sad, coz I wish I was there with them too, as a team. I feel left out if that makes sense.

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By *unaBelleWoman
over a year ago

Near the big road

Jealousy is a horrible awful thing.

It can creep up when you least expect it and there are many layers to it.

Don't we all get jealous to one extent or another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends who it is.

If it's someone I have no feelings for I get excited for them.

If it's someone I do have feelings for I get a little sad, coz I wish I was there with them too, as a team. I feel left out if that makes sense."

That makes sense to me. The feeling left out.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

On Fab or any such site: never!

I'm generally not a jealous person, but I'm losing my hair and I do feel pangs of envy if I see a man with luscious locks. My three son-in-laws have full heads of thick glossy hair...life is unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous is a horrible emotion op. I learned to let go of it a long time ago. I think I learned to admire people more.

But jealous over swinging is problematic, I’d say to anyone that they’d need to sort that out before you carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt used to be bad but im getting much much much worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time things bother me (male half) is when we're in a club and guys think they can just touch the Mrs, it's just bloody rude! Other than that we're good as a couple.

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