FabSwingers.com forum: Women. What’s your priority. Looks or chemistry?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m interested to hear your views on this one

can you give a clear explanation to back it up too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without facial attraction there will be no chemistry for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without physical attraction I don't check for chemistry so I guess looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry ..

There has to be a spark of something to attract you otherwise why bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like physics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry

That's why I struggle on here

It's really hard to judge unless you have time for 300 socials a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Looks then chemistry.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Both, at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For private meets I need both. In a club just looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemestry

Humour flirting ability banter

Then looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look into my eyes

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I would imagine it has something to do with the right combination of/ enough Chromosomes but not too many and the ability to speak/ act through the right head at the appropriate time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to say chemistry tips the balance for me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Both - I like the physical and the chemistry. If they are sexy enough to be plastered across the net, I'm dripping.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Chemistry with s bit of looks thrown in, I don’t go for classically handsome anyway, I like men to look a bit roughed up

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

"Without facial attraction there will be no chemistry for me."
Agree to a great extent - a good face pic that expresses confidence and charm goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Chemistry is all good but I need to want to rip their clothes off too.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Chemistry but I do have to have visual attraction as well. It doesn't have to be anything like traditional good looks, but definitely must be pleasing to my eye. Chemistry is more important, if I had to choose only one it would be that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s got to be a mixture of all but first thing is the physical attraction and there’s bits that attract you to someone more,I have to fancy them in the face.Chemistry and click are key then the rest falls into place.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order to have chemistry, I would need to be physically attracted to them. There is no one without the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like physics

I like biology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry. Which is why we hardly ever meet, lots of physically attractive men here who don't have a personality that I find remotely interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

I need to like their face , then the chemistry grows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/qgCVR2pjXc0

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Looks for the initial attraction then a bit of chemistry goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially a face will grab my attention, but only chemistry will make me want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks attract you

Chemistry keeps you interested

Which one is more important?

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

There has to be something that sparks an interest to build upon. Have met a lovely variety of people off here and the ones that stick out have had a witty comment or an erotic pic that has got the ball rolling.

I’d say humour goes a long way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for the initial attraction then a bit of chemistry goes a long way

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Let’s play science

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Attraction closely followed by chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks attract you

Chemistry keeps you interested

Which one is more important?"
A bit of both because you can really fancy someone and their personality puts you off,but someone who you wouldn’t look at twice might have a personality your really into but if the physical attraction wasn’t there then you would never of spoke to them so it’s a case of just going with your gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely chemistry first, then looks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely chemistry first, then looks x "
Hi ang!! Wave icon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me. I have to find someone attractive to have chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There definitely has to be an "oh hello handsome" moment for me to want to find out whether there is any chemistry. For things to really work there has to be both though....but think it's looks first, then chemistry! x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but not in equal measure though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely chemistry first, then looks x Hi ang!! Wave icon!

Hello charming x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both but not in equal measure though

Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both but not in equal measure though

Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!

It's because you are so in touch with your feminine side F&B

#becauseyou'reworthit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held"

This plus I

ladies all of them

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both but not in equal measure though

Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!

It's because you are so in touch with your feminine side F&B

#becauseyou'reworthit"

Yes, that's true ! Thanks for having my back ! No pun intended !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both but not in equal measure though

Why did I even replied ffs ? I am not a woman!

It's because you are so in touch with your feminine side F&B

#becauseyou'reworthit

Yes, that's true ! Thanks for having my back ! No pun intended ! "

As long as you keep shaving it I'll be the there

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

This plus I

ladies all of them

Jo.Xx"

Great minds!

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Face first I struggle to move forward if I’m not attracted to that but it has to be combined with banter, I need the both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

This plus I

ladies all of them

Jo.Xx"

owwwwww bugger

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Chemistry wins out in the end but this is more likely if there is physical attraction to begin with. Physical attraction can be instant but chemistry comes through conversation and connection and takes time to deepen.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

This plus I

ladies all of them

Jo.Xx

owwwwww bugger

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

On here looks first, clubs and real life both are important.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

A nice face is lovely but chemistry first. If they've no sense of humour or character, don't care how pretty they are.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. "

Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

This plus I

ladies all of them

Jo.Xx

Great minds!

Absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

This plus I

ladies all of them

Jo.Xx

owwwwww bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m interested to hear your views on this one

can you give a clear explanation to back it up too. "

You're on an online Website, how can there be any chemistry, it's as superficial as it can get

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Both

I need to like their face , then the chemistry grows "

When women don't show their faces, for reasons of discretion and all that, which I understand. I still wish I could see their faces. So I can see if I fancy them even more.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Mine is other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Priority would be chemistry. Because that turns me on more than looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need both please . In no particular order. Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, but chemistry decided when we meet. Yet to find someone I had physical attraction to but no chemistry when meeting. So the chat after first contact is very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banter and chemistry then looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need both please . In no particular order. Thankyou

here have my bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be all three, chemistry, physics and biology

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I need both please . In no particular order. Thankyou

Still Nora I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I recall, no one looked beyond Quasimodo's or Frankenstein's monster's looks to see if they were actually really nice guys. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Without facial attraction there will be no chemistry for me."

Interesting. So you wouldn’t talk to a guy without seeing a picture first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chemistry ..

There has to be a spark of something to attract you otherwise why bother"

So it wouldn’t have to necessarily be a physical attraction first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chemistry

That's why I struggle on here

It's really hard to judge unless you have time for 300 socials a week

It’s tough for the ladies. But isn’t there something that stands out in terms of what gives you a good idea that a guy is potentially worth getting to know?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Physical attraction gets my attention but chemistry keeps it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks then chemistry."

Why looks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both, at the same time

Someone’s just greedy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For private meets I need both. In a club just looks. "

Oh a different strategy depending on location. That’s interesting. Can you explain why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but a connection is paramount

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both. Chemistry is all good but I need to want to rip their clothes off too. "

Lol. Love your attitude!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. "

Yes, that's what I look for, hard to find though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks for the initial attraction then a bit of chemistry goes a long way

I couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need that sexual spark, the raw feeling, the I want to literally rip your clothes off and devour you type of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks attract you

Chemistry keeps you interested

Which one is more important?"

Isn’t it what’s more important to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need a bit of both. "

Is one more of a priority?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both for me. I have to find someone attractive to have chemistry."

So looks essential or no chemistry??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There definitely has to be an "oh hello handsome" moment for me to want to find out whether there is any chemistry. For things to really work there has to be both though....but think it's looks first, then chemistry! x"

This seems to be the majority outlook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held"

Do you try to engage with messages or are you looking for guys to simply hold yours?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

As others have said there has to be both. If either are missing then I lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing. "

I’m really interested in your view. Is it fair to say that you could find someone more attractive if you’ve got great chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A nice suit.

lol. I admire your attitude

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

Do you try to engage with messages or are you looking for guys to simply hold yours?"

It's a two way street!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need both please . In no particular order. Thankyou

No thank you for your view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without facial attraction there will be no chemistry for me."

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Physical attraction gets my attention but chemistry keeps it. "

Well put. I’m on the same page with that view

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both but a connection is paramount "

Would one be required first before the other?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As others have said there has to be both. If either are missing then I lose interest. "

Hey NSA chick. Which one is more important or should I say a priority?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both for me - physical attraction (handsome/rugged) followed by an ability to engage my mind.... and hold the attraction

Flaky occasional messagers are soon lost/discarded if my attention isn’t suitably held

Do you try to engage with messages or are you looking for guys to simply hold yours?

It's a two way street! "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.

Yes, that's what I look for, hard to find though.

Hard to find on here on in life I’m general. By the way that’s a big football

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.

Yes, that's what I look for, hard to find though.

Hard to find on here on in life I’m general. By the way that’s a big football

Indeed.... and yes, they're both monsters lol!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Why must it be one or the other?

People can posess both, either or neither...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"As others have said there has to be both. If either are missing then I lose interest.

Hey NSA chick. Which one is more important or should I say a priority?"

I prioritise both equally

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Looks every time

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

Tineye might be your friend here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

Tineye might be your friend here

Unrelated to thread but....Red, is that Holkham Beach?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both

I need to like their face , then the chemistry grows

When women don't show their faces, for reasons of discretion and all that, which I understand. I still wish I could see their faces. So I can see if I fancy them even more."

Agree!

Think that's the reason i put my face in my profile. I wont be everybody's cup of tea and i respect that. But i know for a fact looks its more important that chemistry anyway... I mean seriously most lads on here will have the gift of the gab. I know i do... But no attraction your not going to get a chance to show that no matter how good you are at it. Therefore the chemistry doesn't get a look in.

Just my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks gets your foot in the door, chemistry opens the door

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

Tineye might be your friend here

Unrelated to thread but....Red, is that Holkham Beach?! "

Not holkham but close, wells next the sea

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By *unaBelleWoman
over a year ago

Near the big road

I would say both.

Looks obviously cause you to feel attracted to someone initially, couple that with a really good personality and you are onto a winner.

It's just finding the handsome ones who can also hold a decent conversation, make you laugh etc.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

Tineye might be your friend here

*Tuts*

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By *unaBelleWoman
over a year ago

Near the big road

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

Are all of the men in suits dashingly handsome and needing to be wicked at?

Maybe I should look at the ones in clothes

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

Tineye might be your friend here

*Tuts* "
hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.

At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.

If you’re all good looks but dull as dishwater I’m probably going to say no. I figure you’ll probably be a boring lay. If you cannot be bothered to try to connect with me mentally, sexually you might be selfish too. It’s usually the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.

At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once upon a time there was a super sexy dashing man in a well cut suit, she thought..... I could do with a bit of this delight. Thats the attraction.

She winked at him!!! And so will the connection follow.

It can start with a wink. Given time, flirting and expressive communication, chemistry can develop.

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over a year ago

"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.

At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.

Brilliantly and comprehensively put!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As others have said there has to be both. If either are missing then I lose interest.

Hey NSA chick. Which one is more important or should I say a priority?

I prioritise both equally

Greedy

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over a year ago

"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.

At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.

Brilliantly and comprehensively put!!

Thank you

You did ask for a clear explanation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won’t consider a man if I don’t find him attractive. All personality but not sexy to me, is a sure friend-zone. And I don’t think any man on here has approached me for real friendship.

At the same time, perfect beauty isn’t enough, some more average-attractive guys have had the edge because they seem more interesting, have better conversation.

Brilliantly and comprehensively put!!

Thank you

You did ask for a clear explanation

And it’s crystal clear but eloquently delivered. Sometimes those that are more attractive can be lazy which in itself is unattractive

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Chemistry, every time.

Some people you just click with, something in your brain connects, it can happen in the blink of an eye, take your breath away, and you just know everything will be amazing.

I’m really interested in your view. Is it fair to say that you could find someone more attractive if you’ve got great chemistry? "

Yes.

Physical attraction only goes so far with me.

I've met people that would be described as drop dead gorgeous, but felt nothing, and walked away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it has to be a combination of a few things attraction, personality,smile, smell, humour,dress sense, flexibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about personality for me.

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"I’m interested to hear your views on this one

can you give a clear explanation to back it up too. "

Got to be chemistry doesn’t matter how attractive someone is if there isn’t a spark then where’s the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks when meeting, clubs etc I’m looking for nsa fun so if I like what I see we can play if not we won’t

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By *hee CASAMan
over a year ago

Banterville

Judging by some of this is ugly guys have a chance our time is now long as we are funny as fuck and can keep them interested

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