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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s almost like the d*unk people on nights out who get in your face and insist they’re sober

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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"It’s almost like the d*unk people on nights out who get in your face and insist they’re sober "

"S'ok, I've only had, like *burrrrp* 6 beers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professional " grates on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a phrase so much. As a hobbit sized person I tend to skip to height requirements 1st to see if its even worth reading the rest of a profile whether they're genuine or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight guys looking for men!!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Not as much as the Sydney university disclaimer also the can’t put face pics on due to my job I bet most of them don’t even have a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine, professional, nice, discreet, avoidddddddd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you? "
omg genuine people scare me

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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


""Professional " grates on me "

A professional cheese grater?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I’d say (no real figures on this) but about 80 percent of profiles are fake. And about 90 percent of the ones that say they’re genuine

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Fucking hell. There’s no way I’d communicate with anyone ‘genuine’

What if they were actually up for a meet??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight men looking for TVs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

References to being a sapiophile get under my skin.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


""Professional " grates on me

A professional cheese grater? "

A genuine, professional cheese grater, at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom, bull, dominant, alpha... Most of that guff, broke my rules once... He was all talk, lots and lots of talk and possibly one of only a couple of disappointing fucks I have had from Fab lol

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin."
sapiophile new one on me can I google it or will it make my browsing history look a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Professional " grates on me

A professional cheese grater?

A genuine, professional cheese grater, at that."
I love cracker barrel

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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin. sapiophile new one on me can I google it or will it make my browsing history look a bit weird "

I Googled it already...You're safe.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Even worse than genuine are people who are 110% genuine.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you? "
build rapport= timewaster

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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Dom, bull, dominant, alpha... Most of that guff, broke my rules once... He was all talk, lots and lots of talk and possibly one of only a couple of disappointing fucks I have had from Fab lol"

Ah, yeah. 'Alpha' is another alert too. As I've said before, just makes me think of Alaphabetti Spaghetti.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Even worse than genuine are people who are 110% genuine. "

I'm 1000% with you on that one!!

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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Even worse than genuine are people who are 110% genuine. "

At least 10% of that statement cannot be genuine. Probably more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin."

Yeah me too.

I prefer my men dumb as shit

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The 'honest' ones that state they are married or partnered on their profile or in messages. I wonder how 'honest' the majority are with their partners about being on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah me too.

I prefer my men dumb as shit"

That's not the reasoning, but feel free to run with it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin.

Yeah me too.

I prefer my men dumb as shit"

Funnily enough you came to mind when I read the post you quoted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin.

Yeah me too.

I prefer my men dumb as shit"
damn I looked up the meaning a couple of years back I'm sure it didn't say that

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin.

Yeah me too.

I prefer my men dumb as shit"

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'honest' ones that state they are married or partnered on their profile or in messages. I wonder how 'honest' the majority are with their partners about being on here? "
agree here. You can trust me. Lol. How can anyone trust someone who's cheating on their partners lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"References to being a sapiophile get under my skin.

Yeah me too.

I prefer my men dumb as shit

Funnily enough you came to mind when I read the post you quoted "

You flatter me, kind sir

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I don't use the word genuine in terms of myself, I don't feel the need as plenty know me and can make up their own minds. I do sometimes use it in terms of others though who I feel are true to themselves, in order to distinguish them from the occasional false people I've encountered (the ones who are nice to your face only, the ones who pretend to be 10-15 years younger than they actually are, the ones who just say what they think you want to hear in order to meet you, but aren't really looking for the same thing or don't really share your interests, the ones who would sell their soul for a few more fabs)... I suspect a lot of other people (intentionally or not) use it the same way, because, if you've had a run of bad experiences, it can be quite refreshing to meet genuine people

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The 'honest' ones that state they are married or partnered on their profile or in messages. I wonder how 'honest' the majority are with their partners about being on here? agree here. You can trust me. Lol. How can anyone trust someone who's cheating on their partners lol. "

Exactly. States this clearly on my profile.

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By *reendan OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't use the word genuine in terms of myself, I don't feel the need as plenty know me and can make up their own minds. I do sometimes use it in terms of others though who I feel are true to themselves, in order to distinguish them from the occasional false people I've encountered (the ones who are nice to your face only, the ones who pretend to be 10-15 years younger than they actually are, the ones who just say what they think you want to hear in order to meet you, but aren't really looking for the same thing or don't really share your interests, the ones who would sell their soul for a few more fabs)... I suspect a lot of other people (intentionally or not) use it the same way, because, if you've had a run of bad experiences, it can be quite refreshing to meet genuine people "

Oh, yeah, I've got no issue with people using it to describe other people. It's when people use it to describe themselves it comes off as a bit creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'honest' ones that state they are married or partnered on their profile or in messages. I wonder how 'honest' the majority are with their partners about being on here? agree here. You can trust me. Lol. How can anyone trust someone who's cheating on their partners lol. "
Surely their are different degrees of need for trust in this life, you trust they are not axe murderers and bad people in general, the fact they as adults and married but want sex with others doesn't mean they are bad people, they just want sex and surely fabswingers in its many different facets offers the opportunity to have sex to consenting adults, if you choose not to have sex with them so be it but they're not always people to be scorned for the choice they are making, which could be for many different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that describe themselves as quirky.... Does my head in.. If ya have to tell people then you're probably not! Not a fan of the word alternative either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of that nonsense annoys me but not as much as profiles that say ‘will fill in later’ or ‘....’

The Sydney University notices make me think it’s either someone gullible or too lazy to write much to fill their profile.x

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

What a bunch of moaners we are. Fucking hell.

Let’s live & let live. Make love not war. Take what anybody says with a pinch of salt.

Chill out swingers.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

I'm 1000% with you on that one!! "

Only 1000%? I expected more from you GeminiMan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see the word genuine used in profiles, I usually think people have encountered lots of timewasters and non genuine people from hook up or swinging sites. It kind of seems like a code word for people who will actually meet up. Don't see a problem with this one.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you? "

Genuine and fun. As if anyone would admit to being bogus and dull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont read profiles so dont care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of a pointless word. A bit like nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you? "

It genuinely does OP. And yes, there are others, many of which have been gathered here today.

I may rewrite mine with them all in it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine/sexy/nice/convincing etc etc. All the self-compliments put me off. Professional I can just about tolerate : )

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Profiles that tell me to “jog on” if I don’t like something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles that tell me to “jog on” if I don’t like something. "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Professional " grates on me "

If you can't stand the heat, get out the kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles that tell me to “jog on” if I don’t like something.

Yes. "

Yes. Nobody is going to get me to jog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you?

Genuine and fun. As if anyone would admit to being bogus and dull! "

Dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you? "

good looking. yup. your mum thinks so, as do others. don't mean I think so

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you?

Genuine and fun. As if anyone would admit to being bogus and dull!

Dude!"

Like, totally bogus dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight men looking for TVs "

To be fair Ryan Giggs is probably looking for somewhere to watch Real Madrid games.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

[Removed by poster at 06/11/18 16:14:08]

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


""Professional " grates on me

A professional cheese grater?

A genuine, professional cheese grater, at that."

worse is a discreet, genuine, professional cheese grater lol

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Straight men looking for TVs

To be fair Ryan Giggs is probably looking for somewhere to watch Real Madrid games."

Have you been watching repeats of bullseye again?

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Not as much as the Sydney university disclaimer also the can’t put face pics on due to my job I bet most of them don’t even have a job "

They all have a job its the same job! Ok and the job is.....making sure the wife doesn't catch them on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles that tell me to “jog on” if I don’t like something. "

Best jog on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fan of the word alternative either! "

You're a nonconformist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Genuinely removed by poster at 06/11/18 16:14:08]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for quality not quantity.....

Who is really looking to fuck everyone on this site?

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Oh b****cks

I'm going to need a complete re-write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it."

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)"

Oooo... Ooo... Ooo... Can you wear those to the next MLS Jim??? Pleeeeeeeease

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"People that describe themselves as quirky.... Does my head in.. If ya have to tell people then you're probably not! Not a fan of the word alternative either! "

‘Mad me innit!’

Yes, I hate that too. Also any references to crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)

Oooo... Ooo... Ooo... Can you wear those to the next MLS Jim??? Pleeeeeeeease "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)

Oooo... Ooo... Ooo... Can you wear those to the next MLS Jim??? Pleeeeeeeease "

Do ya think he can do a decent Leslie Phillips impression to cap it all off?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Not as much as the Sydney university disclaimer also the can’t put face pics on due to my job I bet most of them don’t even have a job

They all have a job its the same job! Ok and the job is.....making sure the wife doesn't catch them on here. "
I was thinking that perhaps it’s mi5 and that’s why no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)"

Well it is Movember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)

Oooo... Ooo... Ooo... Can you wear those to the next MLS Jim??? Pleeeeeeeease "

I'll take my cape to the dry cleaners tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it."

How do we know that you are genuinely genuine though?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Any mention or reference to 420

Instablock!

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

So reading on this do we all conclude that its someone with 'Genuine arsehole' on their profile is what we are looking for?

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden


"So reading on this do we all conclude that its someone with 'Genuine arsehole' on their profile is what we are looking for? "

Is that 'fab straight?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So reading on this do we all conclude that its someone with 'Genuine arsehole' on their profile is what we are looking for? "

No, no, no! It's Genuine proffessionals that have been here before and know how it works that also have a silhouette avatar but will delete your message unless you attach a face pic and want you to type Felching in the subject box so they know you read down to the last sentence of their profile text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So reading on this do we all conclude that its someone with 'Genuine arsehole' on their profile is what we are looking for? "

https://youtu.be/kOwTF_i6zOc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see the word "Genuine" in a profile as an immediate "Nah, mate". It gives me the feeling of someone trying to hard... Like an actual genuine person wouldn't need to describe themselves as such.

Any other phrasing that causes an immediate No from you? "

"You won't be disappointed"

Already am because of that phrase alone.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s almost like the d*unk people on nights out who get in your face and insist they’re sober "

I once asked two bouncers “am I too d*unk to come in?”...

... obviously if you have to ask

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I 100% take there word for it. If they weren't infact 'genuine' why would they say they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's you"

I know it's daft but that particular phrase totally puts me off replying to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as much as the Sydney university disclaimer also the can’t put face pics on due to my job I bet most of them don’t even have a job "

Oh definetly this for me too. Especially when the Sydney university disclaimer is longer than any other sentence they've wrote about themselves.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


""Professional " grates on me

A professional cheese grater?

A genuine, professional cheese grater, at that."

A discreet, genuine, professional, cheese grater who will turn up as promised....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)

Oooo... Ooo... Ooo... Can you wear those to the next MLS Jim??? Pleeeeeeeease

Do ya think he can do a decent Leslie Phillips impression to cap it all off?"

Oh I sayyyyyyyyyy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have genuine on my profile. I also don't wear a poppy, deal with it.

It also says that you aren't a cad. But I can just imagine you with a twirly moustache, top hat and cape (walking cane optional)

Oooo... Ooo... Ooo... Can you wear those to the next MLS Jim??? Pleeeeeeeease

Do ya think he can do a decent Leslie Phillips impression to cap it all off?

Oh I sayyyyyyyyyy.... "

Ding dong!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


""How's you"

I know it's daft but that particular phrase totally puts me off replying to messages. "

I once really told one how I was, after my graphic description of my menstrual cycle I was experiencing he didn’t message me again....

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