FabSwingers.com forum: Who knows you’re on Fab ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And do you give a shit who does ?

I’ve been rumbled by a few mates, mainly cause of my big mouth.

So who knows you’re on Fab ?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

The man that introduced me to it.

Yes I would mind. My private life is private.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hopefully no-one that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea. If anyone does know, they’re currently being discreet about it, which is the way I like it!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

My wife, my cousin found me on here. Thought he could tease me about it. But I don’t give a fook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister, my best friend and my mother knows I'm on some dodgy site, that's what it's referred to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my workmates know. 2 have left job now, 1 is a casual worker - she joined fab out of curiosity but left. She is on tinder though and meets people for fun.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Only you lot on here!

No one from the real world knows (or even suspects).

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Family doesn't know and i don't tell any friends because there is enough competition on here already without bringing more. Not that I'm aware of but no I don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people know, we dont mind nothing to hide xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one at work knows that i use a site for fun but they think its a tinder style one

Im hoping that my private life remains private

Im not ashamed or embarrassed by what i do i just dont want my private and sex life to become public knowledge non swingers are allowed to keep thier sex life private why should ours become the newest office gossip and us be made to feel 2nd rate for having an open and broad minded attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lady and i m not bothered who else knows, for if she knows then all is well??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum doesn't.

She would slap me and send me to my room without supper

Can hear her now 'dirty beast'

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A couple of ex colleagues but that’s it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone Mr know. Only because he messaged us. We only ever see him in a the pub so it's never ever been mentioned as other people have been there. None of us batted an eyelid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nobody.

I even think Fab memebers are unaware at times too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows that I'm aware off.

I would have a problem if any friends/family knew my private life is my businees only and intrusive people are not welcome into it.

I know a few friends who enjoy fishing as a pastime. I don't turn up on the riverbank with my rod out !

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Non-fab folk? One friend... We've lost touch though over the years.

Do I care who knows? Yes I do. Why? Because people are ignorant and judgmental... Ffs when even Fab folk make assumptions and judge me, how could I expect vanilla folk not to?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Fuck knows. If anyone from the "peopley" outside know, they'd probably not be shocked and see how I'm the same here as I am there, just with less clothes on.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Aside from my partner (who is also on here) no-one knows or even suspects that isn't on the site already and that's the way I'd like to keep it

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Just us and the folk on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely nobody.

I even think Fab memebers are unaware at times too !

Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one friend whose always asking if I'm still on my 'dirty wee site'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those I've met on fab as can't be arsed with 50 questions and they're judgemental attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often have to have a chuckle when the lads moan they're not getting any ,or they say I must have nuts the size of coconuts because I never seem to be out with a woman, little do they know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha only 1 person knows now - see my thread lol.

I don't want people knowing but if they found out I wouldn't lie about being on here. Its my private life and what I enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few mates, some even joined, my neighbour as she sent me a message from her profile. Hahaha, my brother.

I do think it's not a bad thing for someone to know in case you ever got in a pickle for What ever reason.

Happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think no one knows, but people are certainly trying to find out, unless our area is full of ‘unicorns’ as we get around 3/4 messages a week of single ladies, with a message, hi, send pics! All within a 2 mile radius ?? must think we are silly.

We do care btw, but only because we have children x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

My wife.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

You

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Absolutely nobody.

I even think Fab memebers are unaware at times too !

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My eldest 2 know.

Told my daughter immediately.

I told my son after spotting friends of his on here, they'd viewed me. Figured it best he hear from me, rather than after a few beers down the pub.

My mum & a couple of my oldest friends know.

The rest just think I'm on an 'online dating site'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my family or friends know

Would i give a shit if anyone found out? Yes I probably would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend. I got d*unk and showed her the site. She finds it hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend knows but no one else does.

As someone else has said, many people on here judge, so those in the vanilla world would have a field day. I don't need the hassle or the gossip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend(she knows more about me than I know)

My cousin(because he's on here)

And meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good friend of mine, and my youngest two kids but they don’t know what it is. X

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Nobody who matters to us knows and like it that way.

It kind of can become an issue, when you go on a meet in a pub, and the regulars know that the people who you are seeing are in the scene. Thankfully we didn't know anybody there but did remind us that one persons idea of being careful is another's, so what...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My team leader in work, who’s also a friend..never know when you might need time off unexpectedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend. I got d*unk and showed her the site. She finds it hilarious. "

I also did this. It provided her with a good laugh that evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend. I got d*unk and showed her the site. She finds it hilarious.

I also did this. It provided her with a good laugh that evening "
hope it wassnt when i flashed my willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend. I got d*unk and showed her the site. She finds it hilarious.

I also did this. It provided her with a good laugh that evening hope it wassnt when i flashed my willy

I show her that Every time you send it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend. I got d*unk and showed her the site. She finds it hilarious.

I also did this. It provided her with a good laugh that evening hope it wassnt when i flashed my willy

I show her that Every time you send it to me

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3some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a soul knows apart from my friends on here (one is also part of my “normal” life). That’s the way I like it.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Same as many others on here: no one outside Fab as far as I know.

I’ve spotted the odd friend and acquaintance but I’ve always kept it to myself, which is what I hope they’d do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And do you give a shit who does ?

I’ve been rumbled by a few mates, mainly cause of my big mouth.

So who knows you’re on Fab ? "

Being a swinger, a few people, being on fab, who cares. Not like it's a sex site or anything, more self help, bet the woman's own forum is more controversial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my colleagues. Disclosed to them about fab on my long nightshift natters. A couple of them are on here now to.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I made a decision to tell my adult children, the main reason being I didn't want to find them on the site...or them to find me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the best of my knowledge nobody outside of fab.

Some days it also feels like nobody on fab knows either

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I am single, nothing to hide, don't care who knows I am here.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

All my closest friends know (5 or 6). It’s no big deal to me, I’m a single girl and they’re all my proper friends. If they’d be shocked to hear I was doing this they wouldn’t know me very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kevin, Peter amd John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kevin, Peter amd John "

Oh my gawd, did you tell Peter - or did John spill the beans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My GF, and one of the Gitls I work with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one close friend from vanilla life knows who we trust will never reveal our secret.

Mrs

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Pretty much everyone I know.

Except my Dad

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Pretty much all my close friends and family. My friends have been out on fab dates with me. One even came to a club for a drink. I don’t see any benefit to keeping it a secret really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mate who I drink with says he is on. He is a picture taker. Wouldn’t tell him as he would blab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few select friends and my sister. Just incase someone triedls to abduct me, someone needs to know the full details of where I am and have access to my account lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few select friends and my sister. Just incase someone triedls to abduct me, someone needs to know the full details of where I am and have access to my account lol. "

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few select friends and my sister. Just incase someone triedls to abduct me, someone needs to know the full details of where I am and have access to my account lol. "

... at the thought of someone trying to abduct you... bitches be crazy

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A few friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few select friends and my sister. Just incase someone triedls to abduct me, someone needs to know the full details of where I am and have access to my account lol.

Damn

Plan foiled??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few select friends and my sister. Just incase someone triedls to abduct me, someone needs to know the full details of where I am and have access to my account lol.

... at the thought of someone trying to abduct you... bitches be crazy

Hey I'm cute you know, it could happen.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No one and we would hope it stays that way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few select friends and my sister. Just incase someone triedls to abduct me, someone needs to know the full details of where I am and have access to my account lol.

... at the thought of someone trying to abduct you... bitches be crazy

Hey I'm cute you know, it could happen.

Yes dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one in the "real" world and pretty much in this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, and so do some of our friends from a former local swinging party group.

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