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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?

So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’m aware of that and actually did browse for about a week or so before deciding to rejoin!

What do they think of us? I have no idea - a mixed bag I guess! Some people might think there’s NO WAY I want any part of that, others might think ‘hell yeah, can’t wait to join in!’

Do I care? Not really. Unless it’s a hot local lady that doesn’t join up because of what they see. But then I’ll never know so can’t really mourn the loss!

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So I’ll start .

They must think that swinging involves a lot of chocolate and cake .

That swingers spend an awful lot of time socialising , and that there’s no expectation of doing anything sexual in a swinging club . If you do happen to touch someone in a club , the chances are that you’ll get a smack in the mouth .

Far from being a liberated and non judgemental lifestyle , it’s quite the opposite .

Swingers really don’t have more sex than the average person . If you look at threads like what’s the longest you’ve been without sex , you’ll see what I mean .

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yes I’m aware of that and actually did browse for about a week or so before deciding to rejoin!

What do they think of us? I have no idea - a mixed bag I guess! Some people might think there’s NO WAY I want any part of that, others might think ‘hell yeah, can’t wait to join in!’

Do I care? Not really. Unless it’s a hot local lady that doesn’t join up because of what they see. But then I’ll never know so can’t really mourn the loss! "

You beat me to it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I was aware of that, yes.

I suspect if they visited it every day for a few days it would feel a bit like repetitive strain

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

"

"My philosophy is it's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am, and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier."

- Anthony Hopkins

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

"My philosophy is it's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am, and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier."

- Anthony Hopkins"

Can’t argue with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So can they see your avatar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they'll realise that swinging people are just people. Not all are obsessed about sex 24/7.

I often read the forums without being logged on. It's easier that way.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I reckon the single males would realise it's a sausage fest, but I doubt they're the ones researching oddly enough.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?

So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

"

A great many probably think it’s immoral and disgusting, some will be intrigued and curious and a few will leap gleefully in.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"So can they see your avatar?"

No, avatars are hidden and the first letter of your username is replaced by a *

It’s a code no one could break!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?

So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

"

In terms of these forums, they don't get a very good representation of swingers. Reason #1 would be that most the people on this forum are not not swingers. I'm very glad i experienced clubs before joining the forums because fab would have jaded by enthusiasm for the sport. The average swinger, compared to the average forumite, is more conservative, in a stable and happy marriage, has a strong stance against cheating and feels perfectly justified to look down on people that aren't. Read it and weep snowflakes.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

They'd believe women drop their drawers for a slice of cake, and that lots of us chow down on popcorn.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?

So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

A great many probably think it’s immoral and disgusting, some will be intrigued and curious and a few will leap gleefully in. "

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles. Its ok, the feeling is mutual when I look at serial monogamists.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"They'd believe women drop their drawers for a slice of cake, and that lots of us chow down on popcorn."

And haribo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So can they see your avatar?"

Just done a little search and without signing in you just see the posts...no avatars!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yeah, I knew. I don't know what they think and I don't really care.

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"They'd believe women drop their drawers for a slice of cake, and that lots of us chow down on popcorn."

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Hello Mum!!

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"First off , these forums can , and are read by anyone visiting the internet . How many of you knew that ?

So I guess there must be plenty of people out there may look at what we say on here before deciding whether they want to join the scene so to speak .

What do you think they think of us ?

Do you care ?

In terms of these forums, they don't get a very good representation of swingers. Reason #1 would be that most the people on this forum are not not swingers. I'm very glad i experienced clubs before joining the forums because fab would have jaded by enthusiasm for the sport. The average swinger, compared to the average forumite, is more conservative, in a stable and happy marriage, has a strong stance against cheating and feels perfectly justified to look down on people that aren't. Read it and weep snowflakes."

An excellent summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

..."

Very much this.

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this. "

Well we did our best

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Peaple I've spoken to still think it's like putting your keys in a bowl ect theyv been quite shocked to find out about the club's ect and also intreaged they have thought it was just sex and no social side that's what I've found and as for what peaple think who cares as long as peaple have a good time no one gets hurt ect it's no one's buisnes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this.

Well we did our best "

There's more to sex than leaving the light on.

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By *loswingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this.

Well we did our best

There's more to sex than leaving the light on. "

Well blow me down , really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no clue about that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this.

Well we did our best

There's more to sex than leaving the light on. "

You leave the light on!?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this.

Well we did our best

There's more to sex than leaving the light on.

You leave the light on!? "

Many people are surprised to learn there are more than 4 sexual positions.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this.

Well we did our best

There's more to sex than leaving the light on.

You leave the light on!? "

No way. It makes it hard to picture someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So can they see your avatar?

Just done a little search and without signing in you just see the posts...no avatars!! "

Thank you for this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"...

To the average person on the street, swingers are about one notch better on the pervert scale than paedophiles.

...

Very much this.

Well we did our best

There's more to sex than leaving the light on.

You leave the light on!?

No way. It makes it hard to picture someone else. "

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