FabSwingers.com forum: Longest you’ve been without sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the longest you’ve had sexual downtime for?

2 years for me. I didn’t even touch myself in that time either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years. Age 0 to 17

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years to raise my eldest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, 18 years. But since then, two years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After becoming sexually active? 3 years.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

About four years I think. I’ve blocked it out of my memory

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

12yrs....

I'm making up for lost time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 year and 6 months.. worst time of my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably going on for a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sexual contact for about a year, but crap sex for over 20 years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time this comes up '16 years tee hee'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months once i lost the big v

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"12yrs....

I'm making up for lost time now

I’ve had quite a few sexless years on and off. Wish I’d known about fab in those days

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

15 years

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'll let you know when it's over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Four years a very long time ago. Made up for it since!

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"18 months once i lost the big v"

The big V? Is that your grandma Vera on the bus or something? Was she preventing you having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 or 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"12yrs....

I'm making up for lost time now

I’ve had quite a few sexless years on and off. Wish I’d known about fab in those days

Me too... I'd have got divorced sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 3 years,and I don't miss it one bit,so why am I on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just over 3 years,and I don't miss it one bit,so why am I on here?"

I ask myself the same question at least twice a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any since Wednesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sexual contact for about a year, but crap sex for over 20 years x "

No sex is better than crap sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just over 3 years,and I don't miss it one bit,so why am I on here?"

For the broccoli.

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

Was married 20 years, last 9 were sexless she wouldn't come near me. Lol that's why I'm single now and on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just over 3 years,and I don't miss it one bit,so why am I on here?

For the broccoli. "

It kills time at work coming on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just over 3 years,and I don't miss it one bit,so why am I on here?

For the broccoli.

It kills time at work coming on here "

Sometimes it's hilarious. You'd miss that. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just over 3 years,and I don't miss it one bit,so why am I on here?

For the broccoli.

It kills time at work coming on here

Sometimes it's hilarious. You'd miss that. x"

I’d really miss the forums and the friends. Pretty much given up on anything else.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"No sexual contact for about a year, but crap sex for over 20 years x

No sex is better than crap sex.

Can’t say I agree with that at all .

I wouldn’t say a wank was good sex , but it’s better than none at all .

And there’s plenty of people who are in happy marriages who have what we would think was crap sex . Maybe they do to , but it’s better than none at all .

No sex at all can be an issue for some men who get excessive levels of hormones creating very swollen balls . So for the crap sex or a wank is better than none at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About a month "

I was scrolling and getting more and more worried because I'm the same hahaha! Thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In one 7 year period I had sex 5 times. I think the longest gap was 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must try harder !!! TEACHER x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap sex is really really crap , all the build up then Yea that was crap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year and didn't miss it at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sexual contact for about a year, but crap sex for over 20 years x

No sex is better than crap sex.

Can’t say I agree with that at all .

I wouldn’t say a wank was good sex , but it’s better than none at all .

And there’s plenty of people who are in happy marriages who have what we would think was crap sex . Maybe they do to , but it’s better than none at all .

No sex at all can be an issue for some men who get excessive levels of hormones creating very swollen balls . So for the crap sex or a wank is better than none at all .

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No no sex is so much better than crap sex Had my share of crap sex and crap sex is reallly really CRAP Many meets are quite capable of really crap sex but it is really crap ! Good sex is very good not crap sex

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Six years towards the end of my marriage, couldn’t bare the thought of him touching me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks ish post birth

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

3 years when I was in an abusive relationship. I wasn't letting that cunt anywhere near me.

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

In recent memory, 6months (leading to me joining fab)

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

3 years when i had my kid but i soon made up for it hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest is around a year I've gone without ... Longest year of my life , blue balls

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Nine weeks and 2 days, it was a long nine weeks lol

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Far to long for me to type it out here.

Hope that it will never be that long again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

About 5 years

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"No sexual contact for about a year, but crap sex for over 20 years x

No sex is better than crap sex.

Can’t say I agree with that at all .

I wouldn’t say a wank was good sex , but it’s better than none at all .

And there’s plenty of people who are in happy marriages who have what we would think was crap sex . Maybe they do to , but it’s better than none at all .

No sex at all can be an issue for some men who get excessive levels of hormones creating very swollen balls . So for the crap sex or a wank is better than none at all .

No no sex is so much better than crap sex Had my share of crap sex and crap sex is reallly really CRAP Many meets are quite capable of really crap sex but it is really crap ! Good sex is very good not crap sex "

Yep would prefer not to bother at all

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By *inkyalfieMan
over a year ago

hampshire

6 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 months feels a lot longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks, only because I was traveling for business....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ a year..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 years thats how old i was when i lost my virginity.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Over ten years. Split with the ex in 2003 and had sex with a now another ex in 2014.

In that time, I kissed two guys (plus the two ex's).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over ten years. Split with the ex in 2003 and had sex with a now another ex in 2014.

In that time, I kissed two guys (plus the two ex's)."
What!But your gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest I have not been with a guy sexually was 9 months - 3 years ago? But I have toys so no cobwebs in that long period

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Over ten years. Split with the ex in 2003 and had sex with a now another ex in 2014.

In that time, I kissed two guys (plus the two ex's).What!But your gorgeous

Did you ever consider that it was my choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the longest you’ve had sexual downtime for?

2 years for me. I didn’t even touch myself in that time either!!"

Same for me (though I'm afraid I couldn't keep my hands off myself)!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"12yrs....

I'm making up for lost time now

I’ve had quite a few sexless years on and off. Wish I’d known about fab in those days

Yes me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest time since being sexually active is when I split from my partner when I was pregnant and didn't meet anyone for two and a half years.

It's currently 10 months since I last had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just about to hit 12 months next Saturday to the day, don't want to make it but things aren't looking good !

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