FabSwingers.com forum: I wish your interests were your interests...

By *erynaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

I use the search functionality to find ladies that share my interests however I regularly find that, when the question finally comes up, the lady in question has no interest in that particular kink whatsoever. I assume ladies find the same when seeking guys but why does anyone show an interest on their profile when they have absolutely no desire to perform that at all?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I use the search functionality to find ladies that share my interests however I regularly find that, when the question finally comes up, the lady in question has no interest in that particular kink whatsoever. I assume ladies find the same when seeking guys but why does anyone show an interest on their profile when they have absolutely no desire to perform that at all?"
Think some are set by default

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Also... there are things I'm interested in, but only with select peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just an interest..

Not something they are expert in

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By *erynaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

"Also... there are things I'm interested in, but only with select peeps. "

Totally get that and I always respect a response as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just tick everything.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Also... there are things I'm interested in, but only with select peeps. "

This is why I have no interests listed.... People assume you're going to do them all in one fabulously orgiastic meet

Even my bondage pics attract folk who assume I indulge with everyone I meet... I don't

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By *erynaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

"Also... there are things I'm interested in, but only with select peeps.

This is why I have no interests listed.... People assume you're going to do them all in one fabulously orgiastic meet

Even my bondage pics attract folk who assume I indulge with everyone I meet... I don't"

None listed is better than showing those that you have no interest in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the women on this site do not share the same interests as me.

I read their profiles and what they put down as demands I cannot meet so it's game over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called marketing OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its called marketing OP

Very good

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By *erynaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

"Its called marketing OP

Enough said

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Many things interest me,us doesn't mean I want to do them with anybody!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Also... there are things I'm interested in, but only with select peeps.

This is why I have no interests listed.... People assume you're going to do them all in one fabulously orgiastic meet

Even my bondage pics attract folk who assume I indulge with everyone I meet... I don't

None listed is better than showing those that you have no interest in"

It doesn't mean they have no interest in it though - just no interest in doing it with you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I take those ‘interests’ with a pinch of salt. They vary so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine unticked for a while because people assumed they were a given if we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres things I'm interested in but would only think of trying or doing with certain people

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I would only indulge in my piss fetish at clubs (and with my partner), having someone come want to round specificially for that makes me feel like an unpaid sex worker.

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