FabSwingers.com forum: Etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"
Are you serious? It isn't match.com OP. Even then that wouldn't be a good move. Flowers are for special occasions only usually when you are with the person.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A corsage, if you’re taking them to the prom

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"

Bring condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a lovely thought but not for most on here I don't think. If after a fee meets that seem to be going very well and looks like it could develop then id say yes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"
take them with you and an enveloped note with a condom inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not going on a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno about flowers but couple once asked me to bring a four pack of smirnoff ice with me for the lady

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"

You’ve had meets , did you bring or send flowers to them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after? take them with you and an enveloped note with a condom inside "

totally this! I would laugh at the envelope but in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could just turn up, have sex and then leave.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Neither is my opinion. It's a bit

if you ask me!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Whatever you're comfortable with OP. Handle your meets and treat your ladies as you see fit, as long as you're both on the same page.

I prefer plants over cut flowers myself... Bag of spuds would do either in a pinch

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"You could just turn up, have sex and then leave.

Hang on there !

Are you confusing this site with a swinging site

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

You don’t bring flowers. You bring a hamper filled with sexual delights and sprouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"

Awww that's so sweet op

If you're going to go for it you may as well lace the bed with rose petals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both

She's right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after? Are you serious? It isn't match.com OP. Even then that wouldn't be a good move. Flowers are for special occasions only usually when you are with the person."

I’d like flowers

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I’d like flowers

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There maybe some exceptions but a big majority would disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flowers might be useful as a makeshift flogger. No roses though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"

lol

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Ditch the flowers and bring chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only polite to .. Spit on it first

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’d like flowers

There maybe some exceptions but a big majority would disagree."

Different folks , different strokes .

We have had guys ask if we would like chocolates , wine , etc..... and every time it’s an emphatic no from us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you watch “Undateables” they ALWAYS show up with a flower/flowers and ALWAYS either leave with a girlfriend or get a second date?!...

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t OP...

What I suggest is take a solitary red rose... jam it between your bum cheeks and only take it out if things are going well?!...

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I think take it on each individual basis. I would find it extremely awkward if you brought flowers. But some may not.

Mrs

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Bottle of wine to share is nice, I did have flowers once which was absolutely lovely and one guy bought me sweets after having a conversation about our favourite sweeties.

Think it depends on the two of you and if you've sussed out beforehand if someone would appreciate the gesture x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like flowers

Small cock big flowers or big cock no flowers? Just trying to gauge your priorities here

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Whenever you watch “Undateables” they ALWAYS show up with a flower/flowers and ALWAYS either leave with a girlfriend or get a second date?!...

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t OP...

What I suggest is take a solitary red rose... jam it between your bum cheeks and only take it out if things are going well?!...

Are you suggesting fab dates are for undateables ?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't mind chocolates. Had them brought once, that was a nice gesture. As I do not have meets with strangers, they would be from someone I know either way. Flowers would be awkward to carry home, so no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever you watch “Undateables” they ALWAYS show up with a flower/flowers and ALWAYS either leave with a girlfriend or get a second date?!...

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t OP...

What I suggest is take a solitary red rose... jam it between your bum cheeks and only take it out if things are going well?!...

Are you suggesting fab dates are for undateables ?

Wellll, I’m not here to judge...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Whenever you watch “Undateables” they ALWAYS show up with a flower/flowers and ALWAYS either leave with a girlfriend or get a second date?!...

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t OP...

What I suggest is take a solitary red rose... jam it between your bum cheeks and only take it out if things are going well?!...

Are you suggesting fab dates are for undateables ?

Wellll, I’m not here to judge...

I think you got it in one mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took fudge once, as I knew she liked it.

And some mint M&Ms back from the USA as a special request too.

Otherwise no gifts, other than my company of course!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?..."

And if she doesn't like lilies? I'm guessing the shovel is for something

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

bring them.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Bag of cement , shovel , lilies , new patio ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?...

And if she doesn't like lilies? I'm guessing the shovel is for something

Funeral flowers?!...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?...

And if she doesn't like lilies? I'm guessing the shovel is for something

Funeral flowers?!...

Dude!

You never go full psycho on the forums. A frying pan would've done the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?...

And if she doesn't like lilies? I'm guessing the shovel is for something

Funeral flowers?!...

Dude!

You never go full psycho on the forums. A frying pan would've done the job

Maybe mate... but I don’t keep a frying pan in the car?!...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Flowers might be useful as a makeshift flogger. No roses though..

How about thistles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love it if someone brought me flowers. Would expect a bottle of wine to share at the very least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring a mate

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

exactly this.

and a bottle of wine or some drink to share is surely just a hospitality type thing- I'd always look to take one if visiting or offer one if hosting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would love it if someone brought me flowers. Would expect a bottle of wine to share at the very least. "

Is red alright? I’m on my way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bring a mate

Just the one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure you take the right flowers. I hate red roses

My favourite are orchids but not yellow ones. Flowers may be a mistake

Lilies and a shovel?...

And if she doesn't like lilies? I'm guessing the shovel is for something

Funeral flowers?!...

Dude!

You never go full psycho on the forums. A frying pan would've done the job

Maybe mate... but I don’t keep a frying pan in the car?!..."

You don’t? Don’t tell me you fry your eggs in a shovel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bring a mate

Just the one?"

Let's not be too greedy

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't want flowers from anybody, least of all a play mate!

Flowers belong outside and growing, not intensively farmed, transported around the world and then thrown away.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I would love it if someone brought me flowers. Would expect a bottle of wine to share at the very least. "

Thats nice, i met someone who bought me flowers and wine too.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I find crisps are usually a winner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find crisps are usually a winner

Which flavour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a real Neanderthal.....

I only send flowers to women on Valentine’s Day....

I can’t think of any other time I bought flowers on a date except my senior prom.....

My how things have changed on the swinging scene....

My major concern on a meet was if I shaved my balls properly.... now people are concerned about bringing flowers...

I guess the internet has truly merged all hook up sites.....

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I find crisps are usually a winner

If youre hungry enough.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Ditch the flowers and bring chocolate

And wine

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I find crisps are usually a winner

Now you're talking

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

are Pringles ok? what flavour?

and has anyone tried the weird new Doritos? taste like feet. in a bad way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the proper etiquette? Bring flowers to the meet or have them sent the day after?"

If she's a squirter, take a clowns one.

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