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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" Option D if u fancy him say hi and get it going don't be scared to go after what u want | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" D. Message him and welcome him. This might be your perfect chance to play with him  | |||
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"Would he recognise you from your pics?" I am not sure but not sure if I want to risk it or not lol | |||
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"Would he recognise you from your pics? I am not sure but not sure if I want to risk it or not lol " Risk it what's the worst that could happen | |||
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"How would he recognise you? Your profile hardly id's you "This, and if he contacts you, be coy and find out if there's something to build upon without playing you hand. Looks are skin deep, he could be a dick in real life... | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" just get tucked in too late to turn shy now | |||
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"Ok So I blocked him to give me a chance to hide the more explicit pictures, but he will probably recognise the red gown I have on in my pictures. Shall I unblock him and see what happens. Will keep you all up to date lol " How would he know red gown has he seen you in it? | |||
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"Ok So I blocked him to give me a chance to hide the more explicit pictures, but he will probably recognise the red gown I have on in my pictures. Shall I unblock him and see what happens. Will keep you all up to date lol How would he know red gown has he seen you in it?" when it got delivered I put it on Facebook (we are friends on Facebook). | |||
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"Ok So I blocked him to give me a chance to hide the more explicit pictures, but he will probably recognise the red gown I have on in my pictures. Shall I unblock him and see what happens. Will keep you all up to date lol " Chances are hes reading this thread  | |||
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"Ok So I blocked him to give me a chance to hide the more explicit pictures, but he will probably recognise the red gown I have on in my pictures. Shall I unblock him and see what happens. Will keep you all up to date lol How would he know red gown has he seen you in it? when it got delivered I put it on Facebook (we are friends on Facebook)." Unless it’s monogrammed, would he realise it’s definitely you?  | |||
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"Ok So I blocked him to give me a chance to hide the more explicit pictures, but he will probably recognise the red gown I have on in my pictures. Shall I unblock him and see what happens. Will keep you all up to date lol Chances are hes reading this thread "I did think that but then at least he would know I'm interested  | |||
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"Bang his brains out OP - a little bit of what you fancy does you good "oh babe - If I could I would... just something about him makes my legs go weak and my naughty place tingle lol. | |||
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"Bang his brains out OP - a little bit of what you fancy does you good
oh babe - If I could I would... just something about him makes my legs go weak and my naughty place tingle lol. "I know that feeling well. I thought someone would not be remotely interested in me but it turns out he was and we’ve had loads of very sexy times together. He still makes me feel like that too. Get in there and give him a wink  | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" OP have a gander on his profile and check his pictures out before you make any rash decisions youll know what to do then | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?! OP have a gander on his profile and check his pictures out before you make any rash decisions youll know what to do then"hehe I will have a gander soon, would love to see what he has been hiding in his pants! | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?! OP have a gander on his profile and check his pictures out before you make any rash decisions youll know what to do then
hehe I will have a gander soon, would love to see what he has been hiding in his pants! "you'll know what you've got on your hands then OP | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?! OP have a gander on his profile and check his pictures out before you make any rash decisions youll know what to do then
hehe I will have a gander soon, would love to see what he has been hiding in his pants! you'll know what you've got on your hands then OP"I hope to have it in more place then on my hands | |||
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"Bite the bullet, you're both here for the same thing! What's the worst that can happen?! He says no thanks, at least you'll know then " I so want to know what happens...please keep us updated and message me his profile name so I can perv | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" It’s like meeting a friend in a club, you have to shag them so they won’t tell anybody. It’s like the law. | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?! It’s like meeting a friend in a club, you have to shag them so they won’t tell anybody. It’s like the law." So so true!!! | |||
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"haha I promise you all I will let you know if anything happens... which I am secretly hoping it does." In the meantime meet me. It'll make him jealous. No. Wait? That was a different thread | |||
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"haha I promise you all I will let you know if anything happens... which I am secretly hoping it does." Just go for it. | |||
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"haha I promise you all I will let you know if anything happens... which I am secretly hoping it does." OP sit on his face and have your way with him you little minx | |||
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"Strange how different the comments are compared to how it would be, If a guy posted this haha "haha the guys are all hoping I message him so he gets lucky because they wish they had a girl would do the same. The girls are all saying no because they know they wouldn't want that from a man lol | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" D. Threesome | |||
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"Ok So I blocked him to give me a chance to hide the more explicit pictures, but he will probably recognise the red gown I have on in my pictures. Shall I unblock him and see what happens. I would just go with the flow. Have a few pics which are a tease. Enjoy the experience x Will keep you all up to date lol " | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" What have you got to lose. Your hot yourself. Burn together | |||
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"Strange how different the comments are compared to how it would be, If a guy posted this haha "Good comment. I just seam to be more forward hehe. | |||
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"haha I promise you all I will let you know if anything happens... which I am secretly hoping it does." Fire up the webcam. | |||
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"Strange how different the comments are compared to how it would be, If a guy posted this haha
haha the guys are all hoping I message him so he gets lucky because they wish they had a girl would do the same.
The girls are all saying no because they know they wouldn't want that from a man lol "Hahaha I think you are right there | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol. "say no ta | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol. "Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet "Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol. | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet
Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol. "How do you know this person OP? Through friends work etc. | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" Answer is c. Act like you never saw him. Let him see your photos. Show him what he has been missing all this time. Wish it was me | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet
Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol. "I would leave it a while op.you need to know if he is actually into the scene or just having a perv and laugh about it with his mates.i know men who do exactly that.last thing you want is him pointing you out when he is with his mates and having a childish snigger.only an opinion but leave it a while first | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet
Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol. "Comment on face book saying something he posts is "Fab"? | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet
Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol.
I would leave it a while op.you need to know if he is actually into the scene or just having a perv and laugh about it with his mates.i know men who do exactly that.last thing you want is him pointing you out when he is with his mates and having a childish snigger.only an opinion but leave it a while first "Yeah that's why I didn't want him to recognise me, didn't want him showing his mates my explicit pics going "i used to work with her". | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet
Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol.
I would leave it a while op.you need to know if he is actually into the scene or just having a perv and laugh about it with his mates.i know men who do exactly that.last thing you want is him pointing you out when he is with his mates and having a childish snigger.only an opinion but leave it a while first
Yeah that's why I didn't want him to recognise me, didn't want him showing his mates my explicit pics going "i used to work with her". "Well if he would show people your pics and brag about it then you don't shag him. He can't keep his mouth shut. | |||
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"Would he recognise you from your pics? I am not sure but not sure if I want to risk it or not lol " Risk what? Saying... Oh, your on the same swingers site as me, what a small world. | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" You could put up a thread on the forum drawing attention to yourself, if you want him to notice you that is ! | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?! You could put up a thread on the forum drawing attention to yourself, if you want him to notice you that is !" There is always one  | |||
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"Interested to see where that leads, could end up being transferred to the stories section.." I will right it up as a novel and post it. | |||
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"Can I play you in the film?" Haha of course you can. 50 shades of desire it is! | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol.
Need to say who you are OP isn't Christmas yet can't surprise people like that yet
Yeah but how!?! Send a pic and a hi lol.
I would leave it a while op.you need to know if he is actually into the scene or just having a perv and laugh about it with his mates.i know men who do exactly that.last thing you want is him pointing you out when he is with his mates and having a childish snigger.only an opinion but leave it a while first
Yeah that's why I didn't want him to recognise me, didn't want him showing his mates my explicit pics going "i used to work with her". "
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"You could message him with an idea, in which you meet up at a hotel for some fun, but he has to go to the room put on a blindfold and leave the door unlocked, you will come along next and let yourself in for some anonymous sex, then it's up to you to decide if he is allowed to remove it. "If he replies to my first message then I am totally suggesting this!!! | |||
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"Ok update... I winked him, he has messaged me and doesn't seem to have a clue who I am (sort of relieved). He wants to meet.... now what!?! Lol. "His first message was asking to meet, that would probably put me off. Good luck whatever you decide though | |||
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"Has he got similar pictures on display? If so, it's an even playing field. If not, hide the ones you don't want him to see now and then say 'hi'!" Yep did that before I messaged him. Hehe | |||
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"I’ve got to bookmark this just to see how it turns out! Good luck OP! " How do you bookmark a thread? | |||
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"I’ve got to bookmark this just to see how it turns out! Good luck OP! How do you bookmark a thread? " By commenting on it | |||
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"You could message him with an idea, in which you meet up at a hotel for some fun, but he has to go to the room put on a blindfold and leave the door unlocked, you will come along next and let yourself in for some anonymous sex, then it's up to you to decide if he is allowed to remove it.
If he replies to my first message then I am totally suggesting this!!! "I thought he already replied and said he wanted to meet? | |||
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"You could message him with an idea, in which you meet up at a hotel for some fun, but he has to go to the room put on a blindfold and leave the door unlocked, you will come along next and let yourself in for some anonymous sex, then it's up to you to decide if he is allowed to remove it.
If he replies to my first message then I am totally suggesting this!!!
I thought he already replied and said he wanted to meet? "Ah... I got it confused (not the guest time lol). you winked, he messaged asking to meet, you replied bug mo response yet. Sorry | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" send him a wink | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join Unless the guy has seen your tattoos he is never going to know it’s you. ?!?!?!?!" | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" also.. what are you worried about.. you are gorgeous xxxx | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" How do you know it's the guy you know for a fact? | |||
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"Did you fuck him yet? "Haha nope not yet, he hasn't read my reply message yet. So just to answer your other posts. We used to work with each other but not anymore. I have fancied him since I met him, but he doesn't know that. I know it's him because he put a face picture up on FAB so it's Definitely him. Thanks for all your support guts, I'm a shy person by nature but I am enjoying it all too. | |||
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"Can I play you in the film? Haha of course you can. 50 shades of desire it is! " Just so I know, who is playing the male lead? Daniel Craig, Brad Pitt ? Can’t have Tom cruise he’s too short for me, have to stand on a box he will, so who best does he look like? | |||
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"You could message him with an idea, in which you meet up at a hotel for some fun, but he has to go to the room put on a blindfold and leave the door unlocked, you will come along next and let yourself in for some anonymous sex, then it's up to you to decide if he is allowed to remove it.
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"Can I play you in the film? Haha of course you can. 50 shades of desire it is! Just so I know, who is playing the male lead? Daniel Craig, Brad Pitt ? Can’t have Tom cruise he’s too short for me, have to stand on a box he will, so who best does he look like?" More lime a thinner Eric Bana. But with shorter hair. Hehe. | |||
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"It's too late now because you've already revealed your identitity but if I had read this earlier my advice would have been as follows.... You have two options here and they depend on your intentions, IF you want this guy to see you as more than just a fuck, I'd suggest you block him on here and contact him through Facebook, you have the upper hand here as you already know he's open to the idea of meeting women. Securing a meet away from fab will ensure that he doesn't see you as just a fuck and would possibly be more open to dating. IF you just want to fuck him with absolutely no strings attached then message him on here and secure the meet, but it would just be for sex, I'm almost positive of this. As you've already shown your hand you've put yourself in the fuck category, thats if he's attracted to you in the first place. " excellent advice. the best poker players know when to bluff and fold. revealing your hand early may lose you a few chips | |||
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"It's too late now because you've already revealed your identitity but if I had read this earlier my advice would have been as follows.... You have two options here and they depend on your intentions, IF you want this guy to see you as more than just a fuck, I'd suggest you block him on here and contact him through Facebook, you have the upper hand here as you already know he's open to the idea of meeting women. Securing a meet away from fab will ensure that he doesn't see you as just a fuck and would possibly be more open to dating. IF you just want to fuck him with absolutely no strings attached then message him on here and secure the meet, but it would just be for sex, I'm almost positive of this. As you've already shown your hand you've put yourself in the fuck category, thats if he's attracted to you in the first place. excellent advice. the best poker players know when to bluff and fold. revealing your hand early may lose you a few chips" You know there could be song there... Knowing when to hold them knowing when to fold.. Any songwriters out there...? | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea "Well chin up. You look fine to me so you'll be ok x | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea "Oh no that's disappointing, did you tell him who you were? Maybe he's just not got round to replying yet, ive just replied to a message from a week ago. | |||
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"He is super hot and I have fancied him for ages... But I don't want him to see my pictures .... Predicament.. do I: A) block him and lose the chance to hook up b) hide my pictures so no one can see them or c) act like I never saw him join ?!?!?!?!" Yer I had that very same problem I removed my face pics just incase he recognised me | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
Oh no that's disappointing, did you tell him who you were? Maybe he's just not got round to replying yet, ive just replied to a message from a week ago. "Who knows but I'm not waiting around to find out. | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea "If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook. | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea "his loss | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook. "I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it. I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why. But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here! You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience? Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance? | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?"Why is contacting him away from the site playing games? If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as. | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?"Comment seems highly unnecessary | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
Has he read the message though? "Yeah he read it. To all other posts: the way I see it is if he wanted more than sex he would have let me know off of FAB. I'm not looking for a relationship so having him as a FWB would suit me just fine. Maybe he got scared because I'm someone he knows, but I played my cards and it doesn't seem to have worked but I don't mind everyone will get a kickback. I am talking to a couple of guys who seem awesome so as I said before it's his loss and he is the one missing out on a lot of fun. | |||
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"Haha so different to the replies the poor guy got when he asked this question. Good luck OP... Hope it's as horny as you have imagined it "There's a lot of people on this thread mentioning the perceived double-standards here relating to the sex of the poster and they do exist, but with good reason. The main difference is the perception of someone who is outed as a swinger in real life. A woman who is a successful swinger is often perceived by many in the vanilla world as simply a slut. This is hugely wrong and unfair as she may well have standards and strict criteria towards seeking her own pleasure, but a lot in the vanilla world don't know this. See, a woman doesn't really have to have any positive attributes at all to have multiple partners, in theory all she has to do is open her legs and say "Who wants?" Whereas with men the perception is completely different among a lot of the real world. This is more understandable. Women tend to want the whole package in a man they sleep so for a man to be successful with multiple partners it is often taken as a sign that he is physically fit, good looking, charming, intelligent, amazing in bed and has spellbinding qualities that rank him in the top 10% or so of men that allow him to attract ladies that want him? Whilst the male perception actually has some elements of truth on Fab, the female perception for the majority on here doesn't ring true when a woman is choosy about who she sleeps with which the Vanilla world often won't take into account. Outdated it may be, but a woman's extensive criteria that must be satisfied when seeking a male playmate will always ensure that a man being outed often gets looks of admiration whereas a woman is dismissed as a "wrong un". This is why a woman should always tread a lot more carefully in this situation as the risks to her public reputation are always much greater. And why the man asking the same question as the lady in another thread got vastly different advice; his standing amongst his peers wouldn't be tarnished as much, whereas hers could be dragged through the proverbial mud. Tread carefully OP is my advice, but there are possibilities for a most delightful carnal pleasure fest between the two of you... Just don't go diving in and to hell with the consequences. | |||
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"Haha so different to the replies the poor guy got when he asked this question. Good luck OP... Hope it's as horny as you have imagined it
There's a lot of people on this thread mentioning the perceived double-standards here relating to the sex of the poster and they do exist, but with good reason.
The main difference is the perception of someone who is outed as a swinger in real life. A woman who is a successful swinger is often perceived by many in the vanilla world as simply a slut. This is hugely wrong and unfair as she may well have standards and strict criteria towards seeking her own pleasure, but a lot in the vanilla world don't know this. See, a woman doesn't really have to have any positive attributes at all to have multiple partners, in theory all she has to do is open her legs and say "Who wants?"
Whereas with men the perception is completely different among a lot of the real world. This is more understandable. Women tend to want the whole package in a man they sleep so for a man to be successful with multiple partners it is often taken as a sign that he is physically fit, good looking, charming, intelligent, amazing in bed and has spellbinding qualities that rank him in the top 10% or so of men that allow him to attract ladies that want him?
Whilst the male perception actually has some elements of truth on Fab, the female perception for the majority on here doesn't ring true when a woman is choosy about who she sleeps with which the Vanilla world often won't take into account. Outdated it may be, but a woman's extensive criteria that must be satisfied when seeking a male playmate will always ensure that a man being outed often gets looks of admiration whereas a woman is dismissed as a "wrong un".
This is why a woman should always tread a lot more carefully in this situation as the risks to her public reputation are always much greater. And why the man asking the same question as the lady in another thread got vastly different advice; his standing amongst his peers wouldn't be tarnished as much, whereas hers could be dragged through the proverbial mud.
Tread carefully OP is my advice, but there are possibilities for a most delightful carnal pleasure fest between the two of you... Just don't go diving in and to hell with the consequences." spot on | |||
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"Haha so different to the replies the poor guy got when he asked this question. Good luck OP... Hope it's as horny as you have imagined it
There's a lot of people on this thread mentioning the perceived double-standards here relating to the sex of the poster and they do exist, but with good reason.
The main difference is the perception of someone who is outed as a swinger in real life. A woman who is a successful swinger is often perceived by many in the vanilla world as simply a slut. This is hugely wrong and unfair as she may well have standards and strict criteria towards seeking her own pleasure, but a lot in the vanilla world don't know this. See, a woman doesn't really have to have any positive attributes at all to have multiple partners, in theory all she has to do is open her legs and say "Who wants?"
Whereas with men the perception is completely different among a lot of the real world. This is more understandable. Women tend to want the whole package in a man they sleep so for a man to be successful with multiple partners it is often taken as a sign that he is physically fit, good looking, charming, intelligent, amazing in bed and has spellbinding qualities that rank him in the top 10% or so of men that allow him to attract ladies that want him?
Whilst the male perception actually has some elements of truth on Fab, the female perception for the majority on here doesn't ring true when a woman is choosy about who she sleeps with which the Vanilla world often won't take into account. Outdated it may be, but a woman's extensive criteria that must be satisfied when seeking a male playmate will always ensure that a man being outed often gets looks of admiration whereas a woman is dismissed as a "wrong un".
This is why a woman should always tread a lot more carefully in this situation as the risks to her public reputation are always much greater. And why the man asking the same question as the lady in another thread got vastly different advice; his standing amongst his peers wouldn't be tarnished as much, whereas hers could be dragged through the proverbial mud.
Tread carefully OP is my advice, but there are possibilities for a most delightful carnal pleasure fest between the two of you... Just don't go diving in and to hell with the consequences."Rightly or wrongly though there are women who's only criteria is "who's next" They need the ego boost of feeling wanted to satisfy their own dislike of who they are deep down. Masked in "popularity" and "sucess" they justify their addiction to attention because without it they'd need to look at who they really are. Quite sad when you think of it that way. | |||
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"Haha so different to the replies the poor guy got when he asked this question. Good luck OP... Hope it's as horny as you have imagined it
There's a lot of people on this thread mentioning the perceived double-standards here relating to the sex of the poster and they do exist, but with good reason.
The main difference is the perception of someone who is outed as a swinger in real life. A woman who is a successful swinger is often perceived by many in the vanilla world as simply a slut. This is hugely wrong and unfair as she may well have standards and strict criteria towards seeking her own pleasure, but a lot in the vanilla world don't know this. See, a woman doesn't really have to have any positive attributes at all to have multiple partners, in theory all she has to do is open her legs and say "Who wants?"
Whereas with men the perception is completely different among a lot of the real world. This is more understandable. Women tend to want the whole package in a man they sleep so for a man to be successful with multiple partners it is often taken as a sign that he is physically fit, good looking, charming, intelligent, amazing in bed and has spellbinding qualities that rank him in the top 10% or so of men that allow him to attract ladies that want him?
Whilst the male perception actually has some elements of truth on Fab, the female perception for the majority on here doesn't ring true when a woman is choosy about who she sleeps with which the Vanilla world often won't take into account. Outdated it may be, but a woman's extensive criteria that must be satisfied when seeking a male playmate will always ensure that a man being outed often gets looks of admiration whereas a woman is dismissed as a "wrong un".
This is why a woman should always tread a lot more carefully in this situation as the risks to her public reputation are always much greater. And why the man asking the same question as the lady in another thread got vastly different advice; his standing amongst his peers wouldn't be tarnished as much, whereas hers could be dragged through the proverbial mud.
Tread carefully OP is my advice, but there are possibilities for a most delightful carnal pleasure fest between the two of you... Just don't go diving in and to hell with the consequences." | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
Going off topic. Did you see the news yesterday about the lad off our old forum?"No!? Not the one I was shagging? | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
Going off topic. Did you see the news yesterday about the lad off our old forum?"No do tell??? | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
Going off topic. Did you see the news yesterday about the lad off our old forum?
No!? Not the one I was shagging?"Yes face all over the papers. Google his real name. | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
Going off topic. Did you see the news yesterday about the lad off our old forum?
No!? Not the one I was shagging?
Yes face all over the papers. Google his real name. "Would this not be more suitable in Pm or are there blocks to get around?! | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
Going off topic. Did you see the news yesterday about the lad off our old forum?
No!? Not the one I was shagging?
Yes face all over the papers. Google his real name.
Would this not be more suitable in Pm or are there blocks to get around?! "No blocks. Just a tangent. | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?
Why is contacting him away from the site playing games?
If I found the guy I fancy on here I wouldn't contact him here and let him see me as just worthy of a fuck, lets face it by being on here that's what guys see us as.
Going off topic. Did you see the news yesterday about the lad off our old forum?
No!? Not the one I was shagging?
Yes face all over the papers. Google his real name. "SHIT says his grandparents were loaded, that's an understatement!
Well I can only go by how he treated me, whenever I went to stay with him in London he bought my train tickets, my metro card, paid for hotel and eating out for full weekends. Would drive down here to Wales. Still remains one of the best fucks I've ever had! Absolute filth. | |||
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"Ah bad news all. He didn't come back to me. Oh well plenty more fish in the sea
If he's brand new to here then having someone contact you that knows you from the real world can be unnerving for some people.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing but what you should've done is blocked him on here but wait a couple of weeks so he reaches maximum frustration from not getting much luck and then approach him by other means, i.e. Facebook.
I hate playing games like this, and certainly wouldn't advise it.
I would suggest that he probably found someone rather immediately and acted accordingly OP. From what you said, it sounds like his primary motivation was to get laid so if he was able to do that already, (maybe meeting in the real world) that might be why.
But let's face it- all of us would be second guessing here!
You also said you weren't waiting around- so maybe have a little more patience?
Are you feeling butt-hurt that he didn't jump, by any chance?"She doesn't sound butt hurt to me. | |||
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"Look just go for it life's to short think what if " Its not as easy as that! Yeah just go for it!! ...hes on her fb they are friends " he may tell folk shes on fab! U dont know the full story ... | |||
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"Just joined but probably the best self thread I'vee seen for a while! "That's very cynical next you will be saying that people write there own verifications | |||
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"It's too late now because you've already revealed your identitity but if I had read this earlier my advice would have been as follows.... You have two options here and they depend on your intentions, IF you want this guy to see you as more than just a fuck, I'd suggest you block him on here and contact him through Facebook, you have the upper hand here as you already know he's open to the idea of meeting women. Securing a meet away from fab will ensure that he doesn't see you as just a fuck and would possibly be more open to dating. IF you just want to fuck him with absolutely no strings attached then message him on here and secure the meet, but it would just be for sex, I'm almost positive of this. As you've already shown your hand you've put yourself in the fuck category, thats if he's attracted to you in the first place. excellent advice. the best poker players know when to bluff and fold. revealing your hand early may lose you a few chips You know there could be song there... Knowing when to hold them knowing when to fold.. Any songwriters out there...? " Me? | |||
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