FabSwingers.com forum: When you get winks from people....

By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres no point to winks full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

They expect you to do all the work of course

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

They expect you to meet them and have sex with them - it’s a sex site ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it better when they message and ask if I'm interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message from a photoless profile yesterday, I said I don’t know what you look like. So they messaged back describing what they looked like.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

They expect you to do all the work of course

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This

same with some women in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres no point to winks full stop "

This. Never even look at them

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"I had a message from a photoless profile yesterday, I said I don’t know what you look like. So they messaged back describing what they looked like.

Blind attraction possibly?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had quite a bit of success from winks. I think they are a great way of expressing interest.

Especially if women send them to men.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

They expect you to do all the work of course

This

same with some women in the bedroom

Well we can’t lift the bed up and hoover under there at the same time can we?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

They expect you to do all the work of course

This

same with some women in the bedroom

Well we can’t lift the bed up and hoover under there at the same time can we?

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touché

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"I’ve had quite a bit of success from winks. I think they are a great way of expressing interest.

Especially if women send them to men. "

That's what I've always thought.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"I had a message from a photoless profile yesterday, I said I don’t know what you look like. So they messaged back describing what they looked like.

You could have played Guess who" with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like a wink, I'll wink back or bob a message over.

I occassionally send the 1st wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

I ignore xx

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"I quite like a wink, I'll wink back or bob a message over.

I occassionally send the 1st wink

Don't get me wrong, i don't mind a wink. And i do send them. But i read a wink to say "i like your profile, have a look at mine." . Well, if there's fuck all to look at, what are they expecting as a response?!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We prefer a message. If you’re too shy to chat, how the hell are we ever going to meet and do rude stuff together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at winks much tbh, i just forget lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

We don't even bother going to the 'winkers' profile, we just delete. End - ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like a wink, I'll wink back or bob a message over.

I occassionally send the 1st wink

Yeah, I agree. There's got to be somerhing to work with

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"I quite like a wink, I'll wink back or bob a message over.

I occassionally send the 1st wink

Same for us, sometimes a wink will lead to messages, its always a good starting point for us.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"We prefer a message. If you’re too shy to chat, how the hell are we ever going to meet and do rude stuff together?

Ed"

I think you have a point. However, i know guys probably have had enough of writing nice opening messages, only to have them deleted. Then of course they're vilified if they dare to use a copy and pasted message....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had quite a bit of success from winks. I think they are a great way of expressing interest.

Especially if women send them to men. "

It's different in this regard, I've had a lot of wonderful meets with some amazing women that started with them winking me.

For a woman too a wink is a good ice-breaker and perfectly acceptable way to contact a man as tbf she probably has to spend a minimum of 2-3 hours daily to check through all her between 200 and 500 messages a day on average which must be one hell of a chore...

Whilst I nowadays just let ladies or couples make first contact with me instead unless event planning, for a man interested in a particular profile though sending a wink is just plain lazy really! I've been guilty of sending a few years ago when really pressed for time, but generally spending the time crafting a well thought out message that is tailored to your recipient is far more appropriate as we'd probably get 30 messages at a maximum most days and therefore we don't have to spend hours trawling through them like ladies or couples do?

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

The only advantage in the wink system is being able to catch someone's attention. Often I've gone to write a reply/introduction and by the time it's been sent, the people I'm contacting have gone offline..

That said, with the volume of mails that these people must be getting from similar guy's, it's understandable there's not much point in the wink system...

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"I quite like a wink, I'll wink back or bob a message over.

I occassionally send the 1st wink

Same for us, sometimes a wink will lead to messages, its always a good starting point for us."

Yes, well you have a good profile. This isn't an "anti wink" thread...

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

We use winks on a regular basis...have had plenty of horny meets from them ..

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

Even worse when they wink but have the profile set to private so you can't even look at them... Had that happen a few times before.

Ms GR

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By *onny69sMan
over a year ago

Donny

I like to receive winks. It can help break the ice.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

Ok i give up. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic?

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I like them! I'll take any form of interaction! One or two have led to some good times. Prefer a message though.

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic? "

Not all guys. I just take it as a compliment they liked it to fab it. Coz of what the site can potentially offer some may find it as a "way in"

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"I had a message from a photoless profile yesterday, I said I don’t know what you look like. So they messaged back describing what they looked like.

They maybe thought that you were a police sketch artist

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I take very little interest in winks, more often than not they come from people who are either not my type or they have little or no profile info.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic? "

From the comments on quite a few threads about fabbing pics, a fair few men have said only fab ladies pics as they are not looking to meet men. To me that implies that they would feel if you fabbed their pic, it’s because you’re interested in more. I’ve also noticed this from messages I’ve received after fabbing men’s pics. I don’t tend to do it now unless I know them

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic?

If you like a picture of a certain person and you fabbed it i can see the "mixed" readings a guy will get. After all isn't what this site is based on. I fab a few guys photos coz i like it (no cock pics) just to compliment them.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I have some success from winks, especially when a woman has winked me first - it has been said that a lot of men dont get many messages so someone winking at me is a good ice breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic?

I usually fab ladies pics more than others, followed by couples as I'm attracted to them there's more way in which they can appeal? I've fabbed guys pics before though, if they appeal in other ways to me such as being funny in the thought process behind them?

I don't usually take a fab of my pics as a sign someone wants more though, that would not only be presumptuous but also big-headed of me to think that and I wouldn't want to be either? It may cause me to check their profile out of curiosity though and if I see pics I'll like then I'll certainly Fab them, which has led to several meets in the past, but I'd never assume that it was likely to.

If someone fabs a lot of my pics at once that's usually more of an indicator though.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic?

If someone fabs a lot of my pics at once that's usually more of an indicator though."

Well you’re a level headed intellingent man. Some of the chaps on fab aren’t and take the slightest thing as a green light. Which is why a lot of ladies view profiles in stealth mode too

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Yeah I'd have said if a woman winks it means talk to me, so it's pointless if there's nothing on their profile. I don't send or check winks though so I dunno how everyone else uses them.

I do still fab things while my profile is hidden, just because it's a good picture. Do guys take a fab as a request for a message or just a thumbs up to the pic?

If someone fabs a lot of my pics at once that's usually more of an indicator though.

Well you’re a level headed intellingent man. Some of the chaps on fab aren’t and take the slightest thing as a green light. Which is why a lot of ladies view profiles in stealth mode too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use, and if we’re interested respond to winks.

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

What if someone winks at you in the streets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male half winks back and say morning/afternoon or evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male half winks back and say morning/afternoon or evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer a message. If you’re too shy to chat, how the hell are we ever going to meet and do rude stuff together?

Yup. Probably why they just wink.

I wink back.

They then read my profile for the first time.

UNLOS

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

Strange isn't it

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"theres no point to winks full stop "

O but there certainly is a point to them, some of us might be a little quiet and reserved initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

A thread.

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over a year ago

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

A thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres no point to winks full stop

O but there certainly is a point to them, some of us might be a little quiet and reserved initially."
I just take winks as they like pics that's it

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

A thread."

Trouble is, it wasn't this profile they winked.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I had a message from a photoless profile yesterday, I said I don’t know what you look like. So they messaged back describing what they looked like.

You could have played Guess who" with them!

It's just one of the many wonders of fab

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

A wank

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"What if someone winks at you in the streets?"

I assume my top button has come undone again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like winks actually, I’m not here for a soulmate... I don’t need an essay.. and if I’m not interested I don’t need to awkwardly tell someone to politely jog on.. I’ll send wink if something they are looking for doesn’t quite include me, then it’s in there hands. Also if you’ve been having a good laugh with someone and there messages get lost or you end up busy and they move down the list,, a wink is a nice little reminder, conversation restarter. ... I guess that’s just me though

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?"

Faf?

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"I quite like winks actually, I’m not here for a soulmate... I don’t need an essay.. and if I’m not interested I don’t need to awkwardly tell someone to politely jog on.. I’ll send wink if something they are looking for doesn’t quite include me, then it’s in there hands. Also if you’ve been having a good laugh with someone and there messages get lost or you end up busy and they move down the list,, a wink is a nice little reminder, conversation restarter. ... I guess that’s just me though "

I agree, THIS IS NOT AN ANTI WINK THREAD.......

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"With no public pics, and a 4 word profile.... what's the point?! Wtf do they expect back in reply?

Faf?

Ok, but it's gotta be really perverted..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, THIS IS NOT AN ANTI WINK THREAD......."

I ignore my winks op

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

I agree, THIS IS NOT AN ANTI WINK THREAD.......

I ignore my winks op

And your messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, THIS IS NOT AN ANTI WINK THREAD.......

I ignore my winks op

And your messages...

Profile says as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like that experiment test that starts with the instruction for the person to read all the questions before they start answering, and the final question states put your pen down and don’t complete the test, Clem.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"I’ve had quite a bit of success from winks. I think they are a great way of expressing interest.

Especially if women send them to men. "

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over a year ago

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Get it, still getting the hang of the forums

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"It’s like that experiment test that starts with the instruction for the person to read all the questions before they start answering, and the final question states put your pen down and don’t complete the test, Clem.

Soooo fricking true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo fricking true!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"theres no point to winks full stop

O but there certainly is a point to them, some of us might be a little quiet and reserved initially.I just take winks as they like pics that's it "

That's the fab on the picture isn't it?

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