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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only one but is heavy alcohol and swinging a major off put for people? It’s my pet hate in the swinging world d*unk folk trying ya know f00k! Or am I just over thinking it

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I never drink on meets or in clubs. I want a clear head. Too many opportunities for things to go wrong if either party has been drinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, they don't mix! As well as the consent issue, d*unks of either sex are not attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never drink on meets or in clubs. I want a clear head. Too many opportunities for things to go wrong if either party has been drinking.

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totally agree! I’ve seen it to often where ladies have POSSIBLY lost control. That in my head triggers issues around consent etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quantities of alcohol = dubious consent, yep not great for sexual interactions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree, they don't mix! As well as the consent issue, d*unks of either sex are not attractive"
could not agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has been drinking or appears d*unk before you get down to it I'd seriously get out of there.

You don't know what will happen and how many stories have you read when someone has been d*unk then accused someone of a sex crime.

Get out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one but is heavy alcohol and swinging a major off put for people? It’s my pet hate in the swinging world d*unk folk trying ya know f00k! Or am I just over thinking it "
nope loads hate it including me, it's not needed but some still do it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

One drink is ok but no more.

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By *DKinkyJenTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I’m pretty much always driving when I go to clubs so I’m usually on the hard stuff (water). I don’t mind playing if someone has had a couple of drinks, but if they are clearly messed up due to alcohol I won’t play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone has been drinking or appears d*unk before you get down to it I'd seriously get out of there.

You don't know what will happen and how many stories have you read when someone has been d*unk then accused someone of a sex crime.

Get out "

Had a rethink on the Ched Evans reference did you?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I may have a few drinks but then I do tend to keep off shots and if I am drinking I tend to make sure I eat as well

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